The AroAce is protesting this vehemently. They can absolutely be trusted near massive heavy-duty machinery that can completely demolish things. They would never, EVER put important government documents or a transphobic state legislator into an active woodchipper. No way.
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Hi! I wanted to warn you of carcinizedgender, this is a aphobe that should be blocked and reported. I just wanted send this as there is many who are pretending they are for aspecs when they aren't. This one discriminated a aroace person named who was is his ex-gf.
Thank you, I'll look into it.
Update : yeah no, I agree, that person should be reported for aphobia
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hey as a local aroace, i want to specify something.
were no strangers to love. you know the rules and so do i (do i). a full commitments what im thinking of. you wouldnt get this from any other guy. i just wanna tell you how im feeling. gotta make you understand. never gonna give you up. never gonna let you down. never gonna run around and desert you. never gonna make you cry. never gonna say goodbye. never gonna tell a lie and hurt you
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shoutout to aroace people who survived their relatives' invasive questions about boyfriends and girlfriends i'm proud of you
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Queerness is not just about sex and romance. Since the concept of queer has been around, so have asexual and aromantic people. Lavender marriages, voluntary spinsters, vows of chastity used to cover a disinterest in sex. “Monosexuals”, “anesthesia sexual”, “anaphrodites”, category "X". Queer-platonic relationships, asexuality and aromanticism are an undeniable part of lgbtq+ history. Before there were any terms, any flags or acronyms, choosing to not conform to society’s romantic and sexual guidelines has been the very essence of queerness. The inherent queer experience of feeling alienated because you don’t love the “right” way or feel the right feelings for the right people, of trying to meet the expectations set for you while trying to build a life that doesn’t feel like a lie. These are all part of the aspec experience. We aren’t “invading” a space we don’t belong because it’s a trend, or an internet identity. We’re not “spicy straight”. We’re making ourselves known in a community we have always been a part of.
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Aroace flag picked from @the-haiku-bot
The AROACE flag color-picked from HAIKU BOT
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IN THIS HOUSEHOLD WE STAND FOR THE FLAG
*frantically gestures to the homemade aroace flag I hung on my bookshelf that's over a metre long in both dimensions*
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me currently:
“i want people to have crushes on me so badly because i thrive on external validation and im super insecure so i really really want people to have crushes on me”
also me, being aroace and sex/romance-repulsed (if someone has a crush on me):
“pleasepleasepleaseplease nobody have a crush on me and ESPECIALLY DONT TELL ME because then i have to reject you and i hate rejecting people and then i’ll probably have to come out to avoid hurting anyone because i overthink everything ahahahha”
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At 250 notes on this, I'll come out to my parents.
Edit : I did come out, it went well except for some aphobia but they were supportive. I came out in French so I couldn't use either "the only lust I feel is bloodlust" or "this bloodline ends with me"
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HAPPY AROSPEC AWARENESS WEEK EVERYONE!!!! (<-barely made it in time)
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me whenever a character doesn't show interest in dating or sex because i crave representation:
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aphobia is not just harmful to asexual and aromantic people. it hurts everyone when society tells people they are not complete without a romantic partner. that they are aren’t a whole person if they aren’t in love and sexually desirable. people spend some of the most fulfilling parts of their lives feeling like they’re wasting that time because they aren’t in a relationship. they spend so much time looking for “the one”. time that could be spent learning, travelling, building a found family. they miss out on meaningful relationships, on soulmates, because they are told that person can’t be the most important person in their life. it devalues the support that’s found in community, it devalues the love found in friendships, it devalues the importance for living for oneself.
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