#ftm safe

[kyo-kris]

Shigaraki Tomura x FTM Reader HEADCANONS

❥ Telling him that you're trans

Fluffy Headcanons.

Pronouns for reader: he/him

♡ You and him were having a chemistry, even if both never would dare to talk about this, and no one from L.o.V (except for Toga. Im sure she would shipp you and Tomura)

♡ Well, but when you noticed that you were liking him, you got nervous. So. Fucking. Nervous. You didn't know that they had a trans member in L.o.V and you were afraid of being just rejected or humiliated because of your gender.

♡ Well, you decided one night to open up to Twice about your gender, you were fucking SHAKING. Ending up discovering the trans member and that nobody gives a damn for what you identify yourself, as long as you are strong and help them, you will be respected.

➥ (If you don't like Twice, just imagine another member or you discovering by yourself that information) (pls who doesn't like him...)

♡ This information just relaxed you so much, and you just felt safe to talk about it to Shigaraki. But now how would you do it was the problem. He was always busy with his plans.

♡ But one day, you found your chance. Only him in living room, the others were outside doing different things. Doesn't matters. You took the advantage and courage (of course the courage of a few months thinking about this).

♡ You wasn't totally surprise because you knew about the member, but you hadn't seem any expression so genuinely like this. People tries to support or show that they support you, or they treat you differently (most time in a bad way). But this pookie? Nah. He was just "ok, and?"

♡ "W-what do you mean with 'ok, and?', you already knew it??" you asked with wide eyes, but at the same time you were so greatful for him not turn this a headache.

♡ "No? I mean, good for you, I'll keep calling you the same way as I always did." He said, same expression as if you just told him that you were going to sleep or something like that.

♡ "Thanks. I always feel like if I don't tell, the person will be mad or feel trapped. It happens more than I wish"

♡ "Trapped? What the fuck. Why would I?" You didn't know if was a rhetorical question or you had to answer it, but you just let a light laugh come out.

♡ "Is that all the reason you wanted to tell me you are trans?" He seemed to notice your nervous face.

♡ "Do you... Do you wanna go out with me sometime?" You felt your cheek burning like a fire "y-you don't have to accept, I was just wondering maybe we.. Uhm could-"

♡ "Yes" He coldly (or softly. You were too nervous to notice) said, turning his head away from your look.

♡ "What?" You heard it right?

♡ "Don't make me repeat myself" You thought maybe he was annoyed or impatient, but it wasn't, he was blushing as hell. And when you noticed, you made your way to tease

♡ "Whoa you're so red. Are you running a fever?" You tried your best to hold back your laugh

♡ "Im changing my mind!" His voice was slightly shaking, and you also noticed that, but decided to keep to yourself. It was just so cute seeing him like this!

♥︎ You could see a short smile on his face. Maybe you didn't need to be nervous at all. Everything went right.

Notes from Kyo ♡: Hello again! Well, my "I wanna feel safe and loved" is here, isn't? Two fluffy posts and the same character XD. Now you can suggest anything on my blog, can be anonymous too, feel free.

Here a list about what I do and what I don't:

[earlgraytay]

Hey, PSA for younger/newer transmascs:

Tumblr has been showing targeted ads for "FTM binders" off Amazon. They look like this:

Do not buy these.

A binder is a piece of medical equipment. If you use one incorrectly, or use a poorly made one, you can really fuck up your ribs. This article from the Cleveland Clinic talks about how to bind safely.

A $14 binder is guaranteed not to be safe. There's a reason reputable companies charge more- sometimes a lot more. They have to carefully design binders so they don't crush your ribs or make you sick.

You know how everyone says Don't Bind With Duct Tape? Don't bind with Amazon binders.

[prince-ashitaka]

Lets create a house where yelling means we’re having fun. When you hear a door slam you know it was accidentally pulled with too much strength, not slammed out of anger. When there is silence, it is Contentment, not another passive aggressive fight. The dog is no longer barking to protect, he simply just wants the cats to play with him. Let’s create a safe, warm environment that makes you feel like you can breathe, not hold your breath. Let’s stomp on the eggshells we use to tip toe on. Together we will make this house into a home. And welcome all with open arms into this kind and loving space.

[fuckedmutt]

asking a cute puppy increasingly invasive questions and watching them squirm. Come on puppy, you want to be good, don’t you? Tell me how you like to touch yourself. Oh baby, you’re going to need to tell me in more detail than that! How else am I going to be able to replicate it?

[w0rnoutsock]

stretch them out. tell them that one more finger won't hurt. that you're doing it for their own good, that they need to learn how to take dick.

"shhh it's okay sweetheart i know you can take another one" , while they're crying, shaking and clenching around my 3 fingers already sliding all the way in.

