#sys4sys

[lgbtransgirl]

I don't see enough het-t4t representation on here. I'm a transgender woman dating a transgender man (neither of us are strictly binary but close enough that we joke about it)

I fucking love my boyfriend, even before he transitioned he was always just a dude. Stereotypical golden retriever gamer stoner. He is so proud of his facial hair but by stars it looks phenomenal on him, he doesn't even need to try and he looks so goddamn handsome. He makes me melt just with a look his eyes are so fucking pretty and everything and mmmm

[sysdating-culture-is]

Poly, sys4sys, and aripluric culture is the token singlet partner having a Google Doc to keep track of everybody and struggling so bad that everybody else has to have them just download Simply Plural so they doesn't explode from stress.

[moonpool-system]

I crocheted a choker for my in-system partner for Christmas! I'm very happy with it and I feel so overjoyed to watch them wear something I created. I love them so dearly, and exchanging presents between ourselves makes us feel more grounded, even if may look like us simply buying/creating for ourself on the outside. I love my darling partner and I love my system. 💛

- Pure Vanilla

[infwctednyacifier]

kinda wanna make a " system - dating - culture - is " blog about systems who are in poly , aripluric , etc romantic relationships since there ' s really a lack of romance - related plural blogs and it ' d be nice to have a blog about just romance in the plural community where that involve systems , singlets , both , etc . plus , i ' m / we ' re aripluric ( singlet - dating system ) plus in a poly relationship ( manifesting ) and it ' d just be cute to have a blog overall celebrating plural love !!!

what do y ' all think though?

After fixing an issue, the blog is ACTUALLY officially up!

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Npd, sys4sys &possible BPD culture is having a favorite/equal person from your partner system and struggling not to tell the others to fuck off and let him front so he can pay attention to me.

Hes the only one I fucking care about LET ME SEE HIM.

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[redacted-coiner]

Positive, Neutral, and Negative source opinions

Pluriship(link), Sys4Sys, Amare System(link)

Dreamway System(link), Soulbond system(link), Imagian(Link)

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[themenherasystem]

partner system search!!!

hihi! we're the menhera system and we're bodily 21!!! we don't really use this website or anything but we've been kind of struggling and holding off on dating, but we all think we're ready! we are looking for a mono sys4sys partner system! to tell you a lil about us we're very chronically online to say the least ^^' most of us enjoy playing games like muse dash, genshin impact and roblox! we often spend time on discord, so if you want to get to know us then add us on there! :D byebye! disc: menherasystem

[your-fav-is-plural]

Can I req 2 characters? (hc based on a ship so /nf)

Fluttershy from MLP is a DID system + Sys4Sys

Rainbowdash from MLP is an Endogenic system + Sys4Sys

Fluttershy and Rainbowdash from My Little Pony; Friendship is Magic are Sys4Sys DID and Endogenic Systems!

Sys4Sys or SysLSys (System4System; System For System; SystemLovingSystem) is a term that describes a system who strongly or exclusively prefers to surround themselves with other systems, regardless if it is in a platonic, romantic, alterous, sexual, or any other way

The most famous form of disordered plurality, Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) is a condition listed in the DSM-V and ICD-11. It's the most severe dissociative disorder, wherein a diagnosis of DID makes any other diagnosis in that category null. DID is most known for its alters (or headmates), but it is much more complex than just having multiple individuals in one mind

Endogenic is an umbrella term that refers to all systems that are not completely traumagenic in origin, it encompasses many experiences. It is often seen as the opposite to the pathologized views of plurality, although can exist in harmony, even within the same system

[midnight-soulless-system]

Going on a date with our sys partners today. Really excited. It's gonna be our first date!

Gonna go to an arcade and play a fuck ton of air hockey, and then we're going to go back to our house and cook some tacos.

[the-cat-collective]

we started dating our sys friend. they're our partner system now. but we got together on new years eve. which now means both my anniversaries are on holidays. as my other partner and I got together on July 4th (my sys personally doesn't celebrate it but still).

we have 2 anniversaries that fall on holidays now. major coincidence but still funny lmao

-🐞/🐁/🐉

[sysdating-culture-is]

dating as a system culture is " our partner " ( only the host is dating them )

[littlest-bugz]

Sigh,,, sys4sys yearning before bed time. Before the snork mimimimi

[bamfaholic]

Can you explain what you mean by dating a system with a Kurt fictive? I was curious and tried looking up the terms you used but still confused so if you don't mind explaining

No problem!

Okay so, my partner is a system (I am ALSO a system myself). They have DID specifically, but this applies to those with OSDD as well. They're plural, and this used to be referred to as "multiple personality disorder" (this is no longer medically correct and offensive.)

