#anti xenogender

[scary-radinclus-anon]

Message to young LGBT+ and Queer exclusionists:

If you really cared about the queer community, you'd eventually understand that the history of our rights hasn't been this long-winded so that you can yell at other young people being openly queer online

You don't like the adjectives they identify with? The pronouns? The nouns? That's a shame, leave them alone and stop assisting the enemy by bullying them online

If you think an identity label that's not known outside of Tumblr is a threat to the queer community, I expect to see you actually fighting back against things in the real world that seriously hurt the community

"The problem with the LGBTQ+ community today" is not labels or pronouns on Tumblr or TikTok or Twitter - it's the fact that we're still facing violence, and a huge amount of the next generation are still stuck hiding from the world by spreading online hate instead of spreading the word

[foxfairy06]

TW: mentions of molestation, beating, abuse, grooming, etc.

[belablog134]

I collect as many labels as I can of my identity, I have thousands of them.

People who criticize Gen Z for making labels for every aspect of our identity,

Stay mad! 😎

[thejdog2000]

I felt a little salty about this today.

[transonlyspace]

(note: op is pro xeno, im just curious)

[cake-n]

neopronous and gender are fucking stupid and are harmful to the trans community.

firstly it's not grammatically correct and doesn't work for any other languages but most important it's a big mockery of the trans community as if people are going to take us seriously when Emily 11 says ahe identifies as a cat her pronouns are kitty/paw .what the fuck these people are all chronically online children who wants to be part of something,no you don't feel like a cat ,even if you're neuroD. all of them are very YOUNG people who just wants to feel special. also those weird ass pronouns are nicknames how would that even work in other countries, I'm fine nicknaming you cat but real people are in danger everyday for being lgbtq and those kids just waltz in saying I'm a fucking worm respect me to the world when people still are killed for being trans. its not about respect when someone calls you transphobic /abelist bc I didn't call them a fucking lizard real transphobia and abelism is people getting discriminated ,killed and overall disrespected. disabled and trans ppl always have existed not those neos and it's hurtful to the whole community when those ppl take the voices of real trans and disabled people and yell about how not letting you eat cat food and refusing to call you doll is transphobic . As a disabled,neuroD,non binary and nblw I know what I'm talking about and it's not just me it's like all real trans ppl and the OLDER one not kids from America playing warrior cats irl . I can't wholly blame them because they're kids, they go through hard stuff too and they explore their gender and I respect that but my problems still remains about taking voices of trans /disabled ppl when using the excuse of transphobia/abelism to everyone.

[honeyintrovert]

hello. i'm not exactly new but have been mostly lurking here. figured i'd be time for a instruction.

My LGBT opinions are the following:

• you need any form/severity of dysphoria to be trans.

• asexuality means no attraction to anyone (including romantic attraction)

• there is no asexual spectrum

• mspec lesbians aren't valid.

• I agree with and believe in some non-binary gender identities such as agender, bigender and some more.

• i'm against xenogender because they make no sense and are harmful for the trans community and the lgbt community in general because it makes us seem like a joke.

• pansexual is biphobic and transphobic

Have the day you deserve. 🫶🏻

[friedloverballoon]

Open-mindedness

I wanted to put this here because I was thinking about it a bit and I wanted to share my thoughts. (Tumblr does seem to love my opinions lately; 🚨opinion alert🚨)

There are a lot of Tumblr people on the more progressive, "gender isn't real" side of things like gender discourse and things like that who I've noticed pack so much punch into their replies to my posts and their own posts, talk about wanting to debate someone who disagrees with them, and when someone even replies with something short like "penis small" (something I got that I thought was funny) or "you support , blocked".

Disregarding the fact that these people are engaging with discourse on their own free will and then complaining that someone has a different opinion, I've noticed that a lot of these people are extremely closed-minded to actually listening to what people have to say because there are a lot of people on their side that oppose that group, it's almost like peer pressure to me, like "I can't possibly agree with this idea because so many of my peers who agree with this other opinion"

Seeing terfs and others on the far opposite side of the gender discourse is quite the same thing. I've seen them call each other "sister" and then go to each other if they see something that makes them question their views, get persuaded right back into their firm beliefs.

By the way, for all the people who called me a terf for talking about how xenogenders are harmful to transgender laws, stop using a buzzword for a group you've never messed with before.

What I'm trying to say with this post is that opinions can change quick, and you shouldn't have to be tied down to any group if they berate you for even questioning if you might agree with a differing opinion. And don't think this doesn't happen on the mogai/xenogender side of things either, it does. I would know, I used to be part of that until I came to my own conclusion about it.

