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#Femme problems
Me in the morning: putting on makeup is so time-consuming, is this even worth it?
Me during the day: yeah okay I actually love how I look with eyeliner and eyeshadow gives me another palette for fashion and color expression, I look hot, I'll keep doing this I think
Me having to actually remove the makeup before sleeping and it's already well past when I should sleep: I hate this, I'm never doing this again
Me the next morning: putting on makeup is so time-consuming, is this even worth it?
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fairy-switchblade · 9 months
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I’ve noticed over the years that other people will say things to me about my butch/femme dynamic, my identity as a femme, or even my partner that are just… passive aggressive at best, evil at worst.
Things like “omg, you’re into butches? I could never! wow!” “aw thats so brave of you” (???) “They are sooo lucky to have you” (I understand how usually this is meant well but contextually, this was clearly meant to imply they’re lucky to get a woman that looks like me at all) “ooof… why?” “The sex must be so good/bad/awful/great/weird/normal/kinky/boring”
And all I can hear is yet another dig at the butch lesbian community disguised as an inquisitive remark directed towards me. They imply that I’m sacrificing so much in order to be with my butch partner, that it must be so hard. They find it so difficult to imagine that I could genuinely find my partner attractive that they have to invent other reasons for my being with them. They find ways to imply I’m being abused. It’s always clearly a problem they have with butches- and it makes me wonder, would you ever say this to my partner?
Or have you somehow got the impression that you can say these things to me, in confidence? That you can safely vent your backwards opinions onto me, the slightly less threatening one? The feminine and therefore (according to you) more socially acceptable one? Did you think I would sympathise and be sweet? Like mommy?
Go fuck yourself, and get out of my partners way. I’m not explaining our happiness if it’s beyond your capacity to understand. Thanks.
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glazed-with-frost · 3 months
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Me @ myself when I’m crushing hard on the cute butch enby at lush but can’t make a move bc it’s inappropriate to hit on somebody at work!!
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honeylove · 8 months
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the urge to just quit my job and start an onlyfans gets stronger every day
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junkdyke · 2 years
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men r incapable of taking a hint, bc no matter how obviously disinterested you are, they truly believe they are still getting somewhere
one guy guided me by the waist OUT of the moshpit (while i was still moshing???) another guy grabbed my arm to twist it around and look at my tattoos after telling me he "liked my vibe" and another dumb ass dude wrapped his arm around my neck with his hot, musty breath in my face, i think i just need to be more violent honestly
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sparklyslug · 2 years
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You know a fic concept has you REAL excited when you’re like “whelp guess I’m taking these press-on nails off when I get home I’m gonna type like the WIND”
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I just want sum :
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`·.. p `·... u `·.. s `·.. s `·.. y
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pinklavenderdoll · 2 months
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sueeeehay · 5 months
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Literally my life ever since I became single 🙄🙄🙄
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trans-androgyne · 7 months
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“Women and non-binary people” stop. Do you mean people with marginalized genders? Do you mean gender-oppressed people? Then say that. Stop refusing to recognize the very much gendered oppression of other trans people. There’s not some chasm of difference between how our oppressors treat a very masc non-binary person and a more binary trans man. I’m also non-binary and very much oppressed for my gender but because I’m transmasculine I could never feel comfortable in a space that marketed itself like that. Tell me what the real harm is of letting gender-oppressed mascs into spaces discussing gender oppression is. Because the consequence of not doing so is denying them space for their experiences just because of their gender identity. Do better.
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robinspinknest · 3 months
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Anyone ever hang out with a friend a couple times and then find out a week later—from a mutual friend—that you guys are dating? This is why I need to stop paying for my friends’ coffee
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bambibells · 1 year
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valledeliria · 1 year
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wbbgetsmewetter · 2 months
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do you love me enough to clean my glasses when my shirt isn’t the right fabric?
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shelbzzzthestallion · 2 months
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Faded thoughts 💭: Want a pretty naked girl in my lap, cockwarmimg me while we share joint after joint. Just groping and rubbing all over your body, running my hands up and down your spine until I reach your pretty ass and give it a hard smack to stop you from grinding on me without permission. Sucking on your pretty tits and slightly moving my hips against your stationary ones just to hear you whimpering and begging for me to fuck you. Want to make out with you when I finally give you permission to start fucking yourself on me. Want to make it hard for you to keep kissing me while we fuck each other.
!!This post is about sapphic sex!!
Men and Minors DNI
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