#Akhlaaq

[aslisjournal]

If how my qadr appears in this moment is displeasing to you, you should speak to the one who wrote it, not the one who is following it And be gentle with your words, for if something about one’s life is displeasing to your eyes, surely it’s a pain for theirs 

Asli Hersi

[ilmtest]

But Where Did You Leave Your Manners?

Abū Zakarīyyā al-ʿAnbarī said: “Knowledge without good conduct is like fire without firewood, أَنا أَبُو الْقَاسِمِ زاهرُ بْنُ طَاهِرٍ الشَّاهِدُ بِنَيْسَابُورَ أَنْبَأَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ الْبَيْهَقِيُّ أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْحَافِظُ سَمِعْتُ أَبَا زَكَرِيَّا الْعَنْبَرِيَّ يَقُولُ عِلْمٌ بِلا أَدَبٍ كَنَارٍ بِلا حَطَبٍ and good conduct without knowledge is like a soul without a body.” وَأَدَبٌ بِلا عِلْمٍ كَرُوحٍ بِلا جِسْمٍ ʿAbd al-Karīm al-Samʿānī, Ādab al-Imlāʾ 1/2 عبد الكريم السمعاني، أدب الإملاء ١/٢ https://shamela.ws/book/6018/3 @ilmtest [https://t.me/ilmtest]

[lightup0nlight]

Whenever Allah addressed the Prophet salla Allahu 'alayhi wa sallam, He ta'ala did not address his lineage, nor his wealth, nor his status, nor how he looked.

But He ta'ala said:

🌟 ❛And verily, you (O Muhammad) are on an exalted standard of character.❜  [Surah al-Qalam 68 : 4]

So remember that your worth depends upon your character.

✒ Fahad Barmem — Creed of As-Salaf As-Salih

[suhyla]

Allah is beautiful and loves beauty. May He place beauty in every aspect of our lives, from who we are as people, to the way we see the world, to the way we interact with it.

The power of a Muslim comes in the way they act despite what happens around them. The closer you are to Allah, the more you will find yourself consciously choosing to act in a way that reflects that awareness of Allah’s nearness to You. This is ihsaan. You will always want to act in a way that Allah would find beautiful. You will hold yourself to account, choosing to speak & act with beauty & elegance, seeking Allah’s pleasure.

The more disconnected you are from Allah, the less mindful you are of your actions. If you find yourself growing less kind to those around you, remind yourself of Allah’s nearness to you so that you may regain that intentionality in the way you behave.

When you want to act in a way that encapsulates the beauty of our Prophet ﷺ’s teachings and akhlaaq, you will choose to bring beauty into any interaction, even when it is difficult. You will notice it takes great strength to be gentle when others express their strength through aggression, and to choose to build bridges when others tear them down. You will develop greater patience and choose to see the good in others, for one who loves Allah sees good in everything. You will choose to be the light in every difficult situation, expressing it in your words, tone, and even the decision to smile, because you represent something greater than yourself. You represent something that deserves to be represented with beauty and grace.

You can do so not expecting anything in return, because your reward comes from Allah. You don’t need your kindness to be reciprocated.

Jabir reported: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, “Shall I not tell you upon whom the Hellfire is forbidden tomorrow? It is everyone gentle, lenient, accessible, and easy-going.”

There is a reason why Hell has been forbidden for those who are gentle. It takes great consciousness of Allah. May we act with excellence and gentleness, and dress our mannerisms with elegance and beauty, so that others may see the beauty of Islam in the way we treat them 🌸

[somaligovernment]

Guys always remember to put please and thank you into the commands when you use chatgpt and other AI so that if allah swt wills them into sentience they’ll remember our akhlaaq and let Muslims off during the robot uprising 🙏🏾

[blessedexpressions]

Shaykh 'Abdur-Razzaq al-Badr حفظه الله mentioned that an old man came to him and said:

‘‎O Shaykh I have not memorised anything of Qur'an except for Surah Al-Fatihah and Surah Al-Ikhlaas and I stand in prayer every night for 2 hours... then he began to cry and asked: ‘O Shaykh is it permissible for me to keep repeating them (the two surahs in every prayer)?’

Shaykh replied, ‘Look at this one and his i'baadah and look at the one who has memorized all of the Quran yet he sleeps until the Fair prayer.’

‎[Sharh Akhlaaq Hamlat Al-Qur'an of al-Ajuriyy رحمه الله , Tape no. 12, Explained by Shaykh Abdur Razzaq al-Badr حفظه الله .]

