#real life dean

[babygirlwolverine]

do you ever just stop and suddenly remember dean actually and literally called cas “devastatingly handsome” in front of his entire family, like, cmon, boy is so damn whipped for cas it’s glaringly and painfully obvious

[autisticandroids]

FAMINE: That's one deep, dark nothing you've got there, Dean.

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dean and his father. dean and his family. dean and how bad it is.

(via @closetoyou1970)

[youraveragebtsstan]

Them: How can you ship them; they're brothers!? It's absolutely disgusting 🤮🤢.

Also Them: Wincest isn't real- you're delusional.

Me: Your Honor, I'd Like to Present Exhibit 4,385.

Exhibit 4,385:

[salchat]

Ridiculously young Jensen, or Dean - take your pick! My materials:

Little chunky-chunks of pastel. I used these exclusively, because I didn’t want anything with a fine point. I'm trying to be more Impressionistic. Or something.

Also, I wanted to apologise if there's anyone who's messaged me that I haven't got to. I'm kind of overwhelmed at the moment. I have my stoma reversal next week, and the recovery for that sounds particularly unpleasant. And then straight onto more chemo, do not pass Go etc. So, yeah, not fun.

But at least there's Dean...

[goodwillfidgetspinner]

my contractually obligated venture bros clip of the week

[sammybeann]

I've been seeing a particular back and forth on the spn fandom side of tumblr regarding Wincest shippers, and though nobody asked, I'm voicing my opinion on the discourse.

The amount of time and energy people put into genuinely loathing those who enjoy a particular ship is astonishing.

To say people who enjoy Wincest are freaks, disgusting, and to even wish harm upon them is fucking WILD.

I'm unsure if anyone, especially Destiel shippers have got the memo, but they are ✨ fictional characters ✨

Enjoying the dynamic between brothers in a fictional sense doesn't mean shippers condone or practice incest in their day to day lives. Like wtf are you even smoking?

Castiel tortured Jimmy Novak, literally got him killed then continued to wear him as a meatsuit and y'all are wet at the prospect of Dean fucking the body of a man who didn't consent.

Tell me how that ship makes you any more moral that Wincest shippers.

People have real lives, families, friends, jobs, and to come on here, a site where people should be allowed to be themselves and enjoy their fandoms, and harp on how they're lesser than because you don't agree with them?

Fucking utterly pathetic, and I'm sorry you're so angry inside. Truly. Here's hoping for some personal growth from some of y'all.

[smaeemo]

It’s crazy to see how people interpret dean and sam’s brother dynamic as “wincest”

Some people have clearly never had a parentified older sibling. Then you take into account the degree of trauma that they have been through and continue to go through. Their codependency stems from their childhood and current traumas, their mental states due to that, the way they grew up with their father obsessing over the importance of “family is everything,” and the deep parentification of Dean, AKA Dean having to be a CHILD while raising his little brother, and taking care of his insane father. It’s not “wincest”/incestuous in anyway, it’s called trauma, parentification and general unstable family dynamics.

I think that a lot of “wincest” shippers don’t actually see what trauma can do to a person and their dynamics, specifically the people that endured that trauma with you. Dean, who was the older one that had to in HIS WORDS “be the mother, father, and brother” of his younger brother since the age of !4! is obviously going to be extremely protective/codependant of/with Sam, both because of the parentification and the words of his father carved into his very being. As for Sam, having Dean be all those things for him, means that more than anything, Dean is it for him because Dean RAISED HIM. Which is why, for so many reasons, what John said to Dean (killing Sam), was one of the most cruel things he could have done. John if not straight out, on some level knows that Dean and Sam will forever have a different dynamic because Dean raised Sam, ergo, Dean being more of a Parent to Sam than he ever was.

That’s not to say I think Dean was a “perfect parent” to Sam when he was raising him. No one can be “perfect” especially not a teenager raising his baby brother. What it means is that Dean had to sacrifice his childhood and grow up quickly for Sam to be not only Alive, but also so that Sam could -have- a childhood. All of this while Dean was still actively growing up, enduring his father, hunting, and having to come to terms with monsters. But he couldn’t allow himself to mess up, and going back to the idea of “perfect parenting” we see that no, he in fact was never “perfect” specifically when he leaves so that he can play games, and he sees that Sam’s safety is (extremely unfairly) placed on his shoulders. All of this, yet again along side with never having a stable home, having an unreliable source of income, and having to basically learn how to be an adult at 7, was the start of their dynamic.

