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truthsinwhispers · 1 year

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#85-90% of my friendships throughout my entire life were fake.#because i'm perfectly pleasant and fine to be around so people like me okay.#until i'm just a little too weird. until i'm just a little too offputting. until i feel just a little too hard.#until i fail to connect with someone in a “normal” way.#but i'm so nice and so hopeful and so trusting and so naive you'd feel so bad saying to my face you don't want me around.#so you ignore me and give me the false promises of “oh i'll see you again sometime we'll make plans!” and we both know it's a fucking lie.#if you knew my insecurities about you tore me apart you'd feel so bad. because i'm so nice and so pleasant #but that's all i'm fucking good for. i'm just pleasant and nice. i'm so pleasant and nice. and you don't have to care about me too much.#because i'm all whimsical and smiley and i like to giggle and talk your ear off but i can't connect with you. i can't connect with you. i ca #n't connect with you.#and then i lose the people who genuinely care about me to time. i want to throw up.#i'm so likeable. but i'm not loveable. i'm so nice and so pleasant.#i say nice things and give you compliments but when my whimsy borders on Too Much it's not okay anymore.#i break the rules of social norms and then you realize oh i'm really weird and my brain is weird so then you just kinda put me away.#like a toy. i'm everyone's favorite plaything until they outgrow me.#i'm sick of being outgrown because i refuse to let my sense of whimsy and simplicity of happiness die again.#i'm so nice and pleasant.

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elisavi · 1 year

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dracula is my most recent source of serotonin so here's part of the gang + renfield

#dracula #bram stoker #dracula daily #mina murray #mina harker #jonathan harker #abraham van helsing #van helsing #john seward #jack seward #quincey morris #quincey p morris #renfield #the protagonist of this book are so NICE and KIND and PLEASANT and LOVING #i have no words i love them so much #you too renfield but you can be a bit nasty tho.#btw arthur babygirl i'm sorry i love you too

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magnetic-rose · 1 year

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lae'zel with the other companions: fools, idiots. you disgust me with your weakling, nonsensical ways. i hate all of you.

lae'zel with gale: hello :)))))) lil buddy :)))) oh? you wanna know more about my people? i will gladly answer everything you ask. :)))

#this is my first time running gale and lae'zel in the same party and i'm so surprised at how nice she is to him LMAO #i'm running with gale/lae'zel/shadowheart rn and the difference is HILARIOUS #lae'zel and shadowheart: bitch i hate you i hope you day #lae'zel and gale: pleasant conversations only good vibes here :)))#baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #gale of waterdeep #lae'zel #shadowheart

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anewp0tat0 · 1 year

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I tried but not very hard to see what the anniversary date was, and i decided to just prepare myself for the 16th or the 18th... it was the former. so, as always, but this time truly by accident... happy belated 17th birthday Black Butler!! I truly hope this year is amazing for us.

this year, I decided to use an idea I had wanted to try for a while but I never thought I would be able to pull off. and I still probably couldn't in the best way.... but regardless, here is a made up last chapter scenario.

you can also see this comic on webtoon here. whatever your fancy, if you please :>

#I don't know if this thing makes any sense or if it means anything at all. or if it looks like anything actually carefully put together #but hey it was nice! so I hope it brings a little bit of pleasant feelings... or terrible ones idk #i was going a page a day fully intending to finish by the 13th the latest but yeaaa things came up. but whatever this is the last day that #I'm in america until some months later so it's still a special day for me! so it still counts. and also do specifics really matter so much #at this point #sadly while I wasn't rushed this time I did intend to use the remaining days i had to revise the visuals framing and diologue. so I'm not #100% confident. but c'est la vie #kuroshitsuji #black butler #kuroshitsuji fanart #fanart #sebastian michaelis #ciel phantomhive #digital art #and... I would be absolutely lying if I didn't try to put just a little bit of dadbastian undertones in there. it's what I do #but I think it's up for interpration. after I decided that I was gonna draw in my own style instead of trying to replicate yana's(as fun as #that would be) i decided to go crazy

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ryllen · 6 months

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Look what came through the mail today! The letters & ( •̀ω•́ )σ 3 little gremlins from letterstoear.

Just wanna say i adore the flower stickers on the letters too much, they are that much worth mentioning.

