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stumblngrumbl · 2 months

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you know how it's been found that lack of exposure of young children to dirt, trees, nature in general, apparently leads to an increase in allergies? (not that this is the only source mind you)

and what are allergies? they're the body reacting to innocuous things as if they're invasive agents; the immune system basically making up enemies because it didn't have any real enemies when it was leaning the ropes

well

i read this ridiculous thing in another post

and it brought to mind someone once saying "someone didn't get stuffed in a locker/trash can in school" and i realized that these are the same thing

when people don't learn enough about interpersonal relationships when they're young - either first hand (direct experience) or second hand (observation, exposure, being taught or reading about how real people get along), they end up reacting in pretty bizarre ways to what should be normal -

they basically have allergies to normal relationships

social allergies

#either expose your kids in a safe way #or teach them - vaccinate them #so they have at least some clue #social allergies #I'm not saying violence is a good teaching tool but wanting to avoid it is a great way to work at getting along with others better

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one-time-i-dreamt · 1 year

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I was scrolling through TikTok and the newest trend was people making cooking tutorials for dishes full of stuff they were allergic to and the goal was to finish it before going into anaphylactic shock.

#dream #tiktok #trend #tiktok trend #social media #cooking #food #tutorial #cooking tutorial #dish #allergies #allergic #anaphylactic shock

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taatdragun · 4 days

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Pick the one you enjoy the most! Even if it isn't what ends up happening usually. (Socializing can be hard sometimes.)

This poll brought to you by a convo I had with my sister.

#ask game #tumblr polls #food mention #random polls #ask to tag #for context: my sister has friends who go clubbing and there's one who knocks back an energy drink even when she's not the dd #but i feel like beverages to me shape the vibes of events I'm at #luckily i don't have many allergies that inhibit my choice in beverage #but i def fall in the enegy drink camp myself. I'm just too tired to socialize otherwise #idk just musing. idk if any of this makes sense or the formatting is practical

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wanderingmind867 · 7 days

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Tomorrow is probably going to be rough. A phone call for the social skills class, possibly an allergy test, maybe some more rough stuff at school with the film study unit, etc. It's going to potentially be very rough. And bloodwork in a week or two. It's all stressful to think about. So I may actually make some more vent posts because of this. Because I have a lot of stuff going on, it feels like.

#school #high school #asd #autism #neurodivergent #autistic #adhd #actually autistic #audhd #vent #vent post #venting #elementary school #college #university #allergies #social skills

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justsomeectoplasm · 6 months

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Tiktok has bred a lot of people with main character syndrome.

#I rant #If you don't know what I mean #Let's say you're gushing over your s/o on social media #Then some fuck comes along and say “You should be mindful of what you post. Some people don't have an s/o”#Or when you're making a recipe for peanut milkshake #And some guy says they have a peanut allergy so they want to know what they can substitute it with #LIKE BITCH THEN MAKE SOMETHING ELSE????

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deosilplanarglitches · 2 months

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hm, interesting. these "allergies" i caught feel a whole lot like covid 🧿

#i am once again asking #wear a mask #social distance #if you have symptoms i dont wanna breathe your fkn air #“allergies” my left foot #chronic illness pain chronicles

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trans-cuchulainn · 6 months

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sometimes i'm like "eurgh it sucks being back in [environment] because it's not like it used to be and i hardly know anyone and everyone i do know knows each other better than they know me so i'm always lurking on the edge of other people's conversations and never really part of anything"

and then i remember it was exactly like that when i was 21 too and i don't know why i ever expected anything different anyway

#the continuity of loneliness!#the joy of all your friends being 1-4 years ahead of you and having 1-4 extra years of forming social connections #while you're just kinda. there. lingering.#clinging to the edges of a five-year-old friendship and acting like it'll hold #personal #also i think i probably come across as unsociable and people may not realise i want to be part of the group #but i'm just awkward and nd as fuck and have too many allergies to get food with people #so all the appropriate icebreakers don't feel possible for me #and therefore the ice remains

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transuncletaylor · 6 months

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I went to a friend's birthday party at their apartment and lasted like 30 minutes before I skedaddled on out. I only knew the birthday person there, but I'm a friendly guy and find it easy to chat with people, but like, 15 minutes in and I'm sitting in the corner with the cat cause the poly group is off in one area and the cishet couple won't even make eye contact with me. I tried chatting with a few people, but it felt like I was having to pull teeth to get a conversation going.

