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Win for the aspecs!!

Jaiden Animations won $1 million in a Mr. Beast video!! She totally deserved it💚💜 aroace YouTube queen👑

[emily-wesley3]

Win for the aspecs!!

Jaiden Animations won $1 million in a Mr. Beast video!! She totally deserved it💚💜 aroace YouTube queen👑

[emily-wesley3]

Yay Pride! 🏳️‍🌈 🧡💛🤍🩵💙

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Here’s the list of songs:)

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Alice Oseman teaming with Spotify to make an aroace playlist 🧡💛🤍🩵💙

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Alice Oseman teaming with Spotify to make an aroace playlist 🧡💛🤍🩵💙

[emily-wesley3]

as an aroace, im particularly dangerous, because i wont fuck or marry. i only know how to kill.

[emily-wesley3]

just a Jesus loving aromantic that wants to dye her hair pink💕

i found a cool tag game on twitter and i really wanna import it (o^ ^o)

this picrew + the last song you listened to :]

no pressure tags: @blood-loving-leech @overtaken-boredom @lesbianthatyaps @kameonerd566 @hexedvampire @laczki @anonymous-shxtposter @fleurafae @flovqy + anyone who wants to do it <3

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Actually reading this document is so beautiful and amazing, I can’t believe it exists💚

It's official! We got the state of Kansas to formally recognize Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week this year!

February 18-24, 2024 DON'T YOU FORGET!

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This being your favorite Disney song to you realizing your aroace pipeline

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i would love to know o how many people in the ace and aro community wish to have a child, cause i (ace, aro and agender person) wish to adopt a daugther in the future and i want to know if its a commun thing in the community or i'm kinda alone in that (i want to be a single parent by the way)

[emily-wesley3]

The facts:

I am aroace

I am good at archery

I am a feminist

Conclusion:

I am Artemis

[emily-wesley3]

I’m still me. But. Ow I know why. Why I didn’t date in school. Why I didn’t get my classmates’ adult jokes. Why people wondered if I was gay. Why I didn’t hook up in college. Why wasn’t ready. Why in my 20s and 30s I misinterpreted deep platonic friendship as, “I guess this is love?” Why the further we went, the more I had to act. Why that terrified me. Why I thought I was the only person like that. Why I couldn’t “finish”, ever. Why the doctors couldn’t find anything physiologically wrong. Why both relationships ended. Why in all that time there were just two relationships. Why I didn’t mind that. Why I hated that I didn’t mind that. Why I’m like this. Why I can finally feel okay. Why I can let all that hurt go. Why I’m not a failure. Why I’m going to be okay.

When I came out, nothing about Outside Me™ changed.

I started coming out because everything about Inside Me™ has changed.

[emily-wesley3]

🏹🏹🏹

[emily-wesley3]

“if the interesting guy from class decides to ask me out I’d say yes but I’d feel like throwing up the whole time” ‼️‼️‼️

figuring out whether or not you're really aro/ace or just a very aware and skittish person is like a special kind of hell. like i think purgatory might just be me having conversations like "well i think i'd be okay with having a romantic relationship and having sex with a hypothetical partner but i'm not interested in doing all the performative bullshit that comes with dating and it's exhausting trying to find anyone who's okay with someone so inexperienced and unsure and i have such a strange way of showing affection and nobody showed me what intimacy or flirting was when i was young which i'm simultaneously grateful for and resentful of because now i'm an adult who's never kissed anybody but at least i had good grades and friends in high school anyway yeah if the interesting guy from class decides to ask me out i'd say yes but i'd feel like throwing up the whole time so what does that say about me"

[emily-wesley3]

Forever friend-zoning like I get paid🙈

One of the most interesting things about being aroace is the amount of people that fall in love with you. Like, I've talked to so many people and just assumed we're vibing on friend levels only, bonding and making connection through intriguing conversation, but then I find out they've been pining all along and had hopeful intentions.

And even to this day I don't know that people are flirting with me. I am so clueless unless folks are very blatant with it. I mean they have to be bold "date me I wanna be with you romantically or sexually" neon billboard sign worthy for me to FINALLY get it. My own family and friends have to translate for me that someone has attraction towards me 😅 cuz I'll just assume we're on the pathway to best friendship.

It is a journey for real.

[emily-wesley3]

*plays Story Of My Life by 1D*

life after jaiden animation comingout video

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Starts singing “Story of My Life” by 1D

This asexual girl was once called a lesbian for not having and not wanting a boyfriend