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[thirsty-koi]

HeAr Me OuT…

Age regression AU:

Soap is an enemy soldier captured by TF141. After several intense interrogation sessions, the team figures out Soap is a Little. This causes them to have a near meltdown because 1.) Littles should not be in the military, 2.) they just tortured a Little for DAYS, 3.) Ghost and Price are undiagnosed Caretakers who have hurt the very person they should be protecting. Needless to say, the team is completely in shambles. Poor Gaz has to monitor his two superiors struggling to function while Soap is undergoing surgeries. Ghost repeatedly sneaks into Soap’s hospital room and just stares at his the Little, taking in the nasty scars on exposed pale skin. Price asks Laswell to find anything about their newly-acquired charge because he needs to know how a Little got anywhere near their line of work. The answers are upsetting, to say the least.

When Little Johnny does wake up, he hides under his covers absolutely terrified when seeing Ghost and Price's faces (breaking their hearts). The only person their Little is mildly okay with is Laswell (being one of the few women who works with them), but he remains mute during conversations only letting out soft whimpers and grunts.

The team decides to adopt Johnny as their own. It'll take a lot of patience and therapy (for all of them tbh), but they've already grown attached to their Little one.

[tapioca-puddingg]

Why GoWR Valhalla Is Important

Hey. It's me again. This time I'm not yelling about Kingdom Hearts or Drakengard, but I wanted to talk about God of War Ragnarök: Valhalla today and why I think it's important in trauma-centered narratives. This isn't a detailed analysis, just me spitballing.

SPOILER WARNING: There will be spoilers for God of War Ragnarök: Valhalla, so please proceed with caution!

EDITED: 2/26/24

As a brief summary, Kratos spent almost the entirety of GoW 2018 refusing to talk about his past. His guilt, shame, and trauma deeply affected his relationship with his son, to the point where he didn't want to be around Atreus bc he was terrified of being a bad influence on him. It was only when Atreus' life was in danger did it force him to finally admit just a sliver of the truth. Now I don't mean to say that Kratos revealing his godhood wasn't a big deal because it absolutely was, I'm just saying that it's just one piece of a MUCH bigger story. Anyway, he recognized his past mistakes, but the shame was too much for him to openly acknowledge it until damn near the end of the game.

Come Ragnarök, Kratos was pretty much an open book. He had grown SO much in those short years of fimbulwinter: He openly talked about his trauma to Mimir and Freya. He worked so hard to be a good father and a good support system to his friends. He went out of his way to make amends with Freya and restore their friendship. And he fought to restore peace to the Nine Realms.

But come Valhalla, Freya wants to recruit Kratos to be the new God of War of the nine realms, or at least to be a part of the new peacekeeping council that she's putting together. Kratos is extremely hesitant to take up the mantle. He doesn't feel worthy or deserving enough to hold this position given all that he's done. He and Mimir (and later on, Tyr) are constantly going back and forth about it. Both perspectives are completely valid. Valhalla is about Kratos facing his past in a more literal sense; parts of Greece have been manifested from Kratos' memories of it, so it's like he gets to be there in real time again. This is about helping him process what happened and to add some nuance to the conversation. It's like free therapy for Kratos.

It's funny too bc you have both opposing viewpoints being represented. On one hand, you have Mimir and Tyr being the supporting/validating voice, and Helios is the contrarian. Since he's a manifestation of Kratos' memories, he represents the doubts that Kratos has about himself. The harsh voice to show how hard he is on himself, and not without good reason.

The reason why I think Valhalla is so important is bc in media, survivor narratives are often linear. The character just "gets over" their trauma and then that trauma isn't addressed again. It's presented more as a hurdle than a lifelong battle. I guess this goes to show how misunderstood survivorhood is. But that isn't how healing works. We regress sometimes, and sometimes we still mull over the things that have happened to us. We might heal, but that trauma does leave emotional scars. So even after the many leaps and bounds Kratos has made, he's not "over" his past, far from it! It still haunts him every day and every night. Valhalla is Kratos still processing everything. From my own healing journey, I've learned that it takes a long, long time to fully process your trauma, if there even is a "fully", anyway. It takes a long time to learn and understand all the complexities and how it affects you in current day. And it takes even longer to process such a complicated history like Kratos'.

