#BE RESPECTFUL

[dueseaworthiness]

[kazisonline]

As an aromantic nonbinary person who enjoys sex very much, if you say that when I want a platonic relationship with sex and no romance that's alright, then when a man does that it's alright too. That's equality, that's feminism, and that's common fucking sense

[888888-88]

You know, like it’s okay to have headcanons but it’s NOT OFFICIAL.

These rude ass delulu really makes me SO angry.

Just look at what these people saying.

SAMUEL IS the GHOST ACTOR LISTED IN CREDIT and IS HANDSOME AF SO PERFECT and ALWAYS WILL BE.

DO NOT ERASE ARTIST’S NAME from THEIR WORK!

Im rooting and supporting for the talented actor and their work 🙏🏻👑

And will always appreciate that Samuel performed his role beyond perfection 💀👑

[booksandbrainsandsoftthings]

Officially forming the theory that the reason more service dog handlers don't use protective gear like boots, goggles, and ear protection on their dog is because the public becomes 3000% more unbearable when they try.

We're all used to "aaaaawwww look the the doggo" when we go out with our working animals, but getting

1. Accosted for pictures (whether folks ask or just invade your space and distract your dog)

2. Pointed at like an exhibit

3. Shouted at (OMG DOGGLES, "why is it wearing that" etc)

4. Actively followed around by strangers

Is downright fucking awful.

I know it looks cool. I know some of our gear is specialized. I know pet dogs don't usually wear/tolerate what SDs learn the wear. But for the love of whatever you deem holy, BE KIND ABOUT IT. All of the actions listed above are just fucking rude. Leave people alone. Leave service dogs alone.

Disabled people can exist without being spectacles

[shiftythoughts]

The remixes aren't the best but what we are NOT going to do is COMPLAIN ABOUT IT WHERE THE ACTORS CAN SEE IT!

it's their final few days on the show and they deserve to have the best final few shows without anyone complaining about the Remixes that they probably didn't even get much say in

[ask-spicy-soulcheese-crk]

Spicy Soulcheese AU!

There’s a ding of a bell as you enter

The… man behind the counter has a strange look about him like some sort of monster… but he seems tired, as if worn down to the end of his rope.

You’re in a coffee shop, in a usually quiet part of the golden city that has recently gained a lot more foot traffic! You’re not sure why, after all, the only business this way is this coffee shop and it’s not like any other things of interest are nearby, all you know is that the Queen wants more development in this area because of some recent event she hasn’t elaborated much on. But who are you to question she who hath slain destruction himself?

There aren’t many people here, the barista seems almost in disbelief that ANYONE is. There’s a bit of an… antisocial attitude to him. But you feel like something about this situation is ENCOURAGING you to talk… though that may just be the sign put up in the window telling you to.

What do you want to say?

About the AU

Golden Cheese Cookie is not quite what she used to be. Though I’m not gonna go much into exactly everything that went down yet, y’all are gonna have to figure that out.

You are a citizen of the golden city and you have entered a coffee shop run by one singular barista, “Habanero Cheddar Cookie”, who is well… burning spice cookie. He doesn’t remember this, in fact, he doesn’t remember being anything more than a regular cookie.

Nero is a little bit of an out of character version of burning spice for AU related reasons. You can say pretty much anything to him. This is made for RP specifically! Though I will not reply if you break rules.

Mod posts will be listed as such.

You may occasionally get to talk to golden cheese herself, and occasionally will get posts detailing different parts of the AU like what Nero does when not at work.

Sometimes there will be art, not always.

The rules are

- Do not directly tell Nero what’s going on, or use any powers to directly save him, you can play some chatacter who knows more than him but try to engage within the narrative. Even if the character you are playing knows who he is and is trying to get him out remember… the queen is watching and you don’t want to end up like him.

- don’t be too sexual. You can be sexual but jokes only please we are not that kind of blog

- If you want you can interact with AU versions of characters including BS himself or GC- but these will be non canon interactions

- No proshipping

- You can flirt with Nero if you want but Nero is aromantic and unlikely to return advances so don’t be too disappointed when he gives you the cold shoulder.

- do not send hate.

- do not try to force me to do anything.

- and of course! Have fun! ^^

- I do not permit any of this AU to be used for AI related purposes and if you see AIs of this AU tell me.

- for now that’s all the rules but I’ll update this if I have to

- Mod Ouija!

