#finromantic

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Spiderpunk from Spiderman Across the Spiderverse

Flag(s): Genderflir, Graysexual, and Finromantic

Shape(s): Circle with sparkles

Requested by: Anon

Anyone can use, credit appreciated but not required.

[genderstarbucks]

Maromantic + Womaromantic!!

Maromantic, or manromantic, is a romantic orientation describing exclusive attraction to men. This includes attraction to binary men and may also include attraction to male-aligned non-binary individuals.

Womaromantic, or womanromantic, is a romantic orientation describing exclusive attraction to women. This includes attraction to binary women and may also include attraction to female-aligned non-binary individuals.

[blood-moon-night-coining]

Neptunic-FINflexible & Uranic-MINflexible

[PT: Neptunic-FINflexible & Uranic-MINflexible]

Neptunic-FINflexible, a individual who is Neptunic(link) but once in awhile they are FINsexual/FINromantic. So mainly attracted to women and non-man aligned genders, but once in awhile is attracted to anyone who is Feminine in Nature.

Uranic-MINflexible, a individual who is Uranic(link) but once in awhile they are MINsexual/MINromantic. So mainly attracted to men and non-woman aligned genders, but once in awhile is attracted to anyone who is Masculine in Nature.

(Tbh I made those Purley Because this thought has been eating away at my brain lol)

[First ID: Two similar flags with six equal stripes. The colors top to bottom are darker teal, turquoise, light turquoise, light blue, light purple, and purple. The left flag has a vertical section of five stripes in the center. Those stripes' colors top to bottom are pink, light pink, light orange, light pink, and pink. The middle stripe is thicker than the rest. The right one has the same vertical section with an extra bright pink stripe in the middle. ID end.]

[Second ID: Two similar flags with six equal stripes. The colors top to bottom are darker blue, blue, light blue, pale blue, light yellow, and darker light yellow. The left flag has a vertical section of seven equal stripes in the center. Those stripes' colors middle-out are blue, light green, light grey-blue, and blue. The right one has the same vertical section without the middle stripe. ID end.]

(ID credits: @accessmogai)

[Tagging] @radiomogai and @accessmogai

[pawette]

Finspec

❝ The attraction to two, many, or all genders that are feminine in nature (FIN). This can be either in their gender and/or gender expression. Finspec individuals may be attracted to feminine men, feminine aligned and/or presenting non-binary people, and feminine women. This is often an exclusive or primary attraction. ❞ — ♡

credit : @pawette !

[ IMAGE ID: the finspec flag. /END ID. ]

[ IMAGE ID: A pink and white banner with mokke on either side. Text reads “Please do not interact if you identify as a terf, swerf, radical femininst, anti-xenogenders, anti-neopronouns, anti-endogenic plurality, anti-contradictory labels, anti-fat, pro-autism speaks, or if you suibat.” /END ID. ]

[ PLAIN TEXT:

Finspec

The attraction to two, many, or all genders that are feminine in nature (FIN). This can be either in their gender and/or gender expression. Finspec individuals may be attracted to feminine men, feminine aligned and/or presenting non-binary people, and feminine men. This is often an exclusive or primary attraction.

credit: @/pawette

/END PT. ]

coiner note: if this is too similar to finic then consider it an alt-term/flag to it . i had this in my drafts before i found that term .

[mogai-headcanons]

