#how to let go

[rienegold22]

I made an Apollo Justice animatic!

Link to animatic:

✨️ https://youtu.be/mQ0bXMkBmMY ✨️

Preview:

Song: How to let go BY August Greenwood / @auggiewritesmusicals

Rambles (mild spoilers):

THIS WAS SO MUCH FUN TO WORK ON! I seriously loved being able to retell Dual Destinies from Apollo's perspective! Because I feel that he never got enough attention for everything he went through in that game 😭. AND WHAT'S MORE IS; I got to incorporate his history in Kar'ain too. I felt like Apollo found a home in the Wright Anything Agency, as a "replacement" for his family back in Kar'ain. AND he is incredibly homesick. APOLLO JUSTICE NEEDS A HUG🥺.

[notbrainwashed-bythem]

One of the hardest things is losing a relationship you felt was your end game. I'm not sure how to move on from the first person I ever truly was in love with.

I do hope he comes back one day to be with me but I know it's foolish to hope for the impossible.

[dakotatheauthor]

📝 the rest and manifest connection

if there is one thing that has challenged me the most when it comes to magick / manifestation, it's the idea of detachment.

my mind was full of anger towards my current circumstances. this person was wrong and that person was wrong. they never cleaned up after themselves. that shouldn't have happened to me and i was owed retribution. on and on and on.

so when i started to study magick, this idea of detachment felt impossible. i actually decided to ignore it at first. i thought, "that's a nice idea i am going to just force things anyway."

everything changed when i realized how hard i was working. seeing how much i was pushing and forcing, only to wind up unhappy anyway, really 🗣️pissed me off.

🔑 i got inspired to use that anger.

it was humbling at first, and i had to allow myself to be humbled.

i was at a point where i realized what i was doing was not working.

so i took on that child-like point of view. i said:

i can forgive myself and start again, it is easy.

i really, really wanted to change and the first thing i was guided to do, was the same thing i struggled with: detach.

i learned that this detachment wasn't so that i could be abused or victimized again (shout out to my therapist).

if i was to know myself as a goddess

if i was to really live and experience life as a child of the universe

i had to LET GO.

detachment was about my relationship to the divine, and how much i could allow divinity to work through and for me.

if i wanted to live this magickal, beautiful life where everything i want comes to me instantly, then i actually had to allow the universe to bring to me. i actually had to live and be in that energy of 🔑the universe just brings me things.

my access point to living this way of life was to start to putting the Divine / Universe between myself and all of the things i was attached to. i treated the Universe like a friend i would call for every problem.

any time something came up in my experience that i did not like, i thought 🔑nope! universe is handling this for me. it became one of those things i started to practice but it was fun practice. 🔑everything in my life is handled by a higher power. i can just chill and play and watch it all unfold.

once i truly understood this idea, so many things started to fall into place, but one thing in particular was what it felt like to be in my unique expression of divine feminine; letting go being able to truly rest and receive.

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[divinefem333]

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[sproutedlavender]

How to Be in the Flow of Life: 8 Practices for a More Peaceful Life

You’ve probably heard the term “go with the flow” at one point or another, but what exactly does that mean?

Going with the flow, or being in the flow of life can mean many different things. Many people know this phrase to be the equivalent of ‘chill out’ or ‘relax’, but there’s a much deeper meaning behind these words. Going with the flow is about creating a space within yourself where you are still, peaceful and in a state of allowing, so that when challenges and difficulties arise, you are able to overcome them with more ease.

Being in the flow of life is all about releasing resistance to life. It’s easy to hold on to resistance, especially when we’re dealing with less than desirable situations or people who irritate us, but once you are able to create a space of ease within yourself, suddenly life itself becomes easier. Not because the situations have changed, but because you have changed.

So how do you step into the flow of life? It begins with your mindset.

1. Change your Perspective on Life

Your mind is one of the most powerful tools you have at your disposal, but more often than not, many people don’t fully utilize this tool, or in many occasions, use it against themselves, rather than in their favor. Let’s think of the mind as a tool, because that’s really what it is. It’s a tool to help you to build the best life you possibly can. You get to decide what to do with it. Are you going to build something wonderful? Or are you going to tear something down?

