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#i. answered memes
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going through my old journals as part of therapy homework and i'm reading a section written in the emotional wreckage of a full-on breakdown when i get hit with this line:
There is never a satisfying answer to ‘Why didn’t they love me?’
like wow babe. good fucking point
#like you were on the ground biting the carpet and dry sobbing while you wrote that and still. good fucking point#not a shitpost#cptsd#and it's true. there's never a satisfying answer#the truth is i know why i wasn't loved#i analyzed my parent's traumas and abuse to death. i understand why i alienated and was alienated from my siblings#i know why my mom was too overwhelmed to be capable of nurturing#i know why my dad vanished into addiction and avoidance#the details of our cycles of trauma and cptsd and family history i have a phd in all of it#i understood perfectly. i spent years studying and now i knew the answer#and guess what? IT WAS NOT SATISFYING!!!#because they still didn't love me! and i still couldn't change that!#it was still a completely unsatisfying state of affairs!#so like. when the people who are supposed to love you...don't.#when the people who are supposed to take care of you...fail to#you can look for answers and reasons and explanations#but that's not actually going to FIX your situation.#and it's probably not within your ability TO fix the situation. (and definitely not your job)#because you don't need answers--you need a new situation#*inserts Just Walk Out. You Can Leave!!! (Running Skeleton) Meme*#and yes. walking out isn't always possible.#but for you i hope it will be one day soon. and i hope you build the courage to take that leap.#stepping away from the people who failed to love you...it feels like being untethered but also like being lighter than air#new and scary. immensely relieving. the future opens up. empty but empty like a canvas. blindingly bright until your eyes adjust#like climbing out of a pit you called home and for the first time realizing how bright the light of day can truly be#when you aren't just getting glimpses from the bottom of a hole
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qiinamii · 9 months
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"Xiao does things" (and friends) twitter log part 2
-- UPDATE: removed some of the arts to make its own individual post since I am bad at organizing, sorry! (but the last one is new lol) xD
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dahliadagger · 6 months
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sir you'll have to specify that a little
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forecast0ctopus · 13 days
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putting those men in a Situation
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potatounicoorn · 2 months
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I think we as a society moved on way too fast from Lloyd canonically being a part of The lego movie events
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skialdi · 9 months
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“Which sibling tried to kill Luffy?”
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uncanny-tranny · 1 year
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Why are you trans: wrong answer edition. Tell us why you're trans, wrong answers, though :)
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golswia · 3 months
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ur cat and dog aziracrow made me think of bird vers for them, crow-ley and aziraphale as a dove or owl!!!! ur art is adorable
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they scream at ur window at 4am for seeds
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teathattast · 1 year
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memento--moray · 9 months
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There are no "normal" people in an adventuring party.
Some silly nonsense with my BG3 party!
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temeyes · 1 month
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hoi. can i please kiss soaps forehead☺ ty
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hOI!! of course you can!
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onesidedradiostatic · 2 months
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I have a vision
LMASFKSDJGOS yeah accurate.
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thembo-bright · 11 months
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Soooo.... this is what's happening right now right?
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14dayswithyou · 8 months
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I just love how you're like "Rendacted is NASTY", "he is once again being nasty on main". Just like bruh not even your creator is trying to defend you 🤣😭😭
WARNING... minors/ageless blogs: do not interact. please read my pinned post before you send in anything !!
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Ren the type to drop you home before 10PM, [REDACTED] the type to commit vehicular manslaughter before lunch <3
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braisedhoney · 4 months
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Gaster but he says “oya oya”. Trust me on this.
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is this it. is this what you wanted from me.
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wyrmswears · 5 months
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Can you draw some Cole, Jay, and Kai (ninjago) shenanigans?
(I believe this is called the "dumbass trio" because they are literally so silly and I love them for that)
of course! click for quality, original
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