#letterstoear #nui #twst #twisted wonderland #sebek zigvolt #malleus draconia #twst grim #mod posting #okay but i love squishing the bears with my thumb; they just have the right thickness to be pressed on #i really like the flower stickers; they look like romantically artistic wax seal #the letters are pleasantly nice #i love the part where cheka personally request for an audience with yuu thru sebek 🥺🥺🥹🥹 too cute hnggh .......#sebek becoming our little mailman for our little invitation aw 🥹 for those who wanna know the context of the letter;#i requested a letter from sebek that he sent home while he was away accompanying malleus on other country duty #my other favorite part is just him simply opening the letter with 'My love'#i'm sealed 🥹 the first paragraph is written so sweetly #i enjoy reading the letter slowly outside in peaceful afternoon today; i ran it through together with sebek nui #this will be my treasured keepsake from now on 🥹; it seriously made me miss letters and wish i have someone to send this kind of letter to #it was a bit funny how the envelope sebek's letter came from is sticked with the guys from free! sticker fhsdsh 🤣😂#and me with the white haired guy like WHo are u?? fsjdsdjsd (´つヮ⊂); but it's a really nice service #the thank you letter came with such a cute and yummy folding paper; thank you for the stickers too #i feel like there's a bit whoopsie on grim's winky eye fshfh like i think the sharpie just blurs the separating space '<' supposed to have #and just combine it all together into one angry eye; and sebek bear's eyes are just a little bigger than i expected it to be #but the more i look at them i think they are just having a little individuality & still cute #i embraced it all together while knowing the fact none of handmade thing would always be the same one with the other; hehe sebek nui has fr #i kinda forget that there's this kind of clip earring fshd; because i always get the ones that work like screw from aliexpress #i know that the literal clip one would just be literal meaning of pain fsh; just like the magnet one my father once got me when i was a kid #it was painful but pretty; tho i lost it quickly bcs magnet easily get loosed once one part of it moves around when u touch ur hair or face #anyhow i had a pleasant day because of this; thank you very much ! sebek nui said 'thank you' too! ‧₊˚❀༉‧₊˚. ❀ ✿ 𖤣…

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chiropteracupola · 27 days

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A pair of cunning thieves.

[francis cooper, requested by @seaglassandeelgrass]

#em draws stuff #em is posting about sharpe #sharpe #francis cooper #the great napoleonic pokemon au #not 100% satisfied with this one tbh.#keep doing this thing where I work quite close up so it looks nice when I'm zoomed in but not as good when I am zoomed out again #which. normally I would just crop down the final piece to just what looks good but I've decided on a Series Format....#anyway. what lovely friends what pleasant little gents. my wallet has been stolen.

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forgetfulmachineart · 2 months

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[ID: Teen Gojo pouting and crying shiny tears. He's resting his chin on is arm on a desk and his circular glasses are in his hands. Some of the star tears float off and some drip down his face. /End ID]

⭐ Star Boy ⭐

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captainofthetidesbreath · 9 months

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I fully believe that at least some of Spahr's and Phineas's emotional issues could've been solved if they were allowed to be not nice. Spahr should've been allowed to develop the temperament of a grumpy and cynical ER nurse and Phineas the temperament of a moody and ill-tempered office intern.

#[obligatory spiel on how nice‚ kind‚ and good are all different things]#I'm dead serious. I think having to be nice and accommodating and pleasant at all times has severely fucked them both up.#Specifically in the complete inability for them to not have bad days or express annoyance or be irritable or feel discontent.#I think it's fucking up HUGE swathes of Trustees but Phineas and Jonas are our front-and-center examples of this.#Jonas is so irritable and Phineas is so angry and neither can ever be anything but endlessly patient and accommodating and nice about it.#Jonas Spahr #Phineas Thatch #Midst #Midst podcast #Midst things

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shinesurge · 5 months

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attendees please stop going up to people at artist alley tables and pretending to be interested in their work as an In to try and sell shit to them out of your backpack lmao. i promise promise PROMISE it does not work and in fact will get them to avoid you forever regardless of how cool your thing is. you're literally doing the thing mall kiosks do where they compliment you as you walk by then drag you over to sell you shit, except the reverse is worse because we are trapped behind a booth and the social contract lmao this is doing your career a NEGATIVE AMOUNT of favors

#the con crowds in colorado are generally MUCH much friendlier overall but man the concentration of people Handing Me Shit was SO much higher #some other art reminded me of this comic printout a guy threw at me that would have been legitimately cool #if he hadn't got me talking about #the things at my table #then went 'here's mine :)' and cornered me for ten minutes detailing how much effort he put into this thing he was desperately pushing #this isn't Networking this is just rude #and usually!! if we're having a legitimately pleasant chat and you mention you Do Stuff i will ask if i'm not busy!!#i had a very nice discussion with attendee making a cool game at wicked west and spent a LONG time talking to A Dad about his kid's work #as usual i am simply asking people to not be weird at artists we are humans regardless of table status lmao