Many people have been taught from a young age to struggle, resist and fight against circumstances, people or life in general. Sometimes this fight is warranted; for example, if you’re being hurt, suppressed or overlooked, it’s natural to want to stand up for yourself, but when we become accustomed to fighting for the sake of fighting, our lives can more often than not, feel like an uphill battle.

It’s true that you can’t always control the circumstances of your life, but you can control how you react and approach them. You can change your perspective whenever you want. It might not sound like much, but the practice of viewing your circumstances through a different perspective can quite literally shift your entire life.

“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” ― Max Planck

For example, there might be a situation in your life which you view as ‘negative’ by why exactly have you categorized it that way? With every, ‘negative’ situation, there are always opportunities for growth and doorways for positivity. That’s why two people can go through the same exact experience and come out of it with two completely different outlooks. If it’s a difficult situation, one might be negative and depressed while another might look at it positively and be grateful for their ability to overcome challenging experiences. It’s all about perspective.

2. Be Mindful

Mindfulness is a powerful tool to have in any situation. If you’re experiencing a positive situation, mindfulness allows you to fully embrace that moment. If you’re going through a more difficult situation, mindfulness allows you to be present in the current moment and prevents your mind from running rampant and bombarding you with negativity and the ‘everything that can go wrong, probably will’ mentality.

When it comes to being in the flow of life, mindfulness helps us to let go of resistance and notice where we are in the now. It’s common to be lost in the future or in the past and rarely are we ever in the now, but we can’t change the past and we can’t control the future, so mindfulness allows us to step firmly in the present moment and feel each moment as it passes.

Once you embrace the present moment, you begin to release worries, fears and doubts and begin to step into the flow of life.

3. Be Flexible

Being in the flow of life is all about flexibility. There’s nothing wrong with planning or having a set schedule, but allowing yourself to be flexible allows for opportunities and surprises to arise in your life.

If you’re too strict with your schedule, you might find yourself resisting the ever-flowing change of life. By allowing yourself to be flexible, you allow yourself to step into the flow and see where life takes you.

This allows you to be more at ease and take on life with a more lighthearted approach.

4. Let go of Perfection

It’s easy to get caught up in the idea of ‘perfection’ but that’s really all it is, an idea. Perfection looks different for everyone, and this means that what you view as perfect may not be what someone else views as perfect, so when we’re chasing the concept of perfection all we’re really chasing is a made-up concept which we can never achieve. This is not meant to bring you down, in fact, it’s meant to free you.

The idea of perfection can keep us trapped in a box, keeping us from breaking out and experiencing life to the fullest. It can sometimes make us feel unworthy or cause us to feel frustrated or insecure. When you are able to let go of perfection, you free yourself up to experiencing life a little differently. Suddenly, not everything is so serious, and you may find that you feel a lot freer than you did before.

5. Practice Self-love and Compassion

The practice of loving yourself can be a difficult road. Somewhere along the journey of our lives, we’ve all experienced dissatisfaction with ourselves or have, at one point or another, put ourselves down. We are born loving ourselves but somewhere along the way we lose that, and we learn to be dissatisfied with who we are. When you take some time for yourself and rekindle a sense of self-love and compassion, you free yourself from these negative and constricting thoughts and emotions.

Self-love and compassion allow you to feel comfortable and at home within yourself. This helps to release insecurity and low self-esteem which can cause stress and negative feelings. Loving yourself opens your heart to life and invites in more beauty and ease.

6. Nurture Your Inner Child

Joy is one of the best ways to step into the flow of life. When you are joyful, life becomes easier, even if your outward situations haven’t changed. When you are able to approach life with a joyful, childish perspective, things become brighter and more fun.

When we were children, life was usually an adventure filled with joy and fun and exploration for most of us. Although growing up has given us new responsibilities and must-do-tasks, this doesn’t mean we can’t go within ourselves and nurture our inner child.

This means finding something that brings you joy, whether it’s a certain hobby or just riding your bike or sitting outside. However, if that part of your life was not all that great, then nurturing your inner child means doing something that would bring comfort to that inner child. Remember what it’s like to feel like a kid again, free to imagine and view life as it’s meant to be viewed, as a gift with endless possibilities.

