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The School For Good And Evil Materialist

Lady Lesso

Not so Evil (Chapters below): Another year at The School For Good And Evil, and another year yearning for the Dean of Evil. Maybe things will change this year? Maybe not? Only the future will know.

Prologue: An inside look of the turning point

Chapter one: Third Year: The start of the school year. Lesso notices your strange behavior but stays quiet. (coming soon)

Chapter Two: The Giver: She gives and she does not stop giving. 18+ (coming soon)

Chapter Three: Soul Crusher: In the end did she really give you all of herself. Are you even yourself? (coming soon)

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Here I am playing house wife to my girlfriend. Making her lunches for work, sewing clothes that have tears, and making her keep her switch at my house because I want to play a game… She loves me 🌞 I do that and write while she spoils me rotten, edits my fics, and puts up with my attitude.

Ps…. I love doing this! I told her to wait two year to get married and we haven’t hit that mark yet. But trust, she is itching to put a ring on my finger hehehehe

Love,

Lilith💋

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Not So Evil (Prologue)

Lady Lesso x Plus Size!Reader

Plot: Another year at The School For Good And Evil, and another year yearning for the Dean of Evil. Maybe things will change this year? Maybe not? Only the future will know.

AN: This is a prologue so just keep that in mind, it is not meant to give away too much. I hope you enjoy and it makes you wanna keep reading! Also the reader is of age in this, the school is like a college so everyone is over 18.

Warnings: Violence, her hitting your knuckles with a cane, per evil, heartbreak, angst, just down right sad.

Word count: 237

Prologue…

Third year in Lesso’s class.

Her cane meets the skin on the back of my hands. Breaking skin on my knuckles. Her blue eyes bore into me, the softness now gone. 

“No, try again.” Her voice unwavering, turned cold. I push back the tears, focusing my back in the paper in front of me, and this time I refuse to mess it up. To let my emotions get in the way.

The chant falls from my lips, a herd of blow flies now finding their way around her head, messing up her curls. A scowl replacing her once straight face. 

“You imbecile.” Her hand reaches for my arm, in a bruising grip. Pulling me from my once upright desk and dragging me down the dark corridor, not caring if my feet can keep up with her long strides. The smell of mildew and death invades my senses. There is only one place on this whole campus that smells like that, The Doom Room.

“Leo, please you’re hurting me.” I whimper, her vice grip feels like it’s crushing my bones. Her steps come to an abrupt stop, the hall becoming eerily silent. 

 “You don’t get to call me that anymore. You lost that pillage." Her tone was anything but kind.

“You’re the one that broke my heart first Lesso. You don't get to play victim when you're the one that fucked up.” With that her grip loosened slightly, a realization washing over her.

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I really really really don't know who to ask and I'm new to AO3😢😥😥 Is commenting too much awkward??? I'm socially inadept and interacting with people online gives me an overload of anxiety and recently I've found this fic and fell super deep in love with it and commented massive messages on each chapter. The author replied to me at the beginning but recently they just stopped (hi I understand it's not the author's job to reply and they're likely busy with their life too) but I can't help but be kind of worried that I somehow had put them off (because my comments sometimes involves analyzations and if I get into something too much I can be too excessive) I plead for advice is this normal???

while I can only speak for myself, I as a writer absolutely LOVE it when people give me long comments (the longer, the better lol) and, for me personally, there’s no such thing as too many comments.

love love love love these long comments, they help motivate me, especially when my readers give me deep analysis on the characters and/or their actions.

anyway, fellow writers, reblog if you love long positive comments

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Not So Evil Update

Lady Lesso x Reader

Not So Evil (Prologue) will be out 3:15 pm tomorrow. I will link it to this post when it comes out. Hope you enjoy! Feedback is always encouraged.

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For everyone experiencing the heat wave pls be careful. Make sure to drink plenty of water and rest when needed. Especially my asthmatics.

Take care of yourself. Eat, drink water, and rest. Taking a cold shower can help too. But if you feel the symptoms on a heat stroke or heat exhaustion pls visit your local urgent care and/or ER. I will list symptoms below.

Much love,

Lilith💋

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Wrote 100 (if that) word prologue for Not So Evil. Lady Lesso x Reader. Planning on making it a little longer today.

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Just finished the first draft of Burning Flame. BUT BUT hear me out I’m working on the lady Lesso one tomorrow. Burning Match is giving me a migraine.

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Sorry in advance for how long this next fic will take. Although I had a dream about lady lesso so maybe the universe is telling me to get my ass up and write. I’m house sitting this weekend so hopefully I will get some writing in.

We shall see if my brain is functioning.

Love y’all❤️‍🔥

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It’s very amusing any time I see people in fandom hating on x reader. Like sure your make believe is so much more mature then my make believe lol

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So I’ve been putting together a book of poems. Obviously they cover extremely dark topics. How do I make this warning list not sound absolutely insane? Poll below the pic

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Do you ever just want to throw yourself away after thinking of something embarrassing you did ten years ago???

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Step Into the Real-Life BDSM Community

Now listen, my sweet ones. I see so many questions in my inbox from curious hearts longing to connect with others in the real-time BDSM scene. And honestly, I love that. There’s something powerful and affirming about finding your people, and see your desires reflected back at you in someone else’s eyes. And while the online world is wonderful in its own right, it is quite different from real-life community. So, allow me to guide you through some of it gently, just like I would if you were nestled safely beside me, asking all your nervous little questions.