[iniquitousyearning]

tldr: respect eachother.

this is the post i’m referring to. read this first. 🤍

there are a few different topics id like to cover here; before i begin, please know that i am coming wholly from a place of respect and understanding, while also feeling the need to defend my friend. mari (@thatdammchickennugget) is one of the sweetest, full hearted individuals i have had the pleasure of meeting, and she did not deserve to be spoken to like that.

most important; respect.

the fact i even have to reiterate this fact is disheartening in itself, but, please: give respect, get respect. at the heart of this fandom, we are all here for the same reason. to read and write for characters we love. it seems that sometimes, perhaps we forget this fact and we focus too much on the analytics of it all.

i understand the frustration, i too was once a new writer and can promise you the feeling is not lost on me. you are valid for having these feelings, but there is a right and a wrong way to go about it.

there simply has just been too much hate in this fandom lately. there are tensions for all sorts of reasons. shaming and mocking people for making friends and fostering safe spaces is not how this fandom has ever operated. ‘big blogs’ are humans with feelings, the exact same as you, and to immediately assume the reason they aren’t reading or reblogging your fics is because they don’t want to support anyone except their friends is an unfortunate stance to take; given it’s simply not true.

perhaps you may be forgetting that there are real lives behind these screens. lives with traumas and grief and heartache and stress. not actively reblogging every fic we come across doesn’t equate to not wanting to support, it may just simply mean that we’re going through some shit and don’t have the time to read as much as we’d like to.

for new writers, a side note;

if you’re a new writer, you need to assess within yourself why it is you’re writing. there’s going to be low points, topics or themes not as highly sought. low notes do not depict your worth, and to point fingers at others because they’re not supporting you the way you want them to, screams to me, someone who is writing for all the wrong reasons.

interactions and reblogs are so fucking appreciated but shouldn’t be the root of why you are doing what you’re doing. i write for tom more than anyone and his fandom is the smallest aside from blaise. the amount of writers that actively reblog my fics is very very low, and that’s okay. no one owes me or you anything.

i’m going to wrap this up by saying this; over half of my mutuals are small blogs or nonwriters. i have made majority of my mutuals on here by interactions alone, wether it be me searching for fics or them commenting on mine. it’s easy to make friends, it’s easy to find those supports, you just have to reach out.

i will always encourage every single one of you, to send me your fics, to tag me in them, whatever the hell you want to do. it’s hard to be everywhere at once. i have always been loving and welcoming and inclusive to everyone, i know all of you know this. if anyone wants my support, do not ever be afraid to ask it. i will not bite you, i will not ignore you, i will not tell you to get lost.

reach out. i’m here. 🤍

[thelunarsystemwrites]

please don't ever send anon hate

Please it could literally be someone's last straw, it could be their final push, it could be the wrong sign they were looking for, it could be on their most special day, it could be on their worst day, it could be when they needed literally anything else.

You can not like someone that's fine. But block and move on

it doesn't matter if you're trolling, it's still hate

Block and move on

[johnlennonsspells]

I'm in a mood to see men get dragged so

[cashmoneyyysstuff]

hey just a reminder that the words "please" and "thank you" exist !!

[dinosaurwithablog]

Happy Earth Day!!! 🌎

Be kind to our planet and take care of the Earth!! Please 🙏🏼 We have been blessed with a gorgeous and abundant world. Let's be kind to it and respectfully use the gifts that it provides. 😁😍 🌎 💙💚💙

[booksandbrainsandsoftthings]

A fresh new infomercial brought to you by a raging Chad at my State Fair this afternoon!

1) In the US, service animals may legally be worked off leash if the leash interferes with the dog's tasks, or the handlers disability. The dog must remain under complete handler control

2) The only people legally allowed to question the legitimacy of service dogs are employees/staff/owners of businesses/venues/events. They may ask and expect answers to the 2 ADA questions. Random other patrons are not owed answers by handlers.

3) There is no specific gear required to determine the legitimacy of a SD team. Amazon vests, leash wraps, fully custom gear, vest provided by organizations, and unlabeled service dogs can all be legitimate teams under US law.

4) Accusing a service dog team you've never seen before of being fake is incredibly insulting and rude. Do not do this. People who do this are assholes.

5) If you are not familiar with service dog laws, do more research before you speak to teams about legalities and their legitimacy in public. Ada.gov is free and has an FAQ section that answers a LOT of the basic SD inquiries.

[explore4adventures]

So Tired Of Blogs Without Ages…

I Shouldn’t Need To Ask For Your Age, So If You Really Want To Follow My Blog Then …

BE 2️⃣1️⃣☝️& List It.

Or 👇

Tell The Truth, It’s Pretty Easy 👆🏻

H O N E S T Y 💯

[thatsamerica76]

[silverechosandblankmasks]

This is def not an attack!! But like;

People who make content/talk specially about Bad Boys and Roomies but don't include Grian really like, confuse me? (Specifically, people who either talk about or make stuff around the dynamics of the series they were in but don't include Grian while still calling them Bad Boys and Roomies)

Don't get me wrong, Grian is not everyone's little guy and I know him being "everywhere" can be a bit tiring for some, and that's so valid!

But like, it's not Bad Boys or Roomies without Grian?? It's Jimmy&Joel and Etho&Cleo then. The reason those are the dynamics and named for those dynamics is because Grian adds to it, he's just not there standing in a corner while they do stuff ya know?

There's nothing wrong with preferring those pairs and being happy these team ups provide them, but you really can't fully remove Grian from these dynamics without destroying how the team is. He was a structural part of Jimmy&Joel's Limited Life experiences, he was a structural part of Etho&Cleo's Secret Life experiences.

I'll refrain from going all analysis on Grian's relationships in the Life Series and the people he teams with for another day, but yee I just wanted to ramble about what iv noticed recently.