#sociopathy

[sher-ee]

This is how he signals violence to his base of supporters. A former President and current Republican candidate is posting this on Truth Social.

He will use his base to do the unthinkable just as he did on January 6th 2021. While he is free they are in prison.

[maybe-an-aspd-angel]

[arnesisapseudonym]

hanging around 'narc abuse survivers' really be trying my patience, like wdym 'bb it wasn't your fault you were just a kid forgive yourself <3 <3 <3' and then turning around and literally dragging young people with npd through the freaking dirt like ok i'm sorry your ex was a bitch but what does that have to do with people who literally have a TRAUMA INDUCED disorder??

Idc if you do, but forgive me for saying that you're ableist piece of shit. get some damn help.

[mischiefmanifold]

It is endlessly frustrating to me that I can't follow the tags for my own fucking disorder without seeing people glorifying violence and blaming it on their "psychopathy". Babe, you are fourteen. You're not a psychopath. Get the fuck out of our tags.

[pratchettquotes]

Vorbis, who never touched another person inside his head, was a great toucher with his hands.

Terry Pratchett, Small Gods

[cluster-b-corner]

aspd culture is either being demonized for your disorder or fetishized for it.

[decoding-narcissism]

The Ego Show: Unmasking the Narcissistic Game

Welcome, ladies and gentlemen, to 'The Ego Show'! Today, we delve into the mysterious realm of narcissistic personality disorder through a thrilling gameshow format. Buckle up, because we're about to take you on a wild ride through the labyrinthine minds of narcissists! Our first contestant is Alex, a charismatic entrepreneur who never misses an opportunity to remind others of their inferiority. Alex's narcissistic trait, known as 'grandiosity,' is like a peacock flaunting its feathers. Just like Alex, individuals with this trait believe they are truly exceptional - the crème de la crème of the human race. They demand constant admiration and seek out situations where they can be the center of attention. To illustrate this, let's move to our second contestant, Emma, the social media influencer extraordinaire. Emma's social media feed is a masterclass in self-promotion. Every post oozes with meticulously curated selfies and boasts about her seemingly perfect life. Behind the scenes, however, lies a fragile self-esteem that requires constant validation. Can you say #InstaNarcissism? Now, let's introduce our final contestant, Mark, a master of manipulation. Mark simply loves to put others down to elevate himself. This trait, known as 'lack of empathy,' is a key characteristic of narcissism. Mark wields his words like a weapon, crushing anyone who dares to challenge him. He lacks the ability to truly understand or care about the feelings of others. It's a real-life version of 'Who Wants to Be Crushed by a Narcissist?' So, what have we learned today, dear audience? Narcissism is not just an abstract concept but a real-life game that some people love to play. The Ego Show has given us a glimpse into the twisted world of narcissistic personality disorder, showcasing traits like grandiosity, constant need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Remember, folks, empathy, humility, and genuine connections are essential in the game of life. It's time to turn the spotlight away from the narcissistic game and focus on building authentic relationships and nurturing our inner selves. Until next time, stay humble, stay kind, and let's leave the narcissistic games for reality TV!

[takeyourcyanide]

This is another personal rant, except I’ll be talking more on my “antisocial/psychopathic” traits and the annoying asshats I’ve dealt with.

I cannot fucking stand these neurotypical, hypocritical bastards who like to position themselves as morally superior to me simply because I never developed a sense of morality. I know this sounds weird, but let me explain. Their morality is conditional. My lack thereof is not. The moment they come across anyone who even slightly differs from their idea of what is “normal,” they throw all of their “kindness matters,” “empathy matters,” and “mental health matters” shit out of the window, and treat the individual as though they are subhuman, ultimately ostracizing them. I don’t fucking do that. Yeah, sure, I don’t really have a moral compass, but for one, I’ve tried to and my brain just can’t develop one, and two, my voidness of one never changes based off of a person’s personality, clothing, appearance, etc. And you’re only pretending to be sweet for the sake of seeming morally superior anyway. It’s all performative.

And to further go on, I remember being like three and witnessing how people like me were treated. They were treated like violent, disobedient mutts that needed to be beat and whipped into submission, and by the same people who went on and on about “faith,” “hope,” and fucking “love.” You have absolutely no goddamn right to judge me when you’re not even an equal opportunity offender. At least I admit that I’m not a kind person. You are even more of a fraud than I’ve ever had to be. I find it funny how these same people go on about mental health, but the moment you’ve never felt guilt, suddenly you’re the monster under their bed. The moment you’re anything but anxious (even then, they’re iffy), you’re scum.

They don’t understand what it’s like to never have the privilege of being yourself. They don’t even realize that being able to be yourself is, in fact, a privilege. They don’t understand what it’s like to desperately want to be free, to just do as you please, and be what you genuinely are. I saw one psychopath describe it once as their real self never being able to experience the world. Precisely. Because the world is essentially pinned against you, deeming you an unlovable pile of shit, your genuine self can never fully, never truly experience the world around you. All I’ve ever wanted is to be myself and do whatever I want to (you can only imagine why I post Stein so much lmao), but I’ll never be able to. I don’t say that for pity btw, it’s just frustrating.

At the end of the day, it’s not the fact that they view me as subhuman that bothers me. I couldn’t give two shits how they view me. It’s the fact that they won’t admit to it that annoys me to no ends.