So first things first: no two communities are exactly alike. Every club, every munch, every gathering will have its own culture, rules, and vibe, shaped by the region, the organizers, and the people who attend. So before anything else, do your homework. Look up your local kink communities, some will have FetLife pages, others may use different platforms or even require a referral. And remember, sweethearts… just because one club doesn’t quite fit, doesn’t mean the next one won’t feel like home.

But I do understand it can feel intimidating taking that first step. Society isn’t always kind to those of us who live and love a little differently. But sweethearts, please remember, you have a right to explore your desires, to learn what brings you pleasure, and to do it safely and surrounded by people who respect you.

So, let’s walk through some basics to help you feel a little more prepared.

Munches: Your Soft Entry

A munch is a casual, non-sexual meetup held in public spaces like cafés, restaurants, or community centers. It’s where people of all experience levels come together to chat, laugh, and connect, and no latex required *smirks*. If you’re new, this is often where your journey begins.

Here you’ll be gently vetted, meaning people will take the time to get to know you, make sure you’re a safe and respectful addition to the community, and share the basics of club or play party etiquette.

Don't be afraid. Everyone there had a first time too, and if the community is healthy, they’ll welcome you kindly.

Vetting: Safety First, Always

Vetting is a safety process - not a judgment. It’s about making sure you’re a good fit for the space, that you understand the basics of consent and safe play, and that you’re not there to cause harm or violate trust. So, be honest, ask questions, and be yourself.

The Next Step: Play Parties and Clubs

After vetting, you may be invited to attend a play party. These are usually held in private venues or dedicated BDSM clubs and are where you’ll witness or participate in live scenes. Yes, you may see sex. Yes, you may see someone tied beautifully to a frame and moaning under a cane or a flogger. And yes, you are allowed to simply observe.

But here’s the rule, my darlings: you must be respectful. No touching, no interrupting, no filming, no gawking. Think of it like an art gallery where people are expressing themselves through pleasure and sensation.

Now, a few important reminders:

Consent is non-negotiable. You do not touch anyone or anything without clear, verbal permission.

Just because someone is dominant, switch, or submissive does not mean they will dominate/submit to you.

Watching is allowed (often encouraged!), but again do so respectfully.

Every club has its own set of rules. Read them before you attend. Follow them to the letter.

The Space and the Structure

Within these events, there are often designated areas for scenes, known as dungeons or play floors. There is always a Dungeon Master or Mistress (DM) present, these are trained individuals responsible for keeping the space safe. They are there to monitor play, intervene if needed, and be a point of contact if something feels wrong.

Trust them. Respect them. And don’t be afraid to ask them questions.

You might also notice that certain types of play are not permitted at many clubs, things like edge play (for example: choking), blood play, or CNC (consensual non-consent). This is for safety, hygiene, and legal reasons. And breaking those rules can result in removal from the premises and legal actions.

It's also good to remember that every venue is different, but cleanliness is always paramount. If you use equipment or furniture, you are responsible for cleaning it afterward. Think of it like the gym, but sexier.

Consent, Etiquette, and Respect

This should go without saying, but let me say it anyway: never assume consent. If you want to play, ask. If someone says no, take it with grace. If you’re invited to a scene, clarify limits and safewords ahead of time.

And keep in mind that scenes are often negotiated in detail before they happen. No surprises. No pushing. Just mutual desire explored safely.

So always, always:

Ask before touching.

Respect people's boundaries, roles, and dynamic choices.

Don’t hover or interrupt a scene.

Use safe words or signals if you’re playing.

Never assume someone is available for play just because they’re submissive or dominant.

Clean equipment after use.

Respect others’ privacy- what happens in the dungeon, stays there.

Avoid clubs that disregard safety, vetting, or privacy.

And never forget: You are allowed to say no. You are allowed to ask questions. You are allowed to leave if you feel unsafe or uncertain.

A Few Additional Tips

Many clubs have age limits, such as 18+, 21+, or 25+ depending on their structure.

Some venues cater to specific groups: lesbian-only, queer, trans-inclusive, gay, heterosexual, etc. Find where you feel safest.

Dress codes may be enforced (especially at more formal parties).

You may be exposed to kinks you don’t share. Don’t judge. The same respect you want is the respect you must offer.

Photos and filming is strictly forbidden.

If you take anything from me, let it be this: BDSM without consent is not BDSM. It’s abuse. Full stop.

And One Last Thing…

There is no expiration date on exploring your desires. Whether you’re 18 or 58, queer or straight, vanilla-adjacent or deep into the kink lifestyle, you belong here if you come with respect, curiosity, and care.

So take your time. Observe. Ask. Learn. This world is full of fascinating, passionate people who love to share what they know, but you must enter it with respect and integrity.

And if your heart’s beating a little faster reading this, then maybe… just maybe… it’s time to take that first step.

I'm proud of you already. 💋

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Let’s normalize how long some fics take to write. I can have a short one take wayyyy longer to write then one that’s super long.

You take as much time as you need along with writing what you truly enjoy.

You will burn out if you keep writing stories that you’re not interested in.

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If you’re under the age of 18, unfollow me right now! You’re not welcomed here. I don’t care if you’re 17.5 or if you’re turning 18 this week or tomorrow. This blog is strictly 18+!!!!

This also goes for blogs who don’t have their age listed anywhere in their blogs. No, I don’t care for your excuses for why your age isn’t present on your blog. No one is asking for your exact age. It’s not hard to put "in my 20s, etc."

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Not Sex and the City getting me out of my writers block.

Thank you Carrie Bradshaw!