#hypersexualisation
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I am not sexual. I don't like it.
But god, am I desperate to be loved.
I will be everything you want if I get to feel wanted for even a second.
Let me be your everything if I get attention.
I am begging to be needed, I do not care what I have to sacrifice for that.
#mental health#vent blog#depressing shit#vent post#actually bpd#i wanna relapse so bad#bpd thoughts#actually borderline#relationship#boyfriend#hypersexual#hypersexualisation#complex post traumatic stress disorder#c ptsd#complex ptsd#actually ptsd#ptsd#tw sexulization#tw sexualisation#trauma response#bpd abandonment#bpd sexualization#ptsd sexualisation#bpd stuff#actual bpd#bpd problems#borderline problems#borderline thoughts#borderline personality disorder#help
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I knew she was already making music for a while before becoming this famous but 5 albums ?! WOW. She started in the music and entertainment industry young and we know plenty of these children grow up trying to shock the world, but end up satisfying the fantasies of men. She’s only being notified now.

I don't know what makes me sadder; the bimbofication to become famous, or the fact that it worked.
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The purplish, blueish, lilac colour that lights Buffy the Vampire Slayer throughout the whole series might explain why BTVS felt so Bi as a show to me in a way that I could never quite explain.

This colour. If you know you know. It’s like everything was lit by weak moonlight, or the slayer and vampires existed in the perpetual twilight.
For real what is it with vampire media, and light purple/bluish tints? Between this and the twilight saga… I dunno maybe it’s just me, or maybe vampire media is just inherently queer.
Obvs bisexuals don’t own the colour purple, but as the intersecting/between shade in the bi flag and how this lighting signals twilight (the time/world between day and night) I think it’s a pretty rad parallel.
#not to mention the tension between Buffy and Faith#Bi!Buffy#Bi!Spike#and in another world Bi!Willow if Joss hadn’t been afraid to make her bi because of hypersexualised stereotypes#not to take lesbianism away from my girl willow. if she says she’s a lesbian she’s a lesbian and that’s that#it’s just worth remembering that willow was not written by a lesbian or even a woman but by a man and that does colour the queer rep#like no one’s dating history takes away from their sexuality if willow decides she’s solely a lesbian after meeting Tara that’s fine#but she still did truly seem to love Oz and be attracted to him at the time#I’m just not sure joss knew what to do with bisexuals or how to write them in a way that wasn’t overly sexualised#btvs#bisexual#vampire media#bi colours#bi#buffy the vampire slayer
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#Please nobody come after me for this#But I am actually getting nauseous from certain fandoms I enjoy#Because of the hypersexualisation of most characters/things in said fandom#And I'm not even sex repulsed.#asexual#I'm not hating on anyone who does this#I'm just feel the need to speak my mind on this topic
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Damn I never would have guessed the Witcher community was like that. That's so rude to steal your mods like that... I'm sorry ! I'm still very happy to use your witcher mods on nexus. I kinda miss you , you were one the best if not the best. Now there's only hypersexualised mods or un-lore friendly one...
The witcher community is a cesspit 🤮
i've had my mods stolen and reposted multiple times before, been insulted in the comment sections of my mods more times than I can count and there's was this brain-dead shipper harrasser that made me actually hate one of my mods I used to love bc I kept seeing her using it in screenshots used to harass people
Completely killed my interest in the game itself lmao
#yikes yikes yikes never again#Leaving this community was the best decision i've ever made#bg3sd.txt#community of all time really#I get you on the hypersexualised mods#I made the mistake of checking the tw3 nexus page once#and i saw a Ciri mod that made me loose 10 years of my life
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uwu pretty male character with long hair I bet he's a dumb little cockslut
- go WITHIN YOURSELF. Discover why this actually might reveal some internalized misogyny that you have hidden back in that dusty little corner of your brain.
#it is fine to do that to characters#you can do what you want#but if you always dumb down and hypersexualise the somehow “feminine” looking men then you are not being very feminist and progessive#salty sloth#i will be done soon with this I promis
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i cant find that post. pussy put his ass to sleep now he calling me michael
#sidenote but i think hypersexualised music bothers me unless its one of the ones that was immensely popular like anaconda bcs at this point#it overrides my personal politics it fucks and it reminds me of better times. and it has sir mix a lot#blue.txt
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#tiktok screenshots#mental illness#actually mentally ill#trust issues#abandoment issues#commitment issues#hypersualizing myself#i hypersexualise myself to wanted and worth something#but it also make me so disgusted abt myself afterwards
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Unfortunately u can’t rly blame fandom for starting the hypersexual dick Grayson thing, like many cursed and evil aspects of his portrayal, we must thank Devin Grayson
#evil… yeah…..#the whole tactile thing she literally changed his race to hypersexualise him#it’s her calling her passion#you can blame fandom for a lot but they didn’t start that one
