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i want to use a chappell roan lyric for a fanfic title so badly you guys have no idea what anguish im in
#i love her music SO MUCH#the problem is that im not interested in writing romantic ships#bc. yk. aro#but when im thinking of titles i usually manage to think of something more descriptive#still someday i WILL make my love of her music clear#just. hasn't happened yet :(#it'd be one thing if i was using lyrics in general#but even in shifting vertebrae it's usually just what the chapter is about#and in consequences of believing demons it's going to be episode titles#anyway you haven't lived if you haven't listened to the rise and fall of a midwest princess#dont put it on shuffle just play it through i promise you wont regret it#not hazbin
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Just reading some comics and saw a panel I thought you might like. :)
ah fuck, characters reminiscing always get to me ;__;
but i will never ever get over that fond way these two talk to and abt each other. especially when they’re poking fun, you can just hear the love in their voice it’s SICK.
















the halbarry love language is annoying each other, but even more than that, it’s being each other’s exceptions
#panels#sent to me#halbarry#hal jordan#green lantern#barry allen#the flash#dc#danswers#the halbarry love language/exceptions thing btw is a whole thesis i have in my brain#their love language incompatibilities; their willingness to compromise and make it work; the way they’ve never had a friend like this#hal esp is almost like a completely different person around barry. like he’s still Hal ofc but it’s obvious that he’s never navigated a#relationship like this before. yes i’m talking abt ‘what do you guys see in each other?’ / ‘yk… i have no idea! ☺️’#hal is so aro-coded for someone i don’t hc as aromantic. and that’s only bc barry came along (another whole thesis o’ mine…)#god literally the rare exceptions to each other#been thinking abt writing a halbarry fic abt their love languages (5 chapters 1 love language for each)#not rly sure what that’d even be abt but i do think abt this often so maybe writing smith would help me process/explore/share my analysis +#interpretations of how that works between them#idk i’m not a writer we’ll just have to see
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guys. guys. guys. i think daisy tonner may be my favourite character ever rn. i’m relistening to tma & i’m on s3 and i just. ugh. i forgot how much i love her. literally the character ever idk. aromantic icon. love of my life (platonic)
#ALSO ALSO ALSO#somebody said qpr jondaisy and i just. UGH UR SOSOSOSO RIGHT ILY#it might have been a fic??? does anybody know who that was. bc i totally want to reread it if it was!!!!!!#BUT ALSO IH MY GOD!!!!! QPR DAISIRA!!!! GUYS. GUYS. CONSIDER THAT!!!!!#they’re both aro idc. bc i’m aro & i said so.#also like. yeah they’re so qpr coded bc they’re like sososo in love & soulmates but not in the romantic way#yk???#anyways. i just love them.#daisy tonner#alice daisy tonner#qpr jondaisy#qpr diasira#qpr dasira#tma#the magnus archives
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just bc im a lesbian doesnt mean tht i wont at times become deeply entranced with the beauty of male actor or character. it just means i wld rather be locked in a room with a man with a knife than do anything romantic or sexual with one
#NO OFFENCE TO MEN AS PEOPLE THAT EXIST. but also i shldnt have to say tht after saying this yk#also b4 u say ooh ur aro tho why do u need to specifcy u wldnt do anything romantic w a man when i wldnt with a woman either#i am actually pretty romance favorable. like i would be in a romantic relationship with a woman if it wldnt ruin my life#with how it is rn . i think i like and want all the parts tht make up a romantic relationship i just dont experince romantic attraction#but anyway i was here to talk abt my sexuality not my romantic orientation#this post was originally like 'im remembering why there was such a huge overlap with my og major starkid hyperfixation#and me identifing as bisexual' but the thing is is the main main guy from starkid i remember being attracted too#was infact . rob. and thats aged badly bc of it being revealed that hes a fucking creep since then#but also just now not that we should ignore tht but regardless of that i just. dont see it at all#maybe it is that news subconsiously turning me off him but i really dont see that much what i liked abt his appearance#but who rly inspired this post to me is infact . jeff blim ? which is suprising just from the fact tht i dont ever remember#having tht big of a crush on him with that og starkid hyperfixation. but well he is a very beautiful man . giggling a little bit. sorry .#also becoming a bit obsessed with joey richter but thts just standard lesbian obssesion with a weird little man#not attractive to me im just obssesed with him. hi#also posting this now so when i finally watch the fnaf movie i can rb it abt josh hutcherson#anyway. does anyone read these tags do these long rants i go on like. turn ppl off of my posts. sometimes i wonder#flappy rambles
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the reminder that only i get to decide what's fair to me is actually really fucking soothing
#ryan's screaming#yk. the whole thing people say abt aros and allos in a relationship#how its unfair to either side depending on who you ask#but its also like. who are you to dictate what is and isnt okay for a relationship that isnt yours#idk. idk#i might have some kind of feelings for this guy#but like i dont care about changing our relationship in any way bc as long as he doesnt suddenly#start treating me like shit or drop me then im happy to continue what we have rn#who cares that he doesnt have romantic feelings for me. he still cares about and looks out for me#he still finds me attractive and wants to be around me and likes me presence#and thats enough for me. why wouldnt i be happy with that?#anywayJSJDJSJS#rambling
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your Kon post was sooooo good, like yes the core four are queer platonic, however Kon is hypersexual enough to have made out with (or more) everyone in young justice at least once, yes, including the non-corporal Greta don’t ask me how that worked
I love all of these posts!!! how many of these ask game things do you have in your inbox??
