#Traumagenic System

[sysboxes]

[text ID: This innerworld is fucking massive and vivid.]

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[syscultureis]

System culture is going through [insert traumatic event here] and now I'm an Omega werewolf about it??

Sighs. This is what we get for passively consuming Omegaverse tiktok skits / & fics

[necromeat]

How it feels to filter the "endo safe" tag and watch all that garbage disappear from your dash

[neonspectrumdreams]

I believe in unity between system and singlet otherkin. ✌🏼 ✌🏼 ✌🏼

[beingcultureis]

being + plurality culture is your whole system being non-human/alterhuman

-The Unkown System

Yep, same for us!

[thedeathlilysystem]

Split doesn't exist without trauma or stress

There is no such stupidity such as "positive split" or "i split because yes"

SPLITS ARE NEGATIVELY INDUCED!! COMPANIONS ARE ALSO SPLITS!!!!!

[southsys]

𝖼𝖺𝗇 𝗐𝖾 𝗇𝗈𝗋𝗆𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗌𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖿𝖺𝖼𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗌𝗈𝗆𝖾 𝖺𝗅𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗌／𝗂𝗇𝗍𝗋𝗈𝗃𝖾𝖼𝗍𝗌／𝖿𝗂𝖼𝗍𝗂𝗏𝖾𝗌／𝖿𝖺𝖼𝗍𝗂𝗏𝖾𝗌 𝗌𝗉𝗅𝗂𝗍 𝖿𝗋𝗈𝗆 𝗌𝗈𝗎𝗋𝖼𝖾𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖺𝗋𝖾𝗇’𝗍 𝗅𝗂𝗄𝖾𝖽 ， 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖾𝗏𝖾𝗇 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗌𝗒𝗌𝗍𝖾𝗆 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗆𝗌𝖾𝗅𝗏𝖾𝗌 𝖽𝗈𝗇’𝗍 𝗅𝗂𝗄𝖾 𝖻𝖾𝖼𝖺𝗎𝗌𝖾 𝗐𝖾 𝖼𝖺𝗇’𝗍 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗍𝗋𝗈𝗅 𝗐𝗁𝗈 𝗐𝖾 𝗌𝗉𝗅𝗂𝗍？

－ 𝖯𝗒𝗋𝗈 （𝗁𝖾／𝗁𝗂𝗆）

[theinfernalcollective]

I have seen alot of people say that getting a diagnosis of dissociative identity disorder ruins your life. And its straight and blatant misinformation. Getting a diagnosis cannot and will not ruin your life. You will not be locked away, you will not have limits of what you can and cannot do. Purely the only thing I am not allowed to do is drive. And that is only for both mine and others safety due to how heavy my dissociation is in public and stressful settings. - Vesper

[zerbrochener-quarz]

The meanings of the plural flag that I came up with!

The plural rings are not optional, that’s why I didn’t give a version without it.

Anyone is free to use these flags, however if you’re anti-endo I don’t see a point in you using this for, obvious reasons. Please PLEASE credit me and my account when sharing this flag! 🙏

First two stripes are obvious, dissociative identity disorder and the like and then people who are plural but their plurality is not directly caused by severe childhood trauma.

Third stripe is also obvious, uniting the plural community together and accepting one another as who we are!

Fourth stripe is mainly in regards to people with dissociative identity disorder but it can technically apply to other plural people if it happens to be possibly affecting them negatively.

5th stripe is a little lengthy. ⬇️

By criticism I mean criticizing current existing labels. For example take « system hoppers » and people who « sell » their alters. I do not think that is possible, as there is no actual way to physically/mentally get into someone else’s mind. Our minds are our own, and you cannot experience someone else’s thoughts or bodily experiences. Alters are a part of YOU. Also with selling alters again I don’t think that’s possible either. But even if you could, to me that defeats the whole purpose of being plural in the first place. Yes I know the quote seems like its contradicting my statement but in these cases it seems to be evidence of absence solely. Not absence of evidence. HOWEVER, please do NOT go harass anyone who identifies with these labels, even if I disagree with them.

Also I don’t agree with Tulpamancers either because that’s appropriating a closed cultural practice(as far as I know), I recommend using the label willowgenic instead. It has no ties to tulpamancy and gets the same point across.

By growth I mean overall growth about knowledge and experience and understanding of both traumatic and non-traumatic plurality. Destigmatizing dissociative identity disorder and other things like that.

Liberation is also obvious, lmao. Good representation and not being treated horribly.

That covers just about everything! :]

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More so a vent post:

Something I ABSOLUTELY HATE when singlets come to us is when they mostly ask about "IS SYSTEM TRANSFER/HOPPING REAL?" I'm sorry but MF USE YOUR HEAD! I'm sorry if I'm being aggressive but THINK LONG AND HARD ABOUT THAT. mf do we look like computers? Do we look like plug n play virtual pets? MMMHMHMHMM no it's not that's absolute BULLSHIT. Ah yes Plug in that usb port into my brain and put it in the other systems brain yeah yeah yeah so real.

