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stevebabey · 1 year
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hey! you absolutely don't have to answer this if you aren't comfortable, but what are you studying at uni? (it's my default question i'm sorry i love hearing about what people love so much (or at least like enough) to pursue for at least a few years!!!)
no one string togeva all the details i’ve posted on this blog and come hunt me down cos i think i’m being too liberal w my details on here lmaoooo
i double major in education and geology! :) it’s delicious, they don’t overlap at all and i picked them both on a whim! didn’t even know what geology was when i started uni but i really froth it now!!!! it appeals to a science-y side of myself i didn’t realise i had & i feel MAD smart talkin bout what we learn <3 i love rocks and learning all ze earth processes. education is just slay nd i’m good at it and maybe i can make a job outta helping peeps, which would be nice :D
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i just realized it’s july
EUGHHHH I’M GONNA BE 19 SOON 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎
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mumblesplash · 1 year
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the fact that doctors can just Recommend Weight Loss with no instructions beyond ‘eat healthier/less’ is actually insane to me, i lost weight on purpose ONCE and it took me like 6 years to recover a semi-normal relationship with food and hunger
#uhh#disordered eating cw#just in case#mumbling#like jfc i know i’m not the first to say it and my experience is relatively SO tame#but it STILL fucked with my head for YEARS#and most people don’t go nearly that long between weight loss attempts at all for basically their whole lives!!!!!#and we’re so blasé about it like yeah just eat less to lose weight#and so few people talk about the really weird shit that phase of my life taught me even though they seem like pretty universal things#like when you lose weight deliberately by denying yourself food you get COLD#you get cold and you get in your head and you get sad it’s like being less alive#the times i’ve lost weight/recomped on accident (by doing smth that makes me move more‚ getting better sleep etc)#it’s been WARM#burn hotter move freer feel happier#and also the way hunger feels when you’ve been denying yourself food for an extended time is NOT the same as baseline hunger#it’s actually kind of wild that we use the same word to describe both feelings like that shit is NOT the same#that shit is not ‘being really hungry’ it’s a fuckin. blood curse or some shit you feel straight up unhinged#and i should disclaim here i am not talking large amounts of weight#i’ve fluctuated over i think a 20lb range max since reaching close to my adult height and that’s a guesstimate#but even in my relatively unremarkable little experiences here the way deliberate weight loss fucked with my brain is absurd to me#i’m fine now have been for years but seriously thinking back on it the fact that this is routine medical advice. unreal
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cosmicriff · 4 months
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I thought it was common sense that when people refer to “adult spaces” in fandom they aren’t saying the source material is for adults. Every fandom is going to have an adult space and it’s the responsibility of the creator to add proper warnings and it’s your responsibility to learn filters and understand warnings
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clarabowmp3 · 11 months
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I’m sorry I genuinely cannotttttt understand how some ppl bash joe even in a joking manner. Like the poor guy did nothing wrong (that we know of) but so many ppl are making such snide remarks by comparing him to Travis which is not only condescending but actually kind of mean! HELLO did we listen to the same reputation album??? You can’t praise Travis for letting Taylor bejeweled and then rip joe to shreds in the same breath when joe was the one there for her in a clearly difficult and trying time in her life
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catgrandpa · 7 months
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All Might: Young Midoriya, you mustn’t tell anyone about One for All it is the greatest secret the world has ever known. To have this power is to be alone. I am deeply sorry for the burden I have granted upon you.
All Might, in the next episode: Oh btw here’s my doctor and the principal, they both know about OfA. And this old guy I know, he’s known about it for forever and also this cop knows too. Oh, Nighteye obviously knows but we don’t talk anymore and this is my ex Dave and his daughter, he knows of course and I can’t quite remember if she does but anyway this is my barista but don’t worry they’re cool peep the blue hair they’d never out me-
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boxdstars · 8 months
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i love playing the game of how long can the narrative excuse amara’s actions before she passes the point of no return and the whole place goes up in flames
spoiler: not long.
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they call me the griever because halfway through a thing I enjoy I’m already sad that it’s closer to being over
#blue chatter#trying to work on not doing this#and just enjoying the thing in the moment#this happens to me a lot with school breaks and such#like ‘oh I love being on spring break but I’m sad bc I’m already 3 days in’#‘oh I love summer vacation so far it’s too bad it’s already a month over’#and I’m like NO!!!!! blue!!!!!!!! you’re missing the point!!!!!!!!#you have the joy *right now* and you are SPOILING IT bc you’re too busy looking ahead to when it will be gone!!!!!!!!!#it happens with friend visits a lot. it’s less bad now but it still happens.#like. the first time I visited friends over spring break I woke up in the early morning of the last morning and just cried#because I only had a few hours left before I had to get on the plane home#and I start hurriedly stuffing seconds and minutes into my mouth and refusing to swallow#because maybe if I just cling extra hard then the time won’t pass-#but it does pass. and that’s okay. and I know that’s okay because life had more joyful things after that moment#had I stayed there on that day I would have been frozen as a much more miserable person#my friends themselves would have been very different people#I mean. fuck. between then and now two of us figured out our genders. both of them got married. they moved somewhere else now.#there’s a lot of little joys that got left behind there. a church they loved. a local park. mountains and windy streets.#but I wouldn’t hold ourselves there. which I try to remind myself when I start crying about lost time again#because yeah. this will end someday. human lifespans aren’t infinite.#but the future is full of life I still have to live. there’s no saying that I can’t have good things again.#and this period of my life is rapidly rushing towards a much more uncertain future and I know that and it’s scary#I know I have about 11 months to make several very adult decisions that will determine a lot of my future#but no matter what I choose this period of my life is not wasted#and I don’t need to hurriedly optimize every second and mourn losing them#and I know that. and I still feel sad and mourny. but that might be more indicative that I’m hungry or smth.