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Had a big glow-up recently over the last two months since my roadtrip. I switched to working outdoors so now have a golden glowing tan all over, my hair is grown out now and is lighter from the sun, my skin has cleared up, I wear girlier clothes and omg the difference pretty privilege makes
Suddenly I’m getting catcalled in the street again, everyone is staring at me in the malls when I wear a dress/heels, I’m getting heaps of attention at work/popularity (I got a promotion and get a ridiculous amount of tips from customers now), girls think I’m a threat if they have a boyfriend etc etc
Like honestly I’m feeling this gif viscerally and although am actually loving the attention for once, I miss being perceived as a non-threatening goofball tomboy sometimes
#my summer glow up finally happened#like 7 years after puberty hit#like I’ve just become conscious I’m not a little girl anymore#it’s really uncomfortable tho suddenly being aware I might have a sexy physique lmao#men are looking at my legs and it’s really weird#my short hair was a weapon against sexualisation#but now I’m getting hypersexualised and I don’t know how to react because it’s never been my experience as a woman
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the discourse around Astarion's sexuality has been a great reminder of how shit people are with any kind of nuance around sexual trauma and asexuality
#''hey maybe don't hypersexualise astarion here's a small essay on why there's nuance and it needs to be handled with care''#''HE CAN STILL LIKE SEX''#like that is not what was said but you did just successfully put a huge red flag out to all your aspec and sex-traumatised followers so ty
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rlly appreciate that the casting for OUAT is like. normal people! with wrinkles and freckles and moles and crow's feet
#point being i do appreciate that this show from the 2010s isn't as silly as some shows from the 2020s#that cast only hyperpolished hypersexualised hyper-carved to fit a very narrow beauty standard people#this is more a problem in asian shows than western shows but i AM glad that. like. the actors are allowed to just Exist#some of them put on or lose weight through the seasons and that's like. normal! and fine!#over the course of the show you watch their smile lines frown lines etc deepen and that's GOOD and allowed and not frantically scrubbed at#the way some kdramas/cdramas do!#don't know where i'm going with this but i do like this about ouat#even though in my personal opinion too much mascara/eyeliner is being used on every girl who shows up on the screen#songbird watches ouat
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You ever see someone have what looks like a good point, but then they write a 5000 word article on it, and you realise that while the point could be valid, their flat, basic, singular line of reason that got them there is not.
Nothing worse than a good point made by someone who hasn’t actually thought their position through and got there by accident.
I’d genuinely rather you just be wrong and save me the reading time.
#article on sex and puratinism in film#stopped taking it seriously once it said#“back in the 80’s and 90’s people in film looked like real people’#and then went on to list a few rugged men#in talking about THE ERA OF THE BOOBJOB#did it address the angle of#women in film having been hypersexualised and all that comes with it#and the potential pushback that would then have been caused#in an attempt to remind the audience that#‘women are people kevin’#no it did not#ugh
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Hey, punk community of Tumblr, I have a lil question for you?
Can someone dress in styles like scene, egirl, or decora, and still be considered "punk"?
I'm asking because I firmly identify as punk, however i like all sorts of different alternative fashion and I'm not sure if scene or egirl styles fit into punk fashion. I am NOT asking if egirl is truly "alt" or not, I just like the elements of that style and to me it resembles a blend of emo and scene but very toned down, and I think egirl isn't considered fully alternative but personally for me it doesn't seem mainstream or "normal" either (basing this on how I believe my mother would react to a simple egirl look from me- I doubt she could handle THAT forget scene-). I also know that punk is heavily based in DIY too, and I think scene and egirl styles could be DIYed too.
Anyway, I'm new to the punk community so I would like to know what is considered "punk".
(and yes I'm aware that there's not just egirl, there's eboy and eperson, I'm just specifying egirl because that's the one that applies to me)
#punk#scenecore#scene#alternative#egirl#im also not talking about hypersexualised egirl fashion either because thats just not my taste
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it’s crazy how many young girls in their teens and twenties are porn addicts but won’t admit it because they aren’t consuming video porn & simply just reading smut fan fiction every day
#fan fiction isn’t inherently bad but you can tell how badly consuming smut 24/7 is rotting peoples brains#literally not being able to function without reading smut#constantly hypersexualising everything is a problem#it’s a shame it doesn’t get talked about often
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how it feels like listening to olivia rodrigo in your mid 20s

#...she's my new found guilty pleasure okay don't judge#she seems super sweet and her music is good so im glad teenage girls have a good female influence lol#inb4 she changes her image to a hypersexualised one like most female artists are forced to do just watch
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