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ceramicteapot
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ceramicteapot · 4 months ago
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hi ya'll,
if you're a writer and would like to find a community, I'm hosting a writing sprint this Sunday.
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ceramicteapot · 7 months ago
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touch starved.
a word i had often heard being passed around in my circles. i knew the oxford definition that described it. i “knew” the concept.
but knowledge is not experience.
you can know things you haven’t experienced like space travel, cardiac surgery, childbirth. you can’t long for something you don’t know about- naturally, i lack examples here because i don’t know what i don’t know.
for this precise reason, i knew what the starvation of touch meant but i didn’t understand it, until i was touched lovingly, with intent, with admiration, and with a desire to not be abandoned again, by my friends.
despite having been in romantic relationships, i’ve only experienced this platonically. my family are not a fan of physical affection either. i give it, but it is not returned.
but god, is the feeling all-consuming. something that bites into you in the most delicious of ways, makes your joints crumble into gunpowder, digs crescents into your brain.
i can’t physically see my friends often now. we have lives we need to look after. but i miss the gentle calmness of their hands on my back, the way their nails would scratch my scalp in the winter sun, the way my skin would be covered in lipstick stains in random places.
(i discovered one on my ear as i went to shower one night after a long day at college. precious.)
it’s safe to say that now that i know, i long.
and because i long, i write.
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ceramicteapot · 7 months ago
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you sit with your knees tucked under your chin, folding in on yourself, a silent competition to occupy as little space as possible.
who put this in your head?
was it when you were yelled at for being loud? or when they said you "ate too much"? or when you were told that your dreams were too big?
have you spoken aloud since then? have you eaten well? have you dared to dream?
you were a child, a teen. at heart, you still are one. how could you make anyone see that?
you don’t know if you could save yourself, if it will ever get any better for you. but you made a quiet vow never to let another child feel the same way you did, to speak kindly unless required otherwise, and to not be the reason someone folds in on themselves and thinks it a sin to be a person.
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ceramicteapot · 8 months ago
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there's a whole lot you don't talk about. but so what?
it's not like the world lives to hear you out, or that you need attention in copious amounts, or that you have anything particularly remarkable to say that no one else ever has.
but then, a friend would hold your hand, sit beside you for an unknown number of hours, ask you the right questions, the simple questions. and you'd crumble. you'd realize just how much you want to be seen, heard, felt. just how much you want to not be neglected anymore.
and the silly boy you had a crush on for god knows how many years, would give you a call at exactly the wrong time. you'd be in the middle of a breakdown but you'd still pick up his call because you can't stand to let go of any opportunity to be perceived by him. even in a moment like that.
and he'd notice the tremble in your voice, and the way you'd sniff occasionally as he'd fill you in on a hilarious thing that happened to him. he'd ask you what's wrong and your tear ducts would take that as a go sign to work over time.
and you'd talk.
and in the midst of it all, your friends, your crush, that one english teacher who treated you better than your own mother ever could, they would all tell you when you were done speaking- "why didn't you ever say something?"
and you'd blurt something pathetic out like, "i didn't think it mattered. that i mattered."
and you'd watch the concern on their face get contaminated by pity. which, in turn, would shut you up for another couple of years until someone made you feel safe enough again.
and this time, you'd hope that you weren't pitied. that you were heard, seen, understood. and you held out hope like a burning matchstick on a windy day.
maybe one day the wind will stop.
the matchstick will burn.
your hope will be answered.
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ceramicteapot · 9 months ago
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you scroll through an endless feed. everyone is doing something worth the world. everyone is happy. they’re all prosperous.
you wonder what’s wrong with you- how a sweet little child who found the joy in every day life has now grown into an adult who questions their worth every single day.
you know it’s all an illusion, that people are not as happy as they seem to be. you know it’s all virtual nonsense, snapshots of people’s lives and not their entire lives meant to make you feel pathetic about yourself, that you’ll have your moments too even if you don’t post about them.
and just because it’s not posted for the world to see doesn’t mean it’s not real. that it didn’t happen.
you know all of that.
and it sucks to admit to your therapist how often you forget it or how angry and stupid you feel about letting yourself give in to the exact agenda the world has stitched for people like you- insecurity.
so you sit on a chair in your living room, count 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 things you can taste.
you call yourself back to the present.
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ceramicteapot · 9 months ago
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reminder that i have a writing server with super cool people in it that you can join!
since some of you showed interest in joining a writing group with me, i created a discord server for us:
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ceramicteapot · 9 months ago
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you still have the bracelet that friend gave you as a fall present all those years ago. its gentle rolling against your skin still reminds you of the belly-clutching, never-ending laughter you shared in sparse classrooms together, how you'd walk everywhere together, how texting each other felt more natural than breathing sometimes, how every second of your day could be shared with them and you wouldn't mind.
you haven't heard their voice in over 2 years now.
so yeah. maybe you can get over the worst of heartbreaks. maybe you can love people and miss them and still let go. maybe choosing yourself isn't so bad. maybe begging for love, clenching your teeth to stop the tears, and digging your nails into your skin out of anger, hurt, pain... really is undeserved.
it's okay. you can sit with it all, feel everything down to the last cell of your body, process it in any way that you can. you can heal. and healing doesn't mean not hurting. it means going on despite it all without pushing anything under the rug.
it means getting up, looking the cause of your pain in the eye, and not letting them have the power they so crave.
it's tough, but you've realized that so are you.
maybe, you'll keep the bracelet as a reminder.
