"I'm sorry I vented and took up your time with my bullshit" β
feeds abandonment fears, implies having needs and being helped with them are wrong, makes it all about you
"Thank you for being patient with me through that, I appreciate that you took the time" β
shows your gratitude, affirms your affinity, no "using up" anybody's effort, makes it about you both as equals
"I'm sorry I dumped without checking consent first. I need to act respectfully and ask for your permission before I vent" β
"I'm sorry I said x, that was inappropriate of me to put on you" β
"Was it okay when I said x the way I did?" β
"Would you like to place a boundary around that?" β
"What could I do/say instead that's healthier for us both?" β
correct an actual wrong, seize due accountability, consider their rights as much as yours, make amends, work to correct missteps going forward
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imagine if the star trek tos gang had tumblr lol
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mannnn why are vulcans so.... ahfhfjfj lik????
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Hello captain.
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sPOCKWHEN DJD YOU GET TUMBLR
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Dr. McCoy reccommended this app to me this morning.
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okkkk i think me and dr mccoy need to have a TALK
#in the meantime i need to purge this blog eughhhh
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rb for reach!!
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who tf submitted a mitski song
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i did. it reminded me of how @'cptnjtkirk feels about @'1stofficerspock :]
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What?
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IGNOREE HIM PLEEASE
#bones istg
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if the enterprise was a woman id want her to sit on my face
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wRONG BLOG
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abt to go on my first mission, wish me luck!!
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med bay
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this is a callout post for @'cptnjtkirk hes a vulcan fucker and a war criminal
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you say that like theyre equally bad..?
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they are.
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too bad im not actually either of those things lmao
#i wish... #not about the war criminak thing obv i mean #wait dammit spock can see this blog nvm
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Posting Russian things every day, day 567: Nevsky potatoes!
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they look stupid
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i have your family name and home coordinates. you have 3 days to delete that post.
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ay, laddy...@'cptnjtkirk said to quit yer fighting!
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stfu ur in love with an ugly ass spaceship
#istg you starfleet ppl are like asking to get bullied or smthn #not my fault ur easy targets
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@'klingon-soldier-6 's full dox
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@'cptnjtkirk Sir, there's an asteroid coming towards the ship at an alarming speed! 3 hours until impact!
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cant we just move out of the way.? or blow it up
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I can't, sir! Our controls are all jammed!
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can confirm, @'cptnjtkirk sir!! nothings working!!
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how?? how could this have happened???
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shit
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"ooo mccoy what do i do" "oooh mccoy im in love with my first officer" "ooh mccoy--" boi stfu im a surgeon not a matchmaker
#go talk to someone else if you want help with that bucko #bones rambles
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i wish people would stop vagueposting about me :( at least @ me if ur gonna say something rude
#personal
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@'cptnjtkirk is a massive simp
#not what i meant but thanks i guess
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agree with you about how people talk about courtney love. I personally cant stand her or hole but it's insane how some people will say like "I fucking hate that cunt Courtney i hate that bitch" etc etc and then will turn around and make catboy irony edits of morrissey. they're both reprehensible racists and im not saying people should go easier on courtney or that they should only talk about morrissey with the utmost seriousness 24/7 or something but like. people should at least ATTEMPT to be consistent with how they talk about Problematic women vs Problematic men. when siouxsie sioux discourse was en vogue, the same people who would make these very angry callout posts about her wearing a not c armband in 1977 with the specific intent of offending people and calling Robert Smith fat would My Scrimbly The Onglydoople π post about Keith Moon who beat his wife and tried to kidnap her when she left him, Matthew Broderick'd someone, AND dressed up as a knot sea with his friend and went through Jewish neighborhoods as a "joke". And again it's not that i think people should act like One specific way abt all "problematic" people or that i think people who vocally dislike courtney love siouxsie sioux etc are automatically misogynists but it's very frustrating seeing some people give famous white men a pass/post abt them with affection while ALSO interpreting every single thing a woman does as uncharitably as possible and then acting like YOURE a bad person for liking her art and nothing else about her. Rock/alternative fans are so deeply misogynistic that it genuinely makes me feel insane sometimes. Again want to reiterate that i do not like courtney love and don't think that people should be nicer to her or something I want people to be worse to men
yes! thats exactly my point! rock/alt/whatever fans need to be consistent in their criticism of musicians/artists regardless of gender bc the double standards are fucking insane
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