#caedoboy

[nightfallsystem]

I drew something but I have too many labels

[intersex-idiots]

i'm forcing some of my(our??soren's??) labels onto ghoulia because I CAN

flags all named in tags, left - right 💜

-🧃

[agirldying]

I don’t go by a label but people could consider me as under the nonbinary umbrella and leaning more towards masculinity but I still associate my abuse and who I was during the abuse with girlhood

Hey anon,

I understand how you feel, and it's completely valid. I won't dictate your gender identity but if you're looking for some suggestions I can speak from experience.

as it relates to my blog name, I relate to the latter part about associating trauma with femininity, especially if afab. for me it was hard to feel feminine without feeling like prey. so for a while I went to the opposite end of the spectrum and my gender expression became super masculine (ftm), and now it's floating somewhere in the middle, as I now identify as nonbinary. so I can relate to really everything you said here.

it's totally fine not to label yourself, so like I said it's completely up to you whether or not to adopt a term, but I think you might be interested in caedogender. caedogender is defined as a gender that has been "cut away" due to trauma. so for example I am afab, and so you could say I am a caedogirl because my femininity has been "cut away" due to trauma.

I also just recently learned about another xenogender that I think was just coined a few weeks ago (maybe even a few days ago because my sense of time is messed up) and forgive me if I spell this wrong but I believe it's called traumallion or something, and basically it is a gender as a result of trauma, which can feel like a void or just something completely different from the gender you felt previously. (I'm going to look for this). update: i actually got the name right haha

again I am a person that thinks in terms of labels so I apologize if this isn't necessarily the answer you were looking for but you are valid, you don't have to label yourself anything, and you are welcome in my inbox anytime. I hope I could help!

[mogai-headcanons]

Lloyd Asplund from Code Geass is an autistic aegoaroace sciencegender techgender pomomasculine afluid person!

Rakshata Chawla is a bi transfeminine punkgirlish venufluid person!

Cornelia li Britannia is a futchfluid winter lesbian trans woman!

Lelouch vi Britannia is an autistic loveless romantic polarsexual demiattraction omnicurious transmasculine caedoboy with ASPD and BPD!

Nunnally vi Britannia is a disabled blind laimosexual unlabeled aesthetigirl with PTSD!

Rolo Lamperouge is an autistic GNC transfeminine demifaeboyflux florihet person!

Suzaku Kururugi is an ambiamorous bi agender man with PTSD!

dni link

[rwuffles]

Hi there !! I'm currently researching a paper on xenogenders and queer online culture, and I wanted to reach out to a few people in the community to ask about their experiences. If you're up for it, I'd love to hear about your gender identity and journey. /pos /gen

oh absolutely! i'll leave it under the cut for anyone who isn't interested in it ^^

so , when it comes to my xenogenders , it's honestly really complicated because my gender is super affected by my mental health & neurodivergency as well. i experience brain fog , emotional numbness , dissociation & emotional amnesia which makes it difficult for me to discern anything i'm feeling a lot of the time unless it's extreme. it's mostly due to trauma , so i identify as caedogender / caedoboy & nymboy / nonbinary boy. i am a boy , but because of my trauma & neurodivergency , it's not in the same way as a 'normal' boy would experience it.

my gender just generally feels like it can be described using things like puppies , sharks , cute things & love , as well as being a boy! it was a long journey for me to figure out i was even a boy , to be entirely honest , because i was talked out of identifying as one in any way because i was 'too feminine.' i've realized that my femininity is apart of my boyhood & that i don't always like being feminine either , and that's ok! my gender is best described as simply a cute , loving puppysharkboy. i've started hoarding simply for fun & myself rather than the need to label every aspect of my identity , and describe my gender with labels that make me happy or genuinely fit me.

due to trauma , my gender feels as though it has been torn apart & sewn back together again. it's a very intimate , handmade thing that is unique to me and my experiences and who i am as a person. my gender is me , and i could go on & on & on about what 'me' is. i coin genders for fun and to help other people find the words to describe what — or who — they are , and that's all you really need. i'm fine with using tons & tons & tons of microlabels to describe every little aspect but at the same time , i'm queer. that's it.

