#proud enby! <3

[thewayfarersinn]

And they've come so far 🥺

[waffulart]

"La flor más bonita del campo 🌼"

Olds doods that i found in one of my notebooks (Kinda messy but still cute 🐑)/from 2020 perhaps.

[xxlosttrinityxx]

Been a few months or so since I started dating my Aussie boyfriend, my smoothie, but it still surprises me how he made my gender identity evolve without me thinking about it.

Here I was thinking I'd be a transmasc enby!

Like for the rest of my life!

And he comes around, talking all passionately, and it makes my heart swoon without my stomach sinking in disgust.

I'm his hairy girl, and I revel in the titles he bestows upon me~

To be female is no longer a curse to me. It IS part of me. And I think it always has been, in some small way.

No wonder - I confuse everyone everywhere I go, be it offline or online. Yet I like it that way - to be ambiguous and watch people struggle in their attempts to label me properly. All the while, I know what I am. I just have grown old enough to not care about explaining it to every stranger I know.

Genderfluid

The man, the woman, both, other, and nothing - the living contradiction~

[sincerecinnamon]

Every trans person I know is absolutely awesome; transphobes are missing out hard, and that is a huge L for them

[brainfullofbees]

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[altruisticenigma]

Ever since I spontaneously decided to change my name and start using it & start telling ppl to change my name and use that name- no hesitation, just go for it-

There’s been some surprisingly positive mental health benefits that came with it, too.

I suffer from CPTSD. I struggle with identity issues and separating myself from my trauma and how strongly I identify with it. Changing my name was partly due to gender; the biggest reason was my dead name is strongly associated with trauma for me. I hear that name and I see a trapped, traumatized little girl who has no agency and no choices, her control taken from her. I don’t see me. I see people’s ideas pushed onto me; their perception of me choking me. What they choose to overlook about me.

I renamed myself; now I choose my healing path in front of me. Going forward I notice it’s been getting easier for me to assert boundaries with people (something I’ve struggled with for years), and am becoming more comfortable with myself and my choices. I don’t second guess myself as much; I don’t internally beat myself up as much. I don’t feel unsafe as much either; I feel seen and heard more often.

Yes of course there’s a bit of discomfort in coming out with a new name, especially in established environments and relationships. And yeah, it’s easier to just say it’s due to gender rather than the complicated true reason behind it. I just wanted to share how healing it is to be affirmed in making a big decision and being true to yourself. Making a home in this new name is still a journey, but I know these good feelings are a reassurance I’m on the right path ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖

[thatonegaybrit]

; happy pride to everyone ! And I mean everyone. All of you. Even the ones that aren't usually mentioned !!?

; including but not limited to:

BIPOC queers

Disabled queers

Neurodivergent queers

Closeted people

People in countries it's extremely illegal to be queer ( stay safe, it'll be okay !! )

People in unsupportive families ( stay safe, you'll find family / friends who support you, I promise <3 )

Trans folk who haven't and / or have no desire to medically transition

Xenogender users

Neopronoun users

People who use " conflicting " labels like being masc-aligned and a lesbian

Aroallo people ( exclusionists be damned,, you are valid !! )

Intersex people who are AFAB / AMAB

Intersex people in general

Queer people who don't fit their stereotypes ( i.e. Fem lesbian, masc gay, non-androgynous enby )

Black trans women who continue to be masculinized and misgendered ( you are a woman !! A beautiful one at that. )

Gay asian men who are fetishized ( you're not a fetish !! )

Old queer people who are forgotten / underrepresented

Alternative people who are queer ( mainly black / non-white ppl .. But also all of you !! Valid !! )

People who use uncommon microlabels and are always forgotten

Plus-sized queers !!

People who didn't realize they were LGBTQIA+ until much later in life

People who aren't out and proud and are actually having lots of doubts,, it's okay to have doubts !! You're still valid !!