"we should try the big toy today. right?" if they shake their head, just grab the toy and force it in. push one hand down on their tummy so they can feel extra full. watch their walls cling to the slippery silicone and their eyes get super teary as they won't stop sobbing.

"feels good, yeah?" they shake their head. "awhh you'll get used to it." kiss their forehead. ram into them. loosen them up. hit their cervix. bruise it.

[cnc]

[sixk-mutt]

You all want a dog girlfriend until she's holding you down and forcing you to take her knot while biting the back of your neck

[honey-bear-claw]

need a boy to sit on my lap and info dump / ramble about his interests to me as i hold his hands and kiss him when he stutters

i love talkative guys

[shepherd4409]

mutt ➝ a term for a trans man ( / transsexual man / transmasc / trans guy / etc ) who feels outcast from general society*, looked down upon, or pitied because of their transness, as would a stray mutt. though based on trans struggles, this label is meant to be used in a positive way, celebrating perseverance and strength through dark times.

( *see monachoric by @rabidbatboy. this is loosely based off of the 2023 film mutt. while similar to terms like butch, bear, and otter, mutt has no visual or presentation aspects. )

[uncanny-tranny]

I wore my transsexual shirt again, and this older butch stopped me, said, "I support you," and then later flagged me down to tell me about a community queer event and said how they've been out as gay for so long and how these younger generations deserve that.

It's so hard to wear your heart on your sleeve when you're queer, but it's people like that who have shown me just how meaningful it is. This world looked at my heart, and they cradled it so lovingly, I almost forgot there was a time I hid it away

[everyponie]

kill the terf in your brain

[redditreceipts]

"informed consent" my ass...

[dykeulous]

i genuinely wholeheartedly believe that the radical feminist community is proving itself every time to be the only community truly accepting & loving of trans men, transmascs and female dysphoric people in general.

the community that is supposed to be “our own” literally does nothing to prove that they care about us. for the time i’ve spent in tra spaces, i advocated for the safety of trans women, transfems and male dysphoric people– and yet i never received the same from them. i would get told that trans men didn’t experience a unique form of oppression, that trans men were transmisogynistic, and that our oppression was minimal. the cis non-binaries & “genderqueer” cross-dressing males would each time, without any fail, get to speak over us. non-dysphoric, “gender euphoric” individuals would harass us if we used the word misogyny to name the axis of oppression directed at us, but would also laugh at us if we coined terms such as transandrophobia (don’t get me wrong, i do think the term’s a stretch– but you get what i’m saying).

they somehow succeeded to be misogynistic to us while simultaneously claiming we didn’t experience misogyny. they continuously claimed we had the power to oppress trans women, transfems and male dysphoric people (and also somehow non-dysphoric “trans-identifying” males). they wanted us to be perfect advocates, but they never advocated for us. we didn’t matter to them, just like we don’t matter to the patriarchy. our pain was minimal, non-existent in their eyes. we just had to shut up and take it, shut up and be kind. does this fucking remind you of something? misogyny?

so, i thank all my radfem sisters for accepting me. i thank all my radfem sisters for listening to me, unlike those who i was told were “my people”. if my apparent “community” won’t listen to me, i know who will– my true fucking community. i feel safer with the “evil male-hating terfs” than i ever did with the “kind trans accepting activists”. i feel more comfortable with the radical feminist community, and i feel more free to speak my mind– they won’t go fucking ballistic and batshit insane if i dare critique them. they don’t make me feel constantly on the edge, fearing i messed up, fearing i said something wrong; they don’t make me feel like every second i could be harassed for voicing my opinions, thoughts & feelings. they don’t reprimand me for not being perfect. they understand perfection is unhealthy, vague and volatile.

they don’t make me feel like i’m a part of a cult, to say the least.

[my-jewish-life]

We all need to take a break from social media with everything going on atm, stay safe everyone✨️

Credit to sefiracreative ✨️

[w0rnoutsock]

your pet is being a little too bratty for your liking today?

shove your musky used boxers in their face and cover their mouth/nose with them while you force your fingers inside them with the other hand.

works wonders.

[geek-22]

Trans men and enby's,

Testosterone does not work as birth control.

Your doctor may tell you this, a nurse might, but it DOES NOT.

For the love of god, wear protection

[lilstarrypuppy]

I jus wanna curl up in someone’s lap while colouring in, them telling me how good I’m doing and reminding me to stay inside the lines :(( when I start to zone out watching them bring me back to the present with little praises

“Sweetheart? Hm? You okay? Shhh, it’s alright. Mama/papa’s here now, your alright. Your such a good baby, look how good your doing with your colouring! Why don’t we take a little break hm? Make you a little snack plate and get you a juice box, how does that sound?” :(((