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kierancaz · 10 months
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Ppl should stop editing children to really sexual songs. Like I don’t want to be watching an edit of a 15 y/o when the song is talking about their hymen. Even if it does have a good beat. There are other songs with good beats that aren’t sooooo sexual.
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starlooove · 6 days
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What I really like about Damian is that instead of one big interconnected friend group he has many separate friends idk it’s cute it’s different
#like not saying everyone else doesn’t have singular friends or whatever#but their most prominent friends come from their groups or teams#while Damian just has a bunch of friends all around#Can u call Damian’s team on command no but it u need smth very niche done right now he knows a guy#Damian’s friends only knowing eachother through group chats 💀#Colin Maps and marcus find out they’re all in Gotham and freak out#and Damian’s like ?#FOR MY PERSONAL JOY I’m adding tiff to the group#and Marcus had one (1) cómic with Damián but they’re friends to me now idc#oh in total the group is Suren Colin Maya Maps and FOR ME Tiff#oh Damian too obvi#jon is Damian’s friend but he’s not part of the group and it is tragic angsty ‘those would’ve been my friends too’ shit going on#btw they’d be fine with being friends with Jon he’s just very in his head about being a near adult and missing his childhood and it fucks#him up sometimes#and for him it’s like he lived all those years it wasn’t a time skip to him but he was also in isolation and on the run from someone who is#a carbon copy of his father so. anyways my thoughts on Jon and just how fucked I can make him are not for here#they all see him as cool older bro and Damian’s like ?#Damián acting confused as if he told them literally anything about his friendship with Jon 🤨#Uhm anyways yeah I think Damian’s friends are neat#and Id like to keep up the trend of Damian doing a bunch of mini solo adventures and shit#like when tim fucked off to who knows where everyone was worried but for Damian they either don’t notice or go ‘he’s just being damian’#he comes back with klarions number (he bought him a phone) and babysitting times for teekl. it gets weird
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mars-ipan · 2 months
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i do love my family very dearly but the internalized ableism the men in here struggle with is. so much
#marzi speaks#it’s worse with my brother but he’s doing more to actively work on improving that#my dad however has very subtle internalized ableism that i don’t think he recognizes is there#which is. fun#like earlier. either last night or this morning i don’t remember#i was talking to him about how while ideologically i have nothing against accepting needing help and things like that#in practice it’s very challenging to adjust to being disabled even temporarily. and that if i do end up with a diagnosis that’s gonna be#a lot to handle. both mentally and just with the lifestyle changes i’ll have to make#and he makes a bit of a face and goes ‘i wouldn’t quite call you disabled. i’d just say ‘ill’’#and i just sort of look at him. and i blink. and i go ‘i am physically Un-Able to do things i am normally able to do’#‘i can’t walk long distances at all. i can’t sit in chairs for too long without causing pain’#‘i’ve spent the last 24 hours staring longingly at my computer because i want to draw but am currently Not Able To’#he didn’t argue with me but i can tell he was still unnerved by the idea of picturing his daughter as disabled#also like . illness and disability are not mutually exclusive? several disabilities are or involve chronic illness#i shouldn’t be surprised though. i mentioned considering starting lexapro#and he went on his ‘you’re an adult and it’s your choice in the end but i wouldn’t recommend it’ spiel#(he’s anti-psychiatry bc he doesn’t like the idea of breaking the brain down into smth so purely physical)#(and also doesn’t like the idea of someone being dependent on pills their whole life)#(which i’m giving him some slack on rn bc he is a just-got-clean recovering opoid addict. so)#(btw before any of you say SHIT abt my dad he took his pills legally prescribed for chronic pain and did not abuse them)#(and even if he DID that would give nobody a right to make a moral judgement on him. ok cool)#i then reminded him that my mom takes anti-anxiety meds and they really really helped her#and he just goes ‘true.’ and moves on#king u got some shit to unpack#it’s fine if u didn’t want to start antidepressants when it was recommended to you meds aren’t for everyone#but like come on now. u don’t gotta be so fundamentally against it when literally ur own wife who you adore takes psych meds#anywho my mom handled me making the disability comment much better. she was basically just like ‘ur fear is totally understandable’#‘u have a good support system we’ll help you through it’#which. thanks mom 👍 that was very kind of her to say
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runawaymun · 3 months
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Thanks for the reply I understand now. Here you have to live in the same household physically to share accounts like that. In practice, idk if people don’t care and do it anyway like sharing Netflix passwords. It would be unthinkable with my family but that’s a messy situation so maybe I don’t actually know what’s what lol
Still hoping you get the money back! Sorry your dad has such warped thinking. I’d send him a get well soon card if I thought it would help. (My go to for assholes tbh)
Yeah my family is also a fun tangly mess of dysfunction but for years I have considered my dad “an asshole, but an honest asshole”. I have always considered him to have integrity. Like, I disagree with him on pretty much everything and his opinions on things are sometimes straight up ignorant or downright hateful, but he holds them because they align with his morals. He’s intellectually honest, and I respect that in people even if they’re assholes.