Transmascs / transfems who don't specifically identify as a man / woman

People who are religious and queer

; and everyone else who's often excluded / forgotten !! You're a part of this community and you're so so valid and you deserve to enjoy pride month too ! However you do so. :]

; brief caps tw below this <33

; HAPPY PRIDE MONTH <3

; pt: HAPPY PRIDE MONTH <3 :end pt

[bambi-slxt]

Would you be open to writing Chris/Matt X Nonbinary Reader headcanon?

of course, my love, thank you for the req 🤍

enby!reader:

✨a concept✨

includes usage of pet names that are gender-neutral in my opinion

coming out -

chris: "you guys have the best flag colors, honestly. don't tell nick i said that, he'll kill me."

matt: "they/them? cool, mine are he/him, wanna go get ice cream?"

pride parade -

chris: "all of these pins are gonna look so cool on my backpack, holy shit, these go so hard."

pride parade with matt: "i told you to put on more sunscreen, that's probably why you're burning. no pride stickers until you put it on."

meeting the parents -

chris: "as long as you let him talk about golf, Jimmy's gonna love you. don't be nervous, i got you." very wet forehead kiss

matt: "okay so there's something you have to know about Mary Lou, right..."-deep sigh-"she's gonna make you a casserole. yeah. yeah like- yeah like a whole, a Whole Ass Casserole to take home. and she'll call me. and ask if you liked it. you're not allergic to anything right?"

hanging out with justin and the boys -

chris: "he may seriously rock your shit at cards so if you wanna play with me you can. no, i'm not bad at cards. i'm not cheating! what is this slander against me?" chris is very bad at cards and is trying very hard to cheat his way to victory.

matt: "you've never played Super Smash Bros? nah, i'll teach you. don't want you to worry about learning it tomorrow instead of having fun with everybody, come here. okay so first you pick your character...yeah it kinda matters but i'll start you off with Kirby, he's pretty easy...yes you can be the purple one."-kisses your cheek-"you're so adorable."

self-expression:

chris: "how other people feel about how you express yourself literally doesn't matter. they can go sit bare-assed on a lego. i think you look cool as shit and my opinion is the only good one, so." he's very proud of himself, but he does genuinely care about you and how you feel. if he could get rid of your doubts about how you style yourself, he would.

matt: "listen, my entire goal when i get dressed in the morning is to look homeless. i promise you, the people who matter won't give a flying fuck."

spicy time -

chris: "biologically, you've got one of the two set-ups, and i'm experienced in both,"-wiggling eyebrows-"so you're in good hands."

matt: "you experiment however you want, sweetheart. i'm here to learn how you like it."

aftercare -

chris: "blankets for you, water...you want juice? sure baby, i'll get you juice," he chuckles, kissing your cheek before heading to the kitchen, leaving you snug under his fluffiest blanket.

matt: "come on, shower time. nope, let's go. i know it's warm but we gotta...okay, you get five more minutes, and then shower."

dear anon,

hope you liked this! i'm not nonbinary myself, though a dear friend is, and in this post, i've used pet names and honorifics that i know for a fact they're comfortable with, and i hope none of these were off-putting to you.

thank you!

- bambi <3

[greenhairedfreakglobal]

intro

hi lovelies!! I'm new to ed tumblr so i'm making an intro;

non edblr blogs please don't interact! I am not proana, this is simply my way of coping. Please choose recovery if you can <3

block don't report! this blog is very dear to me

my name's Cyrus, but you can also call me Sylvian, i dont mind either. I'm 16 and an art student! I dunno what i'll do with my future but i'm really into music and artistic stuff! I'm enby and i'm fine with any pronouns tho i prefer they/them. I am a lesbian and currently dating the most gorgeous girl in the world.

I'm really into old music, and currently my listening range is from the 20's to 2010, i like pop, rock, jazz, swing, classical, electro and basically any type of music under the sun. Though i'm really big on new wave, glam rock and goth music. I enjoy alternative music as a whole. My favorite artists are David Bowie, Mylene Farmer, Japan and Sisters of Mercy.

