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Formula 1 - Incorrect Quote 214
Charles: Are we still on for tomorrow?
Max: You mean for our wedding?
Charles: I’m just making sure
#I mean is a valid question#Yeah I love the ao3 where they get married I NEED MORE RECOMMENDATIONS PLEASE#formula 1 incorrect quotes#formula 1 imagine#formula 1#formula one#F1#f1 2025#f1 incorrect quotes#f1 imagine#incorrect quotes#quotes#lestappen being lestappen#lestappen incorrect quotes#lestappies#lestappen#1633#max verstappen#charles leclerc
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#interview with the vampire#iwtvedit#iwtvsource#dailyflicks#televisongifs#userspicy#userkareena#userrenee#userlaro#userelio#tuserkatherine#kallypsos#userbunneis#userfinches#userthing#cinematv#tvedit#lestat de lioncourt#louis de pointe du lac#*#i mean... this is louis. it's a valid question
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How exactly is being otherkin any different than being transracial by idea? I’m not pro-transracial, but I can’t really formulate an argument on where the difference is and why one is okay while the other isn’t
The difference, in my opinion at least, basically comes down to the fact that race and ethnicity are things other real people deal with and which have big cultural impact for a lot of people; species is not. You can't hurt theriform wolves by identifying as a wolf because wolves are not people and are not aware of any of this. Dragons may be people depending on the dragon, but they don't exist physically in this world to have an opinion. You can, however, hurt people of color by identifying as transethnicity and approaching it in a disrespectful way.
And I say it that way because if I'm honest, transethnicity is one of those transIDs where I'm... a little torn on it. I can understand the feelings and experiences they're describing, but I struggle to find a way to engage with the idea of being transethnicity that isn't going to wind up being racist in one way or another. And while I haven't exactly spent a ton of time in radqueer/transID spaces, when I've gone into their tags and such to do a little research on them, I have overwhelmingly seen transethnicity people being kind of if not extremely racist about it. The experiences are not inherently harmful, but it's really easy to slide into engaging with those experiences in a way that's harmful.
And yet... in this community we have, for example, fictionkin whose fictotypes are a different race than them all the time, and sometimes that's very important to who their fictotype is and how they view the world. And that works out fine. I think the primary difference is that fictionkin are generally expected to acknowledge that they're not a part of that group in the present and can't speak on the group's issues or experiences as if they were, whereas the minute you put a trans- label onto the word, the expectation is that you should be treating a trans[x] person as if they're [x]. (And if it's not, then... why are you calling it trans- anything to begin with when that's what trans- means in an identity context?)
So, I do genuinely believe that they're having these experiences, but... idk, there has to be a better way to frame and engage with those experiences. I don't know what that is, but it's got to be out there somewhere, though it may not be a one-size-fits-all answer. (And maybe there's a transID community out there that's found it, I don't know.)
Anyway, open invitation for POC to give their thoughts on this, since they've probably got better-constructed ones than me; if I'm honest, I haven't spent all that much time thinking about this issue. I think about it on and off here and there when it comes up and then it gives me a headache so I move on.
#otherkin#rani talks#asked and answered#anonymous#my opinion on transid stuff kind of boils down to just#50% of it is 'do you know you're allowed to just want things?' (transoccupation; transhaircolor; etc)#30% of it is 'you are almost certainly not trans[x] you're just [x] and are gatekeeping yourself/enshrining questioning doubt -#- as part of your identity instead of getting over it' (for the last time you cannot be transotherkin. you're just otherkin. it's okay)#(see also transplural and a lot of transabled)#10% of it is 'oh my gods you should under no circumstances be making that part of your identity' (transharmful; transabuser)#and 10% of it is this 'your experiences are real but there's gotta be a better way to engage with them than this' (transethnicity; transage#a LOT of it is just... why do you feel the need to put EVERY aspect of yourself through a trans lens#it doesn't have to be trans to be valid. you can just want things. in some cases you can just Be Things#anyway. that's my ramble for the day#transid#transethnicity#i am intentionally using that term preferentially bc i know transrace can mean something non-transid#just for the record on why i made that change from your original phrasing#anyway. brace for 48 hours of arguing about radqueer stuff in my notes and inbox o7
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Nature of the Arcane- Positive and Negative Energy
(For reference, Arcane = the series; arcane = the magic) Come help me figure out how the heck the magic system of Arcane works.
