#fictive positivity

[librarium-of-horrors]

one thing that I don't see a lot of people talking about in regards to fictive heavy systems is that if you are stuck in the same unsafe situation that caused your trauma, you are going to be predisposed to split more.

if you are a minor with access to the internet, you are more likely to use the internet as a coping mechanism to distance yourself from the situation you are stuck in. And if you are still actively being traumatized and use media as a form of escapism YOU WILL HAVE A LOT OF FICTIVES.

fakeclaimers that see fictive heavy systems and immediately assume that they are faking are just being belligerent at this point. And the argument falls apart even more when you consider the fact that a fair amount of systems are also adhd or autistic and will be even more likely to turn to hyperfictations or spins during times of stress, causing them to (potentially) split off of that thing even more then a nt system.

anyway tldr: fakeclaimers are silly and don't do adequate research and fictives I love you mwahh

[humanheartharmonia]

Fictive Positivity

- If you view your source character as inseperably *you*, that's okay and normal.

- If you view your source character as a template that your identity is based on, that's okay and normal.

- If your identity adapts to changes in your source, that's okay and normal.

- If your identity is rigid and changes to your source are upsetting, that's okay and normal.

*All ways of experiencing fictivehood are okay and normal!*

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- If fandom activity is upsetting to you, your feelings are valid.

- If canon events are upsetting to you, your feelings are valid.

- If certain ships, or maybe all of them, are upsetting to you, your feelings are valid.

- If your exomemories are associated with the body's trauma, your feelings are valid.

- If your exomemories have nothing to do with any trauma, your feelings are valid.

- If you don't have any exomemories, you are valid.

*You and your feelings are valid!*

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[No DNI for this post, as positivity is for everyone. Just please do not bring syscourse into the notes.]

[theweebsystem]

You know, a lot of people say "you don't choose your headmates". Especially in regards to villains or similar types of headmates/introjects

However, some plurals do choose their headmates. Some plurals do choose to have headmates that other people aren't going to be comfortable with and that's ok. There's no shame in that

So here's a shout out to the plurals/systems that DO choose headmates like this. Here's to those of us that DO want these people in our system. Here's to those of us that cherish these headmates despite what anyone else thinks about them

[ Sysmeds, anti-nontraumagenic, anti-tulpa, proship DNI ]

[happyflappysystem]

Honestly source shamers suck like bruh fictives can't choose their source. Hell I dunno about other systems but we literally have fictives from content we haven't even interacted with ffs. I love you fictives from problematic sources 🩷 your existence is not problematic just because your creator did some shitty stuff and just know you are more than that🩷🩷

[the-supernova-system]

Huge giant shoutout to all the fictive hosts out there! You’re not any less valid than a brainmade host and shouldn’t feel pressured to completely detach yourself from source because like- that was your life! Those experiences made up who you are now and we all love you for it!

Sincerely, The Fox

[hazyaltcare]

Confession

Warning: Body dysmorphia

Quirked text:

1 R3G41N3D MY S1GHT 1N TH1S T1M3L1N3 4ND 1T M4K3S M3 3XTR3M3LY UNCOMFORT4BL3, 4ND MY F33L1NGS DON'T 3V3N F33L V4L1D B3C4US3 1T F33LS WRONG TO M1SS B31NG BL1ND. 1T W4S 4 P4RT OF MY 1D3NT1TY TH4T 1 W4S SO PROUD OF. 4ND NOW 1T'S GON3. 1 C4N S33 BOTH 1N-SYST3M 4ND WH3N 1'M 1N FRONT, SO TH3R3'S 4LSO NO 3SC4P1NG 1T. 1T 4LSO DO3SN'T H3LP TH4T TH1S WORLD 1S 4 S3NSORY N1GHTM4R3. >:[

Plain text:

i regained my sight in this timeline and it makes me extremely uncomfortable, and my feelings don't even feel valid because it feels wrong to miss being blind. it was a part of my identity that i was so proud of. and now it's gone. i can see both in-system and when i'm in front, so there's also no escaping it. it also doesn't help that this world is a sensory nightmare. >:[

Response

There's no judgment - not from us, at least - to miss your disability. Missing being blind doesn't mean you want to hurt the body and make it blind, or whatever haters might say to invalidate your emotions. Your feelings are perfectly valid.

To lose something that was such an intrinsic part of your identity and affected your life, is a great loss. You don't have to be grateful for the sight this world/body grants you if you don't like it - It's okay to grieve that loss. It's okay to be uncomfortable.

Mod Vintage (⛎/Bc)

As someone hard-of-hearing in my other life and hearing in this chassis, I also miss that disability :( The chassis is also disabled, but in a different way, so it's kinda like an unlucky lottery, you know?

This world is indeed sensory nightmare! Especially with the chassis being autistic and easily overloaded by noises. I absolutely hate hearing the clock ticking, electronics humming, hands typing, etc. Sounds that I never had to worry about become a nuisance at best and an incapacitation at worst. I could cover the chassis' ears, but it's not the same.