7. Be Grateful for What You Have

Gratitude is a powerful tool which can help improve your life in many ways. When you are grateful for life, you release resistance towards it and find yourself in a state of ease. Being grateful not only invites in more feel-good thoughts, but also changes your perspective on the world around you.

Being in the flow of life means being at ease within yourself and finding gratitude for everything you experience. The wonderful thing about gratitude is that no matter what situation or difficult thing you are going through, there is always something to be grateful for, like the food on your table, the roof over your head, or even the fact that you’re still alive. Sometimes the simplest things are the ones we should be the most grateful for.

Gratitude keeps you grounded, opens your heart, and allows you to receive more love and joy from life while still going after your dreams. You can still want something more and be grateful for what you have now.

8. Let Go of What You Can’t Control

It’s normal to want to have control over our lives. We feel the most comfortable when we know where we are going and that we are in control, but while we can influence certain situations in our lives, we can’t always control them. 

Letting go of control can be a difficult task for anyone. We wish to hold onto our sense of control, but, no matter how hard we try, we can’t control every single situation which comes into our life, and you may find that the more you try, the more your control slips.

Releasing control can feel strange at first. Being out of control makes us feel apprehensive and uncomfortable because we don’t know what is going to happen; but releasing this need for control is an important aspect when it comes to stepping into the flow of life. Once you get through the initial discomfort, you’ll find yourself more relaxed and at ease with yourself and the world around you.

This space of ease helps you to see things and opportunities you may not have seen before. In fact, you might notice that life brings you something better than you ever could have imagined, all because you allowed yourself to loosen your grip on control.

When you let go of the need to control everything, you allow yourself to be in a place where you are alright with what life brings you, knowing that whatever it is, you’ll have the ability to overcome it.

Just Follow Your Breath

If you ever find yourself feeling tense, frustrated or completely disconnected with life, there’s only one thing you need to remember: follow your breath. Allow yourself to listen, to feel as your lungs expand and contract. By listening to your breath, you automatically come into a place of stillness where you have the opportunity to release what is causing you to feel heavy and distraught.

Your breath mimics the rising waves of an ocean. It flows in and out and has the ability to cleanse you from all that is no longer serving you. The next time you feel yourself struggling against life, take a few moments to connect with your breath. When you connect to your breath, you connect to the flow of life.

[dreamy-conceit]

I realise there’s something incredibly honest about trees in winter, how they’re experts at letting things go.

— Jeffrey McDaniel

[kensatou]

good thing from jp twitter this week is queen of old man yaoi michiru sonoo discovering the term old man yaoi

update: somehow it got impossibly more wholesome

quick translation: おかえり: welcome home あ 終わった 終わった: ahhh, it's over! it's done! コーヒー? お茶?: coffee? tea? コ~ヒ~ ありがと: coffee, thank you~ ネクタイレア★★ ネクタイ取るレア★★★★: seeing him with a tie on, rarity level ★★, seeing him take a tie off, rarity level ★★★★ ���あうな~: it suits him~

also please do follow: AraigumaSha: sensei's twitter account marureviere: maru, who does such valuable work highlighting bl manga for an international audience

[sikapa41]

Let Him Go FOR GOOD By Doing These 7 IMPORTANT Things

Let Him Go FOR GOOD By Doing These 7 IMPORTANT Things…In this video, you'll get some essential relationship advice on how to navigate a necessary breakup, and let him go for good. Should you block your ex on social media, or remove their belongings? As a certified relationship coach, I want to give you the clarity you need regarding breakup and mental health.

[stimmingandstruggling]

more good news from tiktok: they’ve started blocking celebrities.

they’re calling it block party 2024. just blocking and ignoring countless celebrities who havent said shit about palestine. influencers, actors, anyone who went to the met gala, whatever, they’re getting blocked. and people keep talking about how cathartic it is, how good it feels, how they never realized they could DO that. there was some kind of subconscious law against blocking famous people, but it’s broken, and people are LOVING it. and it’s WORKING. a social media/digital advertising coordinator was talking about how ad companies are PANICKING, because they can’t accurately target anymore. so many big influencers, including fucking LIZZO started talking about palestine the MOMENT their follower counts started going down. and the best part? no one is forgiving them. lizzo posted a tiktok asking people to donate to palestinian families, and all the comments just said you’re a multimillionaire. put your money where your mouth is. blocked.

i feel like i’m witnessing the downfall of celebrity culture, right here right now. people are waking up.

