We would have come across people who were short dresses and slaying their looks but at the same time we see lots of people commenting about the way they dress...It seems like as if its their body and comments like only they know about dress...
Often we hear comments like "heyy close it up ur showing off" , " this doesn't suite you u were good only in that" , "dude! Im ur fan only but i dont like you if you were this dress" and craps...
But the commentators also have a point.
See the people commenting on these things may feel like they want to protect us. We cant blame them. Our society made them think that way. They fear that what if someone took bad pictures of her, what if someone looks them in bad eye...
Whats your opinions??? Do we have a solution towards this??
oh gee discord should I try adding numbers? should I try that???? should I try adding numbers to the end of my username so that it's individualized and only mine???? should I try adding numbers??????????
Listen. Get diagnosed. Your condition might not be something big or well known but getting diagnosed is something that will help a Big Lot. I have turrets syndrome, and for the majority of my life I thought it was a sort-of-normal thing for people to have so the fact that I had nervous tics was an actual fault in my nervous system and I tried to figure out where exactly I got traumatized so badly — especially since I had this since I was like, two. My mother knew I have the turrets syndrome and didn’t tell me for some reason, idk, she thought that I somehow figured it out myself or smth. Now I at least get that I’m not crazy, and that stuff like focus problems isn’t just My Fault and that I’m just Bad like that, but I have an actual reason for that. Knowing the reason for my issues helps me a lot when it comes to solutions, even though I only found out recently. Get diagnosed. Seriously. It will help.
thank GOD im done w that beast of a white paper though 😭 i feel i could have done better particularly w the intro piece but i am so spent i just did what i could. it’s honestly not my best work but grappling with big ideas like that is so hard especially when u haven’t spent so much time sitting with it and reflecting like that’s a very important part of creating new knowledge whatever idk