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[thoughtstherapy]

[lostfirefly]

I'm drinking tea wine right now. Watching One Piece (still can't stop laughing at myself.. I haven't watched it ~6-7 years). New episode! Here we go! ❤️‍🔥

It's really good to be a part of a huge fandom.

20 y.o me is happy inside of me 😂 She apso pokes at me and laughs a lot 😂

It's very funny to remember how I was arguing with my friend when we were 20-23 years old.

Friend: Buggy is cool!

Me: NO! HE'S NOT!

Friend: You understand nothing..

Me: Oh, come on! He's funny sometimes but not cool. I hope he will never find the one piece..

Dear Buggy, sorry me for hating you 😂😂😂 I hope you'll find the one piece! 😂

Special thanks to all of you, nakama! Thank you for your stories, drawings etc. You are all talented!

My dear @laurasoretta, I'm glad I met you :)

@rorywritesjunk, I'll never shut up about your stories!

@gingernut1314 you rock! Your Songbird is 🔥

[memeuplift]

@thoughtstherapy

[positiveseed]

Hey everyone, we have changed the number on our youtube channel (previously positiveseed) to Thoughts Therapy! What are your thoughts on our new name?

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[sometimes-i-just-wanna-die]

A letter to her

“Is it cruel to be kind?”

I ask her,

with the gloomiest eyes

And the softest cry.

“Is it cruel to be kind?

Is it a crime to be blind?”

Her reply was buried

In her choked sobs,

And stained hands.

Playing with the vines on her neck,

Trying to tug them off.

I ask,

If my eyes would mirror hers on an ill-fated day

I ask,

If I would suffer the same fate

I ask,

If I would weep to my daughter

When the clock hits the night.

And as her tears stain the clothes,

She warns me,

to not trust the sea

Or the sun.

To not fall prey to the whispers of the men

Or the stars they promise.

She warns me,

To not be kind to the whims of their youth

Or to hold onto the praises they adorn,

To not let go of the fear.

Because fear-

Fear binds us all strays.

Soon, Her tears turned grey,

And her heart withered away.

Her fate unchanged.

[personalpages]

RIP Twenties?

Today I spent my last day in my twenties. For a while I've been wondering how I would feel when this day would enevibilty happen. When we're in our twenties it feels like it's going to last forever, so what's the rush? Thankfully I decided to do everything I could whilst I could and I've achieved a lot on my personal bucket list. However... I am NOT where I wanted to be as I step into my thirties. No how. I still live with my parents, I work part-time in a job I don't want and I'm single with no kids. By this point in my life I thought I'd be in a whole different chapter. Own place, married, at least one kid if not 2 & a full-time job I love.

Because of my past traumas, I lost myself somewhere in my twenties and I became someone I didn't recognise and I had to learn how to be this new me. It was like becoming a whole different person but not wanting to let go of who I was. I felt like I was trying to be someone else, like this other person isn't me but someone I envied. Looking back at photos and social media memories I wonder if I'm really lost or just evolving like a Pokémon. I have so many stories and memories from my twenties and so many experiences to share that you have to ask yourself, "is this a funeral for my twenties?" because those moments will always live on and they will probably be recreated in some way. Maybe this is a refresh button?

It's only the end of another chapter... Not the book.

[theonethatdidntgetawaysblog]

[skinni-girls-eat-books]

Sunday, December 17th

Lololol I'm acting totally crazy rn.

Pros of telling her:

She might break up with him leaving him to be a single POS

I would feel like an evil queen who rules the land

I would get some revenge on that pos (both)

Possibly help her from wasting her time (nice)

Cons:

They would both hate me probably forever

Trauma bond is real and it might make them closer together bc they're both so fucked up

His family might hate me for being a crazy bitch and possibly making him lose his mind which would effect them negatively because they would have to take care of him full time (ok actually this is the winner, I'm glad I wrote this out)********

****** this is the right answer bc on God I want that poor woman and her cranky sweet old man husband to just damn retire already, retire from having to raise their adult children AND grandchildren. Let them rest please this is what I pray for ❤️

