#system4system

[redacted-coiner]

Positive, Neutral, and Negative source opinions

Pluriship(link), Sys4Sys, Amare System(link)

Dreamway System(link), Soulbond system(link), Imagian(Link)

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag!

[gravestormsys]

So does anybody know of an app sort of like Mytter or TwiNote but that could be used with another person? So sort of like a fake social media app that resembles Twitter in some ways for text posts and such that I could make profiles for my system. But then my partner system could also make profiles for their alters and we could see each other? But not have to worry about a bunch of people we don’t know or like a fyp with strangers’ posts, just each others. Idk if this exists but if anyone knows about something close pls let us know!!

[bamfaholic]

Can you explain what you mean by dating a system with a Kurt fictive? I was curious and tried looking up the terms you used but still confused so if you don't mind explaining

No problem!

Okay so, my partner is a system (I am ALSO a system myself). They have DID specifically, but this applies to those with OSDD as well. They're plural, and this used to be referred to as "multiple personality disorder" (this is no longer medically correct and offensive.)

A fictive is an alter that is drawn from a piece of fictional media. The brain often uses comforting and familiar things, such as media the host/system enjoys when crafting new alters. Alters usually have a "job/purpose" but not always. Factives are alters drawn from nonfiction btw.

My boyfriend, Kurt, is drawn from all media containing nightcrawler but predominantly: 97, Evolution, Kodi Kurt, Alan Kurt, the original comics. He will appear in headspace (the mental landscape these alters inhabit) accordingly to whatever version he is feeling/happens to be in the moment. He has his own memories, some are cannonical, some are not. They are still real to him, as if they truly occurred. He truly is Kurt Wagner, and is no one else, even if Nightcrawler the character is fictional.

I hope this really helps! I'm a fictive as well, but I'm a bit more complicated ^^;;. I do have a Logan Howlette alter, but he's not very interested in interacting on Tumblr. He's perfectly fine sipping beer in his RV.

I will not tolerate any syscourse and block immediately.

[horrorfesthyena]

I miss the parts of you that didn't abandon me.

I miss the parts that wanted to have a life with me.

I miss when you held me like I mattered.

I miss when I felt safe with you— however short that time was.

I miss thinking you wouldn't be cruel to me.

I miss thinking you would never be this cold.

[pluralmatch]

Hello everybody!! This is an endo-friendly, anti-radq/transid, and pro-good faith place for plurals to meet other plurals! Please be aware that this is a new blog, and some things may be off/missing. Feedback is encouraged!!

To be fully transparent: This blog is either an amazing or absolutely horrible idea—and if it turns out to be the latter, we'll abandon it. Our goal is to help the community connect, not harm it.

Now that that's out of the way, let's go over the purpose of this blog! This is a space for systems(/plurals/medians/anyone who isn't a singlet) to find other systems to chat with and befriend (and if things go beyond the strictly platonic, that's great! But not the primary goal of this blog).

We have two options. You can either fill out the Google form and be matched, or submit an ask to be posted as a "looking for" ad.

This is a sideblog, and cannot like/follow. Hate will be deleted on sight.

More info under the cut!

Rules:

1. This blog has no DNI, but anti-endos, rq/transid supporters, and those who are anti-good faith identity will be blocked. Of course, we reserve the right to block freely, and will block people who we believe could be harmful to this space.

2. You must be bodily 18+ to submit an ad or match form. This is primarily for the safety of those underage; while we believe there's nothing wrong with dating at those ages, we find that these sorts of things can encourage harmful relationship dynamics. Even if they are sfw/encourage safe practices. If you are found to have lied about your age, you will be blocked (and possibly reported).

3. Submissions, both for matchmaking and ads, must not be NSFW in nature. Expressing openness to NSFW conversation is okay, but please avoid any further details.

4. This blog is not for source calls. While you are allowed to mention sources, and shared sourced may be a factor in matches (if you'd like them to be), we do not allow ads/match forms with just sources.

5. There's nothing we can do to outright forbid this, but please do not jump directly into relationships with people you meet here, even if you were matched. Get to know each other first!

Rules are subject to be updated at any time!

About Us:

We'll go by AES on here, which is our system acronym. Specific members will go by nicknames to retain anonymity. Posts will be signed off like this: "aes^star".

We are an adult-bodied, queer, autistic, disabled system with an unknown headcount. We will not be disclosing our origins here, but we do suffer from a dissociative disorder which affects our memory (among other things).