People who switch political sides from the left to the right often talk about how liberating (ironically) it feels to be open-minded. I do relate to the switch in sides and how good it feels to get out of an echo chamber. The problem is that, for a lot of them, all they've done is switched their opinions to the opposite side and become closed-minded of opinions from the left. In real time, I've seen this happen with many people I know, and it is very disappointing how closed-minded some of them will become to any idea outside of their, as I've heard it called, "filter bubble", especially after they cite the reason of their leaving the left being the closed-mindedness.

Of course, nobody on Tumblr would know them, but someone that a lot of the gender and sexuality discourse accounts would recognize as a familiar face would be YouTuber Blaire White, who I've noticed seems to be going through a phenomenon that I've never seen before, one I might call a "double red-pill". If this giant post gets attention, I'm thinking about doing a post about that as well, but I need more time about that.

To finish this post, I'll talk about what it means to me to be open-minded. When someone is passionate about a topic, even if its one I disagree with, if it's something I come across or is said to me, I'll listen. Of course, I'll probably disagree with a point supporting something I already disagree with, but I might not, and it might change my perception on something bigger. America is extremely divided when it comes to (when you think about it) opinions in other peoples' minds, and for me, so much of the stress relating to online discourse just vanished after accepting them. And for good reason too, it's not that I don't care, I still get involved in it, it's that it's not a bad thing to be met with differing opinions. I could be met with thousands of people who disagree with me like how I did with that one post I made, and I read all my replies. Discussions about different opinions shouldn't be angry and dramatic either, if everyone on earth had the same opinion about everything, we would be like robots, so don't be afraid to examine different ideas.

[witchdeluz]

presenting myself

hi, I'm deirdre, an 18 year old androgynous bi girl (she/they) and a writer from Brazil

LATINA BABY

here i reblog things and post my drawings just for the fun of it

I'm communist and marxism has been one of my special interests for a while along with mental health and neurodivergencies, nct and harry potter

i am potterhead but i do NOT support jkr and i encourage the lgbt fans to reclaim the fandom and do not support spending money on official products

I have religious trauma, I'm mentally ill (ocd and depression) including a complicated eating disorder (arfid together with restriction-binge cycle), chronic migraine and i am neurodivergent (late diagnosed adhd). i talk a lot about these things not only because it's my experience but also bc psychology is one of my SI

I'm a marauders era fan

i ship wolfstar, drarry, hinny (in sapphic hinny fics), ronmione, jily (others are just fanfic ships)

I'm stating to become interested in the hunger games and the last of us btw

anti or pro ship i simply don't give a fuck, not attacking me bc of my ships and fanfictions is all i ask

i used to be obsessed with kpop (nct, bts, blackpink) until i was 16 but i like kpop blogs!!

same with mcu!!

im an anti-capitalism radical leftist as you may have guessed (marxist) so liberalists get the fuck out and also FASCISTS SHOULD FOLLOW THEIR LEADERS AND FUCKING [redacted]

I'm an intersectional feminist btw

i curse a LOT so if you care go away

religious ppl are okay as long as they are not racist and support lgbt rights

DNFI RADQUEERS AND TERFS!

DNF: pro mogai, pro-xenogender, biphobes, ppl who exclude trans binary/non-binary/genderqueer/agender people, MAPS, non-trauma systems, fat activists

i believe in transmed and this does not exclude emby ppl just says you need to have SOME level of dysphoria to be trans and/or emby

i may follow ed blogs but won't repost on this acc unless it's about arfid (avoidant restrictive food intake disorder, avoidant subtype)

I'm a very history and science-oriented person

for the above reason i do not support mogai/xenos, non-bisexual mspec sexualities and fat acceptance

some lil photos to look pretty 💕

[cloudylitsheep]

Intro

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[confused-autistic-person]

Can someone explain neopronouns to me?

This is genuine. I went through both the anti neopronouns tags and pro neopronouns tags, but neither explain their sides good enough. I have questions for both sides, and I want some genuine answers without people getting mad at each other. For people answering, I ask that you keep in mind that these are genuine questions. Please don’t get mad.

For people answering, you don’t have to answer all questions. I know some of these questions are pretty heavy.

For both/neutral to answer:

• What are neopronouns?

• When and where do they originate from?

• When and why did neopronouns become more popular recently?

For pro neopronouns/neopronoun users to answer:

• Why do you feel most comfortable with these pronouns instead of pronouns like they/them?

• How do you come up with these pronouns?

• I’ve seen posts of neopronoun users adding more and more pronouns to their profiles just to spite an anti-neopronoun person. Are they truly comfortable with those pronouns being used on them, or are they just doing it to spite these people?

• Do you use these pronouns in real life?

• If so, how do you get people to use your neopronouns in real life?

