#i am not a rad fem

[ilovecryoffearsm]

Fuck everyone i wanna walk out of my room naked and just do whatever the fuck i want but these nasty greasy old pigs are in my fucking living room instead of going on a walk that their fatasses need kill ypurself oh my goodness gracious no playlist seems to put feminine rage jnto words and i think im experiencing that rn cause j feel a bunch of other shit but i don't know what i am if im woman or not or whatever the fuuu TV g i fud fuck jdjcbxwudbrhec eycsibc i hate this

[mikasasrippedtoenail]

Calling Lesbians' attraction to vaginas a mere genital "preference" erases the sheer violence behind corrective rape of millions of sapphic women. I do not just "dislike" dick, I am physically incapable of being attracted to it. My allure to the female genitilia is not a choice, it's my biological reality. Dismissal of same-sex attraction as a choice reinforces the homophobic ideology that attractions can be altered and also paves the way for discrimination. One cannot opt out of their sexuality, they are always born with it.

[ms-boogie-man]

As a sider…

… I am on a warpath with fēminism this eve after running across a couple rad-fem blogs last night that were attempting to justify killing off a huge percentage of America's males and taking control of authority.

It seems these females had part of it correct: men need to be kept from women's spaces, and especially contact sports… I agree there, fully.

But if these morons do not get off this male-hating runaway train they are on, they may have me to deal with

… just saying yo

Angie/Maddie🦇❥✝︎🇺🇸

[radfem-polls]

Re-doing the proship/antiship poll because I think people need to have an explanation and this lovely commenter gave one that is essentially free of bias.

Old poll here

Ok, let's try this again. Short explanation of proship/antiship:

Thank you @radatoms!!

With the information above...

edit: ok apparently this definition is also not correct but atp I'mma just leave it to rest

[diedncamebacktwice]

i keep seeing terfs and rad fems on my tumblr feed bro get away from me 😭😭😭

[blackprivilege]

If you say an instance of racism against a man is “misandry” you’re a racist dead ass

[anxeious]

sometimes you reblog from some... "interesting" blogs but I don't really mind bc I block them and bc you're not hypervigilant which is good and part of your easy going nature. yay. anyway I like your blog

i very often go thru my followers blogs & follow some people back as well as like/reblog/queue random posts on random blogs that could be suggested to me. sometimes those blogs look okay/normal and similar to mine whenevrr i look thru it but afterwards they might rb/say some questionable things or you know, not be as similar to my blog as i thought,, which is my bad

[hard--headed--woman]

i saw a tv show some days ago where a young woman in the 60s/70s (don't remember exactly but it was either 60s or 70s, nothing else) was violently harrassed and bullied for being gender non conforming, for "looking like a man" (short hair, masculine clothes, no makeup, etc) and for liking "men things" (she loved cars, and was very good at mechanics, a subject she wanted to study), and her bullies were using the word "queer" against her, writing it on her chair, yelling it at her, etc (we learn later that she wasn't a lesbian, actually, but they thought she had to be one since she was masculine), at the end of the episode the girl is sent to conversion therapy, where they try to force her to become feminine, to act "like a woman", to wear make-up, etc., until they end up lobotomizing her (after several sessions of "electrical tests" supposed to "cure" her) because she resisted and was impossible to "cure". she dies short after that, and the very end of the episode takes place years and years later, decades later, and we see a girl with blue hair sitting on a chair with a big smile, proudly wearing a t-shirt saying "queer planet" with a lgbt flag.

if that doesn't represent very well the current lgbtqia+ community, i don't know what will, lol. this girl faced horrible violence and discrimination for being gender non conforming and because everyone thought she was a lesbian, they used the word queer, a slur, against her, and years later a teenager who doesn't know half of the things people went through decades ago for fighting and just being who they were comes with her blue hair proudly using this slur as if it was just a word.

people suffered decades ago for being same sex attracted and gender non conforming, they went through hell, the word queer was used against them as a slur, and now people who didn't go through any of that (which is a good thing of course) and don't know their history try to reclaim this term, to use it casually, to pretend it isn't a slur and should be used to describe the entire community. that's disgusting.

[cure-whimsy]

"I hate when people disrespect and exclude trans folks! but I'm still gonna say trans men/women instead of trans people so it sounds like I'm excluding trans nb folks and anyone who doesn't call themselves a man or a woman!"

[radical-thots]

It’s very telling that Brie Larson was asked the Johnny Depp question but none of the men present were. 

[beau-rebloga-coisas]

My rule number one of Tumblr is to not give rad/fem/s ttention. Like if they find your post, block them. If they want to debate you, just walk away. If you receive nasty asks just delete them.

None you say will make them change their opinion, they'll just swarm you and wait you to fall apart trying to discuss meaninglessly with them. It's a way to steess yourself in a fight you can't win.

So guy. Don't. Feed. The trolls.

Don't give them a talking plataform. Just silence them. Spread awareness with people you know that'll listen to you instead and are not engaging in bad faith to purposefully misunderstand you.

[horrorsequel]

U hate to block a mutual uve had for i years but u can only see them rb so many rad fem posts before u have to go "hm ur actually a rad fem"

[wingedkittie]

“Oh lemme look for some new ‘kin blogs to follow”

*every single one has one of the most eyebleeding leetspeak DNIs ever created*

[devotedlystrangewizard]

i think if i wrote and published a book id get semi-cancelled

[radfem-polls]

Are you on the proship side or anti side of tumblr? Zero nuance.

Proship

Antiship

Thank you for the submission!

[sinematically]

sent 27 messages where 3 of them were 5+ min voice notes talking about how fuckall excluding transwomen from sports can be and my friend replied with “damn did you brothers say something” like yeah he did but are u LOOKING AT MY FACTS RIGHT NOW G