I am an animal lover and have the immense joy to have two fabulous kitties: Belle and Kits. They're my babies, my besties and i would die for them.

I'm REALLY eager to make friends, especially ana friends as it can get really lonely sometimes. So dont be afraid to message me!

i'm sorry if i can come of as "off putting" to you, or if i'm too excited sometimes. i have emotion regulation problems. I am diagnosed with ADHD and in the middle of an autism diagnosis. I also have depression and PTSD. And there's ana too, obviously.

My current hyperfixations are: Dead Boy detectives and Drag Queens

My special interests (if im acc autistic) are Naked Mole Rats and The Little Prince. I've been obsessed by them for years and years now.

SW: 76kgs

CW: 64kgs

GW1: 60kgs

GW2: 50kgs

GW3: 45kgs

i'm 158cms (5'2) so my cw is making me quite chubby, i cant wait to lose some! I'll do daily updates if things changes!! i mostly eat 1-2 tiny meals a day and i dont seem to binge for now so i'm proud of me.

dni: basic dni criteria, fatphobic ppl, proshippers, nsfw accounts, anti recovery accounts,

i cant wait to talk to more people on here and to post more,

sleep well, drink water and take care <3

[khaosissigma]

trans boys if you’re seeing this you r very boy :3

trans girls you r very girl:3

enbies you are neither and very valid people:3

genderfluid people you are very boy / girl/ enbie / agender/ WHATEVER YOU ARE TODAY!!

anyone else, YOU ARW WHO YOU WANT TO BE! IF YOURE A BOY YOURE A BOY, IF YOURE A GIRL YOURE A GIRL AND IF YOURE ANYTHING ELSE YOU ARE!! BECAUSE YOU SAY YOU ARE!! YOU ARE ALL VALID AND IM PROUD OF YOU AND LOVE YOU ALL:3

[transaffirmations]

how do you deal with self hate about being trans?

not wanting to be trans, not wanting to be perceived as trans, knowing that if someone were to know you were trans theyd never treat you as the person you are?

is there a way to get over it?

i cant even follow trans blog, knowing no one but the owner would know, because just the thought of having the one person know makes me sick

i am out already for the record, i am just extremely deep into being stealth to an unhealthy degree

i understand that, ive had struggles with that to that level too. personally, i deal with it by looking into the positive of our community- the unique experience, the one of a kind world view- it's all nice to have. it let's us empathize better. if someone treats you different in a not supportive way- they aren't worth having. i know that's complicated, but this is a part of you- and you deserve love for it. you don't have to present any specific way, but- my biggest recommendation is be true to you. not your fears, but you- you are beautifully trans and im so proud of you. i love you, and you can do this- you deserve all the good that will happen. side note; you don't have to say you're trans to anyone :3 ive found instead of correcting pronouns if i say im a boy it works (though, as an enby myself, that's also rough at times.) you can do this, ik it

[your-queer-dad]

Hey dad,

So this is gonna be slightly weird. We are actually two people using my (Joe's) account to reach out, since they (Lucia) don't have an account and don't have plans to.

I'm a cis bi engineering student with adhd, and Lucia's an aroace enby with some pretty bad depression. My blog is mostly parts of our chat history.

I read through some asks here snd immediately almost started crying lol. Growing up, my father was present only like 20% of the time, and we never had a good relationship; he never loved me as his son, and I gave up wishing for a dad figure at some point in my early teens. Seeing you replying with "hey kiddo" just makes me wanna cry. I don't really need advice on the queer side of things, I don't plan on ever coming out to my parents and all the people I did come out to took it really well. But I really appreciate your effort in helping queer kids all the same.

As for Lucia, quote

"I just want a parent who doesn’t need a four hour lecture to know what enby/trans is, and who will not tell me just wait until it pass"

So yeah we mostly wanna say hi and maybe make some friends here.