• How do you use neopronouns like bunny/bunnyself in a sentence?

• Neopronouns like paw/pawself don’t really make sense grammatically. And some people don’t like using grammatically incorrect sentences. How do you get around that, and how do you help people who are uncomfortable with using grammatically incorrect sentences?

• How do you pronounce pronouns like xir/xem/ey, or other pronouns similar to those?

• Some people think that neopronouns are causing harm to trans rights. They also think that neopronouns are making it harder for trans people to be taken seriously. Do you agree or disagree? If you disagree, can you explain how neopronouns are not causing harm?

• What would you do if, hypothetically, neopronouns were genuinely causing harm? Like they are causing harm to trans rights, like some people think they are?

• What can people do to help make you more comfortable?

• Any other things you would like to add?

For anti neopronouns to answer:

• Why are you uncomfortable with calling people by neopronouns?

• Are you alright with pronouns like xir/zen/ey etc.? If not, why?

• Alternatively, are you alright with pronouns such as void/voidself? If not, why?

• If you said that you were alright with one but not the other, why?

• Some languages don’t have gender neutral pronouns like English does, so there are neopronouns in other languages for gender neutral people. What are your thoughts on that?

• Some people think that neopronouns are causing harm to trans rights. They also think that neopronouns are making it harder for trans people to be taken seriously. Do you agree or disagree? If you agree, can you explain how neopronouns are causing harm?

• What would you do if, hypothetically, neopronouns aren’t causing harm? Like they had no effect on transphobia, like some people think they do?

• Any other things you would like to add?

To people that answer these questions, thank you so much for your response!

[homestuck-for-real-trans-people]

what are your troll hcs <33

Here are my lgbt + relationship hcs fwor the main twolls :3

Karkat: gay trans man !! he uses he/him ONLY pronouns. (Hates trenders so much and actively sends hate to anyone he sees who uses neopronouns or xenogenders ^w^) and he's dating his past + future selves !

Aradia: bi cis lesbian ^v^ she uses she/her and they/them. she's dating nepeta 😋😋

Tavros: straight trans man ! He uses He/him pronouns. He's dating and sooo in love with vriska and actually hates gamzee :(((

Sollux: cis superstraight !! He uses he/him ONLY. He hates all trans ppl :3 he's dating aradia <33

Nepeta: superstraight nonbinary !! She uses they/them !!! She's dating equius and gamzee

Kanaya: cishet! She uses she/her and is dating karkat and eridan :3

Terezi: cis lesbian !!! She hates trans lesbians tho.. :3 she uses she/her and is dating vriska

Vriska: violently transphobic cis lesbian :33 she uses she/her and is dating tavros and terezi !!! (Yea tavros is a transman :] she doesn't see him as one and refers to him as a she/her XD)

Equius: cis superstraight he uses he/him ONLY and will beat you to death if you use they/them on him :3!!! He's dating nepeta but believes her nonbinary bunnyhat they/them ass is a phase and shows her anti nb facebook post to try to convince her that she's wrong (it's slowly working he made her superstraight :33)

Gamzee: cis superstraight he hates ALL trans ppl. Normal or not he hates them all. :3 he uses he/him ONLY and as well as equius he would tear you from the inside out if u use they/them for him :DD he's dating nepeta

Eridan: transphobic cis gay guy :] he uses he/him and will violently throw up on u if you use anything else ! He's dating no one cuz he's a loser <3

Feferi: VERY transphobic cis lesbian she a terf X3 ! She uses she/they pronouns and is dating vriska and kanaya

As for race and stuff they're all white :333333

-✨💟

[foxfairy06]

[londonmakesxenoids]

Rainbowplushid!! rainbowplushid is a xenoid where you feel a connection to rainbow dash, any rainbow dash plushie, plushies, and/or MLP💗 im taking requests!!

reminder that xenoids are inherently anti-xenogender!!

DNI : xenogender users/supporters, NSFW, 18+, homophobic, transphobic, age kinks/fetishes!

[xenobanana]

✿𓂃﹕STRAWBERRYSHORTCAKEIC

É um xenogênero relatado um "bolo pequeno de morango" (não sei se a tradução está certa!) Onde a pessoa pode se indentificar como feminino, masculino ou neutro.

POSSÍVEIS NEOPRONOMES !!

strawberry/strawberrys/strawberryself

Shortcake/shortcakes/shortcakeself

🍓/🍓s/🍓self

🍰/🍰s/🍰self

[benryhasxenoids]

Demonid flag because I dont like the other one!!

(Demonid is when you in some way identify with/as demons/demonic aesthetics. THIS IS NOT A GENDER OR RELATED TO LGBT)

MOGAI blogs DNFI 💙