#please stay safe and stay healthy <333

[inkykeiji]

hi clari :p i just wanted to ask if flawless tomura is really in love with the reader? he’s my favorite of all your characters because he seems saner and more genuine than bmb tomura but some of the stuff he does/says seems like he doesn’t really love her

hehe hi anon!! <3 this is an interesting question, and it has an equally interesting and complex answer.

tw: discussions of abuse, drug addiction, mental illness, clari overshares, LONG answer

okay SO.

flawless tomura is, just like every other character i write, HEAVILY flawed as a person. he isn’t a ‘good’ person. he has a lot of issues/problematic qualities; he’s extremely entitled, he’s selfish, he is unhealthily possessive which leads to extreme jealousy and obsessiveness, he needs to be the boss at all the times and thus is extremely controlling, etc etc the list goes on. these are all huge red flags, obviously.

he is much more genuine than bmb tomura in the sense that he is extremely, extremely honest. he is so bluntly honest about his thoughts and his feelings, and he rarely lies unless he has a good reason to (and does not consider lying via omission—ie conveniently not telling reader about how he bought the consignment store and stalked her, is a drug addict, is heir to a yakuza empire, etc—to be lying. to him, it’s her fault that she didn’t ask. but he isn’t actively lying to her or hiding things from her; if she asked, he’d be brutally honest with her).

‘love’ can be a very interesting, complicated, complex and convoluted topic, depending on the relationship and the people. my father claims to love my mom, to love his kids, but he put us nearly a million dollars in debt, he stole money from all of us to support his drug addiction, he put me in some seriously dangerous situations when i was under ten fucking years old, all to support his drug addiction. he was and still is extremely abusive towards all of us. mental illness and extreme childhood trauma may be an explanation for his actions, but it isn’t and never will be an excuse. he is still responsible for his own decisions, and it is still his responsibility to get better, to DO better, and to be a decent fucking human being.

do i doubt his love? not necessarily, but he made a lot of very dire mistakes that caused all of us a lot of pain and irreversible scars, and eventually they’re no longer mistakes, they’re decisions, they’re conscious choices, they’re patterns of behaviour. and yet, despite these choices he consciously made, knowing they’d hurt those he loves and values most, i still wouldn’t say he doesn’t love us deeply and dearly, because i know my father, and i know he does.

a lot of people would say that these aren’t things you do to people you truly love, and i get that. i understand that sentiment. they most definitely are not things good and/or mentally healthy people do to those they love. i could never conceive doing any of the shit he did to us to my significant other. but the truth of it all is the people you love WILL hurt you at least once, because they are flawed human beings. and the truth is, no matter how hard you try not to, you WILL hurt the people you love at least once, because you are a flawed human being, too. i think, personally, what it comes down to is intent and reaction. we don’t usually mean to hurt our loved ones. those of us with good hearts don’t consciously make these decisions. and then it’s important to question: does that person take responsibility for their mistakes? do they acknowledge them and learn + grow from them and become better from them? or do they continue to make these choices even after they know they hurt you? etc.

i’m going off on this tangent to demonstrate how complex and complicated love can truly become when it involves a person like this; like tomura, like touya-nii, like my father. as i’m sure is very evident, my own father is a huge source of inspiration for the men i write, for lack of a better word. i am NOT going off on this tangent to excuse anyone’s behaviour or say it’s alright; no one deserves to be treated like this, and if anyone reading this finds themselves in a relationship like this, romantic or otherwise, please leave as soon as it is feasible; it is not healthy and it is not safe.

so does flawless!tomura genuinely love his reader? yes, absolutely. is it true love? i don’t know, what is true love, really? how do you define it? it’s a different answer for everyone. most of us would say no. but to HIM it most definitely is true love; he’d rip your fucking head off if you implied otherwise. this is the only way he personally can conceive love. does his ‘love’ excuse his abuse or make it okay? no, absolutely not, and it never will. but does he love her? yeah, he does.

it isnt always as black and white as people who have never experienced abuse would like you to believe. people are complicated, people are MESSY. conveniently, a lot of these themes and topics are touched upon in part two!

