#its basic fucking decency
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"I support everyone in this minority but why do they"
no. just no. saying you support someone but wishing they hide parts of who they are is not supporting. its tolerating.
#not throwing a massive shit fit at someone's existence does not make you a good person#its basic fucking decency#support someone in their entirety because the pieces of them that you don't like don't go away when you close your eyes#everyone has the right to be who they are#activism#support#lgbtqia#queer#queer community#lgbt#lgbtq#positivity#decency#popular#politics#protests
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Cruelty Squad is the only game that could say "you have the soul of an emperor" and for me to understand that as the debilitating insult it is
#cruelty squad#cruelty squad spoilers#spoilers#that second ending fucked me up really bad#“your friends are in hell and youre smiling”#learning that Ville fucked around with cryptocurrencies and deeply regretted it#made me understand the mission statement of this game even more#like#you get face to face with the corporate finance world#and its disgusting#its truly disgusting#the way people talk and the way they casually disregard basic human decency#the walls might as well be made out of flesh#they might as well be bloodthirsty demons#and then you as the protagonist climb to the top of it and get all that power#and you come face to face with it#and thats the truth#youre empty and hollow and rotten to the core and people like you always have good things coming to them#such a bitter game but fuck it really says what it wants to say with its whole chest
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vagueing but i think certain ppl need to realize that you can be both manipulative And traumatized 😭
#you can guilttrip someone While having abandonment issues!#in fact abandonment issues are the reason some ppl guilttrip in the first place!#if you claim you watched s4 while not understanding that then i dont think you understood s4 at all!#on god if you relate to ls!kab i hope you dont treat ppl irl the way she does zam#who gaf if shes good or evil were on fucking lifesteal#nobody cares about morality except the lsers themselves cause its got direct impact on their playthroughs#she can be as good as she wants but it doesnt change the fact she does a lot of things that are highly intrusive and manipulative#like she didnt even ask first before deciding theyre ''teamed by default''#and everytime she says she just wants zam to be himself she contradicts it#by getting mad at him everytime he doesnt do what she says even if he hasnt even harmed her in any tangible way#and thats just Two(2) of the more recent things shes done not even mentioning her past actions#that she keeps excusing while not excusing the past actions of others#she cant afford him the basic human decency of being his own person#and were supposed to believe she gives a fuck about him beyond using him as an echo chamber????#shes a lot like clown in that while she cares she keeps using her associates#and surprise! not everyone likes being used esp when she keeps flip-flopping on them#/lore obviously cause if she did this kind of unacceptable behaviour irl she wouldve gotten kicked out already#and i hope to God yall dont either#if you do i fucking hate you this is the kinda shit that traumatized me#mine.txt#my posts
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gum commercial where they play the most disgusting chewing sound effects loud as shit is back on spotify i might fr kill myself
#STOPP its fucking gross and it makes my skin crawl. i get nauseous#i fucking get it i know what gum is. i dont have to hear someone chewing it like they're right next to me mouth open#off topic why the hell does almost everyone ive ever seen chew gum w their mouth open. do you not have basic decency#its fucking grosssss were you never taught to chew w your mouth closed. is it your life goal to be as loud and disgusting as possible#if you cant tell i have horrible misophonia#and the radio is on and the radioman is speaking#“its asmr” i dont care asmr can die in the firey pits of hell#< see like i get the feeling or whatever. but its really bad. its awful#its the same feeling i get when im like horribly stressed. my spine feels weird and its bad#its like bugs. its like bugs crawling in my upper spine.#which is a different kind of gross rhan what it feels like but it's similar and idk how else to describe it
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#Can't believe I even have to say this but unfriendly reminder!#if you reblog my shit just to be rude in the tags expect to be blocked!#like literally i dont give a shit about trolls antis whatever. online people will be online ppl whatever#but people being needlessly rude about strangers' art boils my blood#whether its my own or anyone else's#you do know that artists see your tags when you reblog our posts right?#you're not yelling in an echo chamber with your buddies.#if you wanna make fun of my art in private with your friends i literally don't care nor can i stop you#but for god's sake learn some basic fucking decency#signed: an artist very tired of seeing how needlessly rude and cruel younger people are about art in this day and age#it's not fucking cool to clown on someone's art/style to their faces and if you think it is you need to be taught a harsh lesson#also social media is way more public than you think it is#learn to use fucking gc's and dm's people#don't you have friends you can yap to
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if you guys can't start tagging your hotd s2 spoilers i'm going to start throwing hands
#hotd#house of the dragon#hotd season 2#hotd s2#asoiaf#i am genuinely so enraged about this#its basic fucking decency!#tag your goddamn spoilers!
