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my blog anniversary was a week ago so I wanted to come on here and say thank you so so much for a wonderful year!! all the support I’ve received throughout the year has made me so happy <3 I hope my blog can continue to be a source of motivation, encouragement, and an extra push for both myself and for you :)

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Urgent and urgent emergency

Dear, I know that many people are sending you requests for help 😔

Be assured that asking for help is not easy 💔😔

My father is sick and needs medicine and food 💔 and this can cost more than 100 € per day.

My father is about to die and needs another surgery outside the Gaza Strip 😭😭😭😭😭 I really hope you can help me and not let me down.

My family and I are very grateful for your support 🫂❤️

https://gofund.me/04da1928

‼️ anyone who can donate pls pls pls do so ‼️

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say no to your bad habits, step into the version of you you’ve always wanted to be, allow a new era of your life to begin. not for any grand reason, not for any special occasion, but simply because it’s time you got to know your best, most thriving, self.

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you will run out of time if you procrastinate

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hit 1K followers today!! thank you so much for being here everyone ♡ even though I started posting almost a year ago, it still feels like my blog has just begun. this year I want to dedicate more time to this blog and more of myself to self care. that being said, expect even better posts in the near future :) I hope my blog can help you in any way it can, whether that help be small or big 🫶🎀

— m.y.

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what you don’t change is what you’re choosing.

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stop ignoring yourself, you’re meant to live.

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hobbies to consider for 2025

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painting

gouache, watercolor, acrylic… there’s so many things for you to try and it’s super easy to get started!

clay

sculpt rlly cute charms, dishes, and whatever else!!

scrapbooking

great way to look back on memories and lets you get rlly creative with it

journaling

my personal favorite ♡. so many different ways to go about it. you can have a bullet journal, book journal, cooking journal, movie journal. or, simply a diary to write about your thoughts and days. you can decorate your spreads with stickers and washi tape or keep it simple.

crocheting

there are so many things you could make, from tops to plushies. there are a lot of cute tutorials and free designs available online!

baking

this one may or may not be as easy as the other ones I’ve mentioned depending on the recipe but learning how to cook or bake makes for a great New Year’s resolution!

puzzles

there are a ton of different puzzles out there ranging from different skill level, so you can challenge your brain as much as you’d like!

sewing

whether you want to learn how to hand sew or use a sewing machine, to tailor clothes you already have or make your own pieces, sewing can be a fun and impressive skill to have.

playing an instrument

guitar, violin, piano, clarinet, drums— there are a ton of options for you to choose from and plenty of online resources :)

reading

reading can be a great way to learn more or be a better form of entertainment compared to social media and television. whether you want to educate yourself on different topics, discover a new genre of novels, or are interested in comics— reading is one of those hobbies where there’s something in it for everyone, regardless of what they’re looking for.

jewelry making

bracelets or necklaces, whatever it is you want to make the materials are easy to find, as well as tutorials and references.

bicycling

having an outside hobby is very important imo, and bicycling is one of those hobbies that lets you be as relaxed or intense as you’d like.

yoga

I think this is a great one, with yoga the focus doesn’t have to be looking a certain way or going super hard— it’s just about relaxing. there’s no pressure.

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HABITS TO DROP WHEN GETTING YOUR LIFE TOGETHER

➝ CREATING UNAUTHENTIC & UNINTENTIONAL GOALS

the biggest mistakes you can make when creating goals is making goals that aren’t true to you and making goals for the sake of making goals.

it can be so exciting when you decide to get your life together. I mean, of course it is! there are so many possibilities! but when you start planning, don’t just write down the goals you see circulating on social media. what works for someone else may not be what works for you. don’t make your goals and habits based on what’s trending or popular in the self improvement community.

think about what you actually need for a minute. what is actually necessary? your goals and habits aren’t here to be glamorous, they’re here to help regardless of how simple or small they are. the point of thinking up new habits is to improve your life, so be intentional with your goals. what will practicing this habit or achieving this goal give you?

when you’re first starting out, your goals don’t have to be anything too crazy or intense. for example, let’s say you want to become a pink pilates girl and get into fitness. you shouldn’t jump right into it and say your goal is to work out for 2 hours 5 times a week. let’s consider some factors first. have you been living a completely sedentary kind of lifestyle? then try looking for exercises that’ll wake up dormant muscles. your goal should then be to repeat those exercises for how ever many times a week. then you’ll work your way up from there. (it’s important we don’t harm the body, so be mindful with your fitness goals.) what about your schedule? how much time can you actually give to working out? can your body even endure working out for that long?

anyways, hopefully you see what I mean. when creating goals, it’s not about having the “aesthetic” habits and goals that you may see on tiktok or tumblr. it’s about doing what is actually good for you and what’ll help you the most with where you are now in your journey. so please put some thought into your goals and where they’ll take you. creating unauthentic and unintentional habits will also mean you’ll be less likely to keep practicing them after a few times. at the end of the day, that doesn’t help you achieve anything and you’re left with a broken promise you’ve made to yourself. which leads me to my next point…