WHEW okay. that was a lot but i hope it helps a lil! art is subjective and i always welcome everyone who consumes my work to interpret it however they want to (death of the author n all that jazz, my own meaning + interpretation is only one of infinite), so this is my answer as the author. but it may also be beneficial (and fun!) to ask yourself what YOU think. how do you interpret his love/feelings and their relationship? what does true/real love mean to YOU? how do you define it? do the aggravating factors (ie who tomura is as a person, the fact that he won’t ever be capable of 100% healthy love) make an impact at all? do you believe this is love, or is it just really intense infatuation and obsession? etc!! you’re welcome to believe whatever you’d like <3 but this is my answer as the author! c:

[ros3ybabes]

🎀 Workout Youtubers

I currently do exclusively pilates and yoga workouts from youtube. However, I've done other body weight workouts with various youtube videos and seen results in the past. Here is my list of workout youtubers that you could check out! I will put a * next to my personal favorites! I will include a short list of my current at home workout equipment at the end as well as some items I plan on buying soon!

With any workout program or routine, always be safe, check with your doctor if necessary, and if something doesn't feel good or right, don't do it! No matter what your goals are, it's always important to be safe and stay healthy. Please always take care of yourselves and know how beautiful, worthy and valuable you are no matter what! I love you all <333

🩷 Pilates

Move with Nicole * (also posts occasionally barre and yoga videos as well! I love her videos so so much)

Madeleine Abeid

IsaWelly

Pilatesbodyraven

Lidia Mera

Lottie Murphy

Amanda Blauer

Margaret Elizabeth

Jessica Valant Pilates

Bailey Brown

Dansique Fitness

Flow with Mira

Sivi (she's began posting some pilates inspired workouts and to my knowledge is currently getting certified as an instructor)

🩷 Yoga

Yoga with Adriene *

Yoga with Bird

Boho Beuatiful Yoga

🩷 Bodyweight Fitness/Strength/HIIT

Chloe Ting * (I don't like the click bait, but I like the workouts)

Blogilates

Pamela Reif *

Madfit *

Lilly Sabri * (Some of her videos are titled with pilates, but the older ones I used to do were not pilates, so I categorized her here)

Emi Wong

Shirlyn Kim

Vivian Yuan

April Han

growingannanas

growwithjo * (I love her walking workouts)

Hinafit

Mish Choi

Sami Clarke

Elenifit

Coach Kel (she posts what looks like more barre, ballet, pilates inspored/fusion workouts it seems)

Caroline Girvan

TRAIN WITH GAINSBYBRAINS

Daisy Keech

🎀 Current At Home Workout Equipment I Own

Thick Yoga Mat - since I do mainly yoga and pilates my thick yoga may (amazon brand) has served me well. Even tho I am a heavier woman at the moment, I've never had pain or any issues with this mat, and it came with a carry strap which I love! A good, thick workout mat is definitely necessary for working out at home for comfort, safety, etc. Make sure to disinfect it on occasion, especially if you sweat on it a lot!

Resistance Bands - I have about 3 or 4 at different resistance strengths, and they're incredibly useful for a variety of movements, especially lower body ones. They add some extra resistance and make the workouts a bit more challenging when you need something more advanced. I also got mine from Amazon/Walmart a while back. I prefer fabric over rubber because I like to wear workout shorts instead of workout leggings.

Pilates Ball - not a necessity, but useful with some pilates workouts and movements. I have seen sole videos using this, but am not advanced enough to try it on my own yet. Will use for sure once I'm more advanced.

3lb dumbbells - I thought these would be useful for the pilates workouts that had some upper body focus, and as someone who wants to develop a lean and toned upper body, they are perfect for low weight high rep, controlled movements. Again, not advanced enough to use as I want to master my form, but they're gonna come in handy for sure!

Foam Roller - so so good for stretching and muscle recovery on rest days. I love mine but want one that has the bump things on it to help my muscles more. I can imagine how good it'll feel on my legs during a recovery day when I begin wieght lifting again.

Massage Gun - my holy grail for the days I am sore and needing some recovery. my body feels like jelly after using this, and it's just so nice for the days my muscles feel extra tight and super sore.

🎀 Equipment I Want To Buy

Yoga Blocks - these will help me get deeper into the yoga poses once I get more advanced in my practice

Pilates Ring - this honestly looks so fun and challenging to use, I'd love to add it to my collection of useful workout equipment!