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New trick for when you have an 'unusual' name as a trans person and keep getting asked for your real name: just say your parents heard it in a yoga course somewhere and thought it sounded fun, everyone will just believe you and move on to make fun of them
- person with an androgynous and unusual birthname who apparently together with baggy clothing and couloured hair was clocked as trans and kept getting asked for my 'real name'
#squirrel talk#i mean i am nonbinary but also no one there knew that so they just saw#1. pink hair 2. baggy clothing and 3. weird name and decided i was trans and actually i should tell them my 'normal' name#shout out to my parents who heard the name at a yoga course and said 'sure that sounds fun' you are a great conversation detourers#also: i wanst angry wehn it happened more annoyed but honstely? fuck that guy for not even respecting basic human decency#even if you think a name sounds goofy its not yours to decide#everyone has different opinions let people be comfortable and themselves
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sorry i really like that post . so everyone else has to deal with it
#for as open as i am about being Incredibly Mentally Ill and thereby Difficult To Be Around it kind of. surprises people when im difficult -#- to be around or act strangely or like. ACTUALLY present symptoms#idk im. very lucky i think to have people who dont mind it a whole lot#and i realize that and shit but like#man. man.#its just basic decency innit?#its basic fucking respect.#and i treat it like its some. gift from god#which. idk i guess its. a lot#im a lot to deal with. again im a very difficult person to be around sometimes#i snap at people i dont make sense when i speak it takes ages to even have a conversation with me bc i get so anxious abt talking that i -#- just dont reply i get scared being on voice calls because i get so paranoid about my own voice that it takes AGES to warm up enough to -#- so much as call them#and its like.#idk.#im difficult to be around. ive said that a million times but.#sometimes i feel like people think that they can . fix me? i suppose?#or they think im Exactly Like Them. and then get mad when im more mentally ill than they expected me to be.#im rambling. sorry. that post means a lot to me i like it a lot#sorry this post kind of. got away from me ^_^;;#txt
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i do still firmly believe that if you join a server where there will be a fair amount of selfshippers you have to be ready for some of them to be non sharers & you have to be ready to keep your thoughts about their f/os to your goddamn self if you happen to like them as well. it will not kill you to avoid talking about it around them let alone to their face. it's just improper & wildly impolite especially if you label yourself a selfshipper as well... & if you have the nerve to encourage them to stop having the non sharer mindset bc "it's not nice" just fall into a pit probably
#like. idk. its common courtesy at this point! maybe make an effort!#if you fashion yourself a very kind & compassionate person then turn around disregarding boundaries like that... you are not nice!#i have friends i share f/os with & they simply will not know about it because i know they dont share.#it is not actually hard to accommodate for people especially if not sharing is bc of some mental illness of some such#like idk i have bpd my attachment to emet (& hancock. & weiss. my special guys) is very much affected by bpd#at this point if you disregard my non sharing boundary you cannot be surprised or upset at me for splitting on you!#of course i have a responsibility to deal with my own feelings without lashing out which is exactly what i do#but this does result in me isolating & alienating myself from others if that boundary isnt respected#& guess what! that IS why i became barely active in the ff server. alongside constantly being spoken over but well#& yes it was all because of one fucking person. ANYWAY!#basic decency. respect other selfshippers' boundaries even if you dont understand them. its not hard
