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Gideon Coal x Reader
Fandom: Legends of Avantris (Once Upon a Witchlight)
Characters: Gideon Coal, mentions of Gricko Grimgrin and Morning Frost
Rating: Teen? Mentions of violence but nothing too major- just some angsty fluff I might revisit with some ~less innocent~ themes later
Words: 726
This has been in my head for about a week now and I don’t think it’s finished yet, but we also need more content in the LoA fandom and I am here to provide
The Krew had stumbled into the Feywild outpost the night before, run ragged by their latest monster encounter. Gideon had been roughed up pretty severely, but thanks to the expertise of Gricko and Morning Frost, was only experiencing a ghost of the pain.
After a night of rest he supposed everyone was feeling more themselves. They were off pursuing their own pleasures, exploring what the outpost had to offer.
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Gideon tried not to be too obvious as he watched you from across the bar. He always thought you were beautiful, but with the dirt and blood from the journey washed off, he couldn’t keep his eyes off you.
Your auburn hair caught the dim light in the bar as you danced around, listening to the trio of bards performing. Another patron next to you said something and Gideon watched, unable to hear your voices, as you threw your head back and laughed.
A pang of jealousy stabbed at Gideon’s chest as he watched the scene unfold. He should be the one making that laugh erupt from you- not some stranger in the Feywild. He knocked back the last sips of his whiskey, savoring the sting as it went down, and signaled the barkeep for another round.
He continued to watch you for a few more songs, the whiskey warming his already hot body. The music slowed as Gideon noticed a familiar emerald robe make its way towards you. Frost pulled down his hood when he reached you and Gideon watched as you rest your hands on his shoulders, preparing to dance with the Tabaxi. Suddenly, Gideon’s jealousy was warming him more than the whiskey was.
Gideon gripped Morning Frost by the scruff at the back of his neck, a little more aggressively than absolutely necessary, and your eyes widen. When you register that it’s Gideon who is tearing Frost away from you, a grin breaks out on your face. You send a mental thanks to the Tabaxi and he mirrors your smile as he leaves the tavern, most likely returning to his room to meditate.
“Feeling a little jealous, Gideon?”
“Huh? Wa- no!” He gently places his large hands on your waist and can feel the fire Genasi’s heat through your dress. “I just think that Frosty needs to keep his paws to himself.”
“And what about you? Do you need to keep your paws to yourself?” You place your hands on Gideon’s broad chest and look up at him.
“I don’t have paws,” Gideon huffs and pulls you closer to his body. You laugh and pull one of his hands up to yours.
“I don’t know Gid,” you line your hands up palm to palm and splay your fingers out. “Could’ve fooled me.”
Gideon looks at your small hand pressed up against his much larger one and entwines your fingers. He brings your hand to his face and kisses the back of it. You smile at him softly and lay your head against his chest. He rests his cheek on the top of your head and begins to sway the two of you to the gentle music, never letting go of your hand. You lose track of time, just enjoying each other’s company until the bards announce their last song.
“You really scared me out there Gideon,” you whisper and pull back from his embrace to look him in the eyes. “I wasn’t sure that Frost was going to get to you in time, or-or-or that Gricko had enough banañas left, a-a-and…”
Your words catch in your throat and tears prick your eyes.
“Hey, hey, hey now,” Gideon gathers you in his arms again and hugs you close, his mouth right above your ear as he says, “it’s okay. I’m here. I’m okay.”
You press your face into Gideon’s chest and sniffle, trying to regain your composure. The final song of the night ends with a flourish. Neither you or Gideon make a move to release the other.
“Stay with me?” Gideon’s voice is soft as he finally loosens his grip around your waist to look in your eyes. Your heart melts at the softness in his voice. You nod and let him guide you up the stairs to his room. It makes the simple act of opening the door more difficult than it needs to be, but you don’t let go of Gideon’s hand.
#gideon coal#morning frost#gricko grimgrin#legends of avantris#loa#fanfic#reader insert#fem reader#this is my first fanfic in a hot minute#I require validation#please and thank you#gideon coal x reader#once upon a witchlight#ouaw
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rin is just like me. i too would fold head first for the first person to give validation.
