Essence of a Babygirl (a tumblr joke essay)
Babygirl, the term has spiked in popularity, but what is a babygirl? Is the term a bit more complicated than at first glance? What is the essence of a babygirl? Today I will be answering these questions.
Urban dictionary describes babygirl as thusly:
“A term used towards grown fictional men who have the fandom in a loving chokehold.”
A Mashable article titled The internet's 2022 horny dictionary defines babygirl as
“... a term of endearment for when a man is being cute, comfortable in his masculinity, or weak in an evocative way.”
These descriptions are wholesome. They create an avenue of masculinity that can be vulnerable and attractive at the same time. A term for a type of masculinity that creates room for a multi-dimensional character in fiction. Various fictional characters have been affectionately dubbed as “babygirls”. One of the most well known being Leon Kennedy from the Resident Evil franchise.
However the term is also used to describe characters that are remarkably not wholesome. Characters like Izzy Hands, played by Con O’Neil from the incredible show written by David Jenkins called Our Flag Means Death and Marvel’s Loki, played by Tom Hiddleston, have been called babygirls. This must indicate a spectrum of “babygirlness” that scales from wholesome to not wholesome.
A good babygirl can be seen at a glance, but what makes these other characters part of that babygirl spectrum on the negative side? As my colleague (@robogart) and I studied the issue we realized that negative babygirlness included more nuance.
We created a study group to determine what attributes make up a bad babygirl. Included in our study was:
Izzy Hands (Our Flag Means Death), Gal Dukat (Deep Space 9), David Xanathos and Oberon (Gargoyles), Anders (DA2), Yami Bakura (Yugi-oh, 4kids Production), King of All Cosmos (Katamari), Patches (Fromsoft), Ratagin (Great Mouse Detective), and the Six Fingered Man (Princess Bride).
The five characteristics that we found amongst all of the babygirls we picked from various media were: being decidedly not wholesome, pathetic, emotionally unhinged and dastardly, but all in all containing some kind of charm.
We went through and put all of our babygirls to the test with our system. The results were surprising, with Izzy Hands coming out decidedly less babygirl than we predicted and Ratagin being the epitome of babygirlness.
What did these tests show about babygirlness on a whole? The spectrum ranges from morally good characters to bad, but all share a few common traits. However they express their vulnerabilities, either as completely unhinged or emotionally accessible, we as the audience are captivated and find “their weakness evocative”. Another aspect that is continuous through the spectrum of babygirlness, whether good or bad, is that a babygirl is secure in his masculinity however he chooses to express it. Babygirls on either end of the spectrum do end up having a “loving chokehold on their fandom”. Those people in the fandom are not necessarily of quantity, but of quality. Especially for the baby girls on the “bad” end of the spectrum.
In conclusion a babygirl can be summed up as a fictional male character that is evocative in his vulnerability and at the same time confident in his masculinity regardless of his moral compass.
Co-Written with @robogart
THANK YOU FOR READING ALL THE WAY TO THE END OF THIS SILLY LITTLE ESSAY!
Please feel free to copy and paste the bad babygirl diagram and see where you babygirls fit!! I am excited to see your favorites!!
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So this was supposed to be my entry to celebrate the Dragon Age day, because we all cherish this beloved game and how it changes our lives ❤️✨
But the past week has been t o u g h and full of work to do and I'm sorry if I'm late so yeah
🎉🎉✨ HAPPY DRAGON AGE DAY again 🎉🎉✨
I had other things planned which will be done, eventually. But for now I offer this Gang Sketch because I LOVE THEM (and Kristoff too but could not fit him in 🥲) ❤️
(IdontwannabeKingAlistair is such a big mood these days.)
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Today I finally finished Hilda. I remember I started watching it back in 2020, especially after Steven Universe ended and I loved it!
It's a another peak Netflix show and I was on board for Season 2 are 3 when they got announced.
I loved how season 2 sets up the movie, I haven't read the novels but either way I was down with the show.
Hilda and the Mountain King blew me away, it was something I needed after finishing Kid Cosmic, I also like how it connects to the final season with the time skip.
But yeah, the final season was incredible, I'm going to miss these characters and their world as well, I felt that spark of nostalgia after Steven Universe ended when I finish this show, yet it felt like an opening a new door to a new story, It's been one hell of a journey but hey, it was all worth it!
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FLICKS REX (a royalty-themed film recommendation service™)
THE KING'S CHOICE (2016) dir. Erik Poppe
THREE DAYS IN APRIL
On 9 April 1940, German soldiers arrive in the city of Oslo. King Haakon VII of Norway faces a choice that will change his country forever. The King’s Choice is a story about three of the most dramatic days in Norwegian history, the royal family’s escape and King Haakon’s difficult choice after Nazi Germany’s invasion of Norway.
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