thank you so much!! and i ABSOLUTELY agree with you on hypersexual Kon (truly i just adore characters with grooming/rape trauma like Kon coping through the lense of hypersexuality) and even if YJ is queerplatonic, Kon has made his way through most of them. including Greta. he's creative he'd find a way. probably involving TTK. bc TTK in sex is a thought i have daily. endless potential for using it to basically turn someone's body into a living fleshlight he can manipulate from the inside out- specifically have a TimKonBart idea in my head about that where Kon coaches Bart through sex, since Bart is a speedster with a bonkers refractory period who struggles to feel satisfied, and Tim is caught between them getting used to get Bart off with Kon using TTK to manipulate Tim's body. fun times. fun ideas.
currently, i have one more ask game ask in my inbox (tho always feel free to send more!) that's BruJay focused. though i *do* also have a couple other asks that are just ideas i pan to use as prompts for full fics. just haven't gotten to those yet bc i'm currently busy with packing to move states so. i have *not* had the time to write i wish i had. i will not reveal too much but one involves JayTim fucking during the Titans Tower incident, another is JayTim with animal traits leading to porn, and then another is Tim/Kon/Jon with incest kink stuff. so! i have many things planned, i just need to settle into my new place, however long that takes.
#necrotic answerings#kindly praise#this was so sweet aaaa#i'm about to go to sleep so the brujay ask will be held off until tomorrow#but i will get to it#and i *hope* if the tim/kon/jon fic is short enough i can *possibly* get it done tomorrow too#i'm. mostly done packing. i just have to get my clothes and books in boxes.#i do not have *any* idea how much time i'll reasonably have to write once i move bc#well i'm moving in with my sister to help take care of her baby so yk. baby. sort of more important than fanfic.#but i mean it's just a baby so i figure I'll still have some time#see the real question is not will i have time to write tomorrow#it's will i emotionally be available. i've been crying on and off for days. pls.#i truly will let the ask game go on as long as ppl keep sending them. i do not mind i'm having just as much fun as y'all#tho i might reblog some other ask games just to spice it up a bit#i gotta find some fun ones#still plan to do a prompt list to write ficlets for the drive#3 days in a uhaul with my parents. def won't lose my mind at all no sir.#they will try to kill each other and I'll be the damn witness.#also when i say queerplatonic. i do include fucking.#it's the aromantic in me i think. but queerplatonic couples can fuck as a treat.#i will not elaborate on how that works. i'm just an aro lil guy who thinks sex isn't always about. the sex. and more about. the closeness.#none of my friends agree with this take they think i'm unhinged btw.
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I love a classic o7
#gus mothman#oh for context for all these drawings i suppose!!#they're supposed to be like.. oh first time Gus having a partner .. bc yk is cliche but is CUTE...#i have imagined how it would be for him to be like.. used to relationships already - and i might share that eventually!#but rn im just ouuu yeah the discovering phase.. just oh shit being loved is so sick actually!!!!! HDHDHD#i am making this as self indulgent as possible I'm aro I'm allowed i think HDHFH
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I feel so bad that, at the moment, all of my posts and content are so rage-focused. Like... that's not the only thing I want to be bringing to the table.