Nene Kusanagi from Project SEKAI is an autistic casualic greyromantic finromantic aceflux lesbian demigirl demiboy nonbinary transfeminine enboy nonbinary girl nonbinary boy demigenderfluid cuddlegender plushgender bungender catgender cottoncandygender weirdcattic softgender boviplushic flashgameian distorglitchic rainyhorric cutegender solmangagender autigender ovitihiems cattix cityica kiddinoic patchgender casualic ambonec madscientistcatgender arothing acething kidreamcoric sleepdayial hezegender mollianic gendermoxie webcoric tenergender sleepygirl femmtint moukawic pluviplushic nocmotrellic catinrainic gendergroslina lostglitchgender emoique gamerbunboygender nocatsleepyic wasuretic genderfrio plusheepgender felmouenby bugcatgender magiboy botgender vocaloidgender digicute sanriogender softicfemascgender sleepything idolthing virtualgirlic virtualboyic ghibliaesic sleepyxenic fairylicht mistgender cutecoric petalgender wondergender lesbicute musictix animecoric shything vocaloidthing age regressor with bipolar disorder and OCD who uses they/them, he/him, plush/plushes, soft/softs, cuddle/cuddles, cotton/cottons, she/her, it/its, bun/buns, strawb/strawbs, val/vals, candy/candies, sweet/sweets, sheep/sheeps, glitch/glitches, kit/kits, sleep/sleeps, dawn/dawns, rain/rains, drizzle/drizzles, snow/snows, angel/angels, love/loves, web/webs, pop/pops, fizz/fizzes, ☁️/☁️s, 🍉/🍉s, 🧁/🧁s, and 🤍/🤍s pronouns!

They're dating Emu Ootori, an autistic bambi lesbian finromantic sapphic abrosapphic aceflux catstrawbgender softgender pinkgender pinkfluzzic cutegender shenbunine fuwaun carnicolorix amocatix asochaiex friamic douxinvern genderbubbly genderchou puerilgender paspinkbeecute monopinkcute cutesyic agrocutecatic acething strawbmilksippic kidcoric hypagekloudian plushgender trendercringic plushihuggic mogaicringic plushhoard femkiddic autigender adhdgender vocaloidgender idolgender genderfluff cutecollector cutecoric petalgender genderfae catgirlgender wondergender cottoncandygender sweetgender verbastimic catstimmic evarigirl ditsylexic idolthing adhdthing catgender pupgender bungender panbungender marshmallowtwistpupgender buntix bunhoardic idolbungender icecreampupgender neonyancatgender puphoard lesbicute magigirl magipuppic kiddiparfumic rainpupic confetticakegender bunpupgender kandigirlic candynecklacegender stickercoric clownbungender musictix sillycatgender rainbowcatian zoomiesgender xenogirl luckycatgirl cutenic magicalgirlthing age regressor with ADHD, anxiety, and PTSD who uses wonder/wonders, wonderhoy/wonderhoys, she/her, kandi/kandis, clown/clowns, they/them, candy/candies, it/its, he/him, sticker/stickers, pup/pups, fun/funs, sun/suns, cream/creams, bun/buns, marshmallow/marshmallows, stim/stims, sweet/sweets, fizz/fizzes, 🥳/🥳s, 🧚‍♀️/🧚‍♀️s, 🐶/🐶s, 🦄/🦄s, 💐/💐s, 🪷/🪷s, 🌈/🌈s, 🍡/🍡s, 🧁/🧁s, 🍫/🍫s, 🎪/🎪s, 🎡.🎡s, 🎀/🎀s, and any other neopronouns that wonder considers cute or fun!

Kohane Azusawa is an autistic demiromantic aceflux demisexual lesbian girlflux demigirl transmasculine nonbinary nonbinary girl librafeminine genderqueer paragirl gxrl genderdoe genderfloren weirdcattic froliclovermal vintasolea mooniyn catpastrygender sofpinkfem dullaescomfic cattix luveratix genderplaylist stellereni musicaconic kiddinoic ferristarric pupgender puppyplushic pinkplanetary anglipuppic bellukittyic melogender mushbungender aimdouxic quiescolascivic heliosweetic gigglesnowflic solisdawngender daisiboy tenergender fembluic mollisgender mascutint catinrainic strawshorcakic deergender sodacatgender cloudpupgender emoique strawbecookiecatgender berrybrowncowaestic plushsomigender florverna starfluid vocaloidgender confetticakegender idolcatgender ghibliaesic musigender petalgender caffèan animecoric shything lesbithing with ADHD and SPD who uses he/him, it/its, she/her, they/them, cloud/clouds, pup/pups, soft/softs, doe/does, star/stars, and kit/kits pronouns!

Kohane is dating An Shiraishi, a lesbian lesboy genderfluid libramasculine birl singalangric bluegender azurgirl cherrockglittic cufemian telcusmic musicgender acrigirl stargender adhdthing edgecute caffèan stickercoric femflux lesbithing with ADHD and Tourette's who uses he/him, edge/edges, star/stars, and blue/blues pronouns!