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ceramicteapot · 9 months ago
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the clock ticks, you don't find anything changing.
the minutes, days, and weeks blend into each other, making a soup. there's no chef, it just happens on its own. sometimes you begin to think that maybe there are chefs, probably too many of them. is that why it tastes spoiled? is that why time keeps passing and things keep looking like they always have? maybe even worse?
everyone tells you that nothing is stagnant. that the only constant is change. but where is your change? where is the good change? you spot and acknowledge patterns repeating in your life. you talk to your therapist about them.
she's a good woman. she genuinely wants to help you. but you don't know how you can be helped, and probably, neither does she. so you both sit in uncomfortable chairs, picking up your life bit by bit, trying to make sense of it together.
she tells you things you should probably do. she asks you questions you don't wanna know the answers to. so you just nod. sometimes you cry.
it's tough, all of it. but you're still here. you're still trying to make sense, to understand, to break habits, to grow. be free.
on some days it's easy to believe that that's enough. on most days you feel like an impostor. like all of this maybe works for others and you're just pretending that it does for you too.
until it actually does. sometimes. and lately you find yourself looking for more of such moments. lately, you find yourself trying to live.
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ceramicteapot · 10 months ago
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i went to a children's park today. nothing has made me feel sadder in quite a while now. it's like i can sense the loss, more like, the lack, of a childhood in my own life as i watched the children.
i was nothing like them. they're loud. they laugh. they have friends. they have mothers who wipe their tears and patient fathers who teach them how to ride a bike. i had none of that.
i was quiet as a tree, blending into the background like dirt. no one waited on me. i was barely ever picked up. i never learned how to ride a bicycle.
where's my compensation for any of that? how do i get my childhood back? how do i heal from any of what happened which wasn't even my fault? how do i tolerate the person i have become?
it's never easy watching others be happy when you just feel so sorry for yourself. and how do you stop that? i genuinely want to not feel the pang of pain in my chest when this happens. i want to be utterly happy for others too.
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ceramicteapot · 11 months ago
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you’re 8 and you don’t know why anything happens. but you’re scared. anxiety has settled deep within your gut already and your fingernails are bitten raw.
you know other children smile more than you. you feel the eggshells crack beneath the soles of your feet and you’re scared to make a sound. what if they see you? what if you’re heard? will you be yelled at again? how painful would it be to be shoved against the wall one more time?
your jaw still aches when memories of a rough hand colliding with it pop up uninvited into your consciousness. you curl up in the backseat of a car you can’t cry in.
you’re 21 and you still don’t know why anything happens. you’re still scared. your anxiety now lives in every cell more loudly than your own body fluids. your fingernails have grown but the scars from your teeth do not disappear.
you know other people smile more than you. you wish you could smile back. you still don’t want to be seen or heard. what if they take away your calm from you? will they get close only to leave again?
your heart still breaks over the radio silence from a dozen souls. and once again, you curl up in the backseat of a car you can’t cry in.
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ceramicteapot · 11 months ago
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ceramicteapot · 11 months ago
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you toast bread on a low flame and think about how your world is melting away. wrists you made friendship bracelets for are now bare, no one wants to share a cup of tea with you, and you cannot help but feel like the most boring person in the world.
why else would they not sit in the seats you saved? why did they leave your texts screaming for a reply for days, weeks? why did your phone never ring? you didn't want to think about it.
so you toast bread. on a low flame. let it crisp to the fullest. maybe it'll make up for the warmth you lack.
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ceramicteapot · 11 months ago
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i sit with my back pressed to the wall. i lean against the tables when i stand, slouch down in chairs, and need something to clutch as i sleep. i put my head on your shoulder when we sit side by side.
don't you see how tired i am? how i can't even hold myself up?
how i'm silently asking to be loved?
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ceramicteapot · 1 year ago
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bumping this <3
since some of you showed interest in joining a writing group with me, i created a discord server for us:
i'll see you there!
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ceramicteapot · 1 year ago
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i have this bubbling urge to create art but my body doesn’t cooperate.
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ceramicteapot · 1 year ago
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Just looked at a blog where the header description said 'sometimes I reblog posts I like so I don't forget them'.
And I feel like that, right there, explains so much about how the site has changed in the last few months.
People now think reblogging is an unusual behaviour, rather than a default.
Tumblr newbies, please, for the love of baby Jesus, reblog the posts you like. That is the whole reason the site exists - for you to collect all your shiny fandom objects in a single space. Which you can organize to your heart's content. Or not organize at all, if that's your jam.
Our blogs are intended to be collections of posts, not collections of likes.
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ceramicteapot · 1 year ago
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i see you living life everyday as if nothing happened- as if you didn't leave my bed cold, didn't take away your toothbrush so my stand always looks empty, didn't occupy half my closet only to leave it barren once you decided you'd had enough of me.
do you know how much it takes to make space for someone like that, letting them in, giving them a knife, and hoping they don't turn the pointed end towards you?
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