Generally speaking about the idea of processing trauma, I said earlier that survivorhood is extremely misunderstood by the masses. Imo, our society is very anti-victim/anti-survivor. So with that in mind, from the perspective of the audience, some might perceive the processing trauma bit as repetitive or "milking it". These are mediums of entertainment after all, so ofc I understand wanting to put out an engaging story where the audience doesn't lose interest. But screw those ppl lol. We have to understand why we do what we do if we want to do better, and it's amazing that a video game is willing to have these conversations. Being more open about all the nuances of processing trauma, grief, healing, etc will go such a long way.

Even the roguelite gameplay style perfectly reflects this theme. Processing this stuff is slow. It doesn't happen overnight. Unless you're in Valhalla, I suppose.

Okay I said this wasn't a detailed analysis but I lied. I'm a liar now

[deathsbestgirl]

so i recently rewatched all things, what are your thoughts on that episode?

OOF. i love everything about all things.

i've written about it a few times, i think mostly in relation to other episodes, if you go through my all things tag, you'll find them along with a few from other people.

mostly, i love that this episode is as much about faith as so many others. but scully branches out -- i know some others take issue with this for whatever reasons, but i think it's a testament to scully's open mind and her view & respect for religion/faith. in my mind, it's like in the alchemist by paulo coelho (sorry i am so annoying about this book lol) where the main character views other religions as fake and by the end, god & allah are one in the same. i think that's a journey or belief that makes complete sense for scully.

so i put all things on just for this after annoying my wife & roomie all day with season two and three lol (hence one breath & paper clip mentions)

opening voiceover:

Time passes in moments ... moments which, rushing past define the path of a life just as surely as they lead towards its end. How rarely do we stop to examine that path, to see the reasons why all things happen, to consider whether the path we take in life is our own making or simply one into which we drift with eyes closed.

But what if we could stop, pause to take stock of each precious moment before it passes? Might we then see the endless forks in the road that have shaped a life? And, seeing those choices, choose another path?

i love fate vs choice in this show. i just watched paper clip where mulder tells scully "i don't think this about justice...i think it's about fate" -- about these terrible losses they've suffered and where it's going to lead them. these things that have been done to them, happened to them against their will. it's something they consistently struggle with. in christmas carol, scully dreams a memory with melissa where scully tells her "i don't believe in fate. i believe we make our own path." so much of this conversation is echoed back in this episode. scully has every word spoken by her favorite people running through her mind, waiting to understand and pull them out to share with mulder. she does it with ahab, mulder and melissa. like in paper hearts, scully quotes mulder himself back to him about dreams. here, she's contemplating fate & choices. the paths she may have walked if she chose differently, and what her choices mean. it isn't the life her parents would have chosen for her, and in some ways, it is not the life she wanted, but they were always the choices she was going to make.

as much i love the whole episode, the first and last scenes are the most impactful to me, at least character and relationship wise. everything between is how she finally got there, how she finally embraced the lesson melissa tried to instill her. (it also reminds me of the blessing way, when melissa urges scullys to try regression therapy. scully goes, but she flees and doesn't go back until patient x/the red and the black. when mulder is struggling with his own path, and she can't move forward with him without her memories. after cancer, after emily. scully learns this lesson, but from both melissa & mulder. i love that it's when mulder is backtracking. it's this balance game they play because their roles are necessary, and they are two sides of the same coin. yin and yang.)

there's also something to do every time the words "all things" are used. it's in scully's opening voice over, and caollenn says it to scully when she goes to pick up the files for mulder.

There is a greater intelligence in all things. Accidents-- or near accidents-- often remind us that we need to keep our mind open to the lessons it gives.

colleen feels like someone melissa sent to scully. the blonde woman guiding scully, to colleen, to mulder, to an open mind & other faiths.

scully is initially dismissive of colleen's work, but something about colleen's words stuck with her and she goes back. colleen talks about choices and being true to yourself and "the signs along the way."

what i love is i believe scully actually did this, and this episode is kind of about realizing that? she went to med school because it felt right, and when it started to feel wrong, she joined the fbi because that's what her entire being was telling her. it may have looked & seemed & felt wrong to others, but as melissa tells her, it isn't their life. scully is the one who has to live the path she chose. struggling with our choices is a normal part of life and scully's have had some big consequences for her and her loved ones. but what other choice could she make? they were right for her, and she can't control everything. she couldn't have stopped anything because it was never her fault. something both her & mulder grapple with.