As for Sam, we see that he got to play on soccer teams, go to school, and exist (while still having to endure all of the nightmares that is his homelife) outside of the hunting. Whereas Dean was the one who gave him this chance. This is not to say that Sam should ever feel guilt over this, or that Dean needed to do this. This is to show just how different their sibling relationship is, due to the trauma.

Dean treats Sam like a brother many times, but underneath it (or on top) you will always see that he is a parent to him more than anything.

“Wincest” is talking about their “strange/codependant relationship” in a romantic or purely sexual manner. This in itself just shows how many people don’t understand what it means to either have a kid or be a parentified older sibling. (I personally am not a parentified older sibling, but my sister who practically raised me is) and because of MY family dynamic I can speak from experience (definitely not to Dean and Sam’s extent) of having a parentified older sibling, and how that differs from regular sibling relationships.

Ok, this was a ramble, but as a whole “wincest” is extremely disturbing to me as a whole. And I don’t know what the rules are on this specific topic, so Idk how much I should say. But I definitely don’t condone inc*st to any degree, but to each their own ig.

Alright, I have SO much more to say on this topic. But I will hold back for now, just because I am sleepy.

XOXO

[hexedwinchester]

Dean, my beloved..

[sadquickchristmassnowman]

I haven’t read the script for this episode (idk if it's even available) but this is literally one of my favorite jokes in the whole show because this is what I imagine the script to say:

idc. hysterical. top 5 jokes ever probably

[thenameisgul]

as much as I love the two, I don’t appreciate the gay angel and his bisexual hunter boyfriend remind me every second of every day how single I am 😭

[samdeancrimespree]

so i love to pretend that the finale is not real but IF IT IS. how likely is it that sam’s wife looks freakishly like dean. like honest to god, could be twins, auburny brown hair green eyes freckles EVERYTHING. how likely is it that sam and deanna or whatever get mistaken for siblings, and it freaks her out but sam is completely unbothered by it. how likely is it that sam basically chose a dean-twin egg donor in the hopes of recreating his favourite person because that was as close as he could get. he needs a replacement because he can’t live half his life without some part of dean to hold on to. dean ii is cool, almost as good as dean, and suddenly he barely looks at Her anymore. he has a better replacement and it reminds him that she’s a stranger to him. sam’s wife doesn’t know how to feel about how much sam ignores her to hang out with his their kid, because all her friends wish their husbands spent that much time being dads, but she’s starting to feel like sam was never really her husband. and sam kinda hates every second of it, but he does it because he promised he wouldn’t die yet, and he doesn’t want to go to their shared heaven and have dean be disappointed in him. he feels like he’s cheating on dean for the moments when he finds himself loving her, but every time it’s just because she reminded him of dean.

[youraveragebtsstan]

Domestic!Wincest AU Idea. Sam has been having trouble sleeping, so he has Rowena cook up some 'Sandman Powder' (a little less potent than Djjin Juice, but it does the trick.) Anyway, he places it under his pillow and falls asleep only to wake up in a world where he and Dean are married with an infant named Jack. They have date nights, spend bath time/bed time with their kid and love the life they live.

But yes, in this world they are still brothers.

And no, it doesn't matter because they live in a town where no one knows their names.

And how, you ask? Because they left hunting behind to pursue an apple pie life...

So what's the problem, Sam can't seem to wake up. He asks Alt Dean for help, but the more time he spends there the more he begins to fall in love. Or maybe he does wake up and he struggles with his normal day to day knowing that in another world he and Dean being in love is a possibility. Maybe he gets addicted to that dream world and wants to stay there forever, but he knows he can't... IDK, still working the kinks out with his one but yeah. Just had an idea and thought I'd share.

(Might put on AO3, might not. Who knows 🤷🏾‍♀️)

[salchat]

I got triggered by some onions today. Onion sets, to be exact, because it's about time to plant them, then you harvest in August and eat them over the winter. I have some of last year's left still. Anyway, I was looking at them in the shop and I just couldn't cope with it. My chemo starts on March 8th (continuing until it stops working). So... August? Next year?!! No way. I can’t think about that. Fuck off, time. So I didn't buy any. And they were crappy and already sprouting...

Anyway, I drew this Dean! And I like him. He looks a bit tragic, but what can you expect? It was fun, anyway. And now it's time to drink beer and cook pasta.

[liittleemiixeer]

☆ romance club: garden of eden ♡ dean x luna ☆

[deanwastherealmonster]

I headcanon that Jack gave Sam hero's luck but not Dean because he wanted Sam to be free of Dean's bullshit.

[aliusfrater]

the thing about supernatural is that it's patriarchy porn