Jump Rope - I used to love this as a form of cardio and as long as I don't move into an upstairs apartment, I'm definitely buying one

Pilates Bar - still iffy on this one, it's supposed to mimic a reformer but I want to get better at mat pilates and see if I even end up ever needing or seriously wanting to buy it, its on my list tho

Ankle/Wrist weights - these are gonna be so useful for workouts where hand held dumbbells aren't useful. Want to buy some low weight ones just to help with resistance and extra strength during pilates workouts

Kettlebell weight - I think this would be useful for a workout at home type situation if and when I switch to not doing just pilates and yoga. I know these are useful in their own right, but not needed in my current fitness stage of life.

Core Sliders - these look fun and interesting. They're on my lost for sure, but not sure about the practicality of their use in my life just yet.

That's all that's currently on my at home workout equipment list! As someone who primarily works out at home, the things I currently own are most useful and most of what's on this list is for fun or extra challenge. Just not necessary yet.

hope you enjoyed this list! if you have any questions about my favorite youtuber workout instructors or favorite videos, please feel free to ask, I've tried so many and can give some guidance from my own experience and research.

til next time lovelies 🩷

[katsukistofu]

PLEASE (if you feel like it) WRITE FOR AIZAWA! A SICK READER TROPE MAYBE?

Btw ur fics are so good and are part of the reason why I’ve gotten back into mha <333 I love ur writing style sm and ur hawks fics??? That was amazing

hi my love! thank you so much omg that’s so sweet, i’m happy i helped you rekindle your love for mha again lol! <3

sick (but never of you)

contents ౨ৎ ⋆ s. aizawa x fem reader. fluff. cursing. 997 words ★ your husband insists on taking care of you when you fall ill, despite your protests.

Not this shit again. 

You groan as your eyes flutter open for the second time after you said you were fine, then proceeded to dramatically faint in Shota’s arms in the middle of your patrol and sit up, hurriedly tossing the pile of soft blankets off your body.

You shiver despite the warmth radiating from the heater nearby. Shota must have brought it out for you after getting you home.

“What do you think you’re doing?” 

The disapproving voice of your husband floats over, and there he is, leaning on the doorway with a steaming bowl of something in his hands. You perk up despite yourself. Miso soup? 

“I don’t have time to sleep off a little cold, Shota!” Your arms tremble as you try to force yourself off of the plush king-sized bed. “It’s already past nine, I have to head to the agency.”

“Don’t care, didn’t ask.” Shota wraps his arms around you to trap you in place, ignoring your insistent budging. “You’re staying home today with the cat.”

“But—But they need me…” You weakly mumble in his firm grip. It was no use trying to break free, and you’re not sure if you even want to anymore with how nice he feels against you.

“And I need you here.” His stern gaze doesn’t waver, and his hand guides your head from the back of your hair, which you’re certain looks like a disaster zone right now, to rest on his chest. “It’s my job to make sure you’re safe, happy and healthy.”

Shota brushes a hair from your face and tucks it behind your ear. The little beads of sweat on your skin don’t bother him in the slightest.

“So let me do my job.”

“Are you using your teacher voice on me?” You grumble into the dark fabric of his sleeveless shirt. He smells warm and like all things good, as if he just came out of the shower. 

“I vaguely recall someone commenting that it was ‘hot.” Shota’s gravelly voice teases your ear and his stubble tickles your cheek as he smirks, knowing he’s won the battle when he finally feels you melt in defeat against him. 

He brushes a soft kiss to your forehead. “Stay in bed, sweetheart, I’ll be right back.”

“Okay.” You say in a tiny voice, weakly slumping back into the sheets. 

Shota comes back with a spoon and a folded piece of paper. A hint of a smile tugs at his lips as he holds it out to you.

“Looks like I’m not the only one that wants you to stay home.”

Your eyes widen as you look at the get-well card in your hands.

feel beter soon!! lots of loove, eri it said, with millions of tiny hearts doodled around your name. You choke back a sob as your eyes fall onto the little stick figure drawings of you pushing the little gray-haired girl on a swing set. 

It looked just like the one from the playground nearby that you would often take her to on your days off.

us when youre not sick anymor! :D

“Shota, give me that damn soup.”

He chuckles deeply and scoots closer on the bed to feed you. You squeeze your eyes shut as a sharp throb suddenly pierces through your head.

“The room’s spinning again, that’s not normal is it?”

“No. No, it’s not.” Shota’s forehead creases in concern, bringing the spoon of warm soupy goodness up to your lips while his other hand holds yours.

You part your lips to drink it, letting the rich, comforting flavor of miso spread across your tongue.

