They/them ♏ 31yo🏳️🌈 Aromantic and Asexual (pan-aroace) 🏳️⚧️ Nonbinary (enbyflux) - Huge mess - Cat parent
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incase it wasn’t clear - i am and my blog is anti-terf 👍

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Have you ever felt aromantic "jealousy"?
Wait! I'll explain!
I'm talking about a personal experience. I was thinking about some fictional characters I felt some kind of "jealousy" towards when they started a romantic relationship, but I definitely didn't have a crush on them. I started to wonder: "Why I felt this way?"
The answer is simple: I wasn't jealous because I wanted the character to have a relationship with me, I wanted them to not have a romantic plot at all. Sometimes it just happened to me, I got super attached to the character and didn't want a partner for them.
So… have you ever had a similar experience? Let me know!
#aromantic#lgbtqia#aspec#queer#lgbt#aro#aroace#aro things#arospec#aro pride#aromanticism#aro blogging#aromantic spectrum#aromantic pride#aromantic characters#aromantic problems
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Every damn year
We still get the same "Asexuals aren't queer", "Asexuals don't belong in Pride" bullshit from the Oppression Olympics gang.
We don't need recognition from nobody. We are LGBTQIA+, it's simple as that. Get over it.
#lgbtqia#queer#aspec#lgbt#aroace#asexual#asexual community#asexual visibility#asexual pride#acespec#asexuality#ace stuff#ace pride
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Another headcanon…
I don't often talk about my headcanons here but I was watching Dead Boy Detectives recently and I couldn't help but think Niko would be a perfect Aegoromantic character.

I mean, it's stated multiple times she "loves love" but never had experience and she looks pretty much uninterested in being in a relationship herself. Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't remember her manifesting interest in anyone or being "I wish so much I was in a relashionship right now". Of course, it doesn't mean she wouldn't feel the attraction but we don't know specifically about attraction until the character say themself, so I'm basing my theory on the vague information we got.
And being aegosexual myself, I tend to headcanon her as aegosexual as well but no evidences on the sexual attraction part.
I also heard she's not in the comics so, maybe there's hope?
#aro headcanons#headcanon#dead boy detectives#niko sasaki#aromantic#aro#aro things#aromantic headcanon#aro spec#queer#aegoromantic#aspec headcanons#aspec
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Happy Pride Month!
I'm too exhausted for a decent post, but very proud! 🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️
#lgbtqia#queer#aspec#aromantic#aroace#lgbt#aro#asexual#ace#aro things#pride month#trans pride#lgbt pride#pride#queer pride#queer community
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Pride Month is coming and I need your help!
Which kind of Pride digital art would you like to see next month? I'm thinking about focusing on a-spec art, but I need ideas! Please 🥺🙏
#lgbtqia#queer#aspec#aromantic#aroace#lgbt#aro#asexual#ace#pride month#lgbt pride#pride flag#queer community
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Seeing stuff about it being normal to be sad about being aroace and I just want to say it's also normal to not be sad about it at all. To never have been sad about it. To never become sad about being aroace. Example: me :)
The second I learned it was humanly possible not to marry someone I was like yayy!! hurray!! that's me right there, unmarried forever! what a luxury!
When I later found out aromanticism and asexuality existed I was like: wait that's a thing yayy!!!! That's me!! It's a thing!! :D
And then with the aromantic community being so cool it's even more awesome!
Being aroace is wonderful!!
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I dislike so much the term "baby-making music"
And it's not because I'm Ace.
Or maybe it is, I don't speak allo… 🤔
#lgbtqia#queer#aspec#lgbt#asexual#ace#aroace#asexuality#acespec#ace stuff#ace rambles#ace things#asexual pride
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I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT
To prove something to a friend, please
REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES
LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES
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obviously you should respect the original tags on any post you reblog, like if you reblog an aroallo's post don't tag it as asexual because that's rude and erasing OPs identity (unless they say it's okay of course), but if someone makes their own post and tags it as aromantic but it's talking about sex instead of romance, that's not mistagging, and you should believe them when they say that their relationship with sex is a part of their romantic orientation, because it probably is.
not all aspecs use the SAM nor are they required to pretend to do so for your comfort. believe aspecs when they say their experiences are tied to their identity, even if it isn't the same identity you would use, I'm begging you.
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"i love you" should be platonic by default and if you want to use the phrase romantically, that's on you to clarify
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You're valid and loveable as you are! Praying for your safety and happiness always! ❤️
Thank you! Such a lovely thing to read 😊
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Happy International Asexuality Day!
(sorry, I didn't prepare anything special, I'm going through some hardships, I hope you all understand)
#lgbtqia#queer#aspec#lgbt#asexual#ace#asexuality#asexual visibility#asexual community#international asexuality day#ace pride
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Thanks, @trans-autistic-and-miserable!
I cheated a bit and only included pics without people, I loved this result:






I'll cheat again and say everyone who likes can join! (Aka my social anxiety doesn't allow me to tag people because I think I'm annoying them)
thanks for the tags @drewstarkeyslut @anqeliclust @oceandriveab @princessslutt 💕
rules: go to pinterest, type [your name] + core to show your aesthetic then post the first 6 images






no pressure tags: @rafesmuse @rafetopia @rafescurtainbangz @rafeism @amournoir @sugarcoatedstarkey @haven247 @bean-is-reading @sociorafe @lizcameron + whoever wants to
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Have you booped yourself?
Do it. Then check the activities.
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