It's not the first time I tried to go out with that person and their friend group and was completely ignored. I'm trying to not get into my head thinking whether I'm too much of a weirdo or if there's something off putting about me. But like ??? It felt so uncomfortable and anxiety inducing to feel invisible like that??

I feel so dumb and lame, but I could really use some kind words if anyone has a moment to spare 😩

#it was a weird day to be social with people #and ive been dealing with allergies all day #im usually a super friendly and easy to talk to person #thats why i like doing customer support #taylor talks

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raksh-writes · 3 months

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Ugh, Im meeting up with some friends today and I Know its gonna be fun -- we’re going for some drinks, maybe food, and then to the theatre -- but right now Im sitting here stressing out like "the fuck, anxiety, could you give me a break??" this is ridiculous xd

#personal #vent #Raksh posts #dont mind me #just had to vent my frustration and stress put #out*#I still have like almost three hours to my train #but this whole thing is giving me so much anxiety ugh #can I be normal? for once? about Any social interaction??#also my allergy is having a flare up #so Im all glassy eyed with my nose stuffed and its Unpleasant to say the least #plus the weather ughh all rainy and gloomy and gray #I dont wike it #but anyway #gonna try and distract myself until its time to get going

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minglana · 7 months

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yeah im definitely telling my parents i need noise cancelling headphones......

#the fact that i have to GO OUTSIDE FOR TWO HOURS at night after supper just so i can have a few moments of peace and quiet is like. terrifyi #terrifying. maybe this is the only-child in me needing to be independent or whatever. but i cant stand this much noise all the time #like genuinely half of my bad mood is bc i cant have quiet time for 90% of my day #and when it gets colder and my allergy starts acting up more i wont be able to just. chill outside for two hours #well technically i WILL chill. but not in the good way. my feet are already freezing. and i forgot to take my allergy pill. whoops.#im also gonna complain to SOMEONE. but the fact is that i complain about everything so idt theyll take me seriously #last yr my friend complained bc she couldnt study and they just told her that ppl need to socialize <3 #and its like. ah yes. a student dorm where socializing is prioritized WAY above the right AND OBLIGATION of the kids here to study!!!!!#z xarre

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dragonanne4fun · 3 days

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#my cousin is busy tonight. my parents just went out for the evening. I'm not going to the gym. and i have no friends who live very close #I want people!!!#i would not be able to live all by myself because I cannot stand being alone most of the time (especially in the evenings)#i would go watch the new planet of the apes movie but i hate the idea of going to movies by myself #and I'm saving it for next weekend #I'm too introverted to randomly text any friends and ask if they want to hang out #and I'm too extroverted to want to be by myself #the frienda i do have that i might be willing to text all live 45min+ away btw #another thing that seriously stinks about being one of the few people my age who goes to my church #the only other one who is my age and lives close is my cousin (see first sentence)#i guess I'll cook me some supper which will give me something nice and productive to do #and then maybe I'll play zelda or pikman? i haven't played my switch in a while and that sounds mildy better than watching a movie #I hate feeling so alone (in the social sense)#normally I'm too busy or my parents are around and we can watch something or play games #but man. when they go out...it's not fun #and I could have gone with them tonight but going to restaurants is just not a fun experience when you have 5+ food allergies #yeah...lots of rambling but I just wanted to get some of that off my chest...#the ramblings of a dragon

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leisurecd · 13 days

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listening to off menu podcast in the park 👍

#not good for my allergies #but good for my mental health and social anxietyyyy (self-diagnosed)

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wanderingmind867 · 6 days

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The allergy test went okay, but it was a bit stressful and stuff. Still, I got through it. And I'm just happy about that. Same major allergies from 2011. Cats and Dust. Cats and Dust are my worst allergies. Dust is worse than cats, but they're both bad.

Now that the allergy tests done, I just have to wait to do the phone call for the social skills class in a bit. I'm sure the call will be okay (the kid I'm calling seems nice), but my nerves and anxiety still act up whenever we get down to the waiting to do it. But I know I'll get by.