➝ NOT KEEPING YOUR WORD WHEN IT COMES TO YOU

let me start off by saying this— if you don’t even listen to yourself, why should anyone else? (harsh, ik)

a HUGE reason as to why people have no self confidence is because they don’t listen to themselves or keep the promises they’ve made to themselves. if you have no self trust, how could you have any self confidence?

now, building discipline can definitely be a challenge so if you want to start somewhere easy, nip your false promises in the bud and stop yourself from making them. that’s what I did when I was first trying to stop this habit. when my addiction to tiktok was at its peak I would always tell myself the usual “ten more minutes and then I’ll stop scrolling.” when I wanted to stop making false promises, I knew I had no control or discipline so the only thing I could do is be real with myself. I’d cut myself off when I heard myself say “five more minutes” because I knew it wasn’t going to happen. if I wasn’t going to quit my bad habit, then the least I could do is be honest with myself.

the things that you are constantly telling yourself, whether they’re mindless or intentional, matter.

so, stop telling yourself seemingly harmless lies. unnecessary false promises that you know are false will only fill you with tension.

➝ SEEING FAILURE AS AN INVITATION TO GIVE UP

this applies to so many things.

you wanted to be consistent with your reading goals but haven’t read a chapter in a week? dont give up. don’t tell yourself that being consistent is too hard for you, that since you missed a week this habit isn’t for you. make your goal a bit easier or give yourself another chance.

you wanted to spend more time doing art but it’s not turning out how you expected? dont give up. dont give yourself the title of a “bad artist” and never pick up a pencil again. move forward, give yourself another chance.

you wanted to quit your Instagram addiction but after a couple days you went back to scrolling for hours on ig reels? Don’t give up. dont tell yourself that this addiction isn’t gonna go away, don’t go back to the bad habit because you slipped up. give yourself another chance.

I think a lot of us (myself included) tend to give up at the first sign of failure, instead of reminding ourselves to keep going. it’d be wonderful if you could get it right on the first try. if you could read ten books a month right away after not reading a book in three years. if you could watch hours worth of tutorials and sketch the perfect portrait on the first attempt. if you could uninstall instagram for good and never feel the urge to go back. that would all be so amazing, but it’s not always the reality. expect the best from yourself and do the best you can, but also give yourself some compassion. keep in mind that you won’t always do things perfectly right away and that’s one thousand percent okay. when you feel yourself slipping up on your brand new goal, don’t end it there at the first failure. allow yourself to move forward, because the only other direction to move is backwards.

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hey everyone

my last post was in March and we’re heading into July now! crazy ( ˶°ㅁ°) !!

I had to stop posting because I unexpectedly became very busy and couldn’t make blogging a priority anymore. which sucks, because my blog had only just started.

thankfully im available now and honestly, i feel much more inspired and capable of managing this blog then ever before ♡

if you’ve read my introduction post, you might remember that I created this blog for my own glow up. my own self improvement journey. at the start of this blog, I was still a little lost about the whole thing but now I feel the most ready and motivated to truly begin. and the timing couldn’t have been more perfect with a new month starting!

im really looking forward to being active on here again :) pls stay tuned for my next posts!!

— messyoungie

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Do you make affirmations ? Can you make affirmations for Song Jia / Jang Wonyoung or wonyoungism inspired ? I really aspire to become like them nd get a mindset like Liz

I don’t make affirmations :(

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Can you make a guide inspired by song jia or wonyoung ??

I’d love to!! i have a lot of posts in my drafts so once i work on a couple more than I’ll get started on that one, thank you for your suggestion :)

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Whats your favorite movie ?? :3

as of right now it’s Flying Colors (2015)!! ♡

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Hi!! I just found your blog and I love it 🥰

thank you very much!! :) 🤍

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₊❏❜ ⋮ journaling prompts ─ ✧₊∘

✧ here’s a list of some of my favorite journal prompts that I hope will inspire you to pick up a notebook and write :)

◦when do you feel most like yourself

◦is there anything you’re not being honest about with yourself

◦what are you most afraid of others finding out about you

◦what boundaries do you need to set with yourself

◦when are you most “present” or “in the moment”

◦how often do you actually show up for yourself

◦what’s your focus been on lately

◦what past version of you do you like the most

◦what past version of you do you dislike the most

◦what is it that makes you cling to the things that drain you

◦think of the people you’re closest to in life and what you’re most scared to tell them

◦where are you living 90% of the time— in the past, present, future? in the real world or in the digital world?

◦when do you feel like you need to punish yourself

◦in what ways do you put off having your desires/stand in your own way

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Hiiii ⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚

Just wanted to drop by and say that I love your blog <3

The pictures u use make my heart feel full ੈ♡˳

thank you!! 🤍