#the poppy war#fang runin#the burning god#the dragon republic#rf kuang#i require validation#academic validation#sweet sweet validation#praise#validation
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Can we take about how good cis men validation feels as a trans guy,lf you sort agree this post isn't for you but like getting validation from a cis man makes me feel ecstatic,putting on makeup just to hear a " you're pretty" or better yet them seeing me as a guy,I love it
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honestly craving some attention. where my future boyfriend at
#i need attention#who am i#why am i like dis#but literally#feeling needy#im lurking#where he at tho#needy girl hours#i require assistance#i require validation#in my feels#give me attention#give me love#send me dms#lets chat#please and thank you
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Henlo stinkies
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Why did you change it from hotmail, Microsoft? Am I not hot anymore? Do you not find me attractive?
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siobhan is working late and i require an attention cuz im needy
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I want validation for my art but I don't actually want to share any of it online, do you all see my goofy brains dilemma rn??
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The way Dead Boy Detectives handles queerness and labeling of sexuality is honestly so refreshing. The way it's handled makes is very obvious that it's not the kind of media in which characters are assumed straight until proven otherwise; the characters' sexualities are left undefined because the focus isn't on specific labels, it's on the relationships between characters.
As the show goes on, it becomes abundantly clear that the characters' sexualities are a non-factor. Sure, Jenny dates women, but a label is never put on that. Same with Edwin - he is clearly interested in men, but not once in the show is he labeled as gay. It's not necessary in either case; labeling these characters wouldn't add anything to their stories or character arcs. The show is completely relaxed about labels because they're almost never a part of or even relevant to the plot.
And so, in a show that is so utterly unconcerned with labels, it would also be exceeding strange to impose the label of "straight" on any character. Characters like Charles and Crystal, who clearly demonstrate attraction to the opposite gender, don't come across as strictly heterosexual, they come across as people experiencing human emotions. And a character like Niko, who never expresses romantic attraction to anyone, really can't be assumed heterosexual either, because it simply wouldn't be in line with what we know about her.
Heterosexuality never comes across as the default in this universe. It never seemed as if the writers automatically assumed any character, no matter how background, to be straight. Queerness is explored not as a defiance of the norm but as just another way of loving someone. In a world where being queer is always viewed as alternate or deviant, and where coming out is a lifelong process that begins again every time you meet someone new because you're always assumed cishet, this kind of complete abolishment of heteronormativity is a breath of fresh air. Seeing queerness handled in such a casual way onscreen honestly feels a little bit revolutionary.
#I would love to see gender be explored in this universe#maybe it's just me projecting but#I feel like it would be fascinating to see a character whose gender outside the binary was treated the same way queer sexuality was#just as another facet of life that doesn't require any particular notice#it would honestly be really validating#dead boy detectives#edwin payne#charles rowland#crystal palace#niko sasaki#jenny the butcher#jenny green
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#barty is being dramatic you say#i say that he 100% valid in being mad at regulus because i say so#also if someone has angered you most of the time you're 100% valid in being mad no matter the reason and you aren't required to just forgiv#and forget#perhaps i am just “prone to anger” as my therapist would say but anyway#barty crouch jr#evan rosier#marauders era#james potter#jegulus#dorcas meadowes#lily evans#marlene mckinnon#mary macdonald#marylily#rosekiller#pandora rosier#remus lupin#wolfstar#regulus black#peter pettigrew#sirius black#soc med#dorlene#soc med: growing sideways
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you know what i hate?
when bitches wobify Mu Qing and make him into a twink and i especially despise it when they do it for a ship with Feng Xin.
and okay he's not as muscular and more lean (hence being describes as looking scholarly) but do y'all fucking forget the man is a martial god in his own right? by no means is that man a damsel in distress that needs Feng Xin to constantly save him. he's smart, he's cunning and yeah he had a few vulnerable moments but by no means is he a poor wet meow meow he would kick your ass and laugh at you for being a failure. and yeah he's more lithe, especially when he's constantly next to Feng Xin who is kind of hypermasculine in fandom portrayals and impo (general "gigantic masculinity" anyone?) and those two are THE SAME FUCKING HEIGHT so why is Mu Qing always drawn to be much shorter than Feng Xin. and also maybe let's factor in the fact that Mu Qing was poor when growing and likely had to go without food so the lack of proper food while growing probably had an effect on his development(this just a hc btw but still it tracks). also this whole thing kind of smells really bad when people take Mu Qing, who is described as scholarly, and feminise him. it's really giving "EUGH!!! school is for girls!! only boys play sports!! academics=lame, feminine girly, war=cool, MASCULINE, done by REAL MEN URGH!!!"