Letting out a little sigh of relief, you’re about to lean back before Shota sets the bowl down on the nightstand to prop up the pillows behind you, making sure you’re comfortable before he picks it back up again and holds up another spoonful to your mouth.

“Come on, one more for me sweetheart.” 

“Not hungry anymore,” you huff, turning your head away from his outstretched hand.

He lifts an eyebrow. 

“We can cuddle after you take your medicine.”

“...Can you rub my tummy too?”

“You know I will.”

You sniffle and reluctantly open your mouth to sip a spoonful of the soup once again.

“Atta girl.” Shota smooths a kiss on your forehead, rubbing circles against the back of your hand. 

He reaches over to the nightstand to grab your medicine he picked up from the local pharmacy earlier, and hands a small cup of what he pours to you. 

You grimace at its cherry-colored contents and tilt your head back to drink it in one go like a shot.

“Good job. Now come lay on me.” He didn’t need to ask you twice, but Shota’s hands are already on your waist to gently flip you over him as he takes your previous position on the bed, setting you down to rest your head on your usual spot on his chest.

He strokes your hair gently, arm snug against your back while he presses you to him. “How are you feeling?”

“A little bit better,” you mumble, absentmindedly tracing the outline of his abs under his shirt. It's always been soothing to you.

Shota’s chest rumbles as he lets out a husky laugh. “Are you just saying that so you can keep tracing my abs?”

“Maybe.” You giggle against him, which turns into a cough and he firmly pats your back. His hand slides under your pajamas to rub gentle circles on your tummy like he promised. You softly squeal at the ticklish feeling of his hard-earned callouses against your skin, and Shota tenderly kisses your cheek once, twice.

All your senses are numb, but you can still feel the overflowing love behind them.

“Go to sleep, sweet girl. I got you,” he murmurs into your hair.

“Okay.” You comply easily this time, nuzzling deeper into his chest. “Goodnight, Shota.”

“Goodnight, angel. Love you.”

“Love you too,” you mumble before drifting off to sleep in the safety of his warm arms.

Maybe being sick wasn’t all bad.

[stardustedreams222]

Pick a Pile Collective Love Reading ✨

What’s something your Significant Other wants to tell you but they are too afraid to say it?

🦢These are hard truths to hear, please take a deep breath to open your heart space then choose the pile, crystal or emoji you’re most drawn to. As always, Take what resonates and leave what doesn’t. You are always in control of your life. ☁️✨

𐐪𐑂 𐐪𐑂 𐐪𐑂 𐐪𐑂

☁️Pile 1: Redline Marble

7 of Wands, Hermit Reversed, King of Cups

They wanna tell you that you’re doing more harm than good by standing your ground and putting up boundaries. That right now, you’re really just isolating yourself from the world. They don’t think it’s healthy but they don’t want to tell you bc they don’t want you to push them away too.

Here’s your advice: Boundaries are a good thing but you have to set those boundaries with compassion and a balanced mind and heart. Are the people you’re cutting off from your life people who are really bad or are they just telling you truths you’re not ready to hear? You need to have Compassion and Patience with yourself first so that you can feel your emotions and have compassion and patience for others who might not have the right words to say the right things.

Signs this is for you: Seagulls, 1989 Taylor’s version, Out of the Woods song in particular, Beach, Pier, Malibu, Sand, White, Blue, 999 777 1111

🦢Pile 2: Selenite

4 of swords, 7 of swords, Chariot, Six of cups Reversed

They want to tell you that they think you need to stand up for yourself. Right now they think you’re taking things too lightly, and justifying it as “I’m staying out of it for my own peace”— but they really think this is just letting other people get away with being mean to you. They want you to start standing your ground and sticking up for yourself even if this means getting into an argument with someone or taking the conflict to HR. They think it’s necessary and the faster you do this the better it’ll be for you. They also want to say that if you need help doing this they’re here for you. You don’t have to face your bullies alone. 🩷

Conflict can be really difficult to face but you deserve to feel safe and if someone is causing you trouble, talking it through and fixing it is better than putting on a mask and convincing yourself it doesn’t hurt.