my gender just needs a little bit of a different description than other people's , not everyone will or does understand and that's fine. i've had ex-friends drop me in part because of me being open about these labels & make fun of me over them behind my back , so it doesn't really hurt when people try to mess with me about them. in the same way a woman may feel her womanhood is tied to the color pink , flowy dresses or stereotypically feminine things — my gender is just tied to concepts that aren't usually associated with gender! it's nice having the words to describe myself & have groups of people who support who i am.

i went onto a little tangent there at the end , but i hope this was helpful in any way! ^^

[genderstarbucks]

Hey, I just want to ask something. I am a little confused about my gender..

I kind of know that I am non-binary and I was feeling this since I was 11. But my genderlessness feels different now. I have been through quite the amount of trauma and that has made me feel like everything is void like or empty or hard to express. This includes my gender.

I feel like I was already not my assigned birth gender but now it feels completely void like.

Is there any word for that kind of gender? Sorry if this is too much to ask lol

Caedogender, or caedgender, is a gender that has been "cut away" or damaged by trauma. At one point one may have experienced a certain gender at one point, but one feels that their connection to that gender has been damaged, altered, or completely cut away after a traumatic event. This is typically associated with sufferers of PTSD or other trauma and stressor related disorders. Caedogender can be combined with other relevant genders such as caedogirl, caedoboy, caedononbinary, etc. It can also be used as an identity on its own for those who feel like they have been cut away from the concept of gender in general.

Caednonbinary | Caedvoid

[tommyinreal]

INTRODUCTION / DNI BYI / Q&A POST!!

Hey there! Our name is Tommy (as seen in bio)! We're a transmasc caedoboy and we're asexual biromantic! We're a traumagenic DID system of about 300+ headmates as well! We use the sys names "This is it" "The end" and "Dilated Dreaming". We are also taken by The Apocalypse is Near <3

Q&A

> [ What's your opinion on ___? ]

- These asks are okay! As long as they aren't related to any type of discourse!

> [ Can you do a ___ moodboard? ]

- Yes! As long as it's not NSFW or related to something on our DNI.

> [ Can you draw ___? ]

- Yes I can (maybe)! However I only take paid commissions for $10 discord nitro. You may ask for more info if interested.

> [ Can you give me free art? ]

- No.

> [ Can you do a pendulum reading on me? ]

- Yes! These are aalso $10 nitro! (i spent so much money on that shit you have no idea)

> [ Are you pro-endo? ]

- Yes, we are. We aren't open to discourse though.

> [ My question isn't on here ]

- Ask us in an ask then :)

BYI!

- We might not be that active

- We might actively be mean to you. This isn't on purpose.

- Our otherkin identities directly relate to our trauma. If you make fun of them you can leave.

- We make kys/kms/die jokes. However we won't say them to people we don't personally know are okay with it.

- We will sign our posts with names and emojis

DNI!

- anti-endos / sysmeds

- r/FakeDisorderCringe or r/SystemsCringe

- believe you should enable delusions (yes this does include IRLs)

- NSFW/ageplay/petplay

- dsmp anti (we have dsmp fictives/factives)

- are rude genuinely

- anti-mogai

- anti-mspec lesbians/gays

[warriors-pride]

Bluestar’s Prophecy headcanons! (1/2)

Nominsexual Pinestar

Cupioromantic/sexual Sunstar

Caedoboy fogboy Goosefeather

Gay Featherwhisker

Nebularian Moonflower

Akoiromantic/sexual Stormtail

[epikulupu]

the slur anon from mogai tumblr is an anger-in-nature agender caedoboy nonhuman who uses it/that thing/anon pronouns

edit it is also sluranonic

[neopronouns]

What does it mean to be a caedoboy/caedogirl? I identify as caedogender but I'm not sure what those specific terms mean.

the 'gender' in caedogender refers to a gender which was cut away by or lost/damaged due to trauma, so a caedogirl would be someone whose female gender was cut away/lost/damaged due to trauma, etc.!