y'all saw a man who is a war good who doesn't conform to your idea of a "war god" and went "no❤️that one is a femboi catboi twink who gets bent over by that one who DOES conform to my basic, no nuance idea of a war god"
get bent xoxo
#my post#get bent#impo means in my personal opinion btw#feng xin#mu qing#mxtx#mxtx tgcf#tgcf#ditto rambles#incoherent with rage#i hate it here sometimes#why can't feminine men exist without being turned into femboys#i hate femboys#mu qing isn't even feminine he's just not your idea of masculine#the bl fandom only accepts one kind of masculinity and it's the obvious easy to spot kind#and don't get me started on the smut side of things#mu qing's cultivation requires celibacy and he would rather DIE than be weak and without it he's just that kind of person#so unless it's established that he either changed paths or for whatever reason is completely fine without his power don't even look at me#he's so ace coded#he's an ace icon#but your heteronormative alonormative asses just can't handle it#same way y'all couldn't handle if they were to be cannonically completely platonic friends#sorry if im being unnecessarily catty im on my period#it's the most valid excuse#i just really hate when my faves get dumbed down and weakened for no good reason#same with jiang cheng#like stop#don't do that#this is about fanarts mostly btw#the fandom doing my blorbos dirty
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literally makes me sick how bluntly tommy dumps buck... the "buck" at the end is so cruel. reverting to the worst version of yourself because you're confronted with your insecurities without even making that conscious choice, it coming out like instinct and breaking both hearts in the process. it's so juicy delicious gorgeous
#buck literally did nothing in that moment that required that response i genuinely do not understand how the fandom consensus is he “fumbled”#tommy when the most interesting part about the breakup (and tommy tbh) is that tommy at buck's misstep showed his claws#he could say lets take a break let me go home tonight and we'll talk tomorrow and walk out still bc he wasnt even wrong about where he#thought buck was on his journey but he went full guns ahead#the sad sack tommy who thinks he doesnt deserve love is fine good valid canon#but tommy eating himself in his guilt? believing he's a terrible person bc he was convinced for so long he was and he showed he's still#capable of it??#now we're talking#mimi.txt
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i’m gonna be negative for a second so fair warning
the STEM obsession is literally a plague on the current academic world, especially the recent “women in stem” shit. of course people who are typically discouraged from male-dominated fields should receive encouragement from schools, recruiters, etc, but i am really sick of this being turned into “STEM is the only valuable career path and you are betraying your intelligence as a woman/poc/whatever by doing literally anything else.”
there are SO many non stem jobs that are essential to the proper functioning of society and are definitely NOT worth any less than being a doctor or engineer. i’m tired of there being zero scholarships, internships, encouragement in general for literally any other career path. it’s just disrespectful and honestly dangerous. we can’t let humanities-focused subjects and careers die because STEM is the current hot topic. and i just hate most of all the appropriation of feminism to do it.
#it just feels like conflating feminism into you can either be a stupid housewife or be a smart girlboss doctor#like no there are plenty of other fulfilling careers that require very high skill and intelligence#and you know what even careers that aren’t seen as prestigious are just as valid#so that’s me stepping off the soapbox#i hope no stemmies are offended by this it’s not about you personally#it’s about the complete systemic ignorance of all other subjects#negative#academia
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It's kinda shocking to me how few people seem to know how prevalent the 'my great grandmother was cherokee' myth is and how it's almost never actually true, especially when it comes with things like 'never signed up' or 'fell off the trail' or 'courthouse burned down destorying the documentation' etc etc.
People just don't even seem to know the history like.. when the Trail happened. My great great great grandfather was 2 years old during Removal in 1838, so peoples 'my great grandmother hid in the mountains!' is so clearly wrong. And we have rolls. From before and after removal, rolls done by cherokee nation and others by the government, rolls that were not stored in one random flammable courthouse. It's not difficult to find the actual evidence of ancestry.
