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#abuse is not love
trannydykes · 4 months
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btw with the trend of "toxic yuri/yaoi".. please learn the difference between a toxic and abusive relationship
and also the difference between a toxic relationship and a healthy relationship with ppl who are morally grey
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seniouesbabes · 7 months
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Lily Maymac 🌸🍒💋🌸 AN ABUSIVE INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP CAN HAVE 9 KEY WARNING SIGNS.
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ladyy--lazarus · 1 year
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I'm learning the same lessons again but this time engraving them in stone. Duly noted, universe. I am moving forward. Whew
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I pledge allegiance to the fact that “boys will be boys” is not an excuse to be violent or verbally abusive. If a teacher says that this behavior is acceptable because a boy has a crush one me instead of calling his parents, then that teacher should be reported for conditioning young girls to correlate love with abuse.
Accountability and justice for all
Credit: jax on instagram
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th1rdt3chnician · 3 months
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who up hating pop psychology
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wildbasil · 6 months
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things haven't been great but i think they will be. eventually 🌻🌼🩷
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ifbellehadkindle · 2 months
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A kind and compassionate person will always remind you of your worth and what you are capable of. 💕
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greykolla-art · 8 months
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Unstoppable villain, meet immovable agent of friendship!
I was wondering in what circumstances Charlie would just OFFER her soul to Al.
And he would short circuit as all his manipulation plans become unnecessary.
Cause Charlie cares about her friends and if they need help she won’t hesitate.
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transcowgirlslut · 7 months
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it's kind of bullshit that people will react with horror to me discussing my fantasies/kinks until i clarify I'm the sub in them. like even my therapist was all like "ohhh it's ok to want to hold power so long as it's consensual" and then clearly relaxed when I clarified I wanted to be the sub.
i love you everyone and with rape kinks, those who want to roleplay kidnapping and abusing someone, i love you i love you i love you. this ain't me fishing for a dom/me to be clear---you are VALUED as a person, outside of your sexual fantasies. I care about you and appreciate you, and there is nothing wrong or bad about you!!!!
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seniouesbabes · 7 months
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Lily Maymac 🌸🍒💋🌸 Wow thank you @yslbeauty
An insightful message for couples
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clementimetodie · 1 year
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recently saw someone's "advice for your 30s" which included something like "never get on the floor without having an escape plan for getting back up" and um. if you are otherwise able bodied and having trouble getting up from the floor in your 30s. you are very unhealthy. yes, even, if not especially, for that age.
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shirecorn · 1 month
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Monsters
Bittersweet Dreams || Perspective || Evil || Fighter
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xiewho · 6 months
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complaining about high elves and sharing inside job gossip. the sisters ever actually
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lady-corrine · 9 months
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Thinking again about how Suzanne esentially subverted the "beloved famous man that is actually a horrible person in real life" with Finnick, who is the complete opposite of that.
Finnick has this whole image costructed around him by the people that abused him for years: the Capitol's darling, their golden boy, the sex symbol of Panem, the man that has countless lovers but leaves them constantly and doesn't look back etc. And you would expect, initially, to meet a man that retains at least a part of that persona in his day to day life. But Finnick doesn't, not even one bit.
You see instead a man that is deeply in love and completely devoted to the one woman he quite literally adores, a man that protects Mags, his old mentor and his mother figure, as much as he can, a man that wouldn't leave Johanna behind, a man that gathers whatever strenght he has left to speak publicly about the abuse inflicted upon him at the government's hands; the opposite of what the Capitol's media and reputation made him out to be.
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going through my old journals as part of therapy homework and i'm reading a section written in the emotional wreckage of a full-on breakdown when i get hit with this line:
There is never a satisfying answer to ‘Why didn’t they love me?’
like wow babe. good fucking point
#like you were on the ground biting the carpet and dry sobbing while you wrote that and still. good fucking point#not a shitpost#cptsd#and it's true. there's never a satisfying answer#the truth is i know why i wasn't loved#i analyzed my parent's traumas and abuse to death. i understand why i alienated and was alienated from my siblings#i know why my mom was too overwhelmed to be capable of nurturing#i know why my dad vanished into addiction and avoidance#the details of our cycles of trauma and cptsd and family history i have a phd in all of it#i understood perfectly. i spent years studying and now i knew the answer#and guess what? IT WAS NOT SATISFYING!!!#because they still didn't love me! and i still couldn't change that!#it was still a completely unsatisfying state of affairs!#so like. when the people who are supposed to love you...don't.#when the people who are supposed to take care of you...fail to#you can look for answers and reasons and explanations#but that's not actually going to FIX your situation.#and it's probably not within your ability TO fix the situation. (and definitely not your job)#because you don't need answers--you need a new situation#*inserts Just Walk Out. You Can Leave!!! (Running Skeleton) Meme*#and yes. walking out isn't always possible.#but for you i hope it will be one day soon. and i hope you build the courage to take that leap.#stepping away from the people who failed to love you...it feels like being untethered but also like being lighter than air#new and scary. immensely relieving. the future opens up. empty but empty like a canvas. blindingly bright until your eyes adjust#like climbing out of a pit you called home and for the first time realizing how bright the light of day can truly be#when you aren't just getting glimpses from the bottom of a hole
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