#acesymmetrical

[gray-ace-space]

so there's a thing i noticed from spending time in the acespec mspec community that i haven't seen a specific name for. and that may just be because i haven't looked hard enough idk. but i tried to fill the gap with this term:

asymmetrisexual / acesymmetrical

an acespec person who's attracted to two or more genders, but is different degrees or types of asexual for different ones.

so for example:

someone who is bi & graysexual for women but asexual for men

someone who is pan & cupiosexual for women but demisexual for men

etc

various flavors of nbs also factor into it but i didn't include them in the examples because it would get very complicated quickly.

i made a bunch of flag drafts but i ended up liking both of these, so i'll just give you both (one has more purple, the other has more black).

i think my attempt to visually represent this idea was successful and it looks both unique and relatively easy to reproduce! (if u want to know the exact geometry lmk i will break it down for u)

feel free to use these for yourself, credit not required but appreciated

[bloggingboutburgers]

Have you ever heard of acesymmetrical? I believe @gray-ace-space coined the term? Or at least that's where I first heard it. But it means experiencing sexual attraction in varying intensities towards different genders, all in a distinctly aspect way. It's honestly become my new favorite word for myself (also it's a PUN!!)

As an old lady who knows so little about microlabels she only ever identified herself in broad terms I had in fact not... But the fact that it is a pun made me pogface not gonna lie

[inhumanliquid]

Yk what? Actual pinned. Fine. Fuck it.

Tpwrtrmnky supporters kys. Why? (link)

My timezone. Btw. (link)

Possibly plural (hehe alliteration) but I'm Afraid™

I'm always too tired to commit to anything.

I'm Blair or Belphie or a million other things. My pronouns are anything but she/her.*

If you "Ms." or "Mrs." me I will fucking maim you with my claws. If you "man" "woman" or "girl" me, I'll explode you, but "boy" is great.*

*Both "girl" and she/her pronouns are fine when funny or from friends.

I support all sorts of weirdos and freaks simply because the cishet, nt white guys want everyone that isn't "normal" to die.

I'll make get fucked banners (link) upon request, if I feel like it.

I'll also do pronoun banners, but you have to be a bit more specific about the design you want for those (pronouns, colors, wording, etc).

Expect random bouts of calling aspec people cool, because we are.

I'm a very bitchy alterhuman. Feel free to ask questions about that, such as these ones (link).

I'm a maladaptive daydreamer because for my entire early childhood, it was either that or death.

Aroace, aroacefucked, autiaroace, greyrose, demirose, acesymmetrical, aegosexual cupioromantic, bellusromantic, fictorose, panrose, omnirose, abrorose homoflexible gaybian. Omniaspec. Objectum, conceptum, autorose.

Transgender (transmasculine, transfeminine, transneutral, transandrogynous, transxenine), cisgender, demitransgender, demicisgender, integragender, absgender, adgender, centrgender, exparium, isogender, sensgender, simigender

Behold my ever-expanding list of "fake" identities. (link)

Yes, my icon is actually me.

I'm a tranny, a faggot, a cripple, and more. Don't like that? Fuck off.

I got assigned two platonic partners on January 31st 2024. To see that mess, check out #platonicule posting

I'm obsessed with ✨️creepypastas✨️, Obey Me, Honkai Star Rail, and Sanders Sides. Prepare yourself for fandom spam reblogs from time to time.

Infodump to me or I'm stealing your knees.

Hate anons are funny to me.

My stance on every online discourse ever (link)

Watch this video AND this video before talking to me about shipcourse.

Playlist I made based on a guy who stole my entire identity (/hj) (link)

Shit I like to stare at (link)

Post I made out of spite for the Obey Me devs (link)

Post I made with footnotes and linked references out of sheer autism (link)

Spotify Bullying Me for my music taste (link)

Current Tumblr icon (link)

That One Anon who demands song lyrics

[heyftinally]

I had such a weird experience this past weekend while celebrating my friend's birthday, and I kinda want to ramble about it because I think asexuals of tumblr will get it, and my friends don't have the same experience(s) to get it.

So our characters in this story are K, H, A, and myself. K and A are bi, H is straight, and I'm pan/ace.

So it's, like, 11pm and we're playing drinking games (namely kings cup). And the people around me are VERY comfortable in their respective sexualities, which I'm fine with and glad for. They were all respectful of the fact that I haven't had nearly the same experiences they have, nor was I comfortable with the same things they were (at one point they were sharing a picture around and told me "you can see it if you want, but I don't think you want to", which was true).

But it struck me about halfway through the game truly just how weird my situation is.

I'm a sex favorable asexual with purity culture trauma, which is basically a fancy way to say I'm a hot fucking mess (/lighthearted).