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#oh my goD could my mother stop stealing all my fucking stuff for even 1 fucking week jfc#im gonna scream#she thinks that bc she's the one paying the majority of the rent and is technically my caregiver bc im too disabled to do certain chores etc#that she is simoly entitled to everything in the apartment and can do whatever she wants#steals my food steals my drinks steals my products steals my laundry card etc#now she's stealing my clothes and pyjamas#the fuck dude#i have severe skin allergies and have very selective clothing i can wear w/o a painful reaction#and now she's just. taking that too#the same way she takes the select few foods that don't set off my issues or allergies and steals the drinks that keep my blood sugar up#and steals the unscented hypoallergenic products i have to use#it never fuckin ends this woman is so self-absorbed and arrogant i rly cannot handle it sometimes (most times)#the irony is that she's a teacher and regularly works with kindergarteners who can understand 'don't touch what isn't yours'#and gives regular lectures to her students of all ages about respecting other ppl's belongings and never assuming u can take something#gives a big ol spiel about attentive listening and boundaries and respect on a daily fuckin basis from 8 am to 8 pm for her 2 teaching job#then comes home and immediately disregards that to take everything that isnt hers / disrespect my belongings and space#and yell at me when i tell her not to / get mad at her for doing it#ma'am.#ur 5 yr olds understand this. so do ur 8 yr olds. u r 60 MF YEARS OLD WHY CAN U NOT COMPREHEND THIS#nah actually the worst part is that she *does* understand it. she simply doesn't care#she would never do this to anyone else just me. bc im disabled and a burden and she hates having me depend on her for things.#idk if its vindictive or bc she feels like i owe her for basic care and decency or if she just enjoys lashing out like a petty bitch#i stopped trying to figure it out a long time ago#all i'm fucking asking is for her to STOP STEALING MY SHIT#is that so much to beg for. is it#ugHdjddjsk#someone find me a wall i need to bash my head against it#(or maybe hers. that might be better)#ask to tag#negative
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Idk I think my cat laying on my arm and snuggling up to me helped me more than a decade spent trying different anti depressants
#so tired#but i love her. i was playing with her and i guess she got comfy#i just wish a human could love me like this. we all know thats bs though :)#just been feeling so unlovable lately. been getting put down so bad and i just cant do anything right. and nobody cares#i get it. im just a stranger but some basic human decency would be nice. fuck i hate this time of year#i dont know if i can make it to this time next year. just when i think its become unbearable something gets worse#sad thoughts#vent blog#sad blogging#vent#vent post#actually traumatized#venting#actually mentally ill#personal vent
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why do men insist on spitting on the ground every 30 seconds theres 3 guys waiting for the bus w me just smoking n spitting everywhere. maybe you dont like cigarettes that much actually
#thats like#my number one pet peeve if u could even call it that bc i think its just basic human decency#not to spit everywhere like a drooling fucking animal#+ throwing butts on the ground n smoking in a group of strangers who wish u were dead fucking go somewhere else
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kicking my feet and giggling (<- just got apologised to)
#guys i have worth??? im actually a human being deserving of basic respect and SHOULD be apologised to if i am not given that??? holy shit#ok but like i actually was pretty mad and i just wasn't going to talk to them when the weekend ended but to think they'd actually apologise#guys i am a friend worth apologising to omg this is so nice#(<- was fuming over how i was a “friend” not even worthy of her basic decency and respect an hour ago)#LIKE IM STILL MAD#okay i actually cant vaguepost to save my life but basically this girl whos a friend i recently got close to and formed a friendgroup with#shes really fucking whiny and ive been tolerating it for so long but on friday she was extremely whiny and rude whenever i just asked a#simple question#and it's really draining and humiliating to be spoken to like poop on the sidewalk in front of other people#but anyway other than that i was really upset because during pe i wanted to show her my hip injury cuz i thought it was funny#(it wasn't diagnosed yet i just felt my joints moving weirdly)#and like that involves her putting her hand on my hip#so i asked her to do that then she started whining about how she doesn't want to touch me and that i'm weird for asking ppl to touch me#then she started telling like the 3 other ppl around us i was weird and wanted ppl to touch me#then this other cool girl overheard and looked at us funny i guess cuz then the friend said 'haha now [cool girls name] is also laughing'#i was so fucking embarrassed and humiliated i still want to tear up thinking about it#like are you actually my friend wtf i don't even need enemies w a friend like you#i wanted to cry so bad then#ugh i hate it#like you couldve just said no thanks bro what is ur problem#this just made me realise how much i hate how she talks to me sometimes#and i know i need to stop surrounding myself with negative vibes in order to feel happy#but its still so frustrating#we were doing so well the other day and google meeting everyday#then this happened and then she got mad and started ignoring me on the way home#bro idk i hate ts i should just stop making friends#rant