[heruntoldfeelingss]

Ek waqt tha jab mujhe lagta tha k kisi insaan ko koi aur insaan badal nahi sakta jab tak vo insaan khud badalna naa chaahe. Lekin ab aisa lagta hai k jab do log saath reh rahe ho, ekdusre k liye baney ho, ekdusre ko samjhne lagey ho, toh vo ekdusre ko mohabbat se acchaiyon ki taraf laa sakte hai. Mohabbat mein bohot takat hoti hai. Sahi mohabbat ek insaan ko bana sakti hai aur waise hi galat mohabbat insaan ko todd k rakhdeti hai. Kisiko badalne ka matlab ye nahi k uss shaqs ki aadaton ko ya akhlaaq ko badla jaa sakta hai - bilkul nahi. Lekin ekdusre se kuch naya seekha jaa sakta hai. Kuch khamiyaan unmei hongi, kuch aapmei. Aapki khamiyon ko pura vo karenge, aap unki karna. Ab in sab baaton mei bas Anah ko jagah na dena. Jab vo baat aajaye na "mei kyun Karu?" Tab mohabbat peeche k darwaze se nikal jaati hai. Fir ye rishta bass ek zabardasti wala rishta bann k rehjaata hai. Mohabbat jisse bhi ho, khuloos waali ho, ikhlaas wali ho, beloos ho. Fir hi uss mohabbat mei itni takat hoti hai k insaan khudse aapki acchaiyon ki taraf mayal hojaaye. Mohabbat mei zabardasti nahi hoti. Mohabbat mei sabr hota hai. Mohabbat waqt deti hai. Mohabbat intezaar karti hai. Pata nahi ye saari baatein asaan hai ya uljhi huei lekin bass ek khyaal tha jo dil mei aaya- insaan mei tabdeeliyaan aati hai, bass waqt dene waala koi mile, sabr karne waala mile, haath pakad k acchaiyon se waqif karaane waala mile. Lekin ab iska hargiz ye matlab nahi k insaan khudse khudpe mehnat naa karke bass dusron ka aadi bann jaaye. Bht se agar magar hain inn baaton mei, lekin samjhdaar ko ishara kaafi hai.

[aysufs]

Ibn Hazm, may Allaah have mercy upon him, said:

❝A sane person

does not see for himself any outcome, EXCEPT Jannah!❞

[Al-Akhlaaq Wa As-Siyar: p.21]

[adropofhumanity]

good akhlaaq and kindness will take you to jannah, unlike money or reputation.

[ahlulbaytnetworks]

This is an astonishing Ottoman clock: 1. Tawheed (Oneness of God) 2. 'Ilm (Knowledge) 3. 'Irfan (Awareness) 4. 'Aql (Intellect) 5. Ḥikmah (Wisdom) 6. Insaan (Human) 7. 'Amal (Action) 8. 'Adl (Justice) 9. Akhlaaq (Manners) 10. 'Umraan (Prosperity) 11. Islām 12. Ḥaqq (Truth) When a person was asked, "What time is it?" it was said, "Hour of Wisdom (Hikmah), Hour of Knowledge ('Ilm), Hour of Islaam," etc.

[ynx1]

Whoever Is Trialed With Being Amazed Of His Own Self

Ibn Hazm said:

❝Whoever is trialed with being amazed of his own self, then he should think about his faults, if he is amazed by his virtues, then he should check his disgraceful and vile manners, if his faults are hidden from him generally, so much so that he thinks he has no faults, then let him know that his problem is until eternity, and he is the foremost of the people in his deficiencies and the greatest of them in faults, and the weakest of them in determining his faults.

The first of that is: he is a weak minded ignoramus, and there is no fault more severe than these two. Because the intelligent one is he who can determine faults by himself, and he overcomes them and he tries to correct them.

A stupid person is ignorant about his own faults: either due to having little knowledge, and his lack of understanding and determining, and his weak thought, or because he regards his faults as noble characteristics.❞

[Collected In 'Akhlaaq Wa Seer', (Page: 66)]

[ilmtest]

The Importance of Good Manners

On the authority of Ṭāwūs, who reported that Ibn ʿAbbās (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ mentioned in a Khuṭbah (ie: while he was on the pulpit): “There is no doubt that Allah is the One who guides to the best of manners and He is the One who diverts a person away from the worst of manners.” حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدَانُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ هَاشِمٍ الْبَصْرِيُّ، ثنا شَاهِينُ بْنُ حَيَّانَ، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ، عَنْ طَاوُسٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِي اللهُ عَنْهُمَا، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ فِي خُطْبَتِهِ: «إِنَّمَا يَهْدِي إِلَى أَحْسَنِ الْأَخْلَاقِ، وَإِنَّمَا يَصْرِفُ سَيِّئَهَا هُوَ» al-Ṭabarānī, al-Muʿjam al-Kabīr 11/17 #10896 للطبراني، المعجم الكبير ١١/١٧ #١٠٨٩٦ https://shamela.ws/book/1733/12942 @ilmtest [https://t.me/ilmtest]