We do not require, and do not use, tone indicators. Please assume that our tone is never hostile unless otherwise specified! We also struggle with communicating effectively sometimes, and will never offended when asked to clarify something we've said.

FAQ:

Nothing yet! Feel free to ask any questions you have, even if they seem silly.

[menhera-jellyfish]

I really want new friends and potentially queerplatonic partner (I'm omni angled aroace) if it'll go well... Idk I'm just lonely and I need someone close ;__; uhm, are there any 18+ proship, propara people preferably jirais and/or yanderes and preferably in similar fandoms (bsd, helluva boss, mlp, fairy tail) also it would be nice if from Europe pls pls pls ;__;

[livingnotonlysurviving]

I was joking with my boyfriend about xyr other hoes and xe said all my other hoes live in your body. lol.

[aroace-shumika]

oh speaking of which (referring to rb on main) plural mika? perhaps? idk

[ptsdickgrayson]

🩸PSYCHO LOVE IN THE TWILIGHT ZONE🌀

[bamfaholic]

Chronicles of dating a fictive Kurt:

So my baby actually presents as several Kurts, sometimes mixes. So far he's presented as Alan, Kodi, 97, Comic book, and Evolution. Each has different pasts but they're all the same person. (I'm actually a fictive myself of some other media so I understand their experience).

Anyway he first split as Alan, and I grew up on the movies. I knew back then adults thought Alan Kurt was "the worst" and ugly. I'm happy to see people my age disagree and the adults of the 2000s were just wrong. It's giving Anakin from the prequels.

Of course he also struggles with being "demonic" but I'm happy to report I constantly remind him how he's the Best™ X-Man and a fan favorite. I also give him his daily dose of kisses. If Alan Kurt is your favorite, know he's honored (and also wonders why, like an emo lol)

[lolliepops-rox]

this too. is yuri-yaoi

[bisexualgenderfemme]

me & the wife have this wonderful system set up where when one of us breaks a glass or accidently spills something in a big mess, & then inevitably gets disproportionately upset bc of trauma & emotional regulation issues, the other will clean it up

& we take turns on it!

now there's no need to stand & dissociate over a huge mess. it's already being fixed & no one is mad ab it

[your-fav-is-plural]

Kawaii~Chan (AKA Nana) from Mystreet is a traumaendo (traumagenic and paragenic) system! (With willogenic headmates, that doesn't need to be included in the image though lol)

Her boyfriend, Zane, is a willogenic system! (She taught him about endos and willos, and helped and encouraged him when he decided he wanted to be a willogenic system)

Headcanons because I saw an anti endo with a KC pfp and it made me mad so she's (partially) endo now hell yeah, with a bonus of SYS4SYS Zana

Kawaii~Chan/Nana and Zane from Mystreet are a Sys4Sys Traumaendo Traumagenic Paragenic and Willogenic System!

Sys4Sys or SysLSys (System4System; System For System; SystemLovingSystem) is a term that describes a system who strongly or exclusively prefers to surround themselves with other systems, regardless if it is in a platonic, romantic, alterous, sexual, or any other way.

A Traumaendo, or trauma-endo, system is a mixed-origin collective with both traumagenic and endogenic origins, used to focus on the unique problems and experiences of systems with both of these origins.

Traumagenic refers to a system whose creation / origin is the result of one or more traumatic events. Often, these systems have lingering trauma, and may fall under a diagnosis like DID or OSDD-1.

The term Paragenic describes a system's or headmate's origin as having been caused or influenced by Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder, neuronarration, immersive daydreaming, or other similar neurodivergencies.

Willogenic describes a system that was purposefully created or willed into existence, with no connections to tulpamancy.

[dragongirlbunny]

Yuri concept: system4system enemies to lovers but each alter is locked in furious rivalry with the other's alters somehow in a 1-for-1 match

galaxy brain concept

[bytefriend]

system4system

[repressionmd]

house md wip list (edition 2)

(because edition 1 was stressing me out !!)

self indulgent hilson system4system fic [house pov*, 1k words]

hilson fic in which house is very jealous of a grounding technique one of wilson's wives is able to do with him, and the story of how he confesses his love by doing it subconsciously, years down the line (trust me on this one its sooo good) [house pov]

*might add more pov's but for now its just house !!

benched ideas under the cut (they're still technically wips i'm just not focusing on them atm!)

5+1 hilson "accidental sleeping together"

5+1 hilson kisses!!!

house character study focusing on the difference between feeling pitied + feeling understood [house pov]