i love when she tells daniel he needs to deal with his choices. she didn't make him do anything, in fact she left because it's what she believed was right. he decided to blow up his family and couldn't deal with the ways he hurt them (familiar, isn't it? i think a running theme in this show).

scully has her vision in a buddhist temple, as mulder puts it, she talks to god and it leads her down an alternative path to help daniel, thanks to her conversation with colleen. and colleen actually helps connect with her someone. i absolutely adore this scene because it mirrors melissa & mulder meeting in one breath. mulder struggled with melissa's beliefs, even as they're similar in some ways. the same as scully struggles with them, similar to the ways scully & mulder struggle with each other's beliefs (or maybe, more accurately, when they step out of their skeptic/believer roles).

it's interesting to me, how daniel seems to belittle anything that isn't medicine in helping someone heal. it doesn't seem to reflect scully's beliefs as a doctor. "imagine a miracle and you're halfway there." something about a commitment to quality of life and honoring the person, not just extending life. it's a gift she gives to daniel, this understanding of life and people. something he wasn't able to extend to her. respect for choice. something mulder & scully always honor for the other. always validating, always helping in any way they can. always supportive even if they don't agree. always listening despite disagreement or disbelief. always taking the other seriously as no one else has ever done for them.

ultimately, mulder comes looking for scully and they go back to his place to drink some tea and talk about her revelations. to philosophize about choice and fate, and how maybe it's kind of the same thing. they had choice, but there was always only one choice.

[welcome-to-alteredstates]

a new story by ChelsInRibbons

hello friends

ChelsInRibbons has released the first chapters of a new story she is writing. I’ll let her describe it below:

You Know What They Do to Girls Like Us in Brighter Days?" is the story of Rei Akiyama, a young girl trying to navigate through life in a near future dystopia where the age of majority has been raised to 28 for girls and regressive behavioral therapy has become popular to help girls adjust to these new laws.

she tells me that story setting is inspired by the alteredstates, and i think she’s done an amazing job. it’s such a well-written and exciting story!

if you are interested you can find it below:

[brf-rumortrackinganon]

Yeah, Scobie's chapter on Diana is an interesting one. It's all over the place so you just want to tell him 'Get to the point, man!'

I should quote everything you said. So agree. OS, MM, and H are so desperate to have a corner of Diana's .... I don't know what to call it - her shine, all the things the other anon wrote about her - that is their entire focus where she is concerned. She was an icon then, she is an icon now, and they all three want that for themselves. Without even having a clue what it was made of. And none of the three have even a corner of what she was made of. Not even her negatives.

While I'm sure CC would love to see her memory banished, her son, the one who really knows her and who actually protects her memory, will never allow that to happen. I am sure that one of his early acts when he is King will be to return her HRH. He actually loves her for who she was. The stuff you said OS wrote about the Bashir interview - the whole point of the revelations was that Bashir & Co. worked hard to bolster the feelings of paranoia she genuinely developed. The whole interview was a product of that. That was William's point. But at the end of the day, it wouldn't have mattered what William said. The three would have twisted it. William is brilliant for never getting near anything those three do or say.

When she was young, MM was obsessed with Diana. She would give anything to be Diana and all that entails. H is still 12. And OS is fame and power hungry. They use Diana's memory to try to get what they want and end up just tarnishing it. I will be SO glad when they all disappear from center stage. So sick of the whole lot.

Frankly, it wouldn't surprise me if Meghan lobbied hard to get some of Diana's charities and patronages, but was told 'no' and that played a part in who she hates/why she hates the BRF. I really can't wait until there's more time removed from Megxit and Meghan's reign of terror to get the real stories.

Charles does seem to have become a bit more kinder to Diana's memory as the years have gone by, especially more recently. He does have experience losing a loved one tragically and unexpectedly (vis a vis Dickie Mountbatten and Hugh Lindsay) so he was able to support William and Harry somewhat at the time of her passing but I don't think he truly grasped how difficult it was for them to lose Diana until he lost his own parents. I think that gave him some perspective, but that could very well be my own wishful thinking.