All my educational posts stem from annoyance and aggravation at misinformed people and bigots. Everything seems to relate back to a deep, deep hatred for how I'm viewed and treated in the world.
I really hope that someday, somehow, I feel more love and compassion towards myself. Enough so I can make celebratory posts and bring more joy to the table.
I don't want misery to be the root of all my work and effort.
#rambles#this is... about being intersex and disabled#this is about dating an aboriginal girl and seeing all the bullshit shes gotta go through#and yeah its a little about being aro and trans#but like... those feel so inconsiquential these days#which is saying something!! i am a teenage runaway on accounts of being queer in an unfriendly house#but theres a difference between my dad wont talk to me and it started bc im gay#and suddenly the community that promised me acceptance and love and compassiob#where my friends and family could never offer it#has turned against me and the person i love most#and i am seeing it everyday from everyone and it feels inescapable#and i feel cheated from a promise that gave me the confidence to lose my life#yk?#anyway#that was fucking intense
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Do you guys ever think about love. (Obvious question)
I’m now about three months out from ending my first ever relationship. It was complicated and good and great and sad and all of the above—somewhat tragic, yet inevitable. (Yes it was a wlw relationship, to everyone asking.) I finally got my first kiss at the ripe age of 21, lol. And we’re coming up on what would’ve been our one year in Fall pretty soon.
But, on the opposite end now. . . I finally feel like I’ve lost feelings for that woman. She’s still my friend, but that romantic energy is gone. I got rid of it. So did she.
I have always had complicated feelings about romance. I never felt it was something necessary to fulfillment in life (im birom/bisexual, for context, but there was a period where I wondered if I was aro/ace or some unique combo). I really value my independence and being able to do what I want when I want to. I know this is sounding trademark commitment issues, but I think it’s more that I’ve realized that maybe a romantic, long-term relationship isn’t for me.
Obviously, I’m happy for all those who want to pursue romance and long-term stuff, etc. And I know there are less tight relationships—like, I really like the idea of having separate bedrooms. But for me. . . I’m not sure if that life, in general, is for me.
I’m not sure that I want to have to take another person’s wants and needs into consideration when thinking about moving places, buying things, etc. Issa lot. I have friends who love me. I have friends who hug me. Obviously, other things would be nice, but it’s not like I’d be without people or touch should I choose to not pursue a partner.
I feel things about those posts that say “are they too close to be friends? Or are you just not close enough to your friends?” I think we should all be closer to our friends. And romantic relationships are not paramount. They can be enhancing, but, imo, they should not make or break life.
I just don’t think romance should be assumed as a default thing. As something required for happiness. As something everyone is expected to do.
I could be wrong about my personal preferences here—or, they may change overtime. I’m not sure yet. Just thinking about love, and such, as of late.
#love#2868#personal#idk how to tag this#i want to take aro#but like im not aro#but i feel my aro friends my appreciate this bc it perpetuates that idea that we dont need romance to be happy#one of my besties is aroace and we’ve had at length convos about this type of thing#its rlly interesting#i just. people assume romantic love is required for happiness#or something you need#and its expected. its so expected#but…as i get older#i wonder. do i even want that?#i have love. platonic love#and yeah. some things i will miss out on#but i wont be so tied to someone#ik this probably reads as commitment issues. but is it an issue if im not bothered by it?#if im okay with not having a romantic relationship and i know that about myself#then idr see an issue. imo#its a commitment ✨ awareness ✨#idk. i dont usually post stuff like this#but i feel things about those aro posts#that say ‘are they too close to be friends? or are you just not close enough w your friends?’#yk.#aromantic#friends#friend#commitment#commitment issues
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One thing about me is that I love it when medias that have a princess who's locked up for years and years on end actually explore the miserable life she would have lived growing up alone and reading fairy tales that promised her a happy ending she never got
#raey spam#this is about tne song 'i know its today' from shrek the musical#like!!!! how she rips up all of her storybooks so that they're just happy endings in hopes that doing so will somehow#make her prince appear sooner#i think the main reason why i likw this so much is bc of how similar it is to growing up aroace#like everywhere you look there's love stories and everyone tells you there's no way to be happy without#a romantic partner#they all promise that one day you're going to find 'the one' but you never do#like. i love being aroace!! i do!! i know that not wanting a future like that is okay#but at the same time. i DO want a future like that. yk#when i first actually accepted that i was aromantic i wasn't happy bc i finally understood why romance was Like That for me#i was pissed. because same as everyone else i grew up surrounded by love songs and dating shows and id even had crushes as a child#i wasn't Supposed to be aro. i was supposed to grow up and live a happy life with someone else#i felt like accepting i was aro also meant accepting that i would never grow up to live a happy life#and i def dont feel like that anymore! but still.#anyways back to fiona: i also just really like it when deep down#characters know their fate is sealed.#they Know there's nothing they can so#but they convince themselves that there IS#my interpretation of fiona is that deep down she knows ripping the pages out of her stories isn't going to help#but hope and love prevail over everything right?#she has to believe that remaining hopeful and doing everything she can will reward her eventually#i hope this is coherent I can't really tell rn lol#other thinfs in the same vein i am fond of:#'when will my life begin' from tangled#'and many more' by quintessence#really any fic that expands on Alluka's childhood is very yummy to me#that's enough rambling for now