I have no interest in one night stands/hook ups/friends with benefits/etc. I'm very much a "long term monogamous committed relationship" kind of girl. I'm closer to the the demi/grey/fluid side of asexuality (I actually recently found the term acesymmetrical, which perfectly describes me). But when I *do* get to that point in a relationship, I have a VERY hard time talking about it even with my partner because I have so much shame left over from christian purity culture. Even now, what I'm talking about is 100x easier to say from behind a screen with a level of anonymity.

So sitting around while everyone talks about their kinks and one night stands, I'm in this painfully awkward situation where I know a lot of the things they're talking about in theory only, and even admitting that much feels incredibly shameful, even though logically I know it's not, and I have no judgement towards my friends who are more promiscuous than me. Hell, I'm all for hookups if that's your thing. Be safe, don't get a baby, a disease, or murdered, and have fun. But I can't extend the same thing to myself.

And it's just such a profoundly weird position to be in. I'm not allo enough to participate in the the conversation, but I'm not ace enough to be completely removed from it, and I'm too ashamed of my own feelings to participate even if I want to. I can talk about my asexuality no problem, but ask me to talk about my *sex*uality and I would rather give a TEDtalk that I only had three days to prep for.

So yeah, that was my weekend. I had a fantastic time, but being made so starkly aware of my unique experience like that was...not really the way I'd hoped things would go. I don't like that I'm so complicated, and I don't like that I feel like I can't participate in completely normal conversations without feeling like my face is on fire. I'm proud of my sexuality, but it would be nice if my trauma could get fucked and stop making everything 1000x harder.

[ncityimagines]

the 'imagine:' bits of these things are slowly degrading as time goes on... 'ikahmaji' has taken the cake so far...

;^)

- admin spoon boy

[fandomboundold]

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[yutende]

Once you get this, you have to say five things you like about yourself, publicly. Then you have to send this to ten of your favourite followers⭐️💖⭐️💖⭐️💖⭐️💖⭐️💖

sorry for the late reply😭thank you for sending this💕💕💕•im open minded•im squishy??!?•my lips????😗•i adapt pretty quick in new environments•im a really optimistic person^^

[haechnn-archive-blog]

Once you get this, you have to say five things you like about yourself, publicly. Then you have to send this to ten of your favourite followers⭐️💖⭐️💖⭐️💖⭐️💖⭐️💖

damnit I gotta do this again, IM DOING IT AGAIN CAUSE ILY✨✨💕💕💖💖

1. I like how good I am at cooking/baking 2. I’m good at making people laugh and smile, which makes me happy 3. I own a lot of sweaters so that’s nice4. I’m very open minded and accepting, so that’s makes me easy to talk to and befriend 5. I’ve noticed I’m good at keeping conversations going

[doyujaes-blog]

Thank you for existing! Send this to 10 people, who, in your opinion, deserve such a sweet message in their inboxes😊❤

🤗🤗🤗🤗thanks for existing toooo 💞🌈💞🌈

ily

[alch3mic]

Someone drew our skelesona! Art belongs to acesymmetrical#5215 on discord, their commissions are open I think!

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woah! this is so cool! this style and the colors are seriously amazing. how rad!

[4yutaeil]

if i remember correctly, it was bc someone recommended u

💕💕god bLESS Who ever recommended me bcoz i got an amazing follower from it !!!

[hansolsdeliciousanus-remade]

chocolate marshmallow, if it isnt done already

chocolate marshmallow: favorite brands of candy?

off brand mars bars from aldi

idk i don’t eat a lot of candy, i’m more into crisps. savory is my shit 

ice cream asks!!!

[zebrasonice]

I drew three random OCs for a video, to make three random people happy. The characters are *N/A by acesymmetrical; Peter by Cjay, and Goose by HerbyFurby. I’ve provided links to their socials if you want to check them out. And here’s a link to the video if you want to see it (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEBz4pW9Jlw&feature=youtu.be).

acesymmetrical: ArtFight (https://artfight.net/~acesymmetrical)Instagram (acesymmetrical_)

Cjay:ArtFight (https://artfight.net/~Cjay)Tumblr (https://www.tumblr.com/blog/cjayshiplay)

HerbyFurby:ArtFight (https://artfight.net/~HerbyFurby)Twitter (Goose_Maroos)Instagram (GooseMaroos)DeviantArt (GooseMaroos)Toyhouse (GooseMaroos)FurAffinity(GooseMaroos)

[studypool]

Pass the happy along! When you get this, reply with 5 things that make you happy and then send it to the last 10 people in your activity! 🌹🎈❤️

1. people i care about being appreciated!!2. my hard work paying off3. talking to my friends 4. sleeping5. the sun!!!! just like it was today here in sweden, the weather was so lovely 

[ncityimagines]

you are now one of my new favorite blogs

we live to provide you with Quality Content

[yutende]

D and U

D - You’re cute.U - We are mutuals and I don’t understand how.

Ur the cutesttt AFSHFJGKL BICH I LOVE U AND I LOV BEING MUTUALS🍑💕💐💗🌷💕