#I hated socializing growing up

[bpdohwhatajoy]

Really wish I had known I was autistic growing up so instead of thinking I was a freak that was broken and overly sensitive and weird I could’ve realized no I’m literally just autistic🙃

[ladybugsimblr]

Squaaaaaaaad!! My fave twins Lyric & Legend are preteens. Let the shenanigans (and random photoshoots because I'm already obsessed) begin. Happy Birthday!! 🎉

[lylahammar]

why the fuck is it so socially acceptable to say hateful stuff about people with red hair

[stuckinapril]

i think i officially set my sights on a therapist and i'll be contacting her very soon?? therapy was legitimately not on my 2024 bingo card (or in the cards for me at all) but here we are????

[834k]

I have a hc that dancing and carnivale is a big thing in the culture of Quetzlan because of their proximity to birds and the importance of courtship rituals for birds. And because of this, all the schools in Quetzlan have a mandatory social dancing unit in core PE when it comes up to the avian breeding season.

[golden-letters]

and i know i am unlikeable, i know i am self-centred, i know i am arrogant, i know i am too boring, and i lack a sense of humour and hanging out with me feels like a chore and i am so incredibly unlikeable. but it still hurts, even with hindsight, to be told a friend is no longer a friend. and im forced to examine each of our interactions squinting to see details of whether or not you've always hated me, lost in the question of whether you're just too good of an actor or maybe once, we were actually friends. i don't know. i can be quite daft when it comes to these things. and i can't help but hate myself for it. i can't blame you all either. no one sane would voluntarily accompany someone as prickly as me– and i'm too self-centred and arrogant and horrid to accept anyone insane.

[toddtakefive]

btw todd’s reluctance to join the dps because he doesn’t want to read (which is then accommodated for) and is scared to put himself out there (which is also worked through) being read as todd not wanting to go AT ALL, and thus neil making the proper accommodations (“todd anderson, who prefers not to read, will keep the minutes of the meetings”) and encouraging him to step out of the box that stifles him being seen as ‘forceful’ or like he can’t take no for an answer makes me insane with rage

[daily-hanamura]

[gunkbaby]

ik most of u dont agree with my ed tokyo ghoul takes and that’s fine. but there is something so validating about an almost entire cast of characters for whom eating is a task that inherently involves a lot of guilt and shame.

[doveotion]

i need to make pomegranate+dark chocolate bark soon I miss it 😕

[gaytwirights]

One of my friends got spoiled for the ending of orv by one of her classmates. And it isn't even a proper spoiling where she now knows the ending. It's literally just for the big plot twists. The marvel movie version of orv if you will. I think I might actually hate someone in real life more than I hate myself

[br1ghtestlight]

my mom never read me books bcuz she got tired of reading books to my older sister and didnt want to read all of them again, she never bought me video games bcuz she didnt want to have my younger siblings play them..... like wtf did i even do with my spare time. did i just sit by myself in a room all day

[kil9]

also this is random but so many kpop blogs are unbearable for this because so many of them are "kill all men !! except ur ok bcos ur trans youre not a real man 🥰 and my kpop boys are ok because i emasculate asians 😊"

[rutadales]

I think my least favorite thing that happens in fandom spaces is how overly familiar people act towards you. Like whenever I get a post over 200 notes I have people making jokes in the tags that aren't like outright distressing or gross or anything but that just. idk! are jokes I would only make with people I know. Like "fuck you!" or "oh this is awful" or whatever that's done in a joking tone but it's still weird. You don't know me like that

And it's not so much a problem over here because we are so insular as a community so even if I don't know you guys by name or if we don't follow each other I still recognize the person commenting on my stuff. enough to almost certainly recognize the joking tone instantly and for that familiarity there to be warranted. we're not friends but it's like, yeah! I know this person they've been here forever. It's comfortable.

But in larger spaces that casual familiarity is gone. I've literally never interacted with you before. It's like if you overheard a conversation on the street and just walked in and started joking around with them like you knew them. it's uncomfortable!! and like yes obviously I'm looking for interactions when I post and tag things that's the whole point, so it is inherently different than say a private conversation being intruded on but djakfoofjf just don't act like you know someone you've literally never engaged with at all before.

[uzumakiheart]

like let’s be srs how could naruto ever be nice when he was never… given that same treatment? of course he was overly defensive and emotional.… what would he know of being nice and respectful???? he wasn’t just a mindless self absorbed bully he literally had no human relationships until the age of twelve. how would he know how to console a grieving child? or be tactful and considerate…? or approach friendships/relationships the right way? let’s look at the material guys

[drpeppertummy]

any time im giving dude ocs (including sonas) features im Coming To Terms With about myself (short, fat, long hair, shaped like grimace, etc) in an attempt to create Self Love And Gender i can never give em All those features. like theyll be short & fat but have short hair. or theyll have long hair & dress like me but be tall & skinny. i have one fursona that kinda meets all the criteria but its not a fursona i really like. I Have To Make Up A New Fursona (or redesign my turkey vulture fursona but idk if ill be able to make them into something im happy with while still keeping the bird features)