Interesting that you mention Harry being still 12. I read a paper once that theorized celebrities are emotionally stunted at the age they were when they became famous, and boy does that ring true for Harry. I'm sure he knew he was popular growing up because of all the cameras around him, but he probably became aware of just how famous he was at age 12 with Diana's passing and he got the double whammy of fame + tragedy. Fortunately William got him therapy so Harry was at least able to mature to mid-twenties, but then he met Meghan and he regressed back to 12 years old in some gross Oedipus fairy tale.

There's no excuse for Meghan and Scobie. Like the another anon pointed out, they just leeched onto the same host to resuscitate their dying careers.

[lovevalley45]

#fictober23 day twenty-five

"Is it over? Is it really over?"

fandom: dc's legends of tomorrow

word count: 581

Zari never thought she’d be so disappointed to be back in her 45 million dollar mansion. Especially after suffering the Waverider’s one bathroom for three years.

But as she walked through the echoing entry, she found herself missing that stupid small, cramped bathroom. 

“So, am I going to the guest house, or do I have to crash on one of your couches that cost more than rent near Wharton?”

She turned around to look at Behrad, standing awkwardly in the doorway. “No, you can go to the guest house.” Zari took a deep breath, then raised her hand. “Actually, no. Is it over? Like, is it really over? We’re just- done?”

“We signed a contract. I know I didn’t drop out of law school, but that’s kinda binding,” he reminded her. 

“We’re time travelers!” Her voice was amplified by the tall walls. “We didn’t even have a notary there! What would be breaking, the time law?”

Behrad held out his hand, listing out, “Well, there was the Time Masters, then the Time Bureau, then whoever rehabilitated Eobard Thawne and made him ensure Archduke Ferninand gets assassinated-” 

“Okay, so maybe there was,” Zari snapped. “Or is.” She huffed and plopped down on the first step of her sprawling staircase. “We’re just expected to back to our normal lives and act like we didn’t spend a chunk of our lives time traveling.”

With a heavy breath, Behrad joined her. “It’s certainly an adjustment.” He bumped his shoulder against hers. “I mean, I’m dating a girl who’s a quarter-century behind us right now.”

“Not just that. You all get to do cool things. You become a musician - a successful one, I mean. Astra becomes the president. Sara and Ava become parents, I guess. And I just go back where I started.” Zari looked down at her hands, resting in her lap. “It feels regressive.”

“Not completely. Just- look at us.” Behrad threw an arm around her shoulders. “Two, three years ago, we never would have been talking like this. We would’ve just been fighting.”

“And frankly, I still think we need some therapy,” she commented. 

He unlooped his arm. “Even if you go back to doing the same things, you’re not the same person you were before you stepped on that ship. None of us are. And it’s not great in some ways - I died and learned I was supposed to be dead in another time - but we’ve grown. You’ve grown.”

“I don’t feel like it,” Zari muttered. “When I stepped onto the set of Da Throne, I had to step right back into the Zari everyone knows and loves. My fans don’t want me to grow.”

“Maybe it’s time for a rebrand,” Behrad said. 

“Rebranding takes work, B. I mean, I have to hire a PR firm, I need to come up with a new aesthetic, new- everything.”

“Yeah, there’s a reason I didn’t want to do the marketing route,” he replied. “But, if I’ve learned anything with the Legends, the best rebrand starts-” He put his hand against his chest. “Here.”

Zari raised her eyebrows. “I don’t think a boob job is what I need, B, but thanks.”

He shut his eyes and attempted to flatten himself against the stairs. “Don’t make me think about that!”

She chuckled, standing up. “I know what you meant.”

“Thank God,” Behrad said weakly, not moving. 

“My Dragon Girl era is over,” Zari declared. “Screw Computer Gidget, I’m doing more with my life than audible lipstick.”

[awarenesshealing]

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[haleigh-sloth]

Yall are very weird with this regression thing some of us do not appreciate it simply because it does not allow for a meaningful conflict and conversation to happen that's it

Yes because Touya being on the verge of exploding is totally ready to have a meaningful conversation

I guess it's bad for the hero to try to get the villain to stop 1) Killing others 2) Killing themselves before trying to talk things out. Maybe your priority is seeing that conversation happen but maybe perhaps think of the characters being written into this situation and think about how the author might want to lead up to that happening instead. Maybe think about the priorities of the actual characters in the story instead of just what you want to see right now. Idk if you've noticed but Touya, Toga, Tomura, and Spinner aren't in a place to be talked to right now. I honestly thought that much was obvious. What y'all want literally makes no sense you seriously just want a stupid therapy session in the middle of a war to happen despite none of the characters it would apply to being anywhere near ready for that??