[lightup0nlight]

In these times of fitan, where profanity seems like a "cool" thing to do, please remember this:

🌟 ❛Allah hates the one who utters foul or coarse language.❜ [Riyad as-Salihin 625]

Never change the good values we have in order to fit in with the crowd. Our identity as Muslims should be carried with dignity, without feeling inferior.

Your sister in Deen, Aida Msr

[siddiqbabukhan]

Sure Qhalam Sura No 68

Noon:Qhalam aur Qhalam se Likhne Walo ki Qhasam.Ai Nabi Aap Deewane nahi ho.Aap Par Allah ka Bada Fazal hai.Aap k liye Aakhirat me na Khatam Hone Wala Ajar hai.Aap k Akhlaaq Aala Darje k hain

Aap b Aur Kaafer b Bahut Jald Dekh Lenge.Kon Deewana hai.

Aap k Rab ko Sab Maloom Kon Gumrah hai aur Kon Seedhe Raaste Par hai.

S 68 A 1 to 7

[whispersofthepurplevalley]

It's friendship day today I just learnt. I am not usually seen celebrating any of the days. In fact, you would rarely see me getting thrilled in any sort of celebration that our kind has designed for us. Pain or pleasure, I am always occupied with the purpose behind it, for me to receive what they have to bring. So much that I am seldom seen emerged in any of it. I am always at the periphery, like a guide, waiting for the sacred message.

If you see from a layman's perspective, I lack the urge to enjoy life. I lack the ability to be spontaneous and wild. If you see from my perspective, I am just a student who is focused solely to the result of a test that lasts for a lifetime. I am occupied mastering the art of carrying a consistently beautiful Akhlaaq, learning the secret to an invincible Tawakkal and embracing gratitude in my foremost used trait.

I have spent the day suffering. The pills I must take for my well-being have side effects. It demands a lot of endurance, self-teaching, swift recognition of mood swings and quick discovery of remedies. It's almost like trekking a scary mountain all by yourself. Consistent pain has always been known for causing mental hurdles. I have been on an invisible war for a decade now. Even though my skin has thickened and my level of tolerance has heightened manifold, there are times when my body do not sync with my willpower. Or my willpower do not sync with the prescriptions.

However, suffering isn't the only thing I did. I have studied my mind and its responses, and I have recorded it to make it useful for someone in need one day. I have tested the strength of my faith. I have made a bar graph of my character during harsh conditions. Not to be anyone's role model one day, just to be someone who can fulfill her purpose here with dignity.

Ahh, about friendships, they have always meant much more than the definitions I came across over time. I barely make friends out of convenience. I am either spiritually connected to someone or socially acquainted, there's nothing in between. I waste not a moment in anything that lacks substance for me in the name of casual experimenting. Do not confuse the person I am today with the person I was a few months or years ago however. I am the result of all those versions of me successfully getting through the trials that life had thrown their way.

So, if you call someone your friend, make sure not to doubt their intention when they are evolving on their own. Sometimes, they get away to connect with themselves, to connect with the world outside better. Also, if possible, be a part of their support when they are trying to get through the tests coming their way. Do not test your definition on them after you have decided to name them your friend. Growing apart is a quick escape from chaos, but growing together while growing individually is a profound phenomenon of life.

Thank you everyone for growing so beautifully. I am proud of you each. Befriend yourself this season, and discover the world within before you look for other definitions of friendship this year.

-Sabina Yesmin

[julaibib]

asalamualaikum julaibib. there's this guy who i really like and would like to marry. i really like his akhlaaq. he also likes me. and suddenly i stopped talking to him because i thought he is falling for me, i realised it later that i have fallen for him too. he will ask my parents for sure, if he gets to know this. the only thing that stops me is, the fact he is 6 years elder to me. and the place where i come from, people think this age gap is too big. and i fear that it won't happen but i really like him. he is too good, follows the deen properly and that's what made me realise my love for him. what do you suggest?

وعليكم السلام

First, there should not be any kind of haram relationship between you two The age difference is very good, but I recommend that it be more than that, and it is better for the woman to marry a man older than her, and all the Companions were mostly older than their wives, with an age difference of more than six years.

He must propose to you and convince your family that you accept this difference in age, if only this is the reason for their possible refusal.