A fictive is an alter that is drawn from a piece of fictional media. The brain often uses comforting and familiar things, such as media the host/system enjoys when crafting new alters. Alters usually have a "job/purpose" but not always. Factives are alters drawn from nonfiction btw.

My boyfriend, Kurt, is drawn from all media containing nightcrawler but predominantly: 97, Evolution, Kodi Kurt, Alan Kurt, the original comics. He will appear in headspace (the mental landscape these alters inhabit) accordingly to whatever version he is feeling/happens to be in the moment. He has his own memories, some are cannonical, some are not. They are still real to him, as if they truly occurred. He truly is Kurt Wagner, and is no one else, even if Nightcrawler the character is fictional.

I hope this really helps! I'm a fictive as well, but I'm a bit more complicated ^^;;. I do have a Logan Howlette alter, but he's not very interested in interacting on Tumblr. He's perfectly fine sipping beer in his RV.

I will not tolerate any syscourse and block immediately.

[multiplicity-positivity]

Here’s to those who are sys4sys!

(Image description is under the cut since it's very long!)

Sys4sys relationships can be so joyful, fulfilling, and complex, with unique ways of understanding each other and building community together. It’s okay to seek out or only be interested in relationships with other systems!

We hope those of you with partner systems can flourish and blossom in each other’s love! And to those of you without partner systems who want one, we hope that soon you will find a system that will love and cherish yours unconditionally!

Flag credits:

plural flag by @kenochoric-moved

neurogenic, adaptive, endogenic, traumagenic, spontaneous, and multigenic flags by grey skies

osdd flag by the bastard system

did flag by the entropy system

plural journey flag by treblesand

paragenic flag by plurgai

willogenic flag by anonymous

median flag by @kenochoric-moved (we believe)

plural peafowl flag by @m0dem0n

polyfragmented flag by @voidestral

(Image ID:) A pale orange userbox with a cluster of multicolored flowers for the userbox image. The border and text are both dark orange, and the text reads “all plurals can interact with this post!” (End ID.)

(Image ID:) A drawing of a cluster of differently sized hearts colored as multiple plural flags on a light pink background. Among the plural hearts are small, fuchsia heart outlines and the words “Sys4Sys is BEAUTIFUL!” in fuchsia bubble letters. The individual flag descriptions are:

Plural: horizontal dark purple, purple, cornflower blue, light green, and light yellow stripes

Neurogenic: horizontal blue, light blue, white, light pink, and dark pink stripes

Adaptive: diagonal stripes with three shades of pink from dark to light, a white stripe, and three shades of green from light to dark

OSDD: horizontal dark gray, light blue, light green, and yellow stripes

DID: horizontal white, orange, and black stripes

Endogenic: horizontal dark purple, light purple, white, light green, and forest green stripes

Plural Journey: horizontal green, cerulean, purple, and black stripes

Traumagenic: horizontal dark yellow, yellow, white, light blue, and blue stripes

Paragenic: horizontal lavender, light blue, pink, purple, and black stripes

Willogenic: horizontal blue-green, light green, light yellow, light purple, and purple stripes

Multigenic: horizontal purple, periwinkle, white, light green, and blue stripes

Spontaneous: diagonal stripes with three shades of green from dark to light, a white stripe, and three shades of brown from light to dark

Median: horizontal indigo, purple, orange, light orange, and green stripes

Peafowl Plural: horizontal navy, blue, slate-blue, light green, lime green, and yellow stripes

Polyfragmented: horizontal dark purple, purple, blue, and pale green stripes (END ID.)

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Npd + bpd + plural4plural culture is my psys telling me about how they have a headmate who hates me and I split so fucking hard and then developed a new headmate that hates them too except mine is so much more valid because like ya I've done stupid shit but IVE LITERALLY DONE EVERYTHING I CAN TO BE A GOOD PARTNER WHAT THE FUCK cuz like I've done nothing but be helpful and amazinglicious so uhm fuck you bf bc u caused all this rage to form... (tbf they did abuse me before and thats why it hurt so bad but like they're better now I'm probably just overreacting)

-🖥💞

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[sapphilesboy]

シエルちゃん！！！

𖣂 Aurora / Koko + minor + esp / eng 𖣂

autism 𔓘 DID 𔓘 tourette's syndrome

⸝⸝ shi / hir ⸝⸝ hy / hym ⸝⸝ elli / li ⸝⸝

ell? / l? ⸝⸝ 🧁 / 🧁 ⸝⸝ 🦢 / 🦢 ⸝⸝ + depends of the alter fronting

ଳ intersexual transfemmasc boygirl

ଳ sapphillean bilesbian favosexual

ଳ proqueer4proqueer trans4trans enby4enby sys4sys

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