Signs this is for you: Napping a lot, Feeling restless, Anxiety, Shaking, Mirrors, Mirror magic, Cats, White, Black, Orange cats, Golden retriever, Pitbull 323 333 444 777

🤍Pile 3: Rose Quartz

Knight of Cups Reversed, Knight of Pentacles Reversed, 4 of Wands

This is in regard to a wedding or a marriage. Some of you are planning a wedding and others are already married. There’s conflict with the parents in law or with your parents. Your significant other thought this would be like a fairytale wedding/marriage. But it’s turning out to be either a nightmare or they’re realizing their ideas of this were unrealistic. They thought you were going to be their knight in shining armor to defend them against all troubles with your parents {this is giving Rapunzel, where the prince saves her from mother gothel except you didn’t do this. But they thought and wished you would.} They don’t want to bring this up because they’re worried that when push comes to shove you’ll choose your parents{in law} over them. They’re used to being neglected or chosen last for everything and as much as this is hurting them right now, they’re choosing to suffer in silence. I can see this isn’t your intention at all, but instead you just wanted to keep the peace. Unfortunately, this isnt a situation where keeping the peace is a good thing.

Your advice is to think about what you want and what you are willing to do to show your love. This will require you to stand your ground with your parents{in law} to be the protector your significant other needs you to be. First, create a safe space for your significant other where you can sit down and talk. Let them know they are loved and cherished. Work on making them feel that they don’t have to worry about you choosing someone else over them including your parents{in law.}

Be prepared for healing tears and be open to collaborating on how to fix this moving forward not only with your parents{in law} but with each other. Work on rebuilding a foundation of trust with open, honest communication. It can be difficult at first to get the words out but be patient and compassionate with each other and everything will be all right 🩷✨

Step Two is implementing this by talking to your parents{in laws} and putting up boundaries necessary to protect you and your significant other’s peace.

Signs this is for you: Fighting over tablecloths, Theme wedding, Elven or Fantasy theme wedding, Destination wedding, The Witcher, Game of Thrones, ACOTAR, Estranged parents, Mother/Father in law visiting, Crowded guest bedroom/house, Family gathering, Reunion, Red, White, Black, Silver and Bronze, 353 333 555 444 1111

𐐪𐑂 𐐪𐑂 𐐪𐑂 𐐪𐑂

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With Love, Astrid 🩷✨

[kusakiguzen]

Hi there...i saw your latest reply for the unpleasant comment...it mush be surprising getting one but just want to say stay strong! Please work on your own pace because i think its very important to have your time to enjoy writing it and i hope in the future you won't get another such comment...if you do, i hope you can view it as an act of care for your personal growth and handle it with cool

HIIIII OMG! Thank you for stopping bye!!<<33

And yes it doesn't bother me since i've heard worse by my family ( i used to write short stories, not x readers) so I don't really care about them i just replied to make a statement. Because if people think their words can hurt me, they are so wrong ( can't break what's already broken lol). Plus coming from an Asian family has its perks.

But thank you really from the bottom of my heart, it means the world to me. I did feel bad for not being able to upload like other creators but i have my priorities.

And it wasn't that surprising because you can't keep them all happy. And some people like to bully the weak or try to ruin their joy, its common, so it doesn't faze me.

You Are Just Too Kind To Take Time Out Of Your Day To Say That. It Made My Day. THANK YOU <<<333

Stay Safe, Healthy And Hydrated <3

[ataraxiaspainting]

exp.

to anyone under 17, please don't interact with this blog.

*~*~*~*

disclaimer: i genuinely do not believe the yan content here should be practiced in real life. those are not healthy relationships by any means.

the purpose of my writing that kind of content can explore psychological horror elements and the darker parts of the human psyche. as someone who is a psych student, i simply find this stuff interesting to learn about and nothing more. please do not recreate this stuff in real life, and if you intend to please seek out professional help. if you think you are in a similar situation to the yan ones i write, please reach out to people who can help you get out of it and take proper actions to ensure your safety.

please also remember that abusers can have platonic or romantic interactions with you, and abusers can be female, male, or anywhere in between. the abused can also be female, male, or anywhere in between. no matter what the person who is hurting you's gender is, it does not make the abuse any better. the same thing for sexuality. a lesbian relationship, for example, can be just as abusive as say a straight one. people who are male presenting and are abused are less likely to speak out about abuse than their female presenting counterparts, but please do. you are no less of a man for seeking help and prioritizing your own safety.

again, if you intend to do the yan acts written or think you are in a similar situation, please reach out to someone who can help you and keep you safe. some resources that can be used include:

[emergency services hotlines worldwide.]

