#Health problems list

[maia-radfemdu]

now that I'm fully independent I realize all the work my mother put in cleaning and cooking, taking full time care of a disabled child her husband wouldn't even change diapers for, raising several animals (pigs, cows, hens, turkeys, rabbits, geese etc.) plus the dogs and cats, taking care of the garden, making canned foods evrey autumn, helping out her elderly father, budgeting for evreything we needed during the month, packing my dad's food and clothes etc etc. all of this for him to come home and say "what do you even do all day?" "what can you spend so much money on?" or getting angry at her for taking a nap in the afternoon. being a wife and mother is a thankless job, kids don't understand until they're adults IF they do.

[resiliencewithin]

Anxiety creates false urgency.

You don’t have to figure out and solve everything right now.

You can’t.

Life is too complex.

Pick one thing. Maybe the most challenging thing and pick away at one part of it. Maybe the least challenging thing to get something out of the way. Maybe no things at all, just make a note on your phone or stick a post-it somewhere to remind you of things another time.

You got this.

[small-strong-bookish-butch]

Haha time flies when you're a chronically ill adult and have a job and don't sleep enough, and at least half of your friends are also Having A Bad Time at the moment, and the days stack on top of each other like junk mail you can't sort through too closely

[beckywiththegoodhijab]

Hi all! If you've been following me for a while, you know that I am a high school teacher in Texas. I love my job and all that it offers me on a professional and personal level. One thing that teaching does not offer me is the kind of funding that would allow me to purchase necessary self-regulation tools, as well as extra supplies and rewards for my students. If you have a couple of bucks to spare, I have a few items listed on my Amazon Wish List that will go towards supporting my students. Love y'all!!!!!!

[brutal-nemesis]

2 and 13 for Castys 🫵🫵

2. How loosely or strictly do they use the word ‘friend’?

Pretty loosely. He's met a lot of people, and he really enjoys friendship (since it's pretty much the only kind of relationship he can have), so he wants as many friends as he can have. If they've shared a drink or some kind of experience together, then he considers them a friend

13. When do they fake a smile? How often?

Mainly when he's being sarcastic, which is often, but not all of the sarcastic smiles are fake, just some of them. Like if he's tied up and talking about how comfy he is, that's a fake sarcastic smile, but it's a real one if he's just joking around with a friend or something. He usually doesn't fake being happy or anything, instead just suppressing his negative emotions in a very ✨ healthy ✨ manner and focusing on whatever the hell to distract himself, so he's just generally in a good mood and doesn't have to fake smiles.

[whalesfall]

january literally didn’t even exist to me

[ween-kitchens]

yk when you can feel yourself starting to stop caring about stuff you love and you are White Knuckling through it because no I Will still love this so fucking help me

[terrminallycapricious]

((sorry ever since august after hte coffee scare ive been nonstop being lightheaded and i still cant get to the doctor without being put in a worse state. ive sworn off any caffiene ever since then and tried other methods to make myself feel better and none have helped. i also nearly passed out at the renaissance fest, and twice tonight. i cant play exciting games anymore. so i have this constant light headedness and brain fog. and im lucky whe nit does go away and pass but it comes back around like clockwork. i know what i need to do (medical care wise) but my situation is so complicated .i WISH i could go to the doctor. its not about the money its about my mental state which is severe. so im sorry i do not respond well enough or stay very long. im so unwell. and i feel like im gonna die sometimes. it isnt anxiety or fluids or noneo f that. if that was it id be better by now. this is CAUSING my severe anxiety though thats for sure. ))

[psychic-waffles]

If anyone could spare some good vibes one of my beautiful orange sons George is very ill and I am very worried and it would be appreciated by both of us 🧡

[doodle-life]

Hey, it’s been quite a while since I posted on here.

Anyways, here’s a small doodle of a budgie (I just had mine on my mind).