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home office smells like flowers i love love :)
#six is aro but elects to make valentines day special for me bc it is my Cultural Holiday and they like to spoil me#wouldnt have missed it much if that hadnt been the case#but yk what i Do like the flowers and chocolates and pink paper hearts day i Do#about the author#my two cents
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Writing fic about canon aroace characters is like. Well I can never post this online bc I'm afeared of Big Fandom
#uuuggghhhhh#i just cant trust that ppl will take my shipping fic in good faith. like ive fully taken into account that thia character is aroace#im projecting onto him bc IM ARO and i dont see many aro characters who share my flavor of feelings abt romamce and relationships yk#so im taking matters into my own hands but i just do not want to risk getting harrased abt it#bc good faith seems to be in short supply on the internet#and z speaks#i van just show it to my 3 friends who alao read th3se books and its ok but also. sighs
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Ok so i was kinda worried bc the girls im going with at uni looked like rlly str8 and like thats fine but i kinda wanted to be around other lgbt ppl too bc yk we tend to click better togetger and everything (also more likely to accept me) but like yesterday we were like 4 (out of the like 10 we usually are) and one of them was talking about a guy in our class and she was like idk but i think thats the hottest guy in class and immediately the other three of us were like uuuuh i guess?? if you say so?? So now i have hopes that at least one of them is not straight™ bc i mean i think the guy was conventionally attractive? and their reactions didnt completely seem like they just hadnt been listening so yeah heres to hoping some of my new friends arent straight :)
#wearing my aro bracelet every day in the hopes one of them may recognize it like one of the friends i made this summer#yeah were definitely not close enough to talk about this unless it comes up one day so i have 0 idea lol#i mean weve barely known each other for a week yk#so yeah time to strongly drop hints before they start shipping me with anyone lol#bc today one of them already have me a look like that when i was going ahead talking with one of the guys#(deff have a squish on him tho hahahahahh)#and yeah i dont rlly want any pressure about that lol#but whatever lol#mine#rant
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i *might* begin dating someone despite being aroallo. i hope he manages to move on from me eventually though. i want to be his typical toy AND break up in time for college plans
#thinkin about it bc i'm listening to super hey ya tbh#ofc the only difference in a handful of lines is the addition of “PIKACHUUU” but like neil cicierega brainrot yk#but yeah i still must insist that white bread boyfriend is aro-coded bc it just fucking *IS*
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and like i want to hold their hand i want to hug them tight i want to lay my head on their shoulder i want to cuddle with them while watching a movie. i do NOT want to kiss them. under any circumstances. no sensual touching no anything like that. i want a very very close friend only :(
do you ever look at someone and feel so much love as if your heart is about to melt, or worse, explode, and you just know you can’t tell anyone, not even the person you love, because they are all gonna assume it’s romantic and there is nothing LESS romantic than what you’re feeling but no one around you would understand and your heart just breaks a little bit
#and they’ll just never get that yk#bc they dont even know im aro :/#aromantic#aromanticism#aro#aroace huntress
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Hii!! Can you do Jane x reader where she’s Jane’s mate but still human. One day some important information gets leaked out and everyone in the volturi thinks the reader leaked the info. (Aro can’t read her mind) So they question her for a long time and when she still says that she didn’t do it they make Jane torture her with her power. As Jane is torturing her someone walks in and says that she didn’t do it. By the time Jane stops the reader is passed out. Everyone and mostly Jane regrets what they’ve done. The reader doesn’t wake up for a few days and Jane is in absolute sorrow. And when she finally wakes up she doesn’t even look Jane in the eyes bc of the betrayal she feels. Just a lot of angst yk:))) Buuut they make up in the end. Thank youuu🫶🏻
𝕵𝖆𝖓𝖊 𝖁𝖔𝖑𝖙𝖚𝖗𝖎
This is more of the aftermath than anything. Mentions of looking thinner
"Get out"
Though your voice was hoarse, it didn't lessen the impact. Not one bit. Jane didn't think it was possible to vampires to have panic attacks, yet what else could this be. Why was her chest so tight? She doesn't need to breathe. And though she can't sweat he skin feels clammy behind all her layers. She's a vampire, their brains go fast - she could finish a novel in five minutes, but this feels too fast. It's making her dizzy. It's making her sick.