[red flags in relationships (both platonic and romantic).]

[suicide hotlines and prevention services worldwide.]

[mental help hotlines worldwide.]

[stalking victims help resources.]

stay safe out there. <333

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rules for asks/DMs:

things i do not write for:

underage, necrophilia, pedophilia, explicit suicide, incest/stepcest/pseudo incest, vore, scat, race fetishization, ageplay, forced feminization, omegaverse/hybrid aus, character x character ships, and anything else in the "very questionable" vein. also, very long/detailed requests and OCs unless they are my own because i genuinely don't know how to respond to those. 😭

for requests, please ask for a maximum of six characters for headcanons and a maximum of three for a story piece. anything else i feel will be too long.

things i do write for:

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i will try to update my ao3 somewhat regularly but i rarely use it lol </3

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again, please, please do not recreate the yan content in real life. if you are in a similar situation, please seek out help.

if you are less than 17 years old, please do not interact.

MAPs/pedophiles, racists, stalkers, misogynists, transphobes, homophobes, etc. are not welcome here. if you are any of those listed above, please leave and rethink your ways.

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okay now that that is all out of the way, please enjoy your stay!

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[urlocalnonbinarybastardwrites]

heyyyyyya I honestly can’t remember if I alr did one but could you pretty please ship me with a character <333

starting with appearances, im female, about average height, very straight light brown hair with some natural blonde/ish streaks, pale skin, green-grey-blue eyes, large-ish nose (not massive), slight acne. my clothing style is very much basic.

my personality is hard to describe, im a yapper if i feel comfortable around you, silent if i dont, probably think about other people’s opinions on me too much, people pleaser, loud, excitable, hyper but also tired 24/7, social battery runs out faster/slower depending on the day, i try to be funny, more/less nervous meeting new people based off of their personality, i obsess over things rlly easily and a lot, love physical touch but im scared to initiate it with most people, i hate school but get good grades, nervous to say things +unintentionally clingy in friendships cus i think yall will hate me :)

also I think a lot of that stuff is just internal so it’s not really noticeable in my personality..

my interests include singing, acting, songwriting, writing, screenwriting, cute clothes and stuff like that, and things I love doing are hanging with friends, shopping, being on my phone, having personal space, staying up late & sleeping in.

that was a lot mb, thanks for reading and if you give me a ship <333

Your Outsiders Ship: Sodapop Curtis

(This man is ur husband)

Explanation: I think that soda pop would be really fond of you. Just from the looks of you you don’t stand out that much but what really made him click with you was whenever he actually started talking to you and you would go by the gas station to get snacks and you guys would just have a little chats and it could get really deep very quickly and I think that’s one of the things he loves about you, he feels like he can open up too faster than almost anyone else because you guys share so many similar problems and tendencies. Honestly, honestly, I can see you guys just like even after the store closes just freaking chatting away and not stopping talking because I think you guys would really excite each other in a new way and I think you would have endless topics to talk about and with your guises kind of hyper personalities, I bet that you would never ever be bored with each other and I feel like he’s the type of guy to find new and exciting fun things to do on each date anyway. You guys are both people pleasers so you would have a really hard time sometimes with opinions on things because you both just want the other one to like each each other but once you sort of more comfortable with each other, I feel like you guys could get into the zone like teasing each other about disagreements and things like that. You would also have a pretty easy time, expressing your feelings to each other. I feel like soda pop would be and feel safe to tell you if he didn’t like something you said and obviously I think you would feel vice versa. You guys kind of both get teased for being basic but you know what you don’t really care what any other people think about that because they don’t understand that you both enjoy the simpler and finer things in life.

Healthy couple 10/10 ship

[areggo]

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everyone contribute where you can, boosting always helps if you have nothing to give <3

[wayliparker-co]

good luck w whatever you guys are dealing with! stay safe and healthy, please take care of yourselves. while your writing is amazing and wonderful and truly such a gift, you matter more. your wellbeing is what matters. best of luck! <333

awww thank you anon!! that means a lot <333

[realsafari]

TW // ED

I know I shouldn't b happy abt this but my ED brain is forcing me to god-

I only have to lose 13 more KGs to reach my goal! I've been able to lose over 20 since I started my weightloss journey, n yes, I'm absolutely aware that how I'm doing it isn't healthy.