Also, let's be clear that Touya regressing is like......00000% of what's keeping them from talking. Like, are y'all not seeing this? Priorities in this situation are him being about to explode. Him being on fire is really a major barrier between them talking. Him saying "Natsu-kun let's play" took, what, one second? Please y'all are making a mountain out of a mole hill.

Sorry but I think the comment of it being "bad writing" to me is actually a pretty lazy comment and it really sounds like the go-to people like to use instead of saying they just don't like what's happening. What you're describing to me that you want, or really you haven't given a description, but what I described above would imo be dumb.

And if you're subscribing to the dooms day shit of "Omg they're never going to talk things out Touya is never going to get to say how he feels to his family after all this time 🙄" then that's absolutely your problem for jumping the gun and making yourself upset. This fan base does it a lot for a lot of things, and most of the time things are addressed one way or another later, so maybe chill tf out.

This type of comment is exactly why this post was made, I suggest you read it

Y'ALL are being weird about the regression thing it's literally the absolute least of Touya "I'm about to go off like a nuclear bomb and take everyone in my family and other innocent people and even one of my villain pals with me" Todoroki's problems. I'm sorry that present barriers in the story keep it from happening right here and right now and that because you're not getting immediate gratification on this ONE very obvious thing that the story is building up to that you just feel the author is incapable of making it happen. It's almost like things have to happen in order for other things to happen afterward. I just don't know why people need to explain this concept of "Just because it's not happening right now and there is this barrier in place right now doesn't mean it won't ever happen". Why is that needing to be said.

[chemicalpink]

ଘ(´•×•)⊃━☆ a (not so brief) life update

In case you've been wondering where I've been cause by now we all know I tend to just disappear.

A few days ago I felt like oversharing a bit for anyone interested, I feel like getting to this point of sharing is due and will allow me to stop this irrational fear of the internet that I have somehow developed as it tallies to my accountability on this blog.

So hang tight! Cause this is about to be a wild ride...

I'm not regressing to the very beginning cause this isn't about to be a therapy session but I will go back to the near beginnings of this account during the pandemic.

A little before lockdown as I was asked to collaborate as a customs specialist for a pop-up store (which then I found out to be BTS') so I got into them after my job was done. A bit after going down the rabbit hole I started this blog, without very much planning into it, just merely creating a safe space for the people with whom could potentially like the same things I did.

A few months into it, as a last year International Relations student on my way to law school, and with a bit of sleep deprived courage, I applied for an internship at BH online, not expecting much since I barely knew Korean and was most definitely stuck at home in a whole different continent. But things surprisingly worked out, I didn't get paid at all but it was a great learning experience. BH became HB and I got to experience that from the inside, my day went like this: school from 7am to 5 pm and work from 9pm to 3am (sometimes more)

I obviously never got to work directly with any idols, my work was merely global and very much law related. Customs, contracts, negotiations with international enterprises. When the lockdown was done with, I was asked to move and become a permanent worker of theirs, so I did. However, it involved a lot of moving around so I wasn't exactly based anywhere and living costs are quite a thing. During this time I was also profiling myself as a diplomat, so it was in all of our best interests that I became outsourced.

Which brings us to a timeline closer to the present, the person that was in charge of contacting me for the gigs that I used to do for them suddenly quit and while I'm sure they were doing whatever was best for them, left me fending for myself during may-june. I came back home with my parents during june-july and networked for a bit– at least enough to regroup my possibilities so during august-september I was allowed to staff and collaborate (on a lower level) on some big concerts/tours.

During this time however (july-september) I was mostly reliant on my parents and coincidentally, their work slowed down by a lot. The rather small amount of money I got from working here and there was spent on my medical treatment (during july my doctor let me know that I needed to get diagnosed properly for lupus and by august my treatment costs were up by a lot) I tried picking up freelance tutoring (a pain, truly) and other small hustles that didn't require me to tire myself out too much since most of my days I spent aching all over, while also caring for my mother who had to have an emergency glaucoma surgery.