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keeps-ache · 5 months

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HEY

#art #my art #artists on tumblr #digital art #oc #pink space #i really like the subtract glitch i've been doing recently - so here's some of that again lol :3 #the way it interacts with their palettes is so fun i like it a lot ehegh :33 #//anyway do you ever consider just tossing out any part the human body you've learned to draw and just drawing dumb little guys with arms #like pipecleaners forever or what hfhs #//oh this is was doobled in traditional originally #i need to digitize more of these. Because #though aura's hair was more extreme in the second panel in that version - i'm tired though and 3 days ago it was the same so no feelings to #change that lol :)#also i didn't shrink the noise enough so it didn't look right - and i was not going to reimport it so Bon Voyage my dude hfhs #was Supposed to fit on a 900x900 canvas but i made the panels a liiiiitle bit too big so it's 950x950 #which is Fine it's a round number but it's not a Round-Round number so [gesturing]#1000x1000 was way too big for this little thing so she sits at a pleasant halfway point :>#//anyway i was also up til 3 a.m. last night doing ?? something ?? i genuinely don't even know what lmfhsbvh #nice though maybe my brain'll get a reset lol :3 #stay up really late some random nights and jumpstart your brain!! it's foolproof!! never fails!! [<- these statements have not been reviewe #by the FDA or the Center for Sleep Control]#//ANywho now i'm going to be on my way #/oh i also forgot to post the oath n aura refs i made for artfight lol-#i'll prolly put those up w/ the kira and hid ones though :>>#i like to have the whole ensemble :D i Do feel bad when one of them gets left out hghsfh - like forgetting a stuffed animal somewhere #even though they're all together for small portion of the story it still feels off lol #i should prolly introduce the rest of the cast at some point. .... ......... ..........hm yea prolly. maybe one day hfhs #//anyway NOW i'm going i've run out of tag space i think hfhs - toodles !! :>

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dragonanne4fun · 5 months

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#hmm🫤#is it time to abandon this desperate desire to meet someone organically in person and finally wade into the world of online dating?#obviously. i would still be incredibly open to meeting someone organically #but is it time to start actively looking online??#30yrs is not that far off for me and....I'm ready to have that person who is *my person*#the person i can call when I'm lonely and not feel like a loser because i know they want to share in my company as much as i do theirs #someone who will kiss my forehead and let me lean against them while we watch a movie #someone who will play new board games with me and maybe even some Dnd #i was feeling the Big Sad Lonely last night so today I got out of the house and drove into the city to go to a few shops...#...and just drive in the traffic (I'm a weirdo who actually enjoys city driving on highways)#and one shop i went to was a big game and ttrpg store (so much awesome stuff)#when i checked out i had such a lovely pleasant and fun interaction with the guy at the checkout #he was kinda handsome. not a chad by any means but he seemed cool and had such an attractive voice #and i know nothing about him/his values/his life--not even his name #but i tell you. if that store wasn't 1.5hrs from my house--I'd be dropping in a lot more often just to maybe get to know him a little better #he was so nice and i felt like there was some chemistry there???#maybe??????#but i feel like the odds of us actually sharing all/most of the same values are low so I'm just torturing myself by dwelling on it probably #the ramblings of a dragon #i want a man. a fun godly. creative man #maybe i should be looking online 🫠

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fisheito · 8 months

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HolyAdhhrShert IT'S ACTUALLY OLIVINE??@!!,,,,?@,@?@@?@,??

I ffidid not expect that either what is going on over at nuca HEAdquartees

#no i'm still not ready to look at yakumo i'm not looking at my dash yet i am only llooking at. ium. my activity page #but i couldn't escape the official announcement for the update in-game so!!#imagine my surprise when they LEGIT LISTED OLI AS THE SECOND CHARACTER #AHAHAHA SLUTTTY POSE FTW OLI YOU REALLY MAKING A BEAUTIFUL BRAND FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR SPINE #me going :O! oh!! my nice boys!! together in a nice dreamy fairytale landscape ☺#me aLSO going WHY WOULD YOU REPEAT ANOTHER COMBINATION FOR THEM? STOP THIS TOPBOTTOM SEGREGATION #I THOUGHT WE WERE GETTING SOMEWHERE WITH THE EDMOND GARU QUINCY COMBO #YOU REVERTED TO YOUR STRANGE LITTLE X AND O GAME #i love my nice boys but let them mingle 😭#i guess these two went thru too much trauma in the sorceror's trials so um now it's time for a nice break #give these two some time to actually get to know each other better #not under the threat of immediate bodily harm and death. sounds pleasant! let's go!!