It sounds so overwhelming to be bombarded by sight everywhere you go, in-and out-system :( I feel solidarity towards you here!

Also, missing a certain disability the body doesn't have does not make you a non-valid disabled person/fictive/etc.. It doesn't make you ableist. Disability is not inherently undesirable. There's nothing wrong with how you feel. I hope this helps. 🤍

Mod Vintage (🪄)

[boxedupcryptixbeing]

Here are MORE specific introjects we have in the system, that will most likely get us fakeclaimed. Lets see how fast we get fakeclaimed!

ANY, of our creepypasta formed alters. Bloody painter (dosent go by the name bloody painter actually), Ticci Toby, Brian (dosent like being called hoodie), EJ, LJ, Sally (yes, the kid.), Tim (dosent like being called Masky, only from close friends)

ANY, of our MCYT related alters. Atticus (ranboo introject, dose NOT like being called ranboo at all), Jshlatt (must i explain? he's a glatt introject but still prefers being called Jshlatt), Llilac (Trans fem tommyinnit alter, who was formed off tommy exile arc, dose NOT like being called tommy by anyone.), Q (refuses to get called quackity UNLESS its from slimecicle, tommyinnit, or wilburs. loves kids tho), Sally (must i explain? the human version, of a salmon.), Tallulah (semi verbal), Wilby (revivbur introject, hates being called revivbur), Butler (tales from the SMP. nonverbal. cannot talk at all. caretaker.), Ricu (cc!tubbo introject, dose NOT look like cc!tubbo at all, sorta acts like him? just got out of being dorment), Kai (Karl introject. very light though. he only has memories. has karls book. dose not look or sound anything like him, dosent even act like him), Wil (QSMP wilbur.), Ghost (Ghostbur introject, dosent like being called ghostbur, prefers ghost. nonverbal)

I already talked about our FNAF introjects, do not need to go over that again.

EDDSWORLD INTROJECTS. Edd, Matt, wish i was kidding TW!Matt, from tordsworld AU. He prefers being called Trevor Disk, dosent like being called tom, and has completely disconnected himself from his source. He dose allow sourcemate interaction, prefers being called Eloz or Disk Paul.

Soul eater, like, the anime Soul, literately a weapon shapeshifter Zeida, takes the form of death the kid, no source memories tho.

Welcome home. Sally. the fucking sun. And recently we just formed a warden introject. Who is semi verbal, blind, has zero balance, and zero sense of direction. And we have three introjects, who were formed off our past ex's, currently in dormency right now

[systembakery]

˗ˏˋ✩ | Positivity for fictives whose fandom hates their source self

Positivity:

You are not a bad person for being a fictive, no system controls who or what they split, even if the character and/or person is 'bad'. You are not your source, even if you relate to your source self and have a close connection to them, you are not the person that the fandom hates.

If anyone starts to be horrible to you for your identity then they aren't worth your time, especially if you've explained that you can't control who you are based off.

Remember: You aren't bad, you aren't who they hate. You are your own wonderful self and you deserve to be loved for whoever you are, no matter who that may be.

Personal advice:

Blacklist character hate tags. Although some people don't use them, some do so it can filter out some of the hateful comments.

Learn when to step back from looking in the tags and/or on certian blogs. Although this is a hard process, learning when to stop engaging with anything that is harmful can really ease the situation.

Practice self care. When things get tough looking after yourself as an alter or collectively as a system can ne hard, but you are allowed to look after yourself and take breaks, have food and/or drink, and practice relaxation methods.

Practice source separation. This is a bit controversial, but if seeing people hating on your source self is causing you harm, then separating (not fully) from your source can be a good idea.

[trancyhive]

we're gonna hop on this trend, too.

i hate when non systems act like being a system is all fun and good, and it's just "friends in your head".

what it's really like is:

coming to and not knowing who the hell you are, with all of these people you don't know talking to you

one of your headmates wanting to relive the abuse you all went through ending up reaching out to the abuser you so carefully distanced yourself from, or purposefully getting you all involved with someone dangerous

if you're an introject, missing the world you came from and the people you knew, and being forced into another world where you have to share a whole entire life with others, some you may not even like or get along with

if you expirience amnesia, missing hours, days, or even weeks of your life

becoming really close with a headmate only for them to dissapear, integrate into a new person, or go dormant

hearing someone screaming in your head and not being able to reach them or even know what's happening

having to mask as a specific person that is nowhere near who you really are, and if you act like yourself everyone around you treats you like you've lost it

Looking in the mirror and seeing someone who isn't you, especially if you don't identify with the body's assigned gender at birth, the dysphoria is so hellish.

a child alter fronting and seeing something a child shouldn't see

[worldendercharles]

today's reminder that fictives are people and just because they have a problematic source, THEY ARE NOT BAD PEOPLE. Even if a character was evil or problematic or did bad things, that doesn't make their fictives "scary" or "unapproachable", and it certainly doesn't make them bad people.

