#tupla

[69consellationsinatrenchcoat]

*sigh* just a friendly reminder that PluralKit attaches a unique code to your system that allows anyone to look up your system - and if you look up a system on discord using pk;system [code], gives a link to all of their public system data on PKs website, which for some of you includes information on triggers, sexuality, and other things that cyberbullies may misuse.

I have been messing around with the settings as much as possible and I cannot find a way to avoid this beyond privating all alters and all system info, which many users don't do.

Even with information privated, it still seems that PK will link your discord handle with your Pluralkit user if the unique code is plugged in.

Sharing as this seems to me like a breach of privacy at best, and dangerous at worst.

[d33pwaterabyss]

Unfriendly fucking reminder that (most) systems can't control who they introject and you should never fakeclaim someone period. And you especially shouldn't fakeclaim someone cuz they happen to have a factive. Fuck off with that bullshit.

~Sincerely very pissed off turtle.

[pillimehukas]

[riksuset]

125. Köysirata

[sophieinwonderland]

are people purposefully typoing tulpa as tupla or something?? this is the second blog i saw that's spelled it wrong exactly that way. they might be trying to make us mad but its just coming across as funny imo. or theyre really just unable to spell it correctly despite making hating tulpas their whole personality/personalities /j

Maybe some do it on purpose, but I think it might just be a spellcheck thing too.

Also, TIL Tupla is a Finnish candy!

So just imagine this whenever they misspell tulpa from now on:

😜🤣

[the-soldat-system]

Pspspsps spiritual system (can also just be systems who are spiritual) community come here plz. I have some questions. So how can y’all tell what’s godphoning and what’s a headmate? And I’ve heard about gateway systems does that mean that like spiritual entities can come into your system? And lastly can y’all just tell us a bit about your experiences? We were very spiritual before finding out about our system then stoped after because we felt like they couldn’t both exist but now we want to leave that mindset.

[holestcuk]

THIS NEXT EXPIRIMENT WILL BE VERY VERY INTERESTING

[suomalaistavihaa]

Josefi Tiirola - valehteleva maalittaja

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[secretanxietyalt]

Hwhats a tulpa i cant find anythin explanin it properly. Is it like, n alter you decide to have or somthin??? I dont get it

[antiendovents]

actually, since i already commented on your post about tulpas and how they pissed me off; im gonna do it again. in detail.

note: i am a former buddhist, i live in a buddhist country. (95% of thais are buddhists) and pretty much been surrounded by it. im asian. saying it before people jump at me because im terrified as shit

as i mentioned, tulpas are stolen and bastardized completely from a tribe of tibetan buddhists, and the practice itself isn't even a system thing. while thai buddhism and tibetan buddhism are different in their own way, i am very fucking pissed off that they just saw the concept of a thoughtform spirit that helps you meditate, overcome your fear and guide you to nirvana (because that's the main purpose of buddhism) and turn them into "oh! we make alters because we can due to our meditation and we're spiritual so that totally excuses using a generally closed practice! we're not harming anyone!" total bullshit.

i don't want (and sorry if i'm a bit mean) those bigoted fucks stealing basically my culture since im attached to buddhism in general, i grew up with it. and "tulpa systems" slapping it on themselves for the sake of being "unique". i have seen countless comments and posts about how its always the white/non asian people that say "no its not a closed practice, its not cultural appropriation :) actually you should be glad we're appreciating your culture in the first place" fuck off! appreciating culture is fine, but you bastardize it so much and dumb it down to just "making alters/imaginary friends" are you just hearing yourself? are you stupid? are you braindead? god, im getting so angry again.

i have also seen "tulpamancers" insulting actual asians like me who speak against tulpas, saying that we're just "asian token of a character" or that we're "closed minded" and should accept these assholes who dont know what theyre doing into my culture and blatantly disrespecting it, spitting on it and just taking one practice that fits their narrative. wow, talk about being appreciative while half of your community does shit like this to actual buddhists, huh? real nice of you. way to go, you cultural appropriating fucks. /vneg

i cannot count how many times asian culture is so whitewashed on the internet, people that just take our tradition and do whatever the hell they want with it, including making a system out of thoughtforms, which is not possible whatsoever. and for what? FOR WHAT? for your own sick entertainment and enjoyment of having a imaginary friend in your head? try dissociating so hard you cry yourself to sleep you absolute pillock. this is a very angry submission, but it just frustrates me so much. all of the insulting "yous" are directed towards "tulpamancers" that they proudly call themselves. by the way. sorry if it sounded like it was directed at you, im just so angry at the moment.

one last thing. Stop. Using. The Term. Tulpa. For your system. Please!!!!. tulpa systems are not a thing and will never be. End of story. Nothing will change that. Endos fuck off. im sick of your shit. thanks for reading my angry rant.

-azriel for the majority of this, rox/virus proofreading some of the parts, thanks for letting us vent ^^

i dont have much to add, please read this ^^

[theinfernalcollective]

Clarifying whether your "traumagenic" or not shouldn't have to be a thing. Fuck endos for making it a thing. For making us have to specify that yes. We have trauma because guess fucking what. That is the only way you can be a system. None of this other plural tupla bullshit. You cannot be born a system, you cannot make yourself a system, you cannot will your system into existence. Trauma is THE ONLY WAY you will EVER be a system. So fuck endos, fuck pro-endos, fuck tuplas. Fuck them all. I am over people making a fucking mockery of my disorder and making it seem like its so great to have. - Apostolis

[shitty-proendo-blackout-posts]

endogenic, willogenic, tuplagenic and all other non-traumatised/disordered systems are welcome here.

[4everpatient]

anyone else not plural but still heavily relate to plurality? Like. there's a buncha different guys in my head and they did in part form from trauma- but that trauma didn't happen at a young enough age and i experience no memory gaps. They are all fundamentally "me" despite looking completely different. yet they have fully formed personalities and memories completely differently to me. Maybe it's MADD? idfk

[pillimehukas]

[69consellationsinatrenchcoat]

Hello! One question about systems with cdd/did that I have and which bothers me a lot, as a person who mostly have been in tulpa spaces and don't have CDDs is, well.

How do I support a fellow system with fictives, and treat them with respect without making them uncomfortable on accident if they share their source, or introject art? How do I even approach it?

Welcome!!! Welcome to the trauma side? na, na, just gonna forget I said that and move on..

A good start is ask them what they're comfortable with, or ask one of their system (if they know).

Introjects are a bit of a mixed bag - sometimes you'll get introjects who are fully comfortable with the fact they're in a system and others who despise it, or haven't accepted that they are in a system.

It's always good to remember introjects aren't their source even if they feel if they are - when my Link appeared in our system he had no idea that he wasn't at home in Hyrule, we had to explain to him what was going on and pick apart his confusion and discomfort around his new home. He eventually came around and he now understands that his memories and links (pun not intended) to his source character are due to our DID.

If they share art of themselves, it's usually to be celebrated! Just be aware of the tone of the message etc. If they're saying things like "I don't like how I look here :(" then treat it how you would any other friend.

Approaching an introject reallyyy depends on the introject, but a good start is to find out what name and pronouns they use, and if any of the system they belong to know what their role is and how they appear in source- that can be a good indicator of how they'll respond to interactions (eg. If they're stubborn and cut off in source, they're likely to have the same thing here).

Hope this helps! Feel free to DM me anytime if you need other help!

[ooc-sohvikset]