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mangoofthesea · 5 months

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How many things do you think need to be set on fire to disrupt capitalism enough to create a livable society? Asking for a friend

#mango rambles #capitalism #watcher #dystopian society #just watched a speech about how terrible the overturn of roe v wade is #keep hearing how companies are canning movies as tax right offs or strangling the life out of diverse content before it gets made #fucking governments fucking everything up #looking at uk and us #fucking joke on the tv tonight about how nhs staff shouldn't be bothering with making 'signs showing 23 genders' because cancer isn’t cured #was a sign with pride flags on #some of them genders some sexualities #i hate the british media #feel bad for not donating to causes because i could but where am i supposed to draw the line?#is this the right one to donate to?#i don't feel comfortable donating to multiple because I'm trying to cling desperately to my money and any little advantage or safety i have #but im not giving other people that same courtesy #because which one do i donate to?#the person who can't afford food?#the family getting out of a warzone?#the family trying to get their son or daughter or father or aunt or sibling out of a warzone #the person who needs their cancer stricken cat to get surgery #the homeless content creator #the homeless single parent trying to be a content creator to gain any money #the people trying to raise money for dying relatives they adore #its not even doomscrolling its because i watch one video of people suffering to hear them out #give them time to speak so their video gets views #read their post becuase there are capitals and red letters and begging and i don't want to reblog or repost something that spreads misinform #ion #nothjng is nice nothing is pleasant #everyone is mean

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unopenablebox · 7 months

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far enough in the lace section that my golden autumn shawl actually looks like something

#sort of regretting not using more visible beads but it was hard finding something i really liked with this yarn #now im wondering if i should try a niebling doily next. the answer is no bc i should aim to knit something i can use ever #& not make choices that encourage me to buy even more $40 skeins of pure silk rather than using the many extremely nice yarns i have #but i do enjoy knitting mildly elaborate lace and feeling smug.#box opener #knitting #i'm using dyeforyarn laceweight tussah silk and it is SO nice i'm really loving it. was worried it'd be splitty but so far not much #very soft very pleasant fabric. this thing will probably come out kind of small given that i'm down to like 3mms to get a fabric i like #but if i wear it it'll be as a scarf anyway. and it's sooo soft so who cares.#look at that fun honeycombed lace netting between the floral motifs. what more can a man want in life

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thatswhatsushesaid · 6 months

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do you think.... that maybe the jgy enjoyer subset of the mdzs fandom could, perhaps.... idk..... take a break from the "which ship within 3zun is The Best ship" fandom polls. could we collectively decide to leave 3zun in peace for a while

#salty peak sect 🧂#also i realize this is rich coming from me but there is something just deeply exhausting #about seeing *so* much xiyao ship shade in the notes of those polls #it's not pleasant and it doesn't make the people who DO ship xiyao rather than the other two all that inclined #towards being nice back. it does like. the opposite of that thing.#i try to at least keep my salt about ships i don't sail to my own posts as much as possible #and i'm trying to be more conscientious about not even alluding to a dislike of other ships in other people's posts when i reblog them #because it is seriously no fun to see a bunch of people either directly shitting on or making rather catty little asides in these posts

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creepyscritches · 8 months

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I wanna thank you for your post about being nice to customer service people as someone who works in a customer service call/text center 🫡 people who say please and thank you to us are so rare! I was so shocked, I thought Americans just didn’t use please and thank you as a cultural thing or something, it really breaks our morale when people are rude for no reason 😣 not only that but also being xenophobic and generally mean. We’re already being exploited by the companies lol we don’t need more mistreatment. Thank you and everyone who is kind ❤️

It is not a cultural thing in the SLIGHTEST to not say please/thank you. You are experiencing inexcusable rudeness and you shouldn't be expected to "get used to it"!

Almost ALL of my IT assistance comes from India and I've worked in tandem with Indian medical coders several times over the years. It's insane to think even my colleagues were griping and moaning about working with ""offshore employees" " 🙄 in my personal and professional life, these employees have been incredibly helpful and kind to me and it's just basic decency to thank them!

Just today I had to call our offshore IT for some convoluted/botched IT update, and it took 5 minutes of polite conversation + trouble shooting to correct everything. IT WOULD HAVE TAKEN ME WEEKS ON MY OWN!! I don't understand how people are so shitty to people that actively fix their most frustrating problems. Like it's already insane to be so rude to strangers, but strangers that are bending over backwards to fix YOUR annoying problem? Go to jail 10,000 years.

I hope you have polite and courteous customers this week, anon! You deserve conversations that make you smile.

#Creepy chatter #The biggest complaint I hear is 'ooohh the language barrier :('#Shut up #Just accept that you need to phrase things differently sometimes and be nice #Ntm I'm usually using the WRONG tech word so I assume it's MY language barrier issue #Personally I have trouble understanding most thick accents regardless of language #So I spend a lot of time trying to train my ears to better grasp what I'm hearing #I have an employee with a very thick accent and I hate for her to feel like she can't easily communicate w me #It's a dual benefit to work on my auditory weakness bc I can more effortlessly have pleasant chats w IT while we fix things #Idk you should be nice to people and recognize when you are the one needing to improve! Be NICE

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