Then they're like "OHHHHH.... I think I was lied to." No fucking shit you were you're speaking to an endo, it's physically impossible to do that, it doesn't make sense. It's not like your alters live in a multiverse. We are identities, fragments that split off or formed due to trauma. endos need to shut the fuck up an accept the fact that they're not SEVERELY traumatized, they're not a system, they're delusional or just a plain ass attention seeker, that this ISN'T FUN, who are HARMING people who actually HAVE this god awful disorder, and spreading false information such as piece of shit shows like Split. Stop saying "system hopping!!" Stop treating our disorder like we're a fucking virtual pet computer. DID/OSDD is a TRAUMA response a way of the brian to FUCKING SURVIVE! There is so so SO much into this disorder that makes you want to fucking off yourself. "Oh I dissociate so I must have it" THERE ARE SO MANY DISSOCIATIVE DISORDERS. DID IS JUST ONE OF THEM AND TO THE EXTREME! DO YOUR RESEARCH, TALK TO ACTUAL SYSTEMS, DON'T FAKE A DISABILITY FOR ATTENTION, IF YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE DID/OSDD GO. GET. PROFESSIONAL. HELP. GO GET HELP. GO GET DIAGNOSED, GO. JUST GO! This isn't fun, this isn't quirky, stop treating DID/OSDD as some grand thing because it's hell, it affects your everyday function in life. Stop spreading misinformation around. Endos are NOT real. Stop Saying bullshit that's not true, stop saying BULLSHIT THAT DOESN'T EVEN MAKE SENSE. System hopping, like fuck off. Honestly. And I fucking heard this shit too "you're not a system you don't have fictive you have only 2 alters" OH-OH. OKAY. MAYBE YOU'RE THE ENDO HERE. DID/OSDD IS HAVING 1 EXTRA OR MORE ALTERS AND THEY DON'T HAVE TO BE FICTIVE IF YOU ARE ADHD/AUTISTIC FICTIVES ARE MORE LIKELY TO SPLIT OFF DUE TO DEEP CONNECTION. If you believe that you have to have fictives and 50+ alters to be system you just gave yourself away that you're an endo. That system we know has 2 other alters that went DORMANT that were brain made not a fictive split. They are still a system. I'm- honestly, what the fuck is wrong with these people??? Honestly??? I honestly fucking can't. ~ ⚠︎

[sysboxes]

[text ID: "This system is in pain :("]

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[rustybutterknife]

Microdosing polyamory by dating a system

[thattheater-kid]

Here’s my metaphor for systemhood that I tell my singlet friends.

Imagine you’re playing a first person video game. You have the controller, you control your character. It’s a normal first person game. You are an alter, the character is the body. This is fronting.

Other people live with you. Sometimes, they come into the room and sit and watch while you play. They sometimes try to guide you, give you advice on what to do next. They don’t always agree, and they can argue with each other. Other times they scream at you that you’re doing everything wrong and you suck at this game. This is co-consciousness.

Imagine how distracting it would be for people around you to tell you what to do, or to scream at each other or at you, even if they have good intentions. It wouldn’t be easy to focus on your game, would it?

Then sometimes, something happens in the game that prompts you to hand off the controller to someone else so they can play and you get a break. This is (some types of) switching. This can be good.

Other times, someone rips the controller out of your hand or fights you for it. This is (other types of) switching. And sometimes, six other players hook up their controllers, but there’s only one character to play as. So all of you have your controllers, but you’re all trying to play the same character. This is cofronting.

Imagine how difficult that would be. Imagine how hard it would be to try and play a game while someone is trying to take the controller from you, or while six other people are trying to play too.

There are also times that nobody is playing, or you can’t decide who should play. What’s happening to the character in the game? What are they doing if no one is playing? This is dissociation. The character is doing nothing. They’re stuck.

This is the best metaphor I have come up with for being a system. It’s something a lot of people get because they’ve played games before.

[beingcultureis]

otherkin culture Is feeling in place at the renaissance festival

I never been to a renaissance fair (even though I really want to) but from what I can see I 100% would as well!

[welldrawnfish]

Plurality

[collectivewarmth]

one of the most important things about dissociative identity disorder and generally being a system that i wish people would understand is that it truly isn’t as cut and dry as it may seem for member count.

you’ll see people who say they have “six alters” and then immediately assume it’s six fully fleshed out equal individuals with no confusion or fuzziness regarding identity. that’s simply not true in a majority of cases, as i have seen.

most systems still VERY much deal with confusion regarding potential splits, go through dissociative episodes where they’re unsure of who they are, sometimes feel no attachment towards any identities, feel like they might have split and then suddenly that person is gone, unsure if alters they haven’t heard from often have gone dormant, not sure how to react when alters do come out of dormancy, etc.

it’s not a fun feeling and it’s genuinely unfair in certain situations to force systems to list every single alter to you with full certainty, as if it will never change. because it will. for so many different reasons, systems will grow, they will shrink, they will fuse, they will develop. you can’t expect the person with the dissociative disorder and lack of core identity to be able to keep up a perfected list of forever, it’s simply impossible. you may have alters who stick with you, but that doesn’t mean changes won’t happen.

and systems who may be reading this — please don’t feel bad. you are not a hassle, you are not a headache, and you are not an inconvenience for simply coping with something like this. it’s out of your control and the only thing you can do is continue to cope to find ways to help yourself retrain from these reactions. please don’t allow yourself to be harmed by others who don’t understand what you are going through. there are people who will accept and love you for who you are, all of you.

past, present, and future.