[strawberry-graveyard]

fictives from popular sources are so cool, and it’s not lame or cringe to have them. especially if you have a lot of them, and double especially if they’re all from the same source. triple bonus if that source is integrated into your paracosm, or special interest, or current hyperfixation. it’s not weird, i promise.

[the-forestry-system]

trying to lure a fictive that recently split like pspspsps here's your source. do you wanna look maybe? and praying it doesn't cause you to split again

[humanheartharmonia]

Reminder for villain fictives:

Your source does not dictate your morality.

It doesn't make you a bad person even if your source did terrible things. Even if you remember doing those terrible things.

You're not inherently hurting other fictives by being around, even if they're ones you hurt in source. If you're not breaking boundaries by being around them - and you can ask if you don't know! - you're not doing anything wrong by being around them.

And even if they're not comfortable around you, that's just a matter of conflicting needs! All sorts of people are incompatible for totally arbitrary reasons. It doesn't make you bad just for existing.

💚 To villain fictives, I hope you have a good day! 💚

[theweebsystem]

I love you headmates that are package deals. I love you headmates that refuse to/can't front without the other(s). I love you large groups of headmates that are always together. I love you siblings that refuse to be separated. I love you partners that can't stand fronting without their beloved(s). I love you headmates that must have their animal companion at all times

[ Sysmeds, anti-nontraumagenic, anti-tulpa, proship DNI ]

[revolving-moons]

Requests are open!

Hi there, We're an fictive heavy OSDD-B system of 29 alters who want to help fellow fictives and kins! Please follow the below guidelines for requests and take a look at our alter list under the cut (the emojis are our sign offs)

Request types: Stimboard, moodboard, pokémon teams, pronoun suggestions, playlists, positivity posts, care kits and recipes

Sources: Pokémon, minecraft, dsmp and related media, hermitcraft, yo-kai watch, undertale/deltarune + aus, omori, splatoon, persona 5, sonic, fnaf, cuphead, batim, stardew valley, slime rancher, animal crossing, the owl house, cookie run kingdom, madoka magica + side story, lobotomy corp, danganronpa, vocaloid, yume nikki, angels of death, spider-man/verse, tf2, ROTTMNT, restaurant to another world, DDLC, creepypasta, land of the lustrous

Request info: You don't need to request a character it can be something like a location or item, you can whatever request colour schemes and aesthetic you want (minus yanderecore or gorecore), fictive tags will be put on a post by default

Other info: We are autistic and chronically ill so it may take us time to complete requests, we might add more sources and request types in the future so watch out for updates! Lastly please don't interact with us if you are endo/pro endo, thank you for understanding

Shye 🖌️ (She/they)

Gel 🧸 (They/them)

Ava 🫀 (She/her)

Hikki 🐇 (She/they)

Wren 🦢 (She/he)

Sunstone ☀️ (Xe/gem)

Rai 🐯 (Any)

Soda 🧃 (He/it)

Ashoal 🌊 (She/her)

Kitrine 🦊 (It/its)

Pulsar 🌌 (He/it)

Spice 🍄 (They/mush)

Nekomata 🐈‍⬛ (She/they/it)

Binah ☕ (She/they)

Phos 🩵 (Any)

Bebe 🍬 (Bey/plush/tea)

Frostina 🧊 (She/they/it)

Aletta 🥘 (She/her)

Mimic 👻 (They/it/spook)

Ogerpon 🎭 (She/her)

Raincloud ☔ (It/pix/fizz)

Lolbit ⚙️ (They/it)

Lumie 🧪 (Fey/ink)

Pyro 🔥 (They/them)

Donnie 👾 (He/they)

Rouge 💎 (She/they/gleam)

Mari 🕷️ (She/they)

Moon 🥛 (He/end/star)

[jetfire-patter]

Positivity for Transformers Fictives!!!

Autobot fictives I love you!

Decepticon fictives I love you!

Transformers fictives who aren't aligned or who align with different factions I love you!

Fictives from Transformers media who aren't Cybertronian I love you!

Transformers fictives who feel at home in their current body I love you!

Transformers fictives who feel dysphoria in their current body I love you!

Transformers who miss driving/flying/transforming/etc I love you!

G1 fictives I love you!

Beast Wars fictives I love you!

TFA fictives I love you!

TFP fictives I love you!

Earthspark fictives I love you!

IDW fictives I love you!

Transformers fictives from less-popular or lesser-known TF media I love you!

Transformers fictives who heavily align with their source I love you!

Transformers fictives whose memories diverge heavily from their source I love you!

Transformers fictives who have distanced themselves from their source I love you!

Transformers fictives who are hosts and/or frequent fronters I love you!

Transformers fictives who front rarely I love you!

Transformers fictives!!! I love you!!!!!