What is the anomaly? Why was it born? Why is it that other mages in the series don't seem to cause anomalies, but Hextech does?
I refuse to be content with a magic=good or magic=bad explanation, and Arcane loves to play with nuance. I was trying to sort out my thoughts on why some magic has bad side effects while others don't, and this is where I'm sitting now. My (spit-balled, half-baked, and probably leaking) thesis:
The arcane/using magic has 2 separate outputs: the order you placed (Hextech) and the resulting exhaust (wild runes; the anomaly). Hextech can use runes to control magic, but there's a second output of natural, wild magical energy, that Hextech doesn't account for. Both of these energies can build up, and when they're reunited, they have explosive reactions (see: Mage Viktor's world, the final blip that takes Jayce and Viktor, and possibly various smaller explosions throughout the series).
For example, when positive and negative charges meet, lightning strikes.
Justification below the cut.
Science break! Ever been shocked by static electricity? That's because of a buildup of one charge, say positive, on you, and a buildup of negative charge on another object. Nature loves balance, so when you two touch, the charges discharge in a shock that connects the positive and negative charges and allows them to balance out. Size this idea up big enough, and you get lightning- powerful, fast, and destructive.
More importantly though, you can't just charge positive energy, without also charging negative energy at the same time- creating one by necessity creates the other, so that there's an overall balance of electricity types (hey look, a metaphor, creating one inevitably leads to the other…).
Let's carry this idea over to the arcane. What if there's a 'positive' magic and a 'negative' magic output?
(Note, I use the electricity words here intentionally- positive/negative do not mean in a cosmic/moral/ethical way, but in a scientific, 'hey we need 2 connected words to separate these concepts' sort of way.)
Positive: Hextech; runes; the intended output. Teleportation, levitation, everything we see it accomplish.
Negative: the wild rune, the anomaly; the unintended output.
And, when the two come together, lightning strikes.
Lightning 1- Viktor vs Ekko's Z-drive. Viktor spends S2 becoming a centralized conduit of 'positive' magic, via the Hexcore and top ups from the crystals under the Hexgates. As the Machine Herald, the claw is continually using runes and doing magic behind him. In short, he's been building up a lot of positive magical energy. When Ekko chucks the Z-drive at him, it's powered by an anomaly, or 'negative' magical energy. Put the two forces together, and let the fireworks happen; a part of the Machine Herald's mask gets struck off in the blast. (But the Z-drive has less negative energy than Viktor's positive, so it doesn't totally wipe him out.)
Lightning 2- Viktor and Jayce's rainbow time. Jayce's acceleration rune might be the negative magical energy in this case (since it travels with him via Mage Viktor's anomaly), paired with the anomaly that Viktor grabbed beneath the Hexgate. That works in opposition to Viktor's compiled positive magical energy via the Hexcore and similar products. With these together, the balance between positive and negative is reached, achieving net neutral magic dispersion, and of course, an implosion that sucks in (or teleports, we can be happy) Jayce and Viktor, ending the conflict.
Perhaps in Mage Viktor's timeline, a similar explosion occurs, resulting in the destruction that we see Jayce traverse in the alternate timeline. But in the main timeline, Jayce and Viktor were able to contain that explosive potential to just themselves, via Jayce's acceleration rune.
"Pass me a tome" Jayce's (quoting Viktor) explanation of the anomaly/wild rune (S2:E3)
Jayce says that Viktor theorized that wild runes are "patterns that would occur naturally where the border between our world and the Arcane is thin." By the theory, wild runes are expressions of magic not quantifiable by traditional runes- natural outputs of magic that are uncontrollable and untamable.
This still works with my positive vs negative theory- it's just that Hextech, and by extension the boys, are only viewing it from the perspective of positive energy (they accessed magic, but really only half of it). From that view, negative charge, which they can't interpret why it's building up or that it even is, might look pretty wild and untamable- however, we see mages control this negative magical energy. Mage Viktor uses the anomaly to send Jayce back to his timeline. The Machine Herald is able to transport it and start to destroy/convert the world.