Oh and I cried and felt miserable during my birthday so.

I believe that's where we are at. I can't exactly get a job since I need to apply to an unpaid internship in order to graduate law school but I can't apply for an internship because one of my teachers just suddenly decided to fail me in their class (which means I need to pass it first) so I try to get by with small, low commitment hustles and now I'm picking up more seriously my ko-fi content. Which is why, I haven't been on here.

Those damned retrogrades hit me good ngl.

I do want to say though, I am not in a state of emergency, however, I am not living comfortably, but I'm trying my best to pick myself up and be nice to myself with the decisions I make and actions I take by the minute. While also trying to save up to go visit my 17 year old sister that has just moved away to study medicine.

I am grateful for what I have and I cherish you all that have remained close to me (even in this infinite nothingness that is the internet) and I hope you've been treating yourselves kindly during this time. If you'll have me, let's navigate the rest of the year together.

If this gains a lot of traction, I'm privating it lmao. I have no issue now talking about it since I'm no longer working there but I made those NDAs myself so I know what I'm up to.

[multiplicity-positivity]

TW self harm discussion

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Hey, I'm the host of a newly discovered system. I started a journal for communication between headmates and asked what I could do better for them as their host and pretty much everyone told me to stop self harming, the caretaker said that our little thinks I'm a witch for self-harming, and I don't know, it just, really hurt to read?

But I'm not sure how to stop self-harming, I think it's nearing an addiction for me. It hurts emotionally and physically whenever I self harm now because I know that I'm hurting the system and causing discourse within us, but I don't know how to stop.

Hi! This is really tough - we’re so sorry y’all are going through something like this! Self harm can be quite serious, but hurting yourself does not make you a witch, evil, or a bad person! It does, however, make you a person who is suffering and in need of help. We have some advice that may help y’all that we can share!

(Note: most of our advice actually comes from a workbook our system is currently completing. It’s the DBT Skills workbook, and you can get it on Amazon for like $20USD! Link to Amazon)

First, please trust that your system does want what’s best for you when they encourage you to stop self-harming. Refraining from hurting yourself will benefit the whole system, which includes you! It may be difficult to try and change these habits, but we promise it’s possible. It will take some diligence and effort on your part, but we believe in you!

When you have an urge to self harm, here are some things you can do instead:

1) Draw on yourself. Use a red or black pen/marker that will leave heavy marks. Draw on the places you would normally hurt yourself. Leave the marks there for the rest of the day.

2) Journal. Write out how you feel, why you want to hurt yourself, what you would do, and what you are choosing to do instead that is less harmful. Remind yourself why you want to change, and how you plan on achieving that change.

3) If you are feeling overwhelmed, try RESTing. REST means Relax, Evaluate, Set an intention, and Take action. To keep this post from getting too long, we’ve made a companion post explaining REST, which you can check out here.

4) Find a less destructive way to hurt yourself. Perhaps give yourself a quick pinch, flick your arm, hold a piece of ice, or snap a rubber band against your skin. Ultimately, it will be good to move away even from these! But when just starting out trying to mitigate self harm, finding ways that can bring that pain response without as much damage is a good thing!

5) Talk to someone. You don’t have to suffer alone! We’d always recommend therapy, but we understand not everyone has affordable access to a good therapist. Still, you can vent your frustrations to a trusted friend or loved one, and seek reassurance from those who care about you. Ask someone close to you if it would be okay for you to reach out to them when you want to self harm to try and talk to them instead. If they agree, make good on this. When you want to self harm, get in touch with your loved one first before deciding to hurt yourself.

We hope these things can help set you on a path towards recovery! Remember that progress is usually not linear - it’s okay to mess up, to backslide, regress, or make mistakes! What matters most is that you’re continuing to try and change, even when it’s hard, even after you’ve made the wrong choice. It is never too late to start practicing self care and showing yourself (and your system) compassion!

Good luck with everything! We’re wishing you hope, healing, and the very best. Thanks for reaching out!

🌸 Margo and 🖋 Cecil

[permanentcaregiver]

What is Permanent Regression?