I just want to let loose. There’s a part of me that almost wants it all to consume me, to just give into it. Oh well

[phroyd]

Correct!

Phroyd

[hugh-lauries-bald-spot]

PSA

you cant call yourself a ND ally if you dont support people with bpd, npd, aspd, schizophrenia

[maybe-an-aspd-angel]

[imafuckingbarcodelol]

anyone not care when tragedy strikes? or when death happens? i dont care about 9/11 or about wars, i dont really feel anything when tragedy happens, i know i should care and ill show sympathy but i dont feel anything and i cant force myself to feel anything, ive tried, it doesnt work. like i know why murder is bad but i also dont care cuz i dont know the person thats dying or their family. this is prob why my last therapist thought i was a functional sociopath

[aptericia]

Here is your daily reminder that sociopaths and those with little or no capacity for empathy do not need to be “cured”. It actually does not matter if you experience guilt, “feel” others’ emotions, or viscerally “know” the distinction between right and wrong, as long as you are happy and you do not make others unhappy. The vast majority of people will someday encounter someone whose feelings they can’t understand, and that doesn’t mean they can’t still respect and show kindness for said someone. People who don’t experience empathy may have a natural disadvantage to showing kindness, and they may require more support to do so, but you do not get to be fucking ableist to them because of that.

[mischiefmanifold]

An Explanation of the Diagnostic Criteria of Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD)

In order to be diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder (ASPD), one must meet three or more of the seven criteria listed in the DSM-V. Symptoms must be pervasive (present in a variety of contexts) and clinically distressing. Additionally, ASPD is the only personality disorder that cannot be diagnosed under 18 (minors would be diagnosed with conduct disorder or a similar behavioral disorder), and there must be evidence of conduct disorder with onset before 15 years.

The term "sociopath" is an outdated way to refer to ASPD and is used to increase the already ever-present stigma against the disorder (psychopathy is a separate distinction but is considered to be a subtype of ASPD).

1. Failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors, as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest.

Examples include destroying property, harassing others, stealing, stalking, or pursuing illegal occupations such as prostitution or drug dealing.

Committing acts that are grounds for arrest counts whether they have been arrested or not.

2. Deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure.

May be a pathological or compulsive liar.

May be frequently manipulative and deceitful in order to gain personal profit or pleasure (e.g. to obtain money, sex, or power - although in reality, quite a few people with ASPD that I know do this because they're bored).

May be (mis)diagnosed with factitious disorder.

3. Impulsivity or failure to plan ahead.

Decisions are made on the spur of the moment, without forethought and without consideration for the consequences to self and others - often leading to sudden changes of jobs, residences, or relationships.

May binge drink or engage in risky sexual behavior.

4. Irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults.

May often seem irritable or lash out in verbal or physical ways.

In order for this criterion to be counted, irritability and aggressiveness must be physical.

Aggressive acts that are required to defend oneself or someone else do not fall under this criterion.

5. Reckless disregard for the safety of self or others.

Participating in things that could get them or another person seriously hurt or even killed (e.g., extreme food challenges, tide pod challenges, speeding/swerving a car, drunk driving, extreme sports [especially with little to no protection]).

May be evidenced in their driving behavior (e.g., recurrent speeding, drunk driving, multiple accidents).

May engage in sexual behavior or substance abuse that has a high risk for harmful consequences.

May neglect or fail to care for a child in a way that puts the child in danger.

6. Consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations.

May have significant periods of unemployment despite available job opportunities.

May abandon a job without a realistic plan for getting another job.

May be a pattern of repeated absences from work that are not explained by illness either in themself or their family.

Financial irresponsibility, as indicated by acts such as defaulting on debts, failing to provide child support, and failing to support other dependents on a regular basis.

7. Lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.

Rationalizations may include "Life's unfair" or "Losers deserve to lose."

May blame the victim for being foolish, helpless, or deserving of their fate (e.g., "They had it coming anyway.")

May minimize the harmful consequences of their actions or indicate complete indifference.

May fail to compensate or make amends for their behaviors.

May believe that everyone is out to help themselves and should stop at nothing to avoid being pushed around.

SOURCES:

https://www.helpguide.org/articles/personality-disorders/antisocial-personality-disorder-aspd.htm

https://www.reddit.com/r/aspd/comments/qen3yx/what_are_some_of_your_examples_of_reckless_or/

[thepastisapebbleinmyshoe]

Chess, is an elegant metaphor, for a psychological game, of calculated and strategic risk. It’s an artful style of thinking, that moves each piece, across the board, one by one.

The pawns are necessary, and beautifully placed. Masterfully sacrificed. they rarely decide, who should, respectfully, resign.

Skillful observation, and a keen sense, in eyes that see and feel, every mood, shifting, from across the room.

Empty words spoken, between subtle nuances, reveal each inconsistency. The loudest voice proclaims, but it’s touch, too cold to lace, intricately into the details, of an intellectual’s game.

I enter silently, fog fills the room, trusting without seeing, the lights go down, it’s so loud. We keep ourselves safe, until all that’s left standing, is the truth, permanently fixed in place.

Chess

[the-little-fox-in-the-box]

I hate Tumblr posts that are like "Psychopaths, sociopaths and people without empathy deserve your respect and empathy 🥺 You should care about people who don't and won't care for you!"

You want empathy even though you're not willing to give any? Get out of here with that kind of entitlement. You're selfish by nature. I hope no one cries at your funeral.