Because it's still a useable product, so long as you understand what it actually is, I'm not fully content to say that the anomaly is an entirely wild thing, or an unpredictable force. It's possible that Mage Viktor intentionally manipulated it to send Jayce, Ekko, and Heimerdinger to their temporary alternate universes to set in motion events to save the main timeline. I think the anomaly definitely has somewhat volatile characteristics, a bit more chaotic perhaps, but it's still controllable.
(Additionally, Ekko breaks time using both hex shards (assuming they're still in the Z-drive, I'm not sure off the top of my head), and a tiny anomaly. The fact that he's able to control it to a degree also shows that the anomaly is not fully wild and untamable.)
I suppose my overarching feeling is that the anomaly is not necessarily better or worse, or more dangerous, than the 'positive' magic of Hextech- it's just a different, inevitable byproduct of magic use.
Then why don't mages cause anomalies and 'lightning strikes'?
Simple- they know how to account for both positive and negative energy in their spellwork. They know how to equate a balance, so nothing blows up in their faces.
Granted, the only mages we really see in Arcane are Mel, the Black Rose, and Mage Viktor, and the only real discussions we get about magic is from either the Hextech nerds or Heimerdinger, who may not be working with the full picture of how the arcane works. Our sources with regards to actual mage work in Arcane are pretty thin (and I probably need to rewatch Mel's S2 scenes).
But the Black Rose mentions as Mel leaves that (paraphrased) 'it's a dangerous world out there for a solitary mage.' This seems to imply that mages work best in collaboration- perhaps that allows for a balance between positive and negative energies, preventing 'lightning strikes.'
The real point- The Need for Collaboration
While the obvious theme to be drawn from this is the need for balance, another interesting one is the need for collaboration. If mages in Arcane indeed do work together to prevent destructive magical fallout, this again points back to a core element of Arcane's relationships:
Things (magic in particular) work best in collaboration.
That's how the boys crack Hextech
That's how Jinx and Vi start to bring Vander back and reconcile
That's how Viktor and Sky work in the commune
That's how Ekko, Powder, and Heimerdinger crack Hextech again
That's how Caitlyn and Ambessa start to work, and how the lack of honest collaboration exposes Ambessa's selfish gains and weakens Caitlyn emotionally and politically
That's how Mel literally does everything politically (and why her arc narratively suffers when she's on her own against the Black Rose for so long [I still love her tho])
That's how Piltover and Zaun fend off Ambessa's assault
That's how Viktor and Jayce end it- together.
More assorted thoughts on this topic:
This theory somewhat requires that the arcane is not conscious, not retaliating for Hextech using magic improperly, which is debatable. The Black Rose says "the arcane is waking up," which could imply a sentient force, or simply a natural force like how the world 'wakes up' to spring after winter. Ekko also claims that Jayce 'pissed off' the arcane, which Jayce is cutely embarrassed about, which is a possibility, but not one that I'm getting into here- it's entirely possible that Ekko is also wrong! Jayce and Viktor frequently are! (also, the hexcore being sentient does not necessarily mean that the arcane is sentient- Viktor describes it as a learning matrix, so it could very much be a Flubber situation. He done taught the rubix cube science before ethics.)
As Viktor brings Jayce up to the top of the Hexgate, Viktor winds the anomaly in his staff and talks about the balance between order and chaos- maybe positive magic is one and negative the other?
@avelera and @linddzz were throwing around some awesome thoughts similar to this strain, including how it looks like Mage Viktor 'cleans up' the smoke output of the spell in the snowstorm. Their theory is that what I call positive and negative energy is actually constructive vs destructive force in equal output from the Arcane, and that balance between those two types is needed (i.e. if you want magic to do what you want, you also need to let it blow up some stuff) which would also explain what I've called lightning here. Definitely worth a read!
There are so many holes in this theory, but I still wanted to organize my thoughts about the anomaly, Hextech, and how Arcane tells the audience to view magic. In S1, Hextech is all good and great, possibly dangerous, but in S2, Hextech and its byproducts are all infectious, destructive, and never productive. I found the switch a little jarring, and went searching for a deeper meaning.
Also… does this mean that Arcane is actually a big metaphor for the dangers and impacts of technological advancement on natural society and how Mother Nature will come back to bite us all in the butt? Has Arcane been a secret Ghibli film all along???