[vulpinesaint]

quiz enjoyers! i am now inviting you to come create something in my workshop❕

[idontmindittakestime]

Six months out and beginning to understand that the people who really care for you don't take you sad places, don't leave you in doubt about meeting your needs. I know it seems so fucking obvious but they text back.

The people who you care about are special to you. You treat them well.

If that person doesn't do that for you, then you aren't someone they care about.

And it may seem surface level my writing this but I'm so empathetic towards the people doing the mental tally. No, this realisation may not teach you to let go, but, can we both ask ourselves, why are we still holding on even knowing this? That we aren't special people to them?

I think it maybe that you desire connection to these people and you know that if you don't accept the shit they give you, they don't have the capacity to rise to your standards.

I want to introduce two metaphors here: on proportion and soiled things. When we carry the weight of the effect of someone's not being able to provide, be emotionally available towards us, and base level love, care and protect us, when we carry all those blanks, all that weight, we allow ourselves to step into shot up versions of ourselves. The longer we linger in that place, in that sour relationship that will never temper, never be okay the more we lose ourselves and our vitality. Emotionally, you aren't meant to be entangled like that. You aren't meant to be a soiled thing. You are meant to be free.

When we love someone we want them to be free so we treat them well so they can be free.

I'm now realising that things don't have to be so complicated. I accept loose things now. Those are wonderful submissions.

And so, back to the desire to connect with someone, please examine this from more than one perspective. You love that person (you are a loving person). You respect them (you not them). I must highlight these things so I can break the delusion that may build itself up in resistance. Make no mistake, all the good parts, the lovely exchanges in this relationship that's all you. I want to remind you of the giving tree. I want to remind you of that line in the book gone girl. Two things.

In this dynamic you give and give and give. A cup will always run empty. Do you think you will not? And when they've colonised enough, other things start to go on the market. Including but not limited to, your sense of self, of self worth and ultimately your life. And you get caught in this loop, another place an uncaring man or parent has taken you. A place where to be connected to this person, you constantly worry and make yourself small and shame is never offset and you can't make your needs known and you hide all of your achievements.

A girl once told a story at my school and the moral of it was, when you've been in really dark pain, in awful situations, you, a valuable thing, are still valuable. It is only that you're not in the right environment.

You have to trim your wares now. You have to close shop. You have to do this because life is for enjoyment and the only transaction worth making is the one that ultimately enriches your life.

Allow yourself to allow others to treat you well. Things need not be so hard. You are finite. The lost sleep, the disregard for your feelings, the upset stomach aches. Persons who take a toll on your mental wellbeing are persons no matter how many times you revise the question, revisit this topic, bow tie societal pressure, these are persons you do not belong with.

Recuperate. Don't bludgeon your mind with anxiety. Give yourself peace. Regain a few things. Your smile, your joy, your hope.

Taste life and enjoy it. Allow your insides to feel good. These things will reinvigorate you when you find and feel them again- positivity, hope, love and care.

Do not allow yourself to be giving treed out of existence. Selfishness is a virtue.

If the story doesn't work with these people, that's probably the wrong story then. And all these things you need regardless, look at them allow them to inspire you. Let them guide you and lead you to their own fulfillment. Do not punish yourself for what you did not have the courage to know before. To live. Life is for living. For the living. It is ultimately on your side reminding you this.

I just have to remind you again how when he spiralled down that breakdown he brought you and your whole family with him. You are different. He doesn't know how to value things. Let it undo him. Let it undo you from him. Treasure sentimentality and respect. And people who earn your trust and live up to it. The next time you choose to believe in someone let them be worth it. Because your belief is also a valuable thing.