Permanent regression is a non-agere term used when someone who has experienced severe trauma or otherwise brain-alterning event(s) enters a permanent and indefinite state of longterm regression in age. It is exclusively involuntary, often being an unpleasant and stressful way to live, and can also fall under the umbrella of dissociative symptoms. It is not a part of the age regression community, or a community term. Permanent regression is used as a medical identifier, for those who have a severe set of symptoms due to neurological and/or mental health conditions.

How does it affect people?

People who are in permanent regression cannot control their regression or regression-affected behaviors, such as cleaning, eating, bathing, or working. Permanent regressors often have body dysmorphia, age dysphoria, identity incognruence, trauma symptoms, and dissociative episodes. It is often impossible to function in daily life as someone who is permanently regressed without a designated family member, therapist, caregiver, or combination of adult guardian(s.) Permanent regression is majorly disruptive in every aspect of a person's life, activities, and personal relationships.

Is this the same as forever-kids?

The short answer is no. While forever-kids is a similar term, permanent regressors are unable to be aware of their adult status or do anything to switch off, they are completely regressed at all times. Forever kids is a community term, and loosely defined as "a regressor who is always or almost always in their headspace" (credit: deliriousdadd on IG.) Permanent regression is different, and not a headspace. It is where one cannot conceptualize they are in an adult body or have adult obligations, and live every day in the mental state of an infant or child. They are unable to do most things on their own, or ever come out of the regression they are in.

Am I a permanent regressor?

Permanent regression can often come across as delusion or dissociation due to the severity of it, which is why the answer will usually be no, and thats okay! It's a lot nicer to be someone that can use regression voluntarily and positively, and enjoy the time spent regressing. If you are able to complete basic tasks and bodily care, are aware and/or comfortable in being an adult, find your regression is mostly/entirely enjoyable or comforting, can function without adult input/help, or your regression is voluntary, you are likely not a permanent regressor.

Can I become a permanent regressor?

No. Permanent regression is not only completely involuntary, but also comes with a whole lot of pain, discomfort, and confusion. It is not something to aspire too or want to "achieve." While it's very possible to have good times and positive feelings as a permanent regressor, it is still a symptom of severe conditions. Just because it may sound like something nice, to "really feel like a kid all the time," in reality it is a life of misplacement and can be lonely.

Important things to note

Permanent regression is not something that is usually healthy or happy for those going through it. It is very important that if you are privleged enough to have access to healthcare such as therapy, and you feel you may be in permanent regression or nearing it, to see someone that can help you cope with it. Not everyone has access to the trauma therapy or medication needed to be able to move on and heal, and some people that are permanently regressed will not be able to move past it at all. Be concious of how you speak to those that experience it, and understand that what others are going through is likely much more alarming for them than it is for you.

Coined by me and my regressor

June of 2023

Owners of term >>>

@permanentparent + @faetoddler

[puppyboylogan]

hi! hello! here's my intro / pinned post!!

my name's logan! i'm a german shepard therian + pet regressor and this blog is almost entirely sfw save for some cussing here and there! i'm 20 years old and use he/it ONLY! please do not use they/them on me after i correct you! im autistic and my special interest is call of duty if that's important to you.

MY BOUNDARIES! VERY IMPORTANT!

DO NOT USE UWU SPEAK / BABY TALK WITH ME / NEAR ME / IN THE REPLIES REBLOGS TAGS ETC. YOU WILL BE BLOCKED. I CANNOT READ / UNDERSTAND IT.

DNI IF YOU USE THE TERMS PURE / IMPURE REGRESSION. SERIOUSLY WHAT A MESSED UP WAY TO PUT ONE WAY OF REGRESSING ABOVE ANOTHER. MY REGRESSION IS NOT BAD IF IT COMES FROM NEGATIVE EMOTIONS.

do not pry into the details of my life! i keep private for a reason!

basic dni applies! i also don't like incest or pedo shippers!

i don't engage in syscourse / discourse! don't rope me into that!

MORE THINGS!

i am not looking for a CG!

i do not own much gear and i will never post pictures that reveal where i am located or who i am!

umm feel free to ask questions if you'd like to get to know me! i don't take well to DMs without permission or DMs that just say "hello." i am very stand offish when approached due to trauma, please be patient with me and earn my trust. this is an issue i have not been able to shake after years of therapy. i promise i don't bite! just barking!