#apple humanization

[jib0]

day 6.

sleeping / dancing.

[gawki]

Daydream

[roseforviolet]

[saspitite]

i really wish apple snails weren't constantly hated on like they are (from what ive seen at least) like all those videos telling you to immediately crush apple snail eggs whenever you find them and describing apple snails as "evil"... like yeah they are invasive. but that doesnt mean theyre invasive everywhere???? and that certainly doesnt make them evil?????

"but theyre devastating the environment" okay. are they doing that on purpose. are they doing it maliciously. trick question no they fucking arent obviously. yes its important to maintain our ecosystems and that does partly require keeping invasive species out of areas they dont belong in but you dont need to fucking villainize an entire species in the process. i think apple snails are cute fuck you

[reigobun]

early AT anniversary art

[phantomrose96]

I'm beginning the understand the brutality inherent to the human soul <- (set up some homemade fruitfly traps and felt bad about it at first but is now kinda into the sport of it)

[claudia-lioncourt]

Tel père, telle fille.

Back in your cage, sweetheart... We endure each other for Louis' happiness. So come home and make him happy. — IWTV (2022—), Season 1 Episode 6, Like Angels Put in Hell by God Translate all that to mean this: We have no money to launch a real ecclesiastical career for you, to make you a bishop or cardinal as befits our rank, so you have to live out your life here as an illiterate and a beggar. Come in the great hall and play chess with your father. — Anne Rice, The Vampire Lestat (1985)

[justvoidsdumbstuff1]

Appledash movie night🍎🌈

(I MISSED drawing these two)

[mediumsizetex]

rarijack by baegopayohungry

[pilloclock]

Learn about Congo 🇨🇩 We cannot , after finding out so shamefully late about the genocide, continue as per. We have to change our choices and make the effort to be as ethical as we can and talk about this!

[jib0]

I came to life .....

[the-apple-of-her-eye-au]

Since we had Mama Lu and Baby Charlie...

Courtesy of @blitzy-blitzwing we have Mama Al and Charlie!

We all know that Alice would run the PTA to perfection once Charlie goes school. She would teach that girl all the necessities of life, cooking, radio and of course... tax evasion.

[untitledgoosegay]

re last reblog I do see fanfic culture pushing/replicating a certain model of "what trauma looks like," "how trauma works"

this is a problem across all areas of society obviously, but transformative works are, well, transformative. they're about crafting and modifying narratives where the fan-creator sees a flaw or a lack -- often for the better! don't get me wrong, I've done my fair share of "I take a hammer and I fix the canon," it's the main thing that gets my creative gears spinning -- but what happens when that "flaw" is simply a narrative not conforming to popular expectations?

some people just don't get PTSD from events that sound obviously traumatic. they're not masking, and they're not coping; they just straight-up didn't get the permanently-locked stress-response that defines PTSD. they walk away from a horrible experience going "well, that sucked, but it's over now." some people do get PTSD from events most people wouldn't find traumatic. we don't really know why some people get PTSD and others don't. but fandom has an idea of events that must be traumatizing, of a "correct" way to portray trauma. you see the problems with this lack of understanding in e.g. fans pressuring the devs of Baldur's Gate 3 to add dialogue where the player character badgers Halsin about his own feelings on his abuse -- because he must be traumatized, and his trauma must fit a certain mold and presentation of sexual trauma, under the mistaken impression that anything outside that narrow window is somehow "wrong" and disrespectful or even harmful to survivors.

take, for another example, the very common trope of a traumatized character who hates touch or sex "learning" to like touch or sex as a part of their healing process. certainly that can be healing for some people; other people will never like, or want, touch or sex, because of trauma or because they just don't. the assumption that someone who doesn't want sex or doesn't like to be touched must be traumatized, must be suffering from this perceived lack, is seriously harmful -- to asexual people, to people with sensory issues around touch, and to people for whom healing from trauma means freedom to refuse sex or touch.

and there's a secondary trope, one that's slightly more thoughtful but ultimately repeats the problem -- that once someone has learned that their boundaries will be respected, they'll feel it's safe to soften those boundaries. once they feel safe refusing touch or sex, they'll feel comfortable allowing it on their own terms. but many people don't, and many people won't! many people will simply never want to be touched, and never want sex, and they are not suffering or broken or lacking because of it. the idea that proving you'll respect someone's boundaries entitles you to test those boundaries -- the paradox is obvious, and yet this is something i've seen hurt (re-traumatize) people i care for.

people are imperfect victims. people don't heal in the ways you expect. many people have positive memories of their abuse, of their abusers. many people hurt others in the course of their trauma, in ways that can't easily be unpacked in a 5k oneshot. very few narratives of trauma and recovery actually fit the ones put forward by popular children's media and romance novels -- which are the ones I most see replicated in fandom spaces, because they provide the clearest narrative and easiest catharsis, and so they're easy and soothing to reach for.

that's not necessarily a bad thing! i am not immune to goopy romance tropes. i am not immune to teary catharsis. not every fic has to grapple with ugly realities. but there's a problem when these narratives become predominant, when people think they're accurate and realistic depictions of trauma, when the truth of trauma is unpleasant and uncomfortable, and doesn't fit any single narrative, let alone one of comforting catharsis

[roseforviolet]

[applesartt]

Horse riding!

[reigobun]

the real me