It is not your fault that he cannot meet you where you deserve. And these aren't words I could've ever imagined I'd write but on top of that, this morning I feel with certainty that all the things we think will never come will in fact come. Leave it at life's door. Let it surprise you. It may seem really out of sight but the one who watches has it at the corner of his eye. Mentorship, connection and nurturing will arrive.

Now this irresponsible people, let them lose you and stand victorious. You are the observer in this universe. If you giving treed and you stopped, and you look at what's left and you find there's not anything. I want you to understand something now. And please do not mix this discovery with your normal grief about the relationship. Some things stay vacant for even a decade and we are the last to find out. Treasure the ones who try to know you. And ask direct questions and keep up your momentum.

Now, this thing that died the second you stopped putting in effort. Allow it to. The pro version is to learn to be thankful that it did. Some things are better in the ground. Some times we got what we deserve by not getting them at all.

There's this quantum physics theory that electrons are both energy and wave. That when an observer (consciousness) observes the electron in one place, there it is. Your soul is magic. Your signature is magic. Thank God we do not write the story of our lives.

I want you to acknowledge the way you see your grief. It is unimaginable but this is a positive feeling. It feels shit, I know. Sobbing sporadically for months at a time. Don't go to hospital, they're still trained to "make it STOP". If you see yourself always sad about this relationship ending, you will linger teary eyed at that grave. But, if you trust that you can move on even finding it unimaginable, even not knowing how to do it, even not comprehending the concept, you will.

The observer effect is if you see a grave, a grave will appear. If you see a person who can recoup, she will appear as well. And I'm not saying it'll be easy or glamorous, but I wish these things for you too. As you bemoan the return to a normal state in your life. When you are not playing the giving tree. It'll feel weird. Suddenly relationships and connection are free. You aren't being used, things are proportional again.

You'll probably fucking hate it. Please allow the whole thing to go in the ground. The whole relationship. Even your memories of them place them there. No, do not water the grave. Gracie and Taylor said give it ten months. Be disciplined, give it ten months.

I know it's the last thing you want, I know it makes you wonder what life is, I know you feel all these things you can't explain with words. But, this is all a good thing. It is. Be open to that idea. Accept the new way things look. Let it set you up for the things you deserve. And the dead relationships with those still living, give those people back to themselves. And let yourself be free. Be free. I know you loved them and probably always will because you are a loving person but put the doll back on the shelf. All the versions of themselves that you've held until now return them to their owners. All the memories. And give significant weight to how unfair they were to you in a subtle unspeakable way. Remember those versions too. Give them back to themselves.

On earth do your own work. Live, really live. You came here whole enough to be someone who could hurt from being treated unfairly. Human beings transcend everything and are here simply to learn. Remember your divinity and prioritise it. And do your own learning. Don't linger where they can't give answers.

And vocalise it. The ways they were unfair to you. Remember that you are here to learn as well. Both of you are in class despite how much older they are. You can't reach them how, they have to learn. Prioritise your divinity. Know that you are worth more than you will ever need.

Life is for enjoyment and for living.

Writing this I want to acknowledge that I am leaving because I do not want an uncaring and unfair man next to me. Hope whoever reads this has better luck than to learn this lesson through sobs and energy bruises.

I want to encourage you to believe in yourself more than you will believe in anyone else. I want to encourage you to check how you feel after you have encounters with people in your life. Selfishness will always betray itself. Do not give of yourself anymore. That is simply not on the table. Not on the menu. I want to encourage you to have the courage to bless the hardnesses of your life. Life is a perfect story. Resist the urge to give. Nice isn't a value. Authenticity is. Allow people to live the consequences of their own beliefs. Bless your divinity you will always be worth more than you require.

Written by a recovering people pleaser. I see you.

[onebadnoodle]

villagers of stardew valley pt 1

gonna try to draw all the characters in stardew valley wish me luck!

[cymk8]

lady of sorrows

[lazylittledragon]

can't believe we're all adults being forced into the club penguin level of censorship in 2024

[stephfreshforever]

She weakens my every fiber,

She pulls me back from something greater.

[chloesimaginationthings]

FNAF movie Mike and Vanessa swapped vibes,,