And I kind of wanted to try the sort of trend where you say “if this post gets so and so notes I’ll do that and that”, so here goes my list:

At 20 notes I‘ll finish off a few diary entries (I have neglected that duty. I‘m over a year behind 😅)

At 50 notes I‘ll read through a small book I have on my reading list (currently around 40 books on there)

At 100 notes I’ll write the next chapter on a collab short story I’m writing with my girlfriend

At 500 notes I’ll go for a jogging session (considering to do that regularly because of weight reasons)

At 1000 notes I’ll try and finish all the summaries of every topic I have ever learned in nursing school for preparations for my final exams (I’ll be done in April. How time flies…)

Well, let’s see how this goes😊

[iowaisms]

After careful evaluation and mental checklisting, I've come to the conclusion that 90% of the things I've been worried or stressed about are things I put on myself for no reason, and I only have about five total things I absolutely need to be concerned about in my life right now. Good job, asshole!

[fortes-fortuna-iogurtum]

Three things I have been learning:

do things that aren't on the internet. with real people. don't get all your opinions online, because it's not a solid depiction of reality. it really really isn't. HOWEVER--don't entirely discount the internet, bc while it is a cesspool of nonsense many times, I have also met all my best friends on it, and I am endlessly thankful for them and legitimately do not know where I would be today without them.

if a song speaks to something extremely deep in you throughout your life, that probably means something. think about it sometimes. try to figure out why it resonates like that, and discern if that means something that could be important or helpful to you.

Van Gogh is my favourite artist for a reason that's about more than just his paintings.

[liminalweirdo]

News outlets who report on criminals has "having autism" might as well report whether they have celiac as well, or green eyes.

These arbitrary facts have nothing to do with their actions. When 1-3% of the world has a trait, whether it be celiac, autism, or green eyes, it a simply a common trait, shared by millions of people. This is ableism and it should be called out, especially in the face of the attacks being misogynistic attacks.

This has nothing to do with autism and it's ableist as fuck to suggest otherwise. People — the news — are desperate to find something in these people that marks criminals out as different from "us".

Autism is an unrelated factor. Just like uncommon eye colors. Just like whether or not someone can eat fucking gluten.

Next time you read that a person who has committed a crime has autism, stop and ask yourself if it fucking matters. Next time someone does something terrible, I wanna know if they can eat bread. Like??

Because here's the thing: for the past several years, autism has been used as a crutch or a shield to assure abled people that they are somehow removed from someone who would commit an act like this.

Painting criminals as monsters because of their mental health problems (or painting them as monsters at all tbh) only serves as an excuse to turn our face away from the problems that exist in our society. Autism is not the culprit, but the way the world functions right now definitely drives some of these people to do what they've done. So how do we address that?

We need to put the blame where it really belongs. This has nothing to do with the DSM-V.

[bunnihearted]

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[chaos-and-cookies]

I may be stupid and this may be tmi but just in case someone else didnt know this, APARENTLY HAVING A MESSED UP PH BALANCE IN UR COOCH CAN GIVE U WEIRD COLORED DISCHARGE????? I'VE BEEN HAVING THIS ISSUE EVER SINCE I GOT ON BIRTH CONTROL AND THE DOCTORS NEVER TOLD ME THIS???? My current one said i should eat more yogurt/probiotics but didn't explain why???? So i never ate it consistently to see if it made a difference???? I always thought a messed up coochie ph meant you could be itchy or smelly or something and since i never rly dealt with that that often i didnt think to look up if my issue was a ph thing but aparently it is!!! So now im gonna take my happy ass to the grocery store to get a bunch of probiotic yogurt and see if this will be the answer to my 4yr long problems 😭

[autumnalhalcyon]

vaguely aggrivating, following someone who's advocating for a movement that, while agreeing with aspects of it, leaves you with questions and concerns, so you ask about it, making clear that you agree with many concepts stated, but also that you don't understand other concepts but want to, and instead of explaining their movement or even mentioning resources to look for, they just kinda. dodge my questions while making it out like im just some kind of idiot who "doesnt get it" and in a later post, tries to make me out to be downplaying suffering by asking genuine questions.

this is about antipsychology. terfs keep your grubby fucking mitts off my post.