#arcane#arcane meta#viktor arcane#jayce talis#ekko arcane#I guess I'll tag#jayvik#Since I know fic writers are having the same questions as me#hextech#hextech meta#mage viktor#If you've got thoughts to expand on this please be my guest#I need not validation I just need this out of my head#I just felt so weird about the way they treated magic S1 vs S2#Like I want the magic to be fun and cool whyyyy is it moldy and infecting things! it makes me sad!#Yes I understand that it's part of a greater nuanced conversation about how progress today can mean destructive impacts on tomorrow#Because Arcane is usually good at nuance#But I want happy magic time!#And I don't dislike that Mel is a mage#it just seemed kind of sudden and very underexplained#But she did get a great fight scene as a mage tho!#Give my girl more political manipulations to be doing!
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This has probably been discussed to death before ... but what is the symbolism behind Envy having his Ouroboros tattoo on his thigh and Wrath on his eye?
It probably has, though tbh I've never really read any theories/meta about it.
I think some of the places are symbolically related in some way to the sin (Lust's on her cleavage, Gluttony's on his tongue), but I ALSO think that a bit of it is that every homunculus needed one in a visually distinct place and you're going to run out of places that have some kind of symbolic meaning.
I think Envy's is mostly a visual/aesthetic choice. The placement ties into their outfit design and is unique to them, but doesn't really have any deeper meaning (at least, that I can read into it.)
With Wrath, I think it's both unique AND makes for a fun visual reveal when we first see King Bradley's eyepatch removed.
I'm sure someone COULD read something more meaningful into it, but I honestly don't. I think it's more about visuals/the cool reveal.
But interesting question! Thanks for asking! :) If anyone else has some other thoughts, let me know
#this could go into a further discussion of how meaning in stories isn't always about symbolism#sometimes an intentional choice IS about how something works as a visual or in some other storytelling sense and not just#symbolically#but that's not because of your question that's bc it's a thought i keep nibbling on in fandom spaces as someone who was an english major#who also writes#I have a LOT to say about how meaning in storytelling isn't always about symbols#sometimes "oh this character looks so dramatic and interesting with an eyepatch and later on it's going#to get ripped off to reveal!!!! the tattoo“ is just as valid as ”oh it's on gluttony's tongue bc it symbolizes gluttony“#you know?#anyways left that in the tags bc it isn't exactly an answer to your question lol it's just my philosophy on storytelling#bc I will forever be an English Major lol#ask#fma meta
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I don't think actors should be forced / manipulated / cajoled / pushed into stories they don't want to do nor do I think they should have to give an explanation as to why they don't want to do it. I have a lot to say on this subject
#The intimacy and creativity of acting in Hollywood specifically has gotten lost to its commodification#but acting is still an art. Acting is still a deeply personal experience in which the actors in question reach within themselves as a means#to present a complete and vulnerable human on screen. To force someone to do that... to dance for a violent and fickle audience... is so#unspeakably cruel to me. We live in a world that's been stripped of all nuance. You're either “good” or you're “bad” and if you make a#choice that the masses don't agree with you are required to give a step by step explanation detailing why#(often with the inclusion of personal details to “validate” your decision)#otherwise you're “bad.”#It's such a somber and bleak world we're living in. In all ways but especially from an artistic perspective.#Things are so ugly out here and they're only getting uglier and more hostile for those who exist to create.#Anyway. As I said. I have many thoughts on this topic.
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I am really confused about this game. Is it like "Doki doki literature club" ? the game seems to break the fourth wall after getting bad endings and someone speaks in red text. Is it Ren and is he stuck in the game like Monica?Or is he and Redacted separate people, with him being a game character,but Redacted being some sort of entity who's stuck in the void of the game,or in it's code,and acknowledges that it's a game and someone's playing it and they speak to the player, not the game's protag?
✦゜ANSWERED: 14 Days With You is like 14 Days With You. It's not meant to be similar to DDLC in any way, and Ren isn't supposed to be like Monika or any other self-aware character.
Please don't associate 14DWY with other games just because they share similar tropes. /lh
But!! To answer your question: Ren isn't aware that Angel and the player are separate people. As of right now, he considers Angel and you as the same entity, and speaks to you as though you're part of his universe.
