#i dont know how to respond for compliments

[honeytonedhottie]

maintaining/creating a social life⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

ok so i used to have HORRIBLE social anxiety and i think that the contrast between me with social anxiety and me now is INSANE. in a good way ofc. so im not going to talk about how i overcame social anxiety, instead im going to talk about how i created a social life ✨

MAKING FRIENDS ;

the science of making friends is simple and im about to explain it. so go to where there are ppl that u can relate to/want to relate to. example being school, clubs, etc.

next, observe who u want to befriend and make sure to start with a compliment. starting off by introducing urself just makes for an awkward conversation but starting with a compliment puts u and the other party at ease.

something thats rly important is ur CHARISMA and ur magnetic energy so be CHARMING ✨ if u find that the other party is not reciprocating its either they're uncomfy, uninterested, or just a weirdo. and in all cases, you should stop.

MAKING FRIENDS THRU FRIENDS ;

make friends with your friends friends -> make friends with their friends -> and so on and so forth. this is how you network and create a friendly status with lots of people.

if ur in a school setting like i am, make friends with people in ur own grade or in a higher up grade, i dont usually make friends with ppl in lower grades but ofc there are always exceptions.

making friends through friends is how u get invited to parties, have more opportunities be available to you, and ofc network for more connections. guys connections are literally EVERYTHING.

MAKE TIME FOR UR FRIENDS ;

make sure to learn who u call friends. when is their birthday? do they have specific preferences? what kind of music do they listen to? knowing ur friends makes them feel special and thats how u learn to be a good friend. i can make a whole POST about being a good friend cuz i've learned and grown so much with that.

THE POWER OF A COMPLIMENT ;

make it ur mission to give a compliment everyday cuz first off, being nice is HOT so pls be nice and second of all, if ur trying to talk to someone and u start with a compliment i promise that it'll go so much better.

if ur thinking "thats so awkward how will i do that" then the category dont be shy is one that u gotta read cuz girl 💀. if u need an example i'll provide one from my own experience so u can see the power of a compliment.

there was this girl in my spanish class and i always thought that she was so pretty and she seemed so nice. one day we bump into each other in the bathroom and i compliment her hair and makeup, she responds well. we continue to have friendly interactions throughout the rest of the school year and now we are good friends on and off campus.

DONT BE SHY ;

when u make friends please please PLEASE work on ur confidence first. you need to be SURE of yourself. if not, when ur being friendly it could come off as desperation and ppl will humiliate, make fun of and take advantage of u. and thats NOT hot.

be CONFIDENT, you literally have nothing to lose. when u shed ur shyness (thru things like exposure therapy etc) a whole new world is opened up for u bcuz sometimes the only thing holding u back is urself and ur limiting beliefs about urself.

MAKE UR PERSONALITY SHINE ;

make sure that know ur own personality and from knowing that u can find ways in which u can make it shine. no matter what ur personality is though, something that i cannot stress enough is BE NICE.

be friendly and amicable with everyone and stay out of drama and if drama comes to you then stay unbothered 😭. dont try and uproot ur own personality to copy someone else's.

[nate-0k]

Your art is absolutely gorgeous and adorable!! I love it so much!

Tysm!! Glad you like it💕

[miguxadraws]

I FUCKGINGN LOVR YOUR ART YOUR ARTSTYLE IS SO NICE AND YOUR SWAP AU IS AWESOME AND I LVOE IT AND

[pcktknife]

If it helps, I've been following you for a long time (i still call you jiang in my head since that was the username i knew you as lol), youre like one of my biggest art inspos and the first thing I do when I get paid is check to see if your comms are open and I just want you to know that u can see your progress in every single piece you draw even in your sketches it's so obvious to a fan that you improve with every piece and I think your art is so dear to me (at the very least) and I want you to know that I've always viewed your art as ethereal and it's just all around really pretty.I hope you learn to love your art the way I love it <3 have a good night and in the morning I hope you wake up to warm light and continue to have the kindness you have after seeing whatever post you saw that made you have a good outlook tonight :)

im gonna start crying agaiiiiin

[jrueships]

I'm shy but you're one of my favorite people that I follow on this app. You're so funny and I wish I could be half as clever as you. You've introduced me to a lot of interesting people and ideas! Just wanted to pass on some appreciation on this Saturday night. Hope you're having a good time 🥰

THIS IS SO SWEET, HELLO????

[irlplasticlamb]

vicccccc omfg your art is phenomenal. i love love love it. your style? eats the girls up every time. and the colors you use????? i literally want your art on my wall. you are awesome at what you do <3

THNK YOU SO MUCH ANON have an incredible new year! love you mwah

[electricpurrs]

hi juice, your epic!!!!!

no, YOUR epic! COUNTERATTACK!

[velvetwyrme]

Your arts so beautiful shsgthfbdgyi papyrus so cutee and cool:0 ily sm💐😍💞

!!!!! auuwhwh thank you!!! (*ﾉ∀`*) 💛💛

[crabbunch]

hi um. ty ty im reading the note you left on the comic n i am smiling stupidly at it. asdfd. again just reading em and giggling cos it genuinely makes me so happy :D thank you so much (again for the notes and for the fic!) i read the fic a few days ago and its sequels and for the past few days I've been randomly thinking/laughing about the TNT Canon and Sasuke "teach me t-flip-flops" and the cursed mark and the shears and Zedaphs. everything Cub eating the Moon um. so again thank you <3 v much looking forward to reading thru all your other fanfics <3

hello im. literally dying over here lol smiling stupid at your comic also lmao. so glad i wrote smth that could occupy ur brainspace!

[randomminty]

hegrgrggr your art is so cool hhgghh

hehe thank youuu 🫶🫶

[feeling-kinda-sad-ngl]

omg i just remembered how my manager conplimented me twice today

when he told me where id be tomorrow he said that he put me there bc he thinks im rlly strong 🏌🏽‍♂️🏌🏽‍♂️

and then when i asked him if id be cleaning the frappe machine (bc its been mainly managers or higher up people cleaning the important stuff) he said yeah you always leave it sparkling so i trust you to clean it well

maybe he was exaggerating but still it made me perk up lol so idc

[superchat]

lately whenever people are nice to me or compliment me it just makes me feel really really bad and hate ms more

[pcktknife]

sorry if u sent me an ask between today and like the last 2 months or whatever and i didnt get to it

[miasmaghoul]

Okay but genuinely, I've never read a fanfiction so well written as Suspended Reality. Like I've read MANY fanfictions but nothing tops that one.

-T

Bro.

BRO.

You can't just SAY THAT

I dont even...that's ridiculously kind of you to say. Thank you so much, holy shit.

[vigilskeep]

oh god there are so many asks in here im so sorry

[lexa-griffins]

You are a beautiful lady and anyone would be lucky to call you theirs! You don't know how attractive and sexy you make yourself out to be with all headcanons, asks, wips, AU's, and smut

Now you're just trying to make me cry :')

I never thought about the fact that people might perceive me through my writing 😅 thats a nice thought ☺️ thank you 🩷🩷🩷🩷