The idea of a dating app or website is anathema to me. Why would I go out to meet some stranger specifically to date them? I don't know them, that makes no sense.
I'm also so annoyed with mainstream romantic media, specifically the whole 'I can't date them they're my best friend it would ruin our friendship' BITCH WHO THE HELL ELSE WOULD YOU DATE?!
Why risk something as serious as the rest of your life with someone you met two days ago through an app when you already spend your life with this person you've known forever?
Anonymous asked: “Hi!! I really like your blog!! Your theme is super nice. If you don’t mind, can I get a color picked demisexual flag from Rui from project sekai? Feel free to decline, but thank you!”
Demisexual flag color-picked from Rui Kamishiro for anon! LMK if you’d like any changes!
Well after thinking about it Ester isn't really that interested in a Relationship, but this could only because she dosn't like to have anyone around her. Except her Kids of course.
First I thought she might be Aro but then I had an Idea, what if she never fell for someone because she never was long enough together with someone to feel something? Just look at Basil and Puppers, she really loves them even if she never thought she would.
So I imagined that Ester is actually Demiromantic. She just needs a strong bond to someone.
Don’t think I ever quite said what my LGBTQ+ headcanons are for the boys, so these are my current thoughts! Always changing of course but this is what I feel most strongly right now.
One of my favorite quotes is “everything in life is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” Misattributed to Oscar Wilde.
Vegas absolutely understands this idea. When he tells Pete, “A guy like you, it’s no fun if you don’t give in” It’s not about consent at all, it’s about power and manipulation. We already know that Vegas is willing to engage in some level of SA because we saw it on-screen, with Porsche, so it’s a bullshit idea that consent is that important to him.
In Pete’s case, though, there’s no power in him raping Pete. He already has him held hostage, under his control. There’s a chance Pete wouldn’t even fight back, just considering it another form of torture.
No, Vegas feels vulnerable and angry and that won’t do. He tries to get Pete to back off, with aggression — “You think it serves me right, huh?” and instead, Pete offers him sympathy and understanding. So Vegas defaults to what he does best — manipulation — to regain a feeling of power. You can see the change here, from the “real Vegas” he’s been showing Pete, to the fake one.
He manipulates Pete, first by saying that Pete likes him moody and angry. By implying his behavior turns Pete on, it takes the weakness out of his actions. Then he manipulates him by giving him a choice. If he can get Pete aroused and thinking about sex with Vegas of his own free will, he gets the ultimate power rush. Lusting after Vegas is a betrayal of Pete’s commitment to the major family in a way that Pete eating and even Pete staying by his side when Khun Spikes dies is not. Eating is for survival and compassion is for the other person.
I think he was genuinely surprised when Pete kissed him though. He’s gotten what he wanted. He feels like he has the upper hand back and he can leave cock of the walk once more. He underestimates and misunderstands Pete every step of the way — because he’s not used to dealing with people who aren’t playing a game at all times — and this is a perfect example. He tells Pete not to hold it in, and he doesn’t.
There’s no advantage to Pete choosing Vegas in this, unlike Tawan, or Ken, who are at least partially looking out for themselves when they betray Kinn. Choosing to have sex with Vegas was solely for Pete. That was Vegas, owning Pete’s desire. That was Pete’s desire for Vegas being more important than anything else.
By making Pete choose him though, Vegas gets caught up in his own snare. For maybe the first time in his entire life, Vegas isn’t second, isn’t also a means to an end. And when Pete gives in, it’s not tentative, not hesitant, not holding back something to have an ace in the hole. Pete offers him everything, and that feeling consumes him as well as Pete. And that’s how Vegas, despite his manipulations, gets captured by the game.
Reblog or comment others if you wear it differently (I can't think of others). I wear it as a Cape, well wore it at my first pride this year as a Cape :)