Ren is aware that his entire existence only comes into fruition whenever you play the game — but to him, that's considered normal — the same way getting wifi from trees and not discovering 80% of the ocean is considered normal for us. Nothing is out of place for him, and the way he interacts with his environment doesn't seem weird or out of place for him.
The Dead Ends are the only time Ren breaks the fourth wall, but it's still a massive WIP and there's not enough content for it to make much sense yet. But once more Days get released, this will be further explained!!
#I know you mean well with your question but I've constantly had 14DWY be compared to other games simply because they have similar vibes#It's extremely disheartening and makes it seem like all my efforts in creating my own unique lore/universe can only be valid-#-or recognised if they meet another game's expectations. It's a toxic mentality to have and I hate having it be forced upon me.#I'm not trying to make a DDLC inspired game or be put in the same box. I'm trying to make my own unrelated game in my own personal space#I wish people would recognised 14DWY as it's own seperate entity and not some knock off yandere game that shares tropes with other games ;_#Okay rant over T_T I am going 2 sleep now skhgbs /lh#WAIT I LIED I also quickly wanna mention that I don't like it when other people compare games to 14DWY as well!!!!!#I don't own the yandere/glitch trope; other people are allowed to use it!!#So don't compare 14DWY to other games as well (unless it's like a direct rip off of 14DWY.... That's completely different)#OKAY NOW I honk mimimimimi since it's 4am GOODNIGHT lmaooo zzz#💌 — answered.#🖤 — shut up sai.#💖 — 14 days with queue.
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i miss carpisuns sometimes </3
#not necessarily that I regret switching over but i just get like nostalgic for an earlier time in the ml fandom#s3 was soooo much fun for me#and the long hiatus before s4 was also the best. so good wasn’t ready for it to end when it did haha#things just feel so different in the fandom now#both the fandom has changed and I have changed#and of course the STORY has changed#and I like don’t know what to do about that or how to react#cause I am used to being one of the guys who is defending ml’s honor with my life lol#committed to spreading positivity#and I still want to be that guy!#but it’s like. idk. I don’t recognize this story anymore#this isn’t the same story that I fell in love with years ago. but I don’t want to just like Leave??#I do want to see how things play out bc I am still invested in these characters#and I would love to still be part of the fan community and connect with people over a mutual love for this thing#that has been important to me for years and has inspired me to create and learn new skills and make new friends!#but I also don’t just want to shut up and pretend I’m happy about things I am decidedly unhappy about lol#like it’s honestly surprising to me that a only a small minority of the fandom seems to feel the way I do?#and the majority are still super pumped and frustrated at the people who are complaining#and really. I don’t WANT to rain on anyone’s parade. I honestly don’t#I was part of the parade for years! I had the best time in the parade! I don’t want to ruin the good time!#so i try not to be too salty on main ? but i feel like I’m going a little crazy lmao! like I’m just one bitter little miser fhdjjd#i mean i guess it’s kind of a good thing that I moved blogs tbh lol#cause now when i whine only a fraction of the people have to be exposed to it 😂#but man i hate knowing that people might think of me as a salter#I mean it’s valid if people are trying to have fun and do not want to hear my complaining haha#but also do i automatically have to be a salter. are the only options support and defend ml 100% at all times or Be A Salter#or can there be a third category of certified ml lover that is just disappointed in recent events & disagrees with the new writing direction#is that too much nuance for tumblr lol#see maybe that’s why I miss carpisuns. she didn’t have to ask this question. she was only full of LOVE!#but therein lies the irony…like marinette I have made this choice out of love…for what the story once was…what is to become of me now…
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who gave me access to a phone at 6am in the morning
#i just woke up and i just. See this#i mean#valid question but bestie what#ortega#fhr#ig#pulp speaks
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if tma is only recorded in tapes, could you say it's an analog horror?