And It’s never to the point where I have considered completely cutting contact but tbh we’re now getting there.
In any case, thank you! I wish things were different and I keep going back and forth on “maybe this time he’ll listen, maybe he’s changed” because I’ve had good productive conversations with him in the past but… that’s the exception, not the rule.
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kokoiep · 7 months
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I know people is actually not gonna see this but I just wanted to rant a bit before going back to sleep
But lately I’ve been feeling so so lonely for some reason, since I can remember I’ve been dealing with that feeling all my life, and thanks to my social anxiety it’s not easy to actually try and go and make friends.
I found myself often depressed, and with an empty feeling inside my chest and realizing how I’m really really lonely, and there’s nothing I can do but also maybe it’s just me, I just can’t get enough of it, maybe is also my own selfishness that I always want more
I often try to look at the future and it’s hard for me to actually see me more than who I am now. Am I really going to live that far? Am I going to actually do it? It feels scary
I feel like a burden, I don’t like sharing things with friends because I feel they would judge me or I’m just being annoying to other people, I found myself pretty annoying by times, I just want to feel that I actually did something with my life.
Constantly thinking on dropping everything is itching my brain, I already quit a lot of things a few more won’t change the fact that I don’t know how to feel filled. This loneliness consumes me so much, I want to hug someone, I want to kiss, I want to hangout more, I want to be hold like if I was important. I think everything would be better if at some point I have enough friends to go to the beach and enjoy the sunset. I want to see the sunset with someone else, I want to actually live.
And let’s not begin with Social Anxiety + Asexual, it just makes it worse, I really just want to be hold, by someone else, not my family, to feel loved and warm. I just want this loneliness to stop.
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jrwiyuri · 5 months
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Everyone keeps making really angsty points about what kipperlilly’s motivation behind her worldview and eveyrthing could be and while I agree it’s possible to me she is so ‘entitled white woman’ coded to me…
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matoitech · 5 months
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like it’s not the end of the world we’re all just gonna say oh my fucking god it’s so ugly and move on pretending it doesn’t exist but i think if they wanted any breed to prove how low the standards of quality r for their ancient drops it’s this one i ghess . good lord. i needed to share my pain
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Ari what do you think of best friends YOUNGER brother satoru? How different would he be? I love bsf's younger bro trope but sucks it's not as much popular lol ^^
OOOHH….. see that’s very interesting and cute but i dunno if my brain is . Capable of imagining it 💔 at least not in the sense of reader chasing after the younger brother!! it’s just not my forte i think… but i do have some general thoughts on this concept!! take my hand anon.. let’s see where my thoughts take us 🙏
(spoiler alert i deviate from gojo halfway and end up subscribing to the best friend’s younger brother realness)
hmmm ok so. i can only rlly imagine him as being very bratty and wanting you to coddle him :0 he’s that kinda guy. crushes on his older sibling’s bestie and never really Stops… tells them that he’ll marry you one day but they just laugh. and he gets pouty and irritated whenever you treat him as a child… especially as he grows older!!! he matures and grows taller and you still treat him a little like he’s fragile. which he likes!! but also kind of hates… bc he has this urge to protect you that can’t rlly come to the surface. he wants to be your knight in shining armor i think. but you’re just like 🥺🥺 itty bitty toru. LMAO. it drives him nuts but i also think he’d love being protected in a way… he’s just so painfully unaccustomed to it that it makes him uncomfortable.
but yeah he just!! likes you. he worships you. he respects you so deeply as a person and he wants to be yours with every fibre of his being. :((( he hates the idea of you getting together with someone who can’t give you that level of adoration……
bUT GOJO ASIDE . my first thought when i saw this ask was actually. bfb!yuji. i don’t even really Yuji that much but… i feel like he’s kinda perfect for this concept? your bestie’s sweet younger brother who looks up to you so much 🥺🥺 he thinks you’re the absolute coolest!!! he’s like your little sidekick i think. your biggest fan. and you just think he’s very cute. but then he grows older and taller and buffer and you meet again… and he’s still just a big ol puppy dog…… and you’re like. fuck. you can’t like him. but you do…….. and he’s always loved you but he thought you’d never feel the same………… but now you do……………….. kdrama vibes i think. he’s your golden retriever bf no matter the au <33
overall!! i think this trope is sooooo cute and i hope my thoughts were somewhat close to what you had in mind :’3 i’d love to hear your own thoughts anon!! this isn’t rlly something that i’ve thought of before but i’d love to see the vision!!! <3333
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