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actually wait that poll unlocked a fuckin memory and i feel like talking about it so‼️
( not tmi or anything but in case this gets long or you don't wanna read it im putting a page break here LMAO )
ok so on my 18th birthday, my grandparents REALLY wanted to go to dinner to celebrate. i didnt really wanna, but i got to dress up so i said fuck it. this was around when debates over trans women in sports were first brought to the mainstream ( as far i know ) right. so we're sitting there in the restaurant, im eating my cake, and my grandfather starts going off about how they're letting men compete against women and how unfair it is and shit. WHILE WE'RE CELEBRATING MY BIRTHDAY. IN FRONT OF ME. THEIR GNC GRANDCHILD. WHO REFERS TO HIMSELF WITH MASCULINE TERMS EVERY TIME YOU SEE HIM. LOUDLY. it's been two years and i STILL can't believe the audacity. like YOU invited ME out to dinner and start talking that shit?? if they weren't family and we weren't in public i would have told em to shut the fuck up
#they STILL talk about this stuff at family gatherings too apparently#i always keep to myself til we leave but my ma has told me they complain about people demanding you use the right pronouns or whatever#and god bless her soul she tried to be like 'actually its not that hard even if you cant tell because you shouldn't assume' and#'if they tell you how to refer to them its just basic human decency to respect that'#no clue how they took it since i wasnt there but they just ended the conversation after that 😭😭#god dont even get me started on my uncle#hes awful and clearly mentally unwell and obviously really old#we have a family friend who had two moms right. they never tried to hide it and didnt really acknowledge it as anything weird. bc it wasnt.#my uncle is the one that introduced us so clearly he knew their mom was gay#and he did#he never said anything about it while we were kids out of fear of making us gay or smth#but at the last family gathering he was updating me on what was going on with them cuz we havent seen em in a while#and he told me that their daughter had apparently gotten a boyfriend#which is great! im really happy for her#but my uncle was like 'yeah i was getting worried because of ( one of her mothers names ) being. . . you know?'#and i was???? flabbergasted?????? esp because of personal things with their parents he was JUST telling me about#this is the same guy who after 20 years STILL cant spell my deadname right. not relevant just still so fucking funny to me#but yeah he laughed when he said it and everything like he was making a funny joke#tbf there is smth so insanely comedic about telling your butch niece you were afraid someone 50 years younger than you liked other women#just because her mom did#crazy shit
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omg edgars mc and i are literally on the same wavelength girl me too
#she expresses basically human decency in trying to find pineapple and jonah is like WHAT THE FUCK#then edgar is like WHAT THE FUCK#and she's like guys....what#LIKE GIRL SAME ITS BASIC HUMAN DECENCY TO HELP?????#WHY ARE THEY ACTING SO SURPRISED ARE THEY NOT USED TO IT#and then edgar was like “do u have an ulterior motive” like why would i do that#IM NOT SMART ENOUGH HELLO#me handshake alice#literally everything that happened this chapter#auburn talks ikerev <3
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at least when yall vaguepost have the decency to make it somewhat funny or entertaining for us lmao like come onnnnn
#we put so much heart into being mean#the least you could do is not be so fucking boring#boring and basic and lazy#'ohoho verdi voters should grow a brain' are we in kindergarten...... or are we adults fighting to death on a cringy half-dead website#commit to the bit#have some basic decency#smh at yall. its literally vagueblogging 101#how are we supposed to NOT say yall are the anti-intellectual side if you clearly skipped your basic vagueblog education.......#tragic
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