[perfectcringecharacteroftheday]

ivorythephilosopher replied to your post “Bambi from the 1942 Disney movie of the same name is a caedoboy...”

wh- don't do us lesbians like this .

-hanni

[lgbtq-edits-and-bubbles]

Genders I Can Make Edits For (A-M)

Hello everyone! In case anyone happens to be wondering what labels/identities you can request for me to use in edits (moodboards, flag and name edits, etc.), I’m posting lists of which ones that I’m able to make edits for.

The list will be under the cut.

Genders (A-M) | Genders (N-Z) | Alignments | Intersex Terms | Orientations (A-M) | Orientations (N-Z) | Non-Mono Terms

(The links to the other posts will be added later)

A

a-nonbinary/anonbinary

abimegender

abimeboy

abimefluid

abimegirl

abimenonbinary

absorbgender/absorgender

adamasgender/admasgender

aerogender

aesigender

aesthetgender/aesthetigender/videgender

aethergender

affectugender

affigogender

agender

agender boy

agender girl

agenderfluid/cancegender

agenderflux/librafluid

aisthesisgender/synesgender

alexigender

aliagender/aliusgender

altegender

alteboy

altefluid

altegirl

altequeer

altexirl

altexoy

amaregender

ambigender

ambonec/AN

amicagender

amigender

amiboy

amifluid

amigirl

amivac

amogender/flirtgender/genderamas

amorgender/erogender/filkogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

amorboy/eroboy/filkoboy

amorgirl/erogirl/filkogirl

amorneutral/eroneutral/filkoneutral

anagender/anogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

anaboy/anoboy

anagirl/anogirl

ananonbinary/anononbinary

androfluid

androgyne

androgynos

anesigender/ansigender

angeligender

angender/hategender

anintensigender

anler

anongender

antigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

antiboy

antigirl

anvisgender/apagender/inersgender

anxiegender

apogender

apollogender

aporagender

aptugender

aquarigender/genderflow

archaicgender/eldrigender/historiagender

archaigender

argogender/arogenderfluid

ariesgender

arithmagender

astergender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

asterboy

astergirl

asternonbinary

astralgender

atergender

atmosgender

autigender

avarumgender/varumgender

avarumboy/varumboy

avarumgirl/varumgirl

avarumnonbinary/varumnonbinary

axigender/axisgender

axiboy/axisboy

axigirl/axisgirl

B

batgender/moongender/nocturnalgender/owlgender

bigender

man-leaning bigender

neutrois + man bigender

neutrois + woman bigender

woman-leaning bigender

bigenderfluid

bijougender/jewelgender

biogender

bissu

blizzgender

blurgender/genderfuzz

boggender/crocgender/gatorgender/swampgender

boi

borderfluid/bordergender

boy-proximal/boyprox

boyflux/manflux

brevigender

buckgender

burrnesha/sworn virgin

burstgender/spikegender

bxy

C

cadensgender

caedgender/caedogender

caedboy/caedoboy

caedgirl/caedogirl

caelgender

canidaegender/canigender/canisgender

caprigender

carmigender

cassflux

cassgender

catusgender/felidaegender/feligender/felisgender/nekogender

causticgender/caustigender

caveagender

caveaboy

caveafluid

caveagirl

caveanonbinary

cavegender

cavusgender

cendegender/cendgender

cendboy/cendeboy

cendegirl/cendgirl

cengender/resgender

cennedgender/pareogender

cervusgender

ceterogender

ceteroboy

ceterogirl

chaosgender

charagender/egogender

charaboy/egoboy

charagirl/egogirl

charanonbinary/egononbinary

charmgender

charmboy

charmgirl

cheiragender

circegender/circgender

cloudgender

cocoongender

cocoonboy

cocoongirl

cogitogender/cognogender/existigender/filogender/opinogender/pensgender

cogitoboy/cognoboy/existiboy/filoboy/opinoboy/pensboy

cogitogirl/cognogirl/existigirl/filogirl/opinogirl/pensgirl

coigender

collgender

colorgender

greengender

comgender

commogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

commoboy

commogirl

commoneutral

commononbinary

compassfluid

compassgender

condigender

condiagender

condiboy

condigirl

contigender

corugender/flashgender

