#narcissistic abuse is real

[92fs]

At the end of the day, the only person truly suffering from NPD, surviving NPD, and feeling hurt by NPD is the narcissist who has this condition.

With that being said, #surviving narcissism, #surviving npd, #narc survivor are our tags now.

[nothing0fnothing]

Survivors of domestic violence: narcissistic abuse is real.

Survivors of childhood violence: narcissistic abuse is real.

Survivors of emotional and psychological abuse: narcissistic abuse is real.

Loved ones of survivors: narcissistic abuse is real.

Therapists specialising in abuse recovery: narcissistic abuse is real.

Experts in abnormal psychology: narcissistic abuse is real.

People with CTPSD: narcissistic abuse is real.

Psychologists studying the effect of long term abuse on the brain: narcissistic abuse is real.

People with diagnosed cluster B disorders: narcissistic abuse is real.

Disabled people who are more likely to be abused than abled people: narcissistic abuse is real.

The therapy prescribed to people diagnosed with cluster B disorders: narcissistic abuse is real.

Self identified "narcissists" on tumblr: nuh-uh.

[silent-t0n]

Free mental health advice: "npd safe" is a great way of knowing who to block, "Narcissistic abuse is ableist" is straight up victim blaming, and 90% of the time those people will defend abusers no matter what the abuse is called.

[greenevergreens]

Narcissistic abuse is real, and don't let ANYONE try to convince you that the hell you went through didn't happen and no matter what DO NOT let ANYONE convince you that YOU are in the wrong for talking about the abuse you endured and giving that abuse the appropriate name of narcissistic abuse.

[solitaryschizoid]

neurotypicals will be like "you can't self diagnose" and then diagnose everyone they dislike as a narcissist

[selkie-ifs]

Ember's got a lot to say, today.

Phone was deliberately turned off all weekend because mom has a habit of trying to start shit in December so that she gets her melodrama fix for the holidays.

She already tried to start a fight with me during my Dad's birthday. The classic 'my subjective perception of your tone when you said this one word was problematic so now I'm going to go into wounded animal mode for a solid hour' routine. Shiver kicked in and I just stayed put and pretended I didn't hear or notice her ""hushed"" ranting about me in the kitchen. Because she was looking for a reason to be angry and doing literally anything would have just fed into it.

My birthday is another prime target for her nonsense, and after last year--where she talked me into going out for a meal only for her to stand me up and then lash out at me for daring to be upset--I wanted to protect my peace of mind as much as I possibly could.

So when they showed up out of the blue yesterday, I dove into the bathroom to take a shower to leave myself an alibi as to why I didn't answer the door.

They were gone by the time I got out and they'd left a cake and a card near my front step.

The cake went straight into the trash because Mom has a history of spitting/leaving loogies in food she's preparing for someone she's angry at. I didn't trust it.

The message on the card felt like a jab given some of what she said about me on Dad's birthday. And of course there was a check in it, so she can monitor if I cash it or not. I voided it and plan on shredding it with my junk mail. Or maybe I'll burn it...that sounds cathartic.

And note the little manipulative weaponization of Dad's [alleged] feelings tacked on the end. Classic.

This is what narcissistic abuse can look like. Subtle and insidious and chronic.

Between her comment about me "trying to ruin my father's birthday" a couple weeks ago and dragging him along to show off her grand gestures of shoving a cake and money and her company at me without asking me for any input or even if I had other plans only to be ""rejected""--I wonder if the goal here is to turn Dad against me--or just to "recruit" him to "her side".

And you know what? As much as it would hurt if he falls for that, the silver lining is I'd no longer have any reason not to cut her off completely.

UPDATE: received a text from my 70 year old "dad" at 11:15pm lowkey accusing me of shit. So I'm definitely showing him that on Christmas (assuming i even go. I certainly don't want to at this point) and asking him if she's texting people as him like she used to write nasty grams to people and sign them under his name. This woman is unbelievable. UPDATE 2: Gram called tonight; apparently a lady at mom's church told gram that my mom was showing off/talking about that dumb cake with a bunch of people there who don't even know me. How many licks does it take to get to the fact that the cake wasn't made for my sake? Let's find out~ 🙄🙄🙄

[autopsyfreak]

tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the ‘good cluster b disorders’ or the ‘victim cluster b’s’ meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the ‘evil mean abusive cluster b’s’

stfu.

we’re in the same cluster for a reason, you can’t support some whilst demonising the others.

[92fs]

Man it must be such an easy world to live in where every abuser you meet is an "evil narc". You don't even need to fucking think about how to actually protect yourself. Just read a couple of pseudoscientific papers on how to "get the narc!!" half of which is just lies that will not work and half of which is advice on how to cause genuine psychological distress in anyone, not just pwNPD.

It must be so easy to live in the world where abuse comes from narcs alone or majorly narcs, even though the disorder is extremely rare. You can even lull yourself into thinking that “how to catch a narcissist” will secure you, which it won’t.

[nothing0fnothing]

The difference between narcissism and NPD. For anyone who was curious including @sad-cinnamongirl

[witch-of-the-creek]

Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead

[greenevergreens]

What happened to you isn't your fault, but how you deal and cope with it is your responsibility.

It doesn't matter what you went through, how bad it was, how long it lasted, how badly it messed you up, if you were born with the mental illness(es) you have or they were caused by trauma, you DO NOT get to use that as an excuse to hurt others.

Grow up, mature, and deal with your shit.

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

🧝🏻‍♀️ superniceempathtrustme13 Follow

The first signs of a narcissist is their bad energy. You’ll feel engulfed the second you step into the room. Their eyes will turn black and they will start using their satanic manipulation powers on you. Then, it’s very subtle, but they will sprout huge, curled, black devil horns from their head and will tear you to shreds, all in the span of a second, and then personally drag your body to hell. The only way to stop them is to literally kill them.

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🌼 npdiscovery

hey guys can we please stop throwing people with personality disorders under the bus?

🧝🏻‍♀️ superniceempathtrustme13 Follow

This is a prime example on why narcissists will always be evil abusers. Here one is, right now, denying that I went through abuse and saying my trauma isn’t real. It’s messed up. We need to permanently kick out narcissists from public spaces, because stuff like this is NOT okay. Here is a link on how to trigger a narcissistic collapse for your next encounter. Just be warned, some narcissists are known to shoot lazers from their eyes when they’re angry.

#stay safe! #abuse surviver #narc abuse #ppl with npd are inherently evil #i would know i’m an empath so i’m better #i mean not evil #positivity #safety #self care #a better world #self love

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[dollystuffs-chiori]

hi friendly reminder if u believe in narcissistic abuse you're fucking stupid ^_^