Ichika Hoshino is an autistic arospec demisexual lesbian demiboy enboy nonbinary genderfluid transmasculine agender vocaloidgender pupgender musicgender prettyboygender phonwaken sleepyfelic autigender mistgender idolgender petalgender shything with OCD and SPD who uses he/him, they/them, it/its, sing/sings, music/musics, pup/pups, cute/cutes, and blue/blues pronouns!

Saki Tenma is a lesbian aceflux trans girl girlflux paragirl catstrawbgender florsunsimusica pinkgender yellowgender pupgender pinkfluzzic cutegender shenbunine fuwaun asochaiex plushgender adhdgender idolgender cutecollector genderfluff cutecoric petalgender cottoncandygender sweetgender evarigirl ditsylexic adhdthing lesbicute magigirl magicattic stelluffin plushipuddic funfetticakegender stickercoric gxrl with ADHD who uses she/her, they/them, bun/buns, cute/cutes, petal/petals, plush/plushes, love/loves, pink/pinks, pup/pups, fluff/fluffs, 🧁/🧁s, and 💗/💗s pronouns!

Shiho Hinomori is an autistic butch greyromantic oriented aroace sapphic delphinian intersex agender transmascneutral gender apathetic pomogender singalangric misteria skirpagender genderamafem arothing sleepyneu autigender vocaloidgender musictix auticatgender ghostneut person with BPD and OCD who uses they/them, it/its, and he/him pronouns!

Honami Mochizuki is an autistic lesbian finsexual demisexual demigirl non-binary girl faesari softgender cinnamonostalgic fresafieldic vintasolea bungender cutegender linistornia friamic cupumime pastrygender floremime tiramisia ghibliaesic piegender applepiegender idolgender genderfluff cutecoric petalgender sweetgender spacecoric stargender evarigirl angelcoric panbungender idolbungender icecreambungender lesbicute tarabovian lumibunnic constellnoxky starrypupgender romsofpinkic spacecute cosmicthing spacething fruitpiegen cookiegirl who uses they/them, she/her, pie/pies, apple/apples, idol/idols, bun/buns, cream/creams, star/stars, moon/moons, space/spaces, constellation/constellations, cute/cutes, cinna/mon, 🥧/🥧s, and 🌷/🌷s pronouns!

Ichika, Saki, Honami, and Shiho are in a polycule together!

dni link

[flag-mashups]

Finromantic + Paragirl + ADHD =

(Please read pinned post before interacting! <3)

Finromantic - Someone who is romantically attracted to those who are Feminine in nature.

Paragirl - Someone who identifies mostly as a girl/woman, but not entirely. The female part makes up 51-99% of their gender. The other 1-49% can be any gender or combination of genders,

ADHD - Someone with ADHD may have trouble paying attention, controlling impulsive behaviors (may act without thinking about what the result will be), or be overly active.

[midnight-enby]

SMALL UPDATE

In case anyone saw my last post and is curious as to if I've figured anything out...

I'm Agender and Polyamorous, which I knew before this and hasn't changed.

But now I know what my sexual and romantic orientations are. I have words for the way I feel that feel a lot more comfortable.

Thanks to help from the ace spec community, I've come to the conclusion that I'm Aegosexual.

And thanks to that revelation, I delved down the rabbit hole to see if I could find something that describes my romantic orientation that I hadn't been aware of before. And I found it, thankfully.

I'm now aware that I'm Finromantic, which makes a whole lot of sense to me and feels a lot better than previous labels I've used.

I now have peace of mind in knowing the specifics about myself, though I'm still going to identify as Queer overall.

Thanks for everyone's advice!

[grinchfemmemoving]

Finromantic Lettie Hatter icons ꒰♡꒱

[queerboards]

Moodboard: Finsexual/Finromantic Belle French.

[abritishlass]

heh i caved

i made a tumblr just to browse #finromantic some more

lol

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Donatello from Rise of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles

Flag(s): Genderflir, Graysexual, and Finromantic

Shape(s): Circle with sparkles

Requested by: Anon

Anyone can use, credit appreciated but not required.