<3

Joe (and Lucia)

Hey kiddos! This is so sweet, I'm really happy to meet you both. You're both welcome here anytime, my inbox is open 24/7 night and day and I'm always will to listen or chat if you want to. I love you and I'm really proud of you both, no matter what and thank you for reaching out to say hi!

- dad x

[thearoacescout]

Ok so like I don't know if I've talked about this much, but I am a Scout in Scouting America (formerly the Boy Scouts of America) and before I go into my main rant, let me just say that I am proud of the progress the organization has made with inclusion. An organization that once fought to keep queer people out now accepts and celebrates them with open arms. The various inclusion spaces at this one event celebrate and inform people about women in scouting, scouts of color, scouts with disability, and scouts who are a part of the LGBTQ+ community. I am able to go in and learn about other people's experiences and how I, as a white AMAB, can support others.

Now with that being said, I just attended a discussion about LGBTQ+ people and their experiences on a college campus. I wanted to see if their experiences matched up with mine as an aroace. It was a tad disappointing for a few reasons.

The panel consisted of 3 gay men and one bi enby and it was an interesting talk. A lot of what they said made logical sense and lined up with what I would expect it would be. Things like take care of yourself, go to therapy if you need it, find people who accept and love you for who you are. But there was a lack of something that affected me during my first year of college: the challenge of finding others like you.

While yes I do have a few friends who are aspec in college (and a great queer friend group in general), it is still incredibly rare to find someone like me. It is rare to see myself represented in the various queer clubs my uni has. It is rare to see my flags represented in a parade. It is rare to see my experiences addressed and considered. It feels lonely sometimes like I am out of place or that I am broken (i'm not broken i'm just built different).

The reminder that I rarely see myself just kinda bums me out. This group has made progress with respect to aspec identities but it is relatively small and not as much as I would like to see. There are more aspec youth and adults in Scouting than you would think. Fun fact: the first fellow asexual I ever met in person was through Scouting (thanks black ace ring).

I guess this was one of the first times that I was confronted with how similar but different my experience is from the general LGBTQ+ community. It is a feeling that I can't quite put into words except for a general meh.

Also one of them said the A stood for ally and I was about to throw hands. But thats a whole other issue

Despite my dissatisfaction with it, I still greatly appreciate it. Progress is progress and we have to start somewhere. I know that this small talk made a difference to some youth (and adults) out there. And I, as an adult (almost adviser), am here to encourage the youth to keep growing and be their best authentic selves.

[transenbyconfessions]

i feel so alienated from queer communities. it feels so hard to find people who are actually queer and proud these days.

sure they'll ask your pronouns and technically respect them.... but at the same time it's afab this amab that, don't identify with these words or those words or else you're oppressing people, it's women+enbies (assumed to have been afab) versus "men".....

i step into the community and it's all sanitized. it's all rules and gatekeeping and social courtesies and right ways to be. it feels like they took the queer out of queer. it feels like i don't belong, can't belong. it's sickly sweet rainbow merchandise and ""validity"" in place of rosaries and ""blessings"".

i don't want to be "valid". i don't want to be told im "loved". i don't want a more convenient, rainbow-lined coffin to lay in. i want to be me. i want to be loud and bothersome. i want to be queer. i want to be unabashed and compassionate in the way i live. i want to stick by my human rights and i want to stand up for the creeps and freaks. i want to feel entitled to my own existence.

Submitted May 3, 2023

[simp999]

Saw that your TF2 requests are open :) could you do some relationship headcanons with Demoman x Male reader?? If you don't want to write headcanons you can do whatever you feel most comfortable with, I don't mind :)

Have a good day!!

AHHHH DEMO MY BELOVED <333 thank you so much for requesting!!! I needed this for the soul, as an enby who likes being seen as masc www

Tf2 Demoman x Male! Reader Headcannons + Mini Drabble

Wc: 0.8k

Masterlist

-I like to think that Demo’s very touchy-feely. Not in a weird way, it just makes him happy having an arm wrapped around your shoulders, or even simply having linked pinkies under the table.

