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I remember getting clowned on in highschool in the QSA club because I identified as bisexual instead of pansexual

it always makes me so sad to see other people, especially other queer folk, shame a label for being “too specific”

A label is supposed to IDENTIFY, if it doesn’t properly do the job than that’s when it becomes “what’s the point?”

Plenty of people go unlabeled because they CANT find the right label

Plenty of people use a bunch of different labels because they can’t find the right label.

“why say your pansexual, bisexual works just fine” no it doesn’t if it doesn't properly describe the experience someone is having and wants to convey (being attracted to all genders without a preference)

“Why use omnisexual, pansexual works just fine” no it doesn’t if it doesn't properly describe the experience someone is having and wants to convey (being attracted to multiple genders with a preference)

“Why use gynesexual, pansexual works just fine” no it doesn’t if it doesn't properly describe the experience someone is having and wants to convey (being attracted to femininity regardless of gender)

All of what I listed goth under the umbrella term bisexual, which fit under the umbrella term queer which fits under the umbrella of “relationships with other humans”. Humans get more specific because they want to be able to describe their experience. Humans desire connection.

It may seem cringe to but these are people identities, these are peoples lives. People can go their whole lives feeling like their ignoring themselves and their identity because of a label they picked whether it be hyper specific or super vague. These labels are for no one but themselves and a means to convey identity to build a bridge to others. Two things can be true at once.

Not to mention the amount of neurodivergent and autistic people like myself out there feeling separated from humanity altogether and may pick a trans identity less than conventional.

Your experience is your own and not everyone’s like you. Be educated and try to understand where someone is coming from. And if you can’t bother, then don’t ruins someone’s day (and maybe even life) with your comments.

Its already a terrible life just learn to be tolerant of how people cope.

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Does this fluffbrain NOT know how many femboys, twinks, and queers are ACTUALLY in the community, woof?

I really hope that when Space Marine II comes out they let you choose Titus’ pronouns just to fuck with this guy specifically

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More doodles

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Bloody Mary got the house

divorce themed restaurant menu

dessert: CUSTARDy Battle

yeah that's all i've got so far sorry

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"im okay with gay and trans people i just don't wanna see it or hear about it" perchance that may be a sign that you are..... not... okay with it?

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Class doodles!! Sorry it’s greasy, there’s a lot of oil :{

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I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

To prove something to a friend, please

REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

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This is such a curious way of thinking bc…. Do you really think I want top surgery because someone TOLD me to get it? Fuck no. The minute I started developing breasts before I even knew what transgender meant, I wanted them gone. I starting binding in elementary school. I would cry hysterically when my mother wanted to measure me for bra size. no, I was not fucking molested. No I didn’t have any trans family members. No I did not exist on any trans spaces online. I simply just don’t want breasts, I have never wanted them. This does not make me “mentally ill” or some sort of sexual deviant. It’s as simple as that I don’t want breasts. I don’t give a fuck how other people perceive me or any sort of fashion trend. I know my body more than anyone else and top surgery is truly and deeply what is best for me and my mental health.

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Woof

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:o They're so pretty!!

this character turns 2 yrs old tomorrow ❤️❤️❤️

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Woof! Correct me if I’m wrong but

*inhale*

Trans mascs can be lesbians

Trans men cannot be lesbians

Trans femmes can be gay (as in mlm)

Trans women cannot be gay (as in mlm)

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Nibble :}

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I hate loud noises, but also my bark is annoying as heck :{

:’3

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I wish I had time to swim at the beach 3:

happy summer to dykes in tank tops and basketball shorts, goths who's makeup is melting, little kids catching frogs and fireflies, guys who just bring their guitar everywhere now, 13 yr olds very obviously in their emo phase during a family vacation, gas station employees, old people sitting on porches, and dogs swimming at the beach

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DHKLJDAHKLJADLHKJAD I LOVE HIM

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