coruboy/flashboy

corugirl/flashgirl

cosmicgender

cryptogender/gendercryptic

crystagender

cutegender/gendercute

cyclogender

D

daegender

daimogender

daingender/delicagender/elegender/ethegender/ethereagender

deaboy/deamasculine

deergender/fawngender

delphigender/mystigender

demigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

demi-offboy

demi-offgirl

demiagender

demialia

demiandrogyne

demibigender

demiboy

demifluid/demigenderfluid

demiflux/demigenderflux

demigenderqueer

demigirl

deminonbinary

demitransgender

deogirl/deofeminine

digigender

diurnalgender/flowergender

dodransgender

dodransandrogyne

dodransboy

dodransnonbinary

dodransgirl

dodransneutrois

doegender

domgender/plerugender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

domboy/pleruboy

domnonbinary/plerunonbinary

domgirl/plerugirl

dragongender

drakefluid

dreamgender

dryagender

dulcigender

duragender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

duraboy

duragirl

duranonbinary

E

eafluid/enbyfluid/nobifluid

earthgender

eastgender

echogender

echoboy

echogirl

echononbinary

ectogender

effluide

effreu

effrille

effron

egender/exgender

ekragender

ekraboy

ekragirl

elementgender

elissogender

emotugender/motusgender/sensumgender/sentigender

endogender

endoboy

endogirl

energender

entheogender

entrogender

entroboy

entrogirl

equigender

equinogender

erotogender

erotoagender

erotoandrogyne

erotoboy

erotogenderqueer/erotoqueer

erotogirl

erotomaverique

erotoneutrois

erotononbinary

espigender

evainsgender/evaisgender/locugender

exiccogender

expecgender/pivotgender

explorgender/explorogender

F

fa’afafine

faegender

familiargender

fascigender

fatugender

faunagender

femfluid/femmefluid/venufluid

femfluidflux

femgender/femmegender

femminiello

fengender

feugender

fingender

firegender

firmagender

fissgender

fluidflux/fluxfluid

foggender

fogboy

fogfluid

foggirl

freezegender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

freezeboy

freezefluid

freezegirl

freezenonbinary

frostgender

fuzzgender/fuzzygender

fuzzboy/fuzzyboy

fuzzfluid/fuzzyfluid

fuzzgirl/fuzzygirl

G

gemelgender

gemigender

geminigender

gender creative

gender neutral/genderneutral/neutral gender

gender nonconforming

gender questioning

gender variant/gendervariant

genderale

genderblank

gendercollector/genderhoarder/hoardgender

gendercosm

genderdormant

gendereaux

genderfae

genderf*ck/genderfuck

genderfleur/gendfleur

genderflight

genderflora

genderfluid

genderflux

genderglitch/genderglitched

genderhu

genderless

gendermaverick

gendermeh/mehgender

gendernegative

gendernull/nullgender

genderpansy

genderplasma

genderpositive

genderpunk

genderqueer

gendersea

genderslider

genderstrange

gendersuperfluid/shifterfluid/superfluidgender

gendervague/vaguegender

vagueboy

vaguefluid

vagueflux

vaguegirl

gendervex/gyaragender/gyragender

gyaraboy/gyraboy/vexboy

gyaragirl/gyragirl/vexgirl

gendervoid/voidgender

genderweird

genderwitched

girl-proximal/girlprox

girlflux/womanflux

glarogender

glassgender

glimragender

gossagender

gravgender/gravigender

graygender

greygender

gxrl

gynefluid

H

heagender

healegender

heliogender

hemigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

hemiboy

hemigirl

heminonbinary

hijra

homgender/worlgender

horogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

horoboy

horogirl

horononbinary

horrorgender

hydrogender

hypogender

hypoboy

hypogirl

hypononbinary

I

illusogender

illusoboy

illusogirl

impediogender

implagender/inexgender

intensiflux

intensigender

intergender

inturgender

invisigender

ipsogender

ipsogender man

ipsogender woman

J

jouine

jupitergender

juxera

K

kingender

kinggender

L

lamingender

laogender

lavagender/magmagender/volcanogender

lavaboy/magmaboy/volcanoboy

lavagirl/magmagirl/volcanogirl

lavanonbinary/magmanonbinary/volcanononbinary

leogender/reigngender

