i have fallen victim
i sincerely apoligize for shipping radioapple. i dont find it hot i swear, its just amusing. please no its not like kissy kissy ship theyre just like coparenting, a two man comedy act, two opposite forces that are entertaining to watch clash against eachother. please jury do not strike me down, i will learn from my sins, i will kill the part that is cringe.
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you're allowed to love being trans if you:
just came out
havent transitioned and dont plan to
have known you are trans for years but kept it to yourself
don't want surgery or hormones
dont disclose your trans status or genders to other people
dont change your name
never have dysphoria
your transness is tied to your neurodivergence
your transness is tied to your nonhuman identity
dont feel like you have a gender or gendered experience
feel like gender isn't really that important
are intersex
are two-spirit, hijra, or have another cultural gender or expression identity, or "third gender"
are a person of color
are an afab demigirl
are an amab demiboy
have a complex identity
have a very simple identity
cant figure out your gender for the life of you
cross dress
do drag
present socially in ways that are "normal" for your agab
have crushing dysphoria
don't know how to pass
pass effortlessly
are a butch trans woman
are a femme trans man
are demigender
don't like to be reminded you're trans
have a very specific gender
have a gender that's specific to you and you alone
have hated being trans at one point
stopped transition and restarted it at some point
have had to change your gender, name, pronouns or presentation multiple times
change presentation a lot
have a gender that's hard or impossible to put into words
dont want to figure out what your gender is exactly
are plural/a system
are genderfluid, gnc, genderqueer, multigender, polygender, genderflux, neutrois, maverique or genderfuck
are xenogender
are a lesbian or gay
are transneutral
are transfemasc/transmascfem
..... are trans.
every trans person is allowed to love being trans. good day, love yourself today!
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Tbh i think kids should be fucked up by media sometimes. I think that being uncomfortable or scared or having a general "what the fuck..." reaction is a good thing for them in the long run. I think kids should read books that will give them deep seated discomfort and they should sit with that feeling. If you refuse to expose them to anything that isnt sunshine and rainbows and perfectly tied up happy endings in the name of "not traumatizing them" then youre really no better than the parents screaming "think of the children!!" about books with gay people in school libraries, just with different topics. Life isnt all sunshine and rainbows and perfectly tied up happy endings and if kids dont learn that while theyre still in an environment safe enough to sit with and work through that feeling at their own pace the first time they feel it, you are creating a generation of porcelain doll adults who think that anything mildly uncomfortable or challenging to their worldview will shatter them like glass.
And no, it is not "trauma" to feel bad about something. Thats part of life that you have GOT to learn to work through and cope with. Not everything that feels bad or fucks you up a bit is trauma just because you think about it sometimes and go "well that was fucked up." If its not actively impeding your functioning, its not trauma.
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