-Like, bro-type affection if that makes sense?? He likes being gentle with you at times of course, and very much cherishes those moments, but there’s something about being able to pick you up and squeeze you tight, or pushing you around then having you giggle because of it that’s special to him.

-Back to those soft moments, he loooves hugs and cuddles, but especially when you two are super close. Like you two can be hugging for an extended amount of time and feel comfortable, then you look up at him and smile (as he melts)

-And it’d just be wrong of him to not give you a kiss right then and there, right?

-Speaking of, TONS of forehead/temple/hairline kisses. They’re his favorite to give.

-He loves any of your kisses of course, but kissing him on the jaw does something man

-Friends to lovers 100%

-He’s your #1 Hype Man tm for sure!! You do anything, it doesn’t even have to be remotely cool and he’s like “HELL YEAH! THAT’S ME BOY!! MY BOY, AAAALL MINE!!”

-Also, since magic is canon, it’s possible he believes that you’re his soulmate. Or at the very least, his good luck charm <3.

-One thing that gets me totally soft is the idea that he drinks less around you, so that he can remember special- or any- moments with you better. 

-If you enjoy drinking as well, there’s sure to be nights where you two just enjoy the night and drink together.

-Though, dating him definitely involves taking care of him. 

-Everytime he wakes up to you caressing his face while he has a miserable hangover, he swears he falls for you even more.

-The fact that you’re a boy wouldn’t change anything really, love is love. That’s just how Demo grew up.

-He’s not afraid to show you off to others, being so proud of you!!

-"Look at my handsome boyfriend!! Isn’t he the cutest?!"

-Speaking of praise, he gets extremely emotional about it when he’s drunk;

“Why’re ye looookin’ at me like..like that, luv?” He sways a bit as he speaks, while he sits on his bed, with you comfortably tucked in his arms. 

He had drank more than usual tonight, wanting to celebrate the impressive win you had earlier that day. The celebration had ended almost an hour ago, but the two of you still wanted to spend time together.

“Am I not allowed to admire my pretty boyfriend?~”

It takes a few moments to comprehend and then put together your words, but you can see the way his face heats up. He quickly tries to hide it by hugging you, and nestling in the crook of your neck.

The two of you lay like that for a while, the position being comfortable and warm. You could easily fall asleep on him, but he backs away before you could. His voice is much quieter, and the way he mumbles makes it tough to discern what he’s saying.

“Aye, luv… ye really think I’m pretty?”

Without missing a beat, you carefully bring your hand up to caress his face, and give him a short kiss.

“The prettiest.”

Extra trans male headcanons for the soul:

-If you’re trans, he is the most reassuring and comforting man you’ll meet.

-If you ever feel dysphoric, he’s so quick to shut it down.

-No!! You’re the most handsome, strong, boyest boy he’s ever met. (Yes, that’s something he’s told you.)

-I highly doubt any of the mercs would misgender you, and none of them would ever do it on purpose. But let’s say you did run into some transphobe douche while you’re out and about, I can promise that Demo would have a short fuse. (Pun intended-)

-He’d quickly passive-agressively say that you’re his boyfriend. 

-And if the ass doesn’t get the hint? Well, you won’t have to worry about them for long after they get blown up.

-If you bind, he will not allow you to do so during battle. He assures you that you can wear the binder whenever you’re out and about, or even as soon as you get back to base if it makes you feel better about yourself.

-He’s always on your ass about taking breaks and stretching, but he does it ‘cause he loves you. :)

-If you had top surgery, he LOVES kissing your scars. Or even tracing his fingers over them, through a shirt or not. 

-He totally loves getting you trinkets or literally anything with the trans flag or trans flag colors on it. He buys so many stickers and pins, and even a white, light blue, and light pink plushie he found.

July.25.23

[tamarieatsbatteries175]

Holy shit i finally got some art motivation :3

Anywaesss this is Ghoststar, leader of Phantomclan!!! Im so proud of their design aughhhhhh my grumpy emo enby....

Their former name was Ghostspider :]