lettragender

leukogender

libergender/liberique

libragender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

librafeminine

libramasculine

librandrogyne

libranonbinary

lichtgender

lilapsogender

lilapsoboy

lilapsogirl

lovegender

luagender

ludogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

ludoboy

ludogirl

ludononbinary

lunagender/monagender/monegender/selenogender

lysigender

M

macrogender

magegender/magusgender/venefigender/witchgender

magigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

magiboy

magifluid

magigirl

maginonbinary

magiogender

māhū

malagender

malatransgender

marfluid/mascfluid/mascufluid

margender/marigender/maringender/nubilagender

marsgender

mascfluidflux

mascgender/mascugender

maverique

mazeplexgender

medeigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

medeiboy

medeifluid

medeigirl

medeinonbinary

melauche

mercurygender

microgender

midgender

mingender

minumegender/subgender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

minumeboy/subboy

minumefluid/subfluid

minumegirl/subgirl

minumenonbinary/subnonbinary

mirrorgender

mnioct

mniobainin

mniodrach

mniofirin

mollgender/molligender

moll-agender/molli-agender

mollboy/molliboy

mollfluid/mollifluid

mollgirl/molligirl

mosaigender/portiogender

multigender

multigender otherkin

musicgender/musigender

genderalto

genderbass

genderbeat

genderclef

genderdynamics

genderflat

genderforte

genderfortissimo

gendermajor

genderminor

gendernatural

genderpianissimo/genderpp

genderpitch

gendersharp

gendertreble

mutare/mutaregender

mutogender

muxe/muxhe

[mogai-headcanons]

Lloyd from Code Geass is an autistic aegoaroace sciencegender techgender pomomasculine afluid. Rakshata is a bi transfem punkgirlish venufluid. Cornelia is a winter lesbian futchfluid trans woman. Lelouch is an autistic polarsexual demiattraction omnicurios loveless romantic transmasc xenonull caedoboy with aspd and bpd. Nunnaly is a disabled laimosexual unlabeled aesthetigirl with ptsd and blind. Rolo is autistic gnc transfem demifaeboyflux florihet. Suzaku is an ambiam bi agender man with ptsd

queued! i couldn't find xenonull, but if you lmk where to find it i'll get it added!

[genderstarbucks]

do you know if there is a term for when your gender is afected by trauma

There's caedgender!

There's also sublabels such as caedboy, caedgirl, caednonbinary, etc.

Caedgender

Caedgirl | CaedboyCaedboy

Caednonbinary | Caedvoid

Caedogender, or caedgender, is a gender that has been "cut away" or damaged by trauma. At one point one may have experienced a certain gender at one point, but one feels that their connection to that gender has been damaged, altered, or completely cut away after a traumatic event. This is typically associated with sufferers of PTSD or other trauma and stressor related disorders. Caedogender can be combined with other relevant genders such as caedogirl, caedoboy, caedononbinary, etc. It can also be used as an identity on its own for those who feel like they have been cut away from the concept of gender in general.

We've also coined a few, they should all be under the caedgender tag

[mogai-headcanons]

Latula Pyrope from Homestuck is a pansexual chaotigender genderfluidflux troll with ADHD who’s fine with any pronouns, but mainly uses sh3/h3r, h3/h1m, th3y/th3m, rad/rads, and sce/scene pronouns, and rad’s matesprit Mituna Captor is a demigreysexual caedoboy with BPD, bipolar disorder, and a TBi who uses he/him, bee/bees, bu/buzz, and 🐝/🐝s pronouns!

[neopronouns]

Hi hi! Quick question; is a caedoboy someone who was a boy but had that cut away by trauma, or are they someone who wasn't a boy but is now due to the trauma? Generally, of course, everyone experiences their gender differently.

i think generally it would be a boy whose gender was cut away by trauma (they may or may not still be a boy, as the ‘cutting away’ in caedogender can either damage or completely remove a gender)!