"Please-" her mouth feels dry. Is she panting? Why does it feel like Felix is cracking her chest again? You two can get through this. You can move past this. The thought is the only thing keeping her semi-rational right now. "I can't even look at you right now. Please leave, Jane. I can't see you anymore" and god you look so broken. And she did it. Your skin looks sickly, at least seven shades yellower. And your eyes - so dull - are dragged down by the bags she gave you. Are you thinner? You look thinner, you look malnourished. Definitely unhealthy.
It's the shakey movement of your hand accompanied by a wince that pulls her from her intense observation. And she remembers what you want. She wants to stay - absolutely has to - but she can't ruin this even more. She needs to save this and even now she recognises that her being here will be detrimental to that. So she does leave.
Out the door, she sits on the floor and stares at the ceiling. Not that her eyes are recognising anything though. No. Her head is leaned back against the big double door to your shared chambers and all she can bring herself to do is listen intently to your heartbeat. You're still here. You're still safe.
You, on the other side of the door, can no longer bring yourself to stifle your own sobs at the betrayal. Your mate, your love, the one who promised to always protect you, had actually been the only vampire to hurt you. The only one you ever truly trusted. Though her gift is mental, the rough treatment had still hared you. But it was hard to tell what hurt more - the mental scar on the one on your heart.
Could you even stay?
Maybe it was time to leave
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That night you packed, leaving through the window. Were you as strong as them? No. But could trust Jane and be in the same place as her? Also no.
It was killing you just to be in that room, with all of them memories. All of them were now tainted, and now you could see all the similarities between her room and the dungeons.
Bag at your side mainly just filled with your previous belongings you couldn't part with, you climbed out the window only to be face to face with Alec. For fucks sake.
"You shouldn't be here," his tone was more concerned than accusing. Was he actually worried for you, though, or was he more bothered about his sister? that seemed like the more likely answer. "come. Ill walk you back" he takes the bag for you and begins to guide you gently back, hand delicately on your arm as if you were made of porcelain. He looked guilty. Remorseful even.
He led you back the longer way round as if he was giving you time. He even sat with you in the garden for a few minutes - until Jane cane storming through.
"There you are! Your heartbeat grew faint and the window was open and I-" and her hand are on your face. She stops speaking when you flinch back, heart dropping to her feet, until she feels you lean into her.
Damn mate bond and damn exhaustion because you let yourself fall into her. She can feel your heart rate speed up in fear but feels frozen when you make no effort to move away.
"Let's- let's get you to bed, yeah?" she turns her head, face frightened as she mouths a 'thank you' to Alec for keeping you here and safe. He just nods, head down as he shares part of her shame. A drop in the bucket compared to hers, though.
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Here she lay, back in your shared chambers, sat up against the headboard of the bed while you lay on their lap asleep. Icy fingers comb through your hair and scratch lightly at your scalp.
"We'll be okay, right? We'll be okay."
#x reader#headcannons#hc#twilight#twilight renascence#twilight saga#twilight x reader#twilight imagine#volturi#volturi x reader#volturi guard#volturi imagines#jane volturi#jane volturi x reader#jane volturi x you#ask#asks open#reqs open#request#volturissideslut#alec volturi
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