#I love getting positive asks

[sillynarcissist]

as an autistic creature with BPD & OCD, im glad to have found your blog. i realized that i might have (covert) NPD your blog helped be realize/confirm this.

p.s: i think you're neat

-🌺 (if that's already taken then im Hibiscus anon)

glad I could help ya out! godspeed to you on your journey, anon

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Bros before Ho(oh my god is that Hanguang-Jun?)

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[alluralater]

i can’t lie— there is a certain amount of euphoria that washes over me when i tell another girl to shut the fuck up and take my cock and she says yes yes yes and just keeps nodding like the prettiest dumb toy for me

[carouselunique]

Decided to go through with this after all! Post proof of donation of at minimum 10$USD and a simple request and you can get a colored sketch! (Honey kindly modeled for the example like a good filly!)

[amerricanartwork]

Every time I see your art I want to crunch it like hard candy/pos

Thank you! I put lots of effort into making appealing art! In fact I often don't accept anything less!

Also I interpreted "hard candy" as rock candy initially (I guess my brain forgot that suckers and peppermints and jawbreakers and whatnot exist) so, uh... I made this little sketch based on it!

Here's some more art to crunch on!

[puppyratboi]

Trans men are men. Trans men are beautiful and strong and brave. Trans masculinity should be celebrated! I LOVE YOU TRANS MEN

[lylahammar]

I think the important thing about body neutrality and body positivity existing side by side is that body positivity is a big hurdle for people who are just starting to work on learning to love their bodies. When someone's at their lowest point, it's better to say "aim for just fine," and once they reach that level of neutrality where they can appreciate the functional ways their body is serving them, it's a lot more feasible to make the jump to seeing the visual beauty of it.

[cherrylight]

this is kind of self indulgent ^^;; but i feel someone also needs to hear this too <3

your f/o did not ask you out as a joke. they love you and ALWAYS and i mean ALWAYS !!! wanted to be with you !! theyre so happy that theyre with you !! they will never ever play with your feelings EVER !!! they care so much about you, they want to see you smile, to hear you laugh, to spend quality time with you !!! i promise you its not at all a joke !

your f/o loves you so much. they are smitten, head over heels in love with you. their adoration for you is so genuine !!! they even told me ! <3

i promise from the bottom of my heart: your f/o loves & cares about you; its not a joke.

( pr0ship/c0mship dni !! this post is not for you !! )

[canisalbus]

It's quite funny having followed you for years and years and knowing Machete as his dark, bloodied, cunning (and always on the edge of getting horribly murdered for his hubris) incarnation, and coming into 2024 and just... yeah he's gay now. Maybe he's even happy. Redemption at last... perhaps he DID get assassinated indeed and all those AUs are just his personal afterlife (does he get to go to Heaven? Seems so!)

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[honeypleasejustkillme]

haha so funny

[preseriesdean]

It's cute, though. You pretending you're trying to save Sam for the greater good, when we both know you're doing it for you. You can't lose him. 

SAM AND DEAN in SEASON 11

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

your art is absolutely amazing

i just went thru all of the poorly drawn mdzs and it was amazing seeing your art develop!

you just made my morning, thabkyou <3

Thank you so much for the kind words, and for cheering me on as I continue to learn!

[trans-androgyne]

“It’s not about demographics but about the current way the trans community functions.”

I’m so tired. We’re just supposed deal with being the community’s punching bag until it gets bored and picks a different target? A community I can supposedly claim as mine? At this point I don’t know if I want to continue interacting with it.

Coming out was supposed to be a joyous thing. It was supposed to make things better. Instead it’s just this garbage. Forget people adjacent to me, if I can’t even count on my fellow trans men to have my back then what’s the fucking point? Might as well go back into closet. It’d be awful but I don’t see how this is any better.

I've been exactly where you are, and I'm so, so sorry. Encountering all this discourse and feeling hated, rejected, and invisible in my own community very very nearly caused me to detransition.

But I thoroughly believe I can promise you it will not be like this forever. And I don't think it will be a matter of getting bored and things going back to the way things were a few years ago. As painful as all this infighting is right now, it is stirring real, necessary conversation about transphobia. People who hold ideas like "manhood isn't an intersection" and "trans men don't experience misogyny" and "oppression only affects the primary targeted demographic" are being challenged. I didn't feel this way a year ago, but now I firmly believe that transandrophobia theory or at least something resembling it will be integrated into mainstream transfeminism, and the gendered oppression of trans men and mascs will be acknowledged. It will mean something to say someone is being transandrophobic, and it won't be okay to talk over and stereotype and make fun of/"punch up at" us.

I love the trans community, and I do it by choice. It doesn't feel like home for me right now the way I expected it to be when I came out. But I will make it a home, for me and for every single trans man and transmasc out there. We deserve recognition, we deserve space, we deserve a voice, we deserve resources, and we are going to get them. It's okay to disengage with the community for now if that's what you need. But I hope folks like myself will help make it somewhere folks like you feel comfortable and celebrated. Because trans manhood and transmasculinity should be celebrated; our identities are just as wonderful and radical as other trans people's. One day, likely sooner than you might think, other folks will recognize that too.

[countess-of-edessa]

scrolling through novena after novena choosing which saints i think would be most receptive to my frivolous little interpersonal problems

[ilynpilled]

idgaf wars champion

[solargeist]

if it's your BED that's the problem, either physically or mentally, you may want to consider another option. for example, a sleeping hammock, or a japanese futon, or a large beanbag, or a pile of blankets on the floor, or a single blanket on the floor. any option that allows you to sleep is the right option. i spent a while sleeping on a recliner.

i think its just my brain bc everyone else says its so comfy n the sheets feel nice . but like. its not MY bed yknow. not my blankets. it feels like im sleeping in someone else' room and it has me upset bc i genuinely cannot go back i just have to get used to it now

i think i'll just pull out a throw blanket for now @_@