#Be the bigger person

[ct-cactus]

I’ve been without ao3 for too long that I’ve resorted to using fanfiction.net again.

I refuse to stoop to the level of wattpad. Sixth grade me was not prepared. I will not make the same mistake again.

[euesworld]

"Be the bigger person, be a gentle giant.. cause all of that love that flows through you can't be denied. Be patient, it's a virtue.. and who knows, good things may come to you. But even if they don't come in the ways that you wanted, be thankful for that love.. not everyone has the capacity to love the way you can. Life is hard, but it makes like harder for everyone else when you don't walk with love.."

All you can really do is try, can't ask any more of yourself until you are there - eUë

[answersfromzestual]

This is to all the young ones out there.

If you see someone struggling, be nice and help.

All it takes is one kind soul to change someone's life or even save their life.

Bullying is out of control, but what's more out of control is people standing by and knowing what's going on with this person and watching them drown... stand up for your classmates, stand up for people who are bullied, stand up for the kid that is always picked on, try and talk to the loner kid who is always alone.

You could save a life by just acknowledging someone exists.

In university, I was taught that people who stand by are just as guilty as the bullies.

Please, instead of lashing out at dangerous strangers (even online), stand up for someone in your class.

Please...

High-school is hard for everyone. You are finding yourselves. You have the hormones going through all of you. Be kind and be the bigger person.

It is a reward in itself to be the one to make someone smile.

Please be kind, don't stand by and watch your classmates get hurt or worse.

Everyone has crap in their lives, be the person to send love vibes to the world. Be the change we all need.

I've had colleagues lose as young as 12 year old students because there was no love in their lives, they committed suicide... They just wanted to be accepted and loved...

[perfecttragedyflower]

Being the bigger person sucks

[sensitivesublime]

[ps1demodisk]

"Be the bigger person" is a phrase made by bigots to downplay the impact of a situation and place the blame on the victim.

When people treat victims like the problem because they wouldn't back down or drop a situation, they are siding with the perpetrator.

Example with ableism, everything always gets uncomfortable that the disabled person refuses to just sit quietly when people straight up mock their disability or even claim it's not real. "Be the bigger person" "stop dragging it out" "just leave if you're uncomfortable", but a disabled person being rightfully upset at ableism is not and never will be an issue.

If you're uncomfortable with the victim for not silently taking shit from people, take a real long look at yourself, because you're not being "neutral" there, you're siding with the perpetrator. You're just as bad as the perpetrator.

This goes for all types of oppression, not just ableism.

[blogofthegreenman]

Fuck off with the be the bigger person. like dude go apeshit be the little devil you want to be.

[laski-and-sage]

Anderson: Just be the bigger person and walk away...

Seras, looking up to him: I'm not sure if this should be a helpful comment or a innuendo-

[twinkdrama]

don’t be the bigger person today, be the problem

[powerin]

solidarity forever means solidarity forever!

[sunflowerfizz]

[genericpuff]

starting 2024 off on a good fucking note

snoozing tumblr live PERMANENTLY 👏👏👏

[fr3nchtoastcrunch]

"Be the bigger person" my ass.

[witchfulthinker]

I don't want to be the bigger person

Unspilled secrets on my lips

Scathe my tongue and fingertips

Every time I touch a pen

They come rising up again.

The abusers and users I've let roam free

Despite all that they've done to me

Because I'm afraid of facing them again

Or outcomes undetermined that could roll in

I bite my lip and roll my eyes

As you sit pretty on a throne of lies

You're everything that I despise

I need to let it all go because I may die

Under anesthesia and a surgeons knife

You purposely ruined my life

So I keep debating spilling the tea

To your whole fucking family

I'm a petty bitch in the end

And I'd hate to let a meerkat lookin bitch win

This debate swirls round and round my brain

To be the bigger person?

To walk away?

Or to make sure if I die

karma is fucking swift

Or you're left with a bitter gift

The same one that you gave to me

Would that make us the same kind of shitty?

I don't want to be the bigger person

But I really do

It's just such a fucking struggle

When it comes to YOU

[keenflowercupcake]

How cool should you be?

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[barblaz-arts]

When Gomez Addams obsesses over his tol goth wife who he calls a million pet names, everyone calls them couple goals. But when a gay lil angel does the same thing for her tol demon gf suddenly it's toxic? As if Charlie isn't such a huge enough sweetheart to deserve having someone fawn over her anyways.