Also:

I really don't have to do shit, he is fully capable of fucking this shit up himself it is simply a matter of time (if she has half a brain)

I really don't have to do this shit bc I have no intention of getting back together with him (for the aforementioned reasons in other posts) and have lost all respect and trust for him (he is literally a fucking joke)

If she has literally 0 no brain: then they are perfect together! I hope that one day I stalk his page and see them having 4 babies in a crack shack on W street, because they are "just chill like that" and being a ghetto dickhead is still cool when you can't do anything actually interesting or meaningful with your life, blissfully in love while they teach their kids to roll their weed, never take them to the aquarium or museums or on trips bc they were so self-centered when they were young that now they are dealing with the consequences 10 yrs later. Trust me, I don't think less of these ppl who are forced into these situations, but when you're given multiple chances to do better and you just don't, then I just don't respect your choices and truly think you must have rotted your brain out with shrooms or LSD or Xanax or fucking whatever.

Let's sayyyyyy they actually are great people (they aren't) they get engaged, get married, start a family, move into their own home, love each other unconditionally, admit to their past mistakes, agree to couple's counseling, put their kids in the best schools, have the best jobs, and go on regular date nights..... They have the perfect life. What's the con, you ask?

There is no con, I'll be living my best life rarely giving them a thought, like a random drop of rain on a perfectly sunny day, I'll have a thought, and then, right back to status quo 😎

Edit: 12/26/23

Remember what Faith said: Do you want to raise children with him? Do you want your kids to act like him when they grow up? Because he would be their role model. 😶😳🤯

Literally my best friend in the whole world I love her

[thoughtstherapy]

[lakben-blog]

15 psychological facts about love #psychology #love

[sometimes-i-just-wanna-die]

For those alluring skies and the bewitching smiles,

The times I walk those miles.

The orange hues of the sky so high

As The day hides behind its veil

The water casting the moons white,

As the stars settle to the twilight.

The imprints we leave behind

On the golden sand.

As the rocks recite the old lovers tale,

The distant lights sail.

The twinkle in the eyes

And echoes of delight

The waves crashing on the shore

Filled with the birds uproar

Amazed with its beauty,

I sat by.

[skippyv20]

Skippy, thanks for reposting from ThoughtsTherapy blog. Just when I feel down and out, you are on point with the inspirational readings and prayers. Keep my anxiety in check. Thank you and the beautiful people out there for reaching out to invisible strangers. ❤️

Oh you are so welcome!  I have just started following that blog.  I am so happy you find it helpful.  🙂❤️❤️❤️❤️

[kurlyfrasier]

Informative Stuff Masterlist

Just an FYI: If I didn't add credit after the link; there are multiple people who added to the original post I reblogged.

I have likely not added many that I've reblogged to this list. Please feel free to roam my blog and/or ask/message me to add something you'd like to see on this list!

How to add links to your description cuz I always have to google it. Thank you Quick Guide.

What to do when you lose work on google docs cuz I imagine it will happen eventually

Through a Rapist’s Eyes: an article by Neena Susan Thomas found on @echolessvoid (save a life)

CPR Resources through the American Heart Association (save a life). I was an EMT-B and a 9-1-1 Dispatcher, so please believe me when I say I firmly believe everyone should know CPR/It saves lives. Quick CPR Template that was posted by @sometimes-men-need-help-too 

You CAN Do Push-ups & Balance Ab Exercises with Hip Flexor Stretches made by @hybridcalisthenics He has lots of others too! I personally am trying the pull-ups. I’ve always wanted to be able to do one and basically thought it impossible before this guy!

Bored Much? OR: Do you miss StumbleUpon too?

How To Instantly Feel Better and Progress Looks Different Daily posted by @thoughtstherapy

Skip Google for Research by @s-n-arly

Google: The Most Powerful Tool in the World

Substances that Neutralize ADHD Meds

Are You Dying From Period Cramps? That is NOT NORMAL.

Mixing Paint on a Palette posted by @bugofmanynames

Book Bans: A Comic posted by @saywhat-politics Why books should not be banned.