[genderstarbucks]

Hey, I have a question about sexuality. I thought I was Neptunic because I am attracted to women, fem nbs and neutral nbs. But now when someone asked me if I would be attracted to a guy who presented themselves as feminine, I really wouldn't mind.

So if I am attracted to women, fem nbs and neutral nbs and I am alright with feminine guys, what would I be? Like I am questioning

That sounds like either gyneromantic/sexual, finromantic/sexual, ninromantic/sexual or nominromantic/sexual!

Listed in order from when I mentioned them

[blood-moon-night-coining]

Neptunic-FINflexible & Uranic-MINflexible

Romantic Version

[PT: Neptunic-FINflexible & Uranic-MINflexible | Romantic Version]

For the definition of Neptunic-FINflexible & Uranic-MINflexible, look here(link)!

[Neptunic-FINflexible ID: None yet]

[Uranic-MINflexible ID: None yet]

[Tagging] @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @aniso-pride, and @accessmogai

[ryanyflags]

min- | fin- | nbin- lin- | glin- | agin- nin- | mvin- | xin-

min- / minsexual / minromantic / etc. : attraction to people who consider themselves masculine.

fin- / finsexual / finromantic / etc. : attraction to people who consider themselves feminine.

nbin- / enbin- / nonbin- / nbinsexual / enbinsexual / nonbinsexual / nbinromantic / enbinromantic / nonbinromantic / etc. : attraction to people who consider themselves nbine/enbine/nonbine/nonbinarine (nonbinary gender quality).

lin- / linsexual / linromantic / etc. : attraction to people who consider themselves androgynous.

glin- / glinsexual / glinromantic / etc. : attraction to people who consider themselves genderless.

agin- / aginsexual / aginromantic / etc. : attraction to people who consider themselves agenrine (agender gender quality).

nin- / ninsexual / ninromantic / etc. : attraction to people who consider themselves neutral. (the original definition also includes nonbinary and null, though people mainly just use nin- to mean neutral now.)

mvin- / mvinsexual / mvinromantic / etc. : attraction to people who consider themselves maverine (maverique gender quality).

xin- / xinsexual / xinromantic / etc. : attraction to people who consider themselves xenine (xenogender gender quality).

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The terms are prefixes basically, so they can be attached to any attraction ending (such as -rose/-romanticsexual, -tertiary, -platonic, -alterous, -sensual, -aesthetic, -physical, -emotional, and more). I only listed the -sexual and -romantic variations to keep it readable.

For the definition of these terms, I reworded them a bit from common wiki definitions, but it follows the general idea I've seen in other posts discussing these terms.

Basically, when it comes to gender qualities, what counts as what can vary greatly between people. What one person considers masculine, feminine, androgynous, etc. can be really different from what another person considers it to be. Especially when you factor in things like different cultures, people with complex identities, or really queer people in general (as they can challenge such definitions).

Who's to determine what counts as what? Or say one definition matters more than another? I think it should be determined by the person in question. I can imagine a few issues otherwise. Wouldn't it be weird to put other people in boxes they don't identify with?

Also, these orientations aren't just being attracted to men, women, enben, etc., they're attractions to gender qualities (in either presentation or gender identity). So, for some examples, someone could consider themselves masculine while not being a man, and so be included under min-. It's the same for the others, someone could consider themselves maverine without being maverique. Or present femininely while being nonbinary. The combinations/examples are practically endless.

So the point of these labels is to be broad, and include those who want to be included, and exclude those who wouldn't want to consider themselves under that label.

Now that that wall of text is out of the way haha,

-in orientation flags :D [part 1 of 2] second post

It started with me wanting to make a couple of flags that I felt should exist, finding the 7 stripe -in orientation flag format and really liking it, wanting colourful matching versions, and so, an entire set (along with really thinking about the definitions). (like usual hah) There's so many flags I split it into 2 posts, and the second one will have 9 flags too.