It's really hard to recover, n I'm trying, but I'm gonna latch on to my ED victories when I can cause my brain is fucked up.

I do not want anybody to think that starving themselves or purging like I do is a good way to lose weight. It fucks up ur body n ur mental health. It is NOT a viable, nor healthy method.

The ONLY method that is good, safe, and proven to work, is to eat less carbohydrates n added sugars + more protein, eat less overall (but still reach your required daily value), do consistent exercise (especially cardiovascular), drink a fuck ton of water, sleep for a good amount of time (for the average human this is 8-10 hours), n do things that make u happy.

I sound like such a hypocrite saying this wtf but please stay safe ily all <333 ure all gorgeous EAT UR FUCKING FOOD N DRINK UR FUCKING WATER

ly!!

[femmefatalevibe]

Hi!! So I am very new to this Femme Fatale thing. So basically I broke up with my boyfriend last year cuz I was in full anxiety and all, and he's still quite salty about it which is understandable but he is simply not letting me go.

I don't know what to do cuz tbh the relationship and the after effect kinda traumatised me, and honestly I am craving for attention from guys (which I am currently staying the hell away from). How do I garner the self-confidence in myself? How do I tell myself to ignore other people's judging comments?

Thank you!! <333

Hi love! I hope that you're staying safe. Please block him and make sure a couple of close friends/family members know about this dynamic/harassment to ensure you're safe and supported through this situation.

First, do your best to validate your feelings regarding the situation. Think of these negative emotions like this: No healthy or sane person would be unaffected by a toxic situation or individual, so your response to this prior relationship is understandable and a testament to your mental fortitude.

Here are a few of my guides that offer my self-confidence tips:

How To Cultivate Self-Love & Boost Self-Esteem

How To Build Unshakeable Self-Confidence

How To Rediscover Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Master Interpersonal Conflict

How To Master Your Shadow Self & Embrace Your Dark Feminine Energy

Empowering Affirmations To Unleash Your Dark Feminine Energy

Hope this helps xx

[inkykeiji]

one of my favorite fanarts I've found. May this add fuel to the fire

waaAAAAAH NOO THERE IS NOTHING HERE 。ﾟ(ﾟﾉД｀ﾟ)ﾟ｡ omg i am burning with curiosity i need to know what this piece is!!!

[judgedarts]

Just wanted to tell you that you’re amazing and I love your art sooo much, it’s single handededly making me want to get into yugioh :D please stay safe and healthy and have a fantastic day/night/time of day wherever you are!!!

this is so sweet, thank you so much ;_;! i hope you enjoy the series if you get into it! <333

[astraystayyh]

Merry Christmas, dear! Hope you had a wonderful day.

Lately a lot happened. I was immensely happy for a while, but today I'm not really well. Have you ever wondered and longed for things that are just impossible? Places that doesn't exist, people that are out of reach? I am feeling like that. And I am feeling bad bc my life isn't bad, quite the contrary, but I still feel this way...

Still, it's silly to bring this up today, of all days, isn't? I'm sorry. Didn't mean to dump all this on you. I really am hoping for the best for you! Keep doing the things that make you happy. Stay close to those you love, and make you feel good. And happy new year, too. I wish your new year is amazing, the way you deserve it.

-🍒

hiii lovely hope u had a nice Christmas <333 you really shouldn't feel bad for feeling this way, it's completely normal and human to go through periods of times where you feel sad for no particular reason,, don't put pressure on yourself to go back to being happy instantly, feel your emotions fully whatever they might be, embrace them so that when happiness comes in your life again, you'll learn to appreciate it more. the presence of shadows tell us that there is also light somewhere, so take care of yourself and be gentle with your heart until the light shines again!!

i also have come to learn that on days where we are supposed to be "happy" like holidays and birthdays, it's very easy to feel this weird longing for something else, u don't know exactly what but the feeling is there,, so just know that you aren't alone, this too shall pass as all things do <333 and im here for youu please stay healthy and safe 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 happy new year to u as well!!!! i love youuuu

[sigynfoxysworld]

GRATULERER MAMMA SIGYN!!! >w< 💚💚✨✨🌷🌷🌷🌼🌼🌼🌼🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻

*Sings the happy birthday song to her in Spanish*

🎵 Estas son las mañanitas que cantaba el rey David, hoy por ser día de tu santo te las cantamos así, despierta Mama Sigyn despierta, mira que ya amaneciooo, ya los pajarillos cantan la luna ya se metio 🎵