And just.. there are lots of ways those family stories get started. It was a practice during the confederacy to claim cherokee ancestry to show one's family had 'deep roots in the south' that they were there before the cherokee were removed. Many people pretended to be cherokee and applied for the Guion-Miller payout just to try to steal money meant for cherokees - 2/3rds of the applicants were denied for having 0 proof of actual cherokee ancestry. [We even see lawyers advertising signing up for the Miller roll just to try to get free money.] And the myth even started in some families in the cherokee land lotteries, where the land stolen from us was raffled off, including the house and everything that was left behind when the cherokees were removed. We have seen people whose families just take these things stolen from the cherokee family and adopt them into their own family story, saying that they were cherokee themselves.
If you had some family story about being cherokee and you wanna have proof one way or the other, check out this Facebook group run by expert cherokee genealogists that do research for free. Just please read the rules fully and respect the researchers. They run thousands of people's ancestries a year and their average is only around 0.7% of lines they run actually end up having true cherokee ancestry.
#and ive heard even dumber origins of the cherokee family myth#such as an ancestor having a silly sounding name so the descendents just go 'oh she mustve been an indian!!!'#i was one of the few people who had my ancestry done on the facebook and had genuine cherokee ancestry#[though i had found it before it was just really validating to get it double checked and i started finding cousins (:]#like. i was told once when i was a kid by my grandma that my dad had cherokee ancestry and i didnt believe her. its wild that so many peopl#will make it a Fixture of their identity [or even just smth they bring up ever] with Zero proof#at least for cherokees from what ive seen its usually considered really disrespectful to claim to have cherokee ancestry without#actually having the documentation [like ancestors on the rolls]#and no a dna test doesnt count. nor does 'my dad is Clearly not white!' or 'high cheekbones' or old family photos or anything#i had this discussion with someone recently whose dad had been calling himself 3/4 native but didnt know exactly what nation ???? hello?#and its like... sorry but ur dad is like. italian lol.#[and blood quantum is bullshit anyway im tired of the 'im 1/16 cherokee' comments its dumb#cherokee nation does not have a blood quantum requirement. its pointless bringing it up in the discussion of who is or isnt cherokee]#also mandatory disclaimer that im reconnecting. i didnt grow up connected to the culture of even knowing my ancestry#this is all from my looking into this stuff over the past year or so. i cant claim to be an authority over anything regarding this#this is p much all my repeating things ive heard said by people who know a lot more than i do haha#man. and this isnt even starting to get into the fake tribe stuff. the only legit cherokee groups are the 3 federally recognized bands#cherokee nation of oklahoma. united keetoowah band. and the eastern band of cherokee indians.#any others that are state recognized or not at all arent acknowledged as legitimate by any of the legit cherokee groups#anyway. my final message goodb.ye#cherokee#tsalagi
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this is mean but. the thing is that nothing about 911 on abc is that deep because it’s 911 on abc but i do have to say that being in this fandom alone has wholesale lowered my expectations for the general capacity of people to engage not just critically but base-level logically with the world around them. like i kind of thought we were all on the same page here but i was wrong
#if you do not immediately start hearing alarm bells when you see villains that are#a shadowy group of elites who molest children and require child blood sacrifices to maintain their power. you probably should start now!#this isn’t even about lfj because i do not actually think he’s into Qanon but this is a movie validating Qanon beliefs. like#you should be able to identify this stuff. it’s really scary that so many people cannot#and this doesn’t touch the other stuff like. If it’s not said explicitly then it’s not real. what?#are you reading between the lines on things that aren’t network procedurals? or??????
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I don't think actors should be forced / manipulated / cajoled / pushed into stories they don't want to do nor do I think they should have to give an explanation as to why they don't want to do it. I have a lot to say on this subject
#The intimacy and creativity of acting in Hollywood specifically has gotten lost to its commodification#but acting is still an art. Acting is still a deeply personal experience in which the actors in question reach within themselves as a means#to present a complete and vulnerable human on screen. To force someone to do that... to dance for a violent and fickle audience... is so#unspeakably cruel to me. We live in a world that's been stripped of all nuance. You're either “good” or you're “bad” and if you make a#choice that the masses don't agree with you are required to give a step by step explanation detailing why#(often with the inclusion of personal details to “validate” your decision)#otherwise you're “bad.”#It's such a somber and bleak world we're living in. In all ways but especially from an artistic perspective.#Things are so ugly out here and they're only getting uglier and more hostile for those who exist to create.#Anyway. As I said. I have many thoughts on this topic.
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