For the flags, I based them off of the 7 stripe -in orientation format, where it gradients to darker stripes on the outside, with a dark stripe in the center (minsexual, finsexual, ninsexual examples). I chose them because I thought the format looked really nice, and also because I don't know how to make symbols for these flags (if anyone wants to make symbol versions, feel free to do so). Unlike the original format though, the stripes on both sides don't mirror each other. I did this just because I wanted (more) colourful versions.

As for the colours, they're inspired (not exactly colour picked) by the corresponding gender quality flags. So masculine for min-, feminine for fin-, nonbine for nonbin-, androgynous for lin-, genderless for glin-, agenrine for agin-, neutral for nin-, maverine for mvin-, and xenine for xin-.

[the-nebula-sys]

It seems like a new era is beginning for this blog. It's a more somber era, yet it is a new era nonetheless. I made my sideblog, @tehaspy-spec-evoposting, as a way to escape the fame I gained from the reddit migration. Since then, I have used this blog to share messages that I thought important. Now, however, it has gotten more personal. Not by much, mind you, but enough to begin a new era. The Personal Era.

Welcome, to the personal era of my blog. This shall be my new bio.

Hello there, the name I have chosen for myself is Ellie. I am a transfeminine, aegosexual, finromantic, autistic individual. Please use she/her pronouns when reffering to me. I apologize for my use of the term "aspie", I just find it affectionnate. Also, any reclaimed slurs are fine to call me by.

This blog is for whatever I damn well please, but at the time of writing it's still primarily for reblogging drama (not fandom drama, merely world politics and positivity). I have multiple sideblogs. @tehaspy-spec-evoposting was for personal stuff, and I still believe most of my personal stuff will be there. I also post occasional OC there.

@ask-esker @ask-marble @ask-gabrro @ask-riebeck and @ask-feldspar are my outer wilds ask blogs. They don't get many asks (as in by the time of writing they haven't gotten one in weeks), so I'd appreciate it if you asked them something.

@necromancer-without-corpses is my wizardblr sideblog. They're a necromancer that can only revive products of corpses, not the raw stuff.

I also have an AO3, which has posted exactly one fanfic by the time I'm writing this. https://archiveofourown.org/users/TehAspyfics. I hope I write more in the future.

I also have plenty of Special Interests, which shall be abbreviated as SpIn's from now on. They are:

Worldbuilding

Astronomy

Prehistory

Speculative evolution

Outer Wilds

I hope I won't need to update my bio anytime soon, but I probably will. Until then, Ellie is out.

[thelunarsystemwrites]

Meet Matcha Sans!

Meet my newest AU Sans, Matcha! (Like Match-ah!) Which belongs to the AU Tea!Lust! A post-pacifist AU where after the underlust monsters got to the surface, Sans managed to put himself through school, get a psychology degree—and decided to do something a little less traditional with it, by opening up a cafè that specializes in accommodation to trauma survivors! (All the staff have some sort of psychology training.)

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Meet Matcha! ♡ AKA Tea!Lust Sans!

Owns Cafè, employs Papyrus, Grillby, Muffet, Toriel, Nice Cream guy. (And Mettaton, but he works part time)

Neurodivergent.

Knows English, signed English, and ASL. (Learning BSL and MSL.)

(Tends to) Set self up for failure.

Overly critical.

Any pronouns!

Psychology fanatic.

Best at brewing tea.

Sweet, generous, with a hint of sass and diva.

Favourite colours! (Shows a deep maroonish pink, and sea green colour)

EXTRAS BELOW CUT!

Pride flags! Ambiamorous. Omnigender. Greysexual. Finromantic. (Though it's the finsexual flag!)

Always has heart shaped candles on him, rather it be lollipops, gummies, mints, chocolates, so on!

Favourite tea: Matcha, it's matcha.

Her bones are lavender! they're not sure why.

Blush is always present, again, not sure why.

Heart in the middle of the shirt represents what mood he's feeling. (Pink is positive!)

Refuses to go to therapy.

Is a licensed therapist.

HEAVILY INSPIRED AND INFLUENCED BY CCINO!SANS, AND FLUFFY TALE BY @black-nyanko

Is an UnderLust based Sans.

Depression? Yup.