A la bibo, a la babo, a la bim bo ba, Mama Sigyn, Mama Sigyn, RA RA RAAA!!! <3333

I hope you have a great time on your special day mom Sigyn, you are the most caring, loving and kind mother I have ever had, you are always there to support me and you are always there to make sure I am always safe and healthy 🌷💚🌷✨✨✨

YOU ARE THE BEST MOM IN THIS WORLD, YOUR COMPANY ALWAYS MAKE MY DAYS HAPPY AND I AM VERY PROUD OF YOU!! <333 I wish you the best on this birthday, enjoy your special day to the fullest and may the gods bless you with many more years ahead 💗💗💗🌷🌷✨✨✨

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MOM SIGYN, YOU ARE THE BEST!! <33

-With love, your dear daughter Heldi 🌼🤍🌼

*Her eyes widened and she covers her mouth in surprise*

OH HELDI!! IM- I'm going to cry happy tears..! MY BABYYY DAUGHTER 😭😭😭😭

You're so adorable and so so sweet to your good old mamma! Here you are writing such a long message, out of your time and day for me.. Thank you so much for singing me happy birthday too, especially in Spanish!! That is so thoughtful and sweet of you!!

🥺💚✨✨💚

So far, I had an amazing day, thanks to your wishes my daughter! 😊😊💚💚✨

My family prepared everything and I do have some pictures to share!! Here are decorations and the wonderful food that was prepared.

It looks pretty bland probably! But it was pretty good!! 🤭😅 Trust me!!

I love you too darling!! Please you have a good day too, and continue to make me just as proud, stay healthy and safe!! 💚✨😊

- from your mother Sigyn 💚

[bbael]

Hi my love, how are you doing?

I know it's been months but life is so chaotic despite taking medication

I've got little updates of my life.

Luna sadly passed away a few months ago at the start of the year, and since then it's been hard to live each passing day without her.

Namun is now 3 years old, and we bought a (dog) cake for him. We couldn't take any pictures but he was SO happy to have a cake for himself.

My dad found a little dog left alone to die near the campo and now she's part of our family.

Her names is Pietra, but we call her Pipino / Pipina /Pipín. We think that Luna sent her so we wouldn't miss her too much.

She loves being held like a baby (also hair and back reveal)

Hellooo my love<333 i've been missing you :(❤ so sorry to hear you've been having a rough time despite the treatment. I get it though, sometimes life just. really be like that. I'm here for you if you ever need someone to talk, even if just to take your mind out of things happening.

& I've been doing well ! At least better than I was a couple months ago which is great & i try to stay positive ;_;!!

I'm so sorry about Luna's passing, she was such a lovely girl and I know you adored her!! Actually sent you a message when I read about her some time ago but it seems it didn't reach you? and now I'm so sorry I didn't send you a dm instead -_-.

I know how hard it is to lose your long time pet, do know im still sending you all my love and support no matter how long has passed❤ little Luna will be remembered so lovingly.

But also..i'm so happy to finally get some Namun news oh my goddd <333 sorry to be like this but he is my fave of your little pack hahdhfk. Bet he's still just a puppy. Also overjoyed to know he got his own safe to eat cake.....that is so cute :(( i hope he also got a silly bday hat too? No??

& so glad you guys just keep adopting strays and giving them a dign, healthy and happy life!! Pipin looks so cute like a little parrot perched upon your shoulder and I also love her little vest hehe (and your hair omfg!!!ze....).

Please give ALL of your babies many forehead kisses, pets and ear scratches from Me. Know if I was around I would be obssessing over them 24/7!

Since u sent me dog updates I guess I'd also share mine? Kind of?

My bestie adopted the TINIEST puppy from an abandoned batch(?) on god knows where and even though she isn't mine, I get to spend a lot of time with her and it brightens my days a lot. Her name is Pócima and she's barely over one month old or something but already knows how to play fetch and roll around on command hehe. She's just a baby but so smart😭🖤

Wish I could post pics but id feel bad since its not *my* pet sjfjfk but shes black and still fits on the palm of my hand.

Anywho... Thank you so much for dropping by Ze🖤🖤i really miss u tons...

Once again..sending all my kissies and cuddles to ur gang (and you too, if thats your thing 😳) & am hoping things get easier over there! One day at a time luv❤ love you lots!!