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before I started teaching I was neutral-to-positive when people would say things to me like “you should start a podcast or run a Serious Writing Blog” and now if you catch me doing either of those things I want you to take me out back and shoot me
#I used to think that would be a Fine thing for me to do#and now I’m so aware of what a profound waste of time and evil that would be#because I didn’t understand how powerful context is for speaking#until I had the right one!#tumblr a liminal space tbh#bc it’s processing/complaining/storytelling/chattering/memes#but even here it’s been so nice to move away from trying to speak with Authority#but yeah. also one time a family friend of ours asked me to come to her house and talk Dante with her and some friends#and I had just finished it#with my seniors#and it was this shocking moment where I realized that not only would I one million times rather read Dante’s inferno with cranky teenagers#than sit around discussing it with an assorted group of intellectuals#but that it struck me as so much more valid to be doing it in a classroom#and it really does strike me as so much more valid. I can’t even fully explain why#I don’t want to go so far as to say the assorted group of intellectuals shouldn’t be reading Dante together#because how could I say that? but emotionally. instinctively. I hate the idea of the assorted intellectuals so much#I shy away from it like you would not believe#but honestly leaving aside the question of which one is more valid as an objective thing to answer#(I think it’s the classroom and I think I could find many reasons for saying so)#but leaving it aside. I simply would be useless at an assorted group of intellectuals#I would shut down. I would be miserable. I would be boring#and I don’t mean socially! cause I would try to be polite!!!!!#but as an intellect!!!!!!!! I would become mute!!!! I would have nothing to say!!!!!!!!!#and there would be no teacher for me to listen to!!!!! only a conflicting babel of (probably the most annoying and wrong) voices#you’ve ever heard in your life#this is how I feel about podcasts too. I had a girl record one of my lectures last year#(it was super upsetting actually)#and she was always like ‘you have to start a podcast’#‘I would listen to you forever’#and honestly it’s like. girl the wit only flows in the classroom. I can’t turn it on and off! certainly not for strangers.
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Miku killed Tyler 😭
He's fine.
#Idk what this ask means but who am I to question the validity of anon's claim 🤷♀️#total drama#td tyler#hatsune miku#ophe doodles#shitposting#replies
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In musical AU: H&MG edition, Cady will obviously ask Veronica, "Why do you look so much like my girlfriend?".
It's ironic because Janis and Veronica are played by the same actress in the musicals.
#heathers#heathers musical#mean girls#mean girls musical#veronica sawyer#cady heron#janis sarkisian#janis ian#janis imi'ike#janis mention#cadnis#cady x janis#janis x cady#cadnis mention#It's funny thing#According to the musical Cady will obviously befriend someone who looks like her girlfriend.#It's silly question cady but pretty valid I suppose#Janis is Veronica's lost emo sister /j#crossover#AU: H&MG
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do we think chris still makes celia macaroni art despite pushing thirty or do we think it's just the songs and poems that he's making for her as a grown ass man
#i'm back from helping my mom clean and this is what i have to say glksdajfklds#i feel like it's a valid question though i mean his love for her is incredibly childlike. 2 me#the goes wrong show#chris bean#celia bean#chris&celia#marshy speaks
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kayla asked me if they had magneto x professor x doujins and i laughed at her like 'what of course they do' but now that i think of it DO they have magneto x professor x *doujinshi...
#snap chats#*thats not movieverse#sorry. i just really wanna know if people fuckin with comicverse or tas like that... ik theres movieverse stuff#kayla im sorry for laughing at you its just too easy to do i forget you ask valid questions sometimes#LIKE I'M ASSUMIMG SO ITS BEEN SIX DECADES??? SURLEY THERES GOTTA BE /ONE/#i dont browse like that anymore so.. idk..... maybe...#i mean a doujin doesnt specifically have to be from japan it just means 'self published' right....#not that jp doesnt enjoy cherik over there but you know what i mean#im done thiking about this. if anyone got any links tho...#dont send it to me i told myself i wouldnt buy anything until july EJRALKGJALKJ but i would like to k now anyway...
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"But are you sure you're aroace?"
*glances at a tiny bit of the sheer amount of research, self reflection of parts of me I had been repressing for years, and self doubt I went through to figure out my identity*
"Yeah, pretty sure."
#aromantic#asexual#aspec#neon's void#istg ppl just assume we wake up and decide we are aspec#like NO figuring that shit was one of the hardest and scariest parts of my life#it took months for me to get to a place I was even willing to consider the possibility#and months after that to do any serious research into what they really mean#and months after that to start using the labels#(not to say that if you just wake up and know you aren't valid just that that is not my personal experience...